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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't realise there were so many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some are single guys some are not ready to meet yet ,some are here just for chat,each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If they're not ready to meet I'd say maybe they're not ready to be on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're not ready to meet I'd say maybe they're not ready to be on the site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah people meet in their own good time,people have to move at a pace that suits themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish couples who are only here to chat would state it on their profile instead of saying they want to meet other couples when have no intention of doing so

This is a swinging site. Facebook is for chatting

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Are we talking unverified and been here for quite a long time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on ."

I know they are. Doesn't mean I have to like it or not have an opinion about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we talking unverified and been here for quite a long time? "

Ya the ones who are here a long time

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By *rishCouple2kCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

We're a couple. Been here a while. We're verified. But not quite ready to meet yet.

Does that mean were not allowed use site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".

I know they are. Doesn't mean I have to like it or not have an opinion about it "

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're a couple. Been here a while. We're verified. But not quite ready to meet yet.

Does that mean were not allowed use site?

"

I said unverified

I don't recall saying not allowed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me."

Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.

Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone "

agree with you both,(while defending the

right of people to use the site anyway they wish)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.

Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone

agree with you both,(while defending the

right of people to use the site anyway they wish)

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Thank you Good to see not everyone is going to jump on the band wagon to tell me how wrong I am couldn't care less what people use it for but they should state it on their profile

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.

Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone

agree with you both,(while defending the

right of people to use the site anyway they wish)

Thank you Good to see not everyone is going to jump on the band wagon to tell me how wrong I am couldn't care less what people use it for but they should state it on their profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had quite a few contact us starts off legit then suddenly there wife or girl is I'll but could we still meet them if that's the vase go look after them or the wufea busy n they are allowed to play on there on but the missus cant verify it

Its more than off putting and ruining the site for a Lotta people I'm sure

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By *ohngillerMan
over a year ago

Near Town

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"We've had quite a few contact us starts off legit then suddenly their wife or girl is ill but could we still meet them if that's the case go look after them or the wife is busy and they are allowed to play on their own but the missus cant verify it

Its more than off putting and ruining the site for a Lotta people I'm sure "

That's what I call a fake profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's what I call a fake profile."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah verified by couples n single by meets loadsa fake

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"If they're not ready to meet I'd say maybe they're not ready to be on the site "

so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what bugs me is the profiles with fake pics up and their photo and meet verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?"

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Exactly..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky one all swingers are here cause the want to be but some are shy and need a chance we were given a chance wouldnt b here otherwise just sayin

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Maybe they don't know they just want to chat maybe they just find it difficult to take the next step....lots and lots of reasons ....but you can take the initiative and suggest a coffee met fairly early in the conversation if theres a load of excuses ....move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what bugs me is the profiles with fake pics up and their photo and meet verified? "

What really bugs me is old photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tricky one all swingers are here cause the want to be but some are shy and need a chance we were given a chance wouldnt b here otherwise just sayin "

Absolutely but it didn't take me a year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?"

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat "

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couple few weeks ...relax

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couple few weeks ...relax "

Not hard work just annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax

Not hard work just annoying "

Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax

Not hard work just annoying

Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really"

Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax

Not hard work just annoying

Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really

Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading "

As it says...don't like don't read?.....your a new couple here...relax a bit maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax

Not hard work just annoying

Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really

Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading

As it says...don't like don't read?.....your a new couple here...relax a bit maybe "

sorry I'm lost

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Tricky one all swingers are here cause the want to be but some are shy and need a chance we were given a chance wouldnt b here otherwise just sayin "

Agreed. When I was part of a couple, luckily both of us wanted to swing as much as the other, so there wasn't much talking about it, apart from establishing rules. But a lot of couples aren't so lucky, and they're afraid yet want to meet. We had a good first meet and everything went well from there.

galwayduo, I'd love to chat you about it but sadly you've blocked guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?

Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat

Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax

Not hard work just annoying

Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really

Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading

As it says...don't like don't read?.....your a new couple here...relax a bit maybe

sorry I'm lost "

Basically relax....and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a swinger is only a swinger after they have swung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely a swinger is only a swinger after they have swung "

Haha the rest are just chatters

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.

Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone "

If they have been here over 4 months and no veri's then take it they are not meeting, and move on, under 4 months benefit of the doubt for a while.

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well."

If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.

My 2 cents.

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.

If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.

My 2 cents."

OK good to know, we always assume they are hiding fakes lol

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.

If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.

My 2 cents."

Oh before we asked about and they always say the people left the site so they can't show. Convenient lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.

If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.

My 2 cents.

Oh before we asked about and they always say the people left the site so they can't show. Convenient lol"

Well that screams fake profile if every single veri has left the site now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on ."

YAWN "people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .."

Go to the baker to buy meat... oh wrong Shop, then you can even move on.. Is your free decision !! But what a waste of time , as long it is your time ,no prob .. but why wasting other people's time ?

"you can always move on" ..your point of view is the ultimate argument for everything...from now on everything else is pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.

If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.

My 2 cents.

Oh before we asked about and they always say the people left the site so they can't show. Convenient lol"

I got that exact answer recently from a guy I was supposed to meet for a chat. We were supposed to set it up for last week but haven't heard from him since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .

YAWN "people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .."

Go to the baker to buy meat... oh wrong Shop, then you can even move on.. Is your free decision !! But what a waste of time , as long it is your time ,no prob .. but why wasting other people's time ?

"you can always move on" ..your point of view is the ultimate argument for everything...from now on everything else is pointless "

It seems to me these users are in the wrong shop altogether!!! I'm the OP btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we choose to not show all our veri due to going to some M&G's and meeting doesn't mean your a player.. Mr P

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