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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking of letting a man join us for a 3 some but just wanted to get some woman's opinion on what it is like having sex with another man infront of your partner ??

Ps bf wasn't to keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you are looking a ladies perspective, but I can say from a single guy who has had experience, If he isn't into it, it makes for awkwardness all around. I have been in that situation before and you can just tell when someone is holding back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks it's kinda the situation where he would like to see it but don't no if he would like it when it's happening

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

No point doing it unless he's 100% sure will only ruin ye nite for everyone if he freaks out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks it's kinda the situation where he would like to see it but don't no if he would like it when it's happening "

No problem. It can really stress a relationship and cause all sorts of doubts if both aren't 110% on board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point doing it unless he's 100% sure will only ruin ye nite for everyone if he freaks out "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank ya because he is more than happy for me to be joined by a girl maybe it could i would feel like I was half cheating on him even doe he would be there

thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya ive been there too. I actually decided to leave but very politely. He was very embarrassed but told him not to be that it wasnt what you thought it be and that if we continued he would regret it. I'm sure they fucked each for hours after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ya ive been there too. I actually decided to leave but very politely. He was very embarrassed but told him not to be that it wasnt what you thought it be and that if we continued he would regret it. I'm sure they fucked each for hours after. "

Lol

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron

Everyone has to be comfortable or it will cause problems. Make sure the guy you choose is someone you've been chatting to and meet socially first to see how you get on as a group. If coffee is awkward then sex will be too.. You need to make sure that if anyone changes their mind, everyone will be ok with it.

If he's not sure, start with flirting and kissing with both of them and see how that goes, and if it does progress to the bedroom, make sure both of them get your attention as often the partner is forgotten about.

Good luck

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