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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On a Swing site does it really matter if you are single, married, divorced, straight, bi or gay. If we are all on the site for fun, NSA encounters, should we use societies tags to base our decision on whether we will even message or chat to a person based on a marital status, never mind their sexuality or preferences.

Surely a Swing site should be the least judgemental of social network type sites.

Without being pre-judged it should be possible to come on site as the person you are, rather than the person you portray to society in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent post Alan, in reality we are all here for various levels of swinging.. Profile status/Gender/Sexual preferences should never be judged. But should boil down to interest and compatability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does surprise me how many people take the moral high ground on this site, surely the idea of this place is that we leave our prejudice's hang ups and moral superiority at the door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think this is the issue for many, I think swinging is quite liberal and openminded. However, personally, I would prefer not to meet people who are cheating on their partners, only because I can't understand why they can't bring him/her along hehehe....also because I couldn't deal with the guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm,,i do think you have a choice,,everyday your faced with choices and whatever your idea of fun is ,,,you should have a choice,,people on a swing site is no diffrence,,,if you didnt have a preference then it would just be sex for the sake of it?

just my 2ps worth xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need some honesty at least otherwise like previously posted it's just meeting for the sake of sex, some attraction and honesty goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree there has to be an attraction but my question is should you exclude the possibility of meeting new people based on their age, marital status or sexual persuasion ... if you meet or at least chat/email people you can decide if you may be attracted to them but a blanket exclusion based on a profile! or am i wrong, personally i have never refused to meet people that have asked o meet me, that said I go to a meet with no expectations, if there is an attraction well & good otherwise it was just a nice drink/chat with like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it does surprise me how many people take the moral high ground on this site, surely the idea of this place is that we leave our prejudice's hang ups and moral superiority at the door?"

Since when was having a sexual preference,taking the moral high ground.yes we are all here for sexual fun,but sexual fun that suits each persons or couples wants and desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its all down 2 honesty

i have met married guys but only

cause he's been honest tho if he

says he's single then after chatting

more he says oh no im married then

i dont go there..honesty go's along

way with me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

find marry men that on sight mainly into voureyusm and not into meeting as it too close to cheating.

or want phone sex or to see you have sex on cam so it puts the dampper on many that might be genuine.

have met one and he cried that could not go through with it as was married

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

as it says on our profile its the guy taking the risk not us x but to destroy a marriage for sex with some1 is a high price x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as it says on our profile its the guy taking the risk not us x but to destroy a marriage for sex with some1 is a high price x"

in my eyes its the married guy thats

destroying the marriage an if he thinks

so little of the marriage then its

all down 2 him xx

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