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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys. So I'm a 27 year old single guy. Good looking, decent body (working hard on it), friendly and chatty. I love the idea of becoming involved in swinging. Of course my problem is that I'm a single fella and majority of us don't really get a look in with anyone due to the large number of us here.

So I'm just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to get started. I've been chatting to 1 or 2 couples and women and was told the best way is to go to meet and greets. Seems however that you need an invite for them, correct me of I'm wrong (hopefully I am). Just hoping to meet new people and would be great to meet a girl with the same interests as me.

Thanks in advance

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

Hia take your time ....dont be nasty to any one find a partner that wishes to do the same as you.....ie yee can operate as a couple...a young man like you will have no problems on here it just takes time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hia take your time ....dont be nasty to any one find a partner that wishes to do the same as you.....ie yee can operate as a couple...a young man like you will have no problems on here it just takes time"

Cheers for the reply Paddy. Patience is key then haha. It's just a little frustrating. You read through the profiles of girls who you'd be interested in, majority have a "warning" not to send one liners and so you try be as interesting and original as possible when contacting them only to get either no response or a one liner response like "hey "

Anyway I suppose I'll stuck around another little while and hopefully if I get a verification from a meet things will look up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm navan you say

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron

Patience is the key. Take part in the discussions on here, maybe get yourself on cam in the chat rooms.. And don't have any expectations.. Usually you find what you want when you're not looking for it..

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Op if you mail as politely as your post.

U will do fine. Nice pics btw.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Navan seems to be a hot bed of action these days!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hia take your time ....dont be nasty to any one find a partner that wishes to do the same as you.....ie yee can operate as a couple...a young man like you will have no problems on here it just takes time"

He's a single guy,why would he need to be part of a couple to get meets? If a couple wants a single guy what does he do?tell his fuck buddie he's playing pool that night? Tip,less of the cock photos and more of he charm lads and you might get a bit more luck,ffs. New guy,take advice from cpls about this place,not single men. Rant over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mmmm navan you say "

Yep, Navan indeed. Well just outside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op if you mail as politely as your post.

U will do fine. Nice pics btw."
cheers for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hia take your time ....dont be nasty to any one find a partner that wishes to do the same as you.....ie yee can operate as a couple...a young man like you will have no problems on here it just takes time

He's a single guy,why would he need to be part of a couple to get meets? If a couple wants a single guy what does he do?tell his fuck buddie he's playing pool that night? Tip,less of the cock photos and more of he charm lads and you might get a bit more luck,ffs. New guy,take advice from cpls about this place,not single men. Rant over"

Thanks for your input. Never been one to ignore constructive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work on your profile and work to have good pictures. Women are visual people also so attract their interest by pics that tease them and peaks their interest to want to know more.

Just be sound on here and start to make connections and send out mails to people that you are interested in and dont just have a copy and paste message. People can sport that.

Just be patient, watch out for meet and greet and just realise that it will take time unless you are excaptional in every department. Many men are not and i include myself in that.

Best of luck

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"take advice from cpls about this place,not single men. "

I would say advice from single men who successfully meet couples would be just as valid.

OP ill echo the other posters here and say...patience patience patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take advice from cpls about this place,not single men.

I would say advice from single men who successfully meet couples would be just as valid.

OP ill echo the other posters here and say...patience patience patience"

And you base this premise on what???

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"take advice from cpls about this place,not single men.

I would say advice from single men who successfully meet couples would be just as valid.

OP ill echo the other posters here and say...patience patience patience

And you base this premise on what???

"

that advice from single men who successfully meet couples can be just as valid as advice from couples themselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Turns out this post has done me some good. Date with a really hot lady.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turns out this post has done me some good. Date with a really hot lady. "

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