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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very often I see people get stood up. Can I ask which percentage of the no shows are verified .... leading to are people pinning their hope on the lookers and not holding out for verified folk. I understand the whole attraction thing but surely a verified chap will show and save the frustration of a no show. Thoughts ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very often I see people get stood up. Can I ask which percentage of the no shows are verified .... leading to are people pinning their hope on the lookers and not holding out for verified folk. I understand the whole attraction thing but surely a verified chap will show and save the frustration of a no show. Thoughts ??"

Why would a verified person be more likely to show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that was the question I asked is it a case of the proof is in the pie as in verified meeting hence actually shows up versus no verify no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that was the question I asked is it a case of the proof is in the pie as in verified meeting hence actually shows up versus no verify no show"

No idea

Never been stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very often I see people get stood up. Can I ask which percentage of the no shows are verified .... leading to are people pinning their hope on the lookers and not holding out for verified folk. I understand the whole attraction thing but surely a verified chap will show and save the frustration of a no show. Thoughts ??

Why would a verified person be more likely to show?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show"

so you're saying all verified people are munters???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a grey area, many meets are organised and life gets in the way and they can't attend or they don't fancy you or as happened me, we both turn up but are both afraid to approach in case we make an idiot of ourselves.

Just get over it , it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? "
quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a grey area, many meets are organised and life gets in the way and they can't attend or they don't fancy you or as happened me, we both turn up but are both afraid to approach in case we make an idiot of ourselves.

Just get over it , it happens"
it hasn't happened to me I'm just curious as to how reliable verified folk are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter"

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show?"
you don't I'm asking which would most people prefer and percentages of either ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got stood up earlier this week for a meet by a very verified member...

His excuse

"He didn't show up because he didn't think I would".....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got stood up earlier this week for a meet by a very verified member...

His excuse

"He didn't show up because he didn't think I would"..... "
that is pathetic overall how much % of your no shows were verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show? you don't I'm asking which would most people prefer and percentages of either .... "

You question is flawed

How can anyone prefer something that may not ever happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show? you don't I'm asking which would most people prefer and percentages of either ....

You question is flawed

How can anyone prefer something that may not ever happen? "
there are 2 questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got stood up earlier this week for a meet by a very verified member...

His excuse

"He didn't show up because he didn't think I would"..... that is pathetic overall how much % of your no shows were verified"

Two no shows one verified one non verified....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question 1 in percentage how many of your no shows were verified ??

Question 2 would you prefer an unverified eye candy no show or a verified normal meet obviously you don't have the privilege of hindsight. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got stood up earlier this week for a meet by a very verified member...

His excuse

"He didn't show up because he didn't think I would"..... that is pathetic overall how much % of your no shows were verified

Two no shows one verified one non verified.... "
50 % then anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What I'm getting at is that being verified actually means diddly squat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show? you don't I'm asking which would most people prefer and percentages of either ....

You question is flawed

How can anyone prefer something that may not ever happen? there are 2 questions"

And both of them are flawed

But here's my answer. I pick my meets from both verified and non verified. Munters and lookers alike ( I do believe in equal opportunities and all that ) I've never been stood up

So my answer is zero percent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show? you don't I'm asking which would most people prefer and percentages of either ....

You question is flawed

How can anyone prefer something that may not ever happen? there are 2 questions

And both of them are flawed

But here's my answer. I pick my meets from both verified and non verified. Munters and lookers alike ( I do believe in equal opportunities and all that ) I've never been stood up

So my answer is zero percent

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I'm not disputing you're right of choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those who have been stood up how many of those were verified and how many weren't the argument is that why do people rely on unverified lookers versus verified profiles I understand the attraction but what about the frustration of a no show

so you're saying all verified people are munters??? quite the contrary I'm asking do you find them more reliable than unverified people and would you prefer a good looking unverified no show versus a normal verified show up. I'm not saying anyone is a munter

How do you know the non verified looker is going to be a no show? you don't I'm asking which would most people prefer and percentages of either ....

You question is flawed

How can anyone prefer something that may not ever happen? there are 2 questions

And both of them are flawed

But here's my answer. I pick my meets from both verified and non verified. Munters and lookers alike ( I do believe in equal opportunities and all that ) I've never been stood up

So my answer is zero percent

"

But I wouldn't use the word Munters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter "

What ya on about!! Ya stood me up couple weeks ago haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter "
looking fantastic from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a munter so I lure ones in with my wit and charm instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter

What ya on about!! Ya stood me up couple weeks ago haha "

No I did not... I explained my situation!!

There was only a small chance of us meeting that weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a munter so I lure ones in with my wit and charm instead "
lol very good ya header

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter looking fantastic from here"
Awwk your too kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter

What ya on about!! Ya stood me up couple weeks ago haha

No I did not... I explained my situation!!

There was only a small chance of us meeting that weekend "

Haha...your excused!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been stood up twice I must be a Munter looking fantastic from here Awwk your too kind "
awk I'm okay for an oul eejit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been stood up once. He was average looking - well based on his pic and not from a site with verifications.

Now I've got a few last minute cancellations - if they count as being stood up, I'd say maybe 50% of them were not verified.

Which ones do I prefer? I prefer any nice guy I feel attracted to, based on their profiles, their pics/cam and our conversation. Verified or not.

I guess this doesn't give you the answer you were hoping for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question 1 in percentage how many of your no shows were verified ??

Question 2 would you prefer an unverified eye candy no show or a verified normal meet obviously you don't have the privilege of hindsight. ??"

1. 30% approx were verified, though if I were to take into account the ones that go silent just before am arranged meet or back out at last minute it would be lower. I won't turn up if they don't confirm at last minute especially if I have seen they read the message.

2. The second option as everyone's version of eye candy is different and I hate no shows

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great answers girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 50% are verified of no shows for me. There is no guarentee with a verified person it can be a sham sometimes.

As for the second question I only meet people I have a connection with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question 1 in percentage how many of your no shows were verified ??

Question 2 would you prefer an unverified eye candy no show or a verified normal meet obviously you don't have the privilege of hindsight. ??

1. 30% approx were verified, though if I were to take into account the ones that go silent just before am arranged meet or back out at last minute it would be lower. I won't turn up if they don't confirm at last minute especially if I have seen they read the message.

2. The second option as everyone's version of eye candy is different and I hate no shows"

We still have unfinished business lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question 1 in percentage how many of your no shows were verified ??

Question 2 would you prefer an unverified eye candy no show or a verified normal meet obviously you don't have the privilege of hindsight. ??

1. 30% approx were verified, though if I were to take into account the ones that go silent just before am arranged meet or back out at last minute it would be lower. I won't turn up if they don't confirm at last minute especially if I have seen they read the message.

2. The second option as everyone's version of eye candy is different and I hate no shows

We still have unfinished business lol"

Lol yes we do

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By *andR7985Couple
over a year ago

belfast

50% - 1 was verified and 1 was not verified

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