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"I don't know.... I'm bi but like a woman to look like a woman.... I don't know if a straight guy would kiss fondle another guy... But different if it looked like a woman... Who knows.... Men are extremely complex creatures...."  | |||
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" Men are extremely complex creatures...." Ya think!??....   | |||
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"I don't know.... I'm bi but like a woman to look like a woman.... I don't know if a straight guy would kiss fondle another guy... But different if it looked like a woman... Who knows.... Men are extremely complex creatures.... " did you actually keep a straight face writing that last line? | |||
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" Men are extremely complex creatures.... Ya think!??.... "Your top of the list....lol  | |||
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" Men are extremely complex creatures.... Ya think!??....
Your top of the list....lol "I knew that was coming!!
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" Men are extremely complex creatures.... Ya think!??....
Your top of the list....lol
I knew that was coming!!
"That the only thing cummmmmmmmmingggggggg???????  | |||
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" Men are extremely complex creatures.... Ya think!??....
Your top of the list....lol
I knew that was coming!!
That the only thing cummmmmmmmmingggggggg??????? "Splaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaasssshhh!! | |||
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" Men are extremely complex creatures.... Ya think!??....
Your top of the list....lol
I knew that was coming!!
That the only thing cummmmmmmmmingggggggg???????
Splaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaasssshhh!! "Whuuussshhhhhhhhhhhh....... | |||
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"My dictionary says bisexual - a person who is sexually attracted to both sexes On my profile I say I not interested in Bisexual Men (my preference) .I have just had long debate with a man that has three verifications form cross dressing men . Sex with a man in a skirt is still sex with a man surely ie bisexual .He doesn't agree he says hes straight. My question is do I need a new Dictionary ?" No, you don't need a new dictionary. If he has sex with men & women he(unless he is a she?)would have to be described as bisexual. | |||
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"What is important is what this man identifies himself as and not what other people label him. However, I think after you clarified that you are not interested in him, he should have backed off. But maybe if you called him bisexual he got offended because he doesn't think of himself that way. " If he takes it up the bum from 5 guys one evening and still calls himself straight, he's not. He's a very lucky boy but he's not straight | |||
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"What is important is what this man identifies himself as and not what other people label him. However, I think after you clarified that you are not interested in him, he should have backed off. But maybe if you called him bisexual he got offended because he doesn't think of himself that way. If he takes it up the bum from 5 guys one evening and still calls himself straight, he's not. He's a very lucky boy but he's not straight" We all know that, but it's not up to ourselves to correct him or tell him to call himself bi or gay. He will, when he's ready or maybe never. | |||
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"What is important is what this man identifies himself as and not what other people label him. However, I think after you clarified that you are not interested in him, he should have backed off. But maybe if you called him bisexual he got offended because he doesn't think of himself that way. If he takes it up the bum from 5 guys one evening and still calls himself straight, he's not. He's a very lucky boy but he's not straight We all know that, but it's not up to ourselves to correct him or tell him to call himself bi or gay. He will, when he's ready or maybe never. " Fair comment but we do rely on labels on profiles to know what someone wants. | |||
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"My dictionary says bisexual - a person who is sexually attracted to both sexes On my profile I say I not interested in Bisexual Men (my preference) .I have just had long debate with a man that has three verifications form cross dressing men . Sex with a man in a skirt is still sex with a man surely ie bisexual .He doesn't agree he says hes straight. My question is do I need a new Dictionary ?" we know its ur preference not to to meet bi guys , but when u meeting a guy one on one , does it really matter if he is bi or not as he plays straight with u , and also do u know where alot of straight guys cocks be up ladies bums too , a bum is a bum right , would u also rule out does guys too , should it matter if they straight or bi for one on one meets  | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise." I've said before that I think it's homophobia, but then the fab John Waters didn't like that one bit | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise." I used to shy away from bi guys. I'm still not sure why I did, I'm not homophobic in any shape or form I think perhaps that it was for me that I identify as totally straight. I don't have any bi sexual tendencies at all. So perhaps on that level I just didn't " get" bi-sexuals I'm more relaxed around bi guys now. Indeed most of my play involves 3 ways with bi males. It's added a whole new level of eroticism to my play times Sexuality is a strange thing indeed. I know we like our labels as it helps us identify who we are, but I think we have to accept the edges are very very blurred and one size doesn't fit all | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise." One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year" That is one of the questions you have to answer when donating blood. | |||
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But I wouldn't redefine my sexuality over that attraction.
At the end of the day it's your right to choose who you bed and I totally understand people's desire to sleep exclusively with straight guys. But one simple definition of bisexual isn't possible these days. | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise. One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year" Well that would be a valid reason now, fair point! | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise. One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year Well that would be a valid reason now, fair point!" But who can be sure, when they are having casual sex, that they aren't shagging a guy who indulges in anal sex with a man every now and then ? | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise. One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year Well that would be a valid reason now, fair point! But who can be sure, when they are having casual sex, that they aren't shagging a guy who indulges in anal sex with a man every now and then ? " You absolutely can't Nippy, you try & take people at face value but after it all; "The liar's punishment is, not in the least that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else." | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise. One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year Well that would be a valid reason now, fair point! But who can be sure, when they are having casual sex, that they aren't shagging a guy who indulges in anal sex with a man every now and then ? " You don't but as I do meet bi men it isn't an issue for me  | |||
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"Sometimes I wonder why people say definitely no bi guys, what about the guys who say they're straight but really aren't. I know people say 'it's just my preference' and that is of course their perogative but I do wonder why that is their preference in the first place, is it because they don't like the thought of two men together, or is it because they think that a bi-guy is going to act a certain way, or if it's a couple that he's going to try and slip his cock up mr's bum bum in the heat of the moment, it does genuinely intrigue me considering the amount of guys on here who say they are straight but have plenty of guy on guy experiences that they just don't advertise. One of the reasons I have heard is that if you donate blood and platelets you can't have had sex with a male who has had sex with another male in the past year Well that would be a valid reason now, fair point! But who can be sure, when they are having casual sex, that they aren't shagging a guy who indulges in anal sex with a man every now and then ? " Well exactly yes, god it's confusing! | |||
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"Straight, gay and bi doesn't really cut it anymore though as people are becoming more and more sexually open. Hence why people have come up with terms like hetero-flexible and hetero-romantic etc. Like others have said, let people label themselves if they want and don't try put labels on them. A man attracted to another man dressed and acting as a woman feels more like a kink than an orientation to me. Think back to that show "There's Something About Miriam" and how it confused straight guys as they found themselves sexually attracted to a biological male. Even I remember thinking "That's a pretty sexy dude" But I wouldn't redefine my sexuality over that attraction.
At the end of the day it's your right to choose who you bed and I totally understand people's desire to sleep exclusively with straight guys. But one simple definition of bisexual isn't possible these days."
Love the term "hetro-flexible" I've not heard that before! Describes me better than bi-curious or bisexual! Do you think we could get Fab to add it as an option? | |||
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