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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?"

Ask her and speak to her, It may be she just likes that when your having sex but does not mean she is a Sub!! A sub knows and will let those she is close know about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to say, don't take my word for it but maybe someone else here can help

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October...... "

ha ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October...... "

i was thinking sandwiches

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October......

ha ha ha ha "

Hi Tina, dare I ask but, am I out of your age range or am I blocked? I only ask because I can't see your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October...... "

By the by what about Dashing Devil? (Profile)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October......

i was thinking sandwiches "

Lotta sandwiches really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October......

ha ha ha ha

Hi Tina, dare I ask but, am I out of your age range or am I blocked? I only ask because I can't see your profile "

hey I am not sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October......

i was thinking sandwiches

Lotta sandwiches really"

possibly though the promise of a submersible is intruguing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?"

Remove her foundations and watch her subside quicker than you can say bitch

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Dooooh, this has nothing to do with designing nuclear submarines!

Oh well, time to log out of Fabs and go watch the Hunt for Red October......

ha ha ha ha

Hi Tina, dare I ask but, am I out of your age range or am I blocked? I only ask because I can't see your profile

hey I am not sure"

Hi Tina you might check your block filter, sometimes you have to slay the dragon before you can save the princess

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Remove her foundations and watch her subside quicker than you can say bitch "

Very impressive advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i have a foot long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?

Ask her and speak to her, It may be she just likes that when your having sex but does not mean she is a Sub!! A sub knows and will let those she is close know about it"

Exactly this, just because she likes to be dominated in bed doesn't necessarily mean she wants to be a sub 24/7 which is what I assume you are asking? The only way to know for sure if to ask her so that limits can be discussed, if you try something that is way beyond her limits without asking her first, she may never let you dom her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?

Ask her and speak to her, It may be she just likes that when your having sex but does not mean she is a Sub!! A sub knows and will let those she is close know about it

Exactly this, just because she likes to be dominated in bed doesn't necessarily mean she wants to be a sub 24/7 which is what I assume you are asking? The only way to know for sure if to ask her so that limits can be discussed, if you try something that is way beyond her limits without asking her first, she may never let you dom her again."

Exactly trust plays a very big part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?"

A Dom does not hold the power in a D/s relationship,the sub does. Don't force the issues of submission with her,allow her to find it,you are there to nurture it and help it grow. And you can only do this with 100%respect. It's a beautiful world we live in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?

A Dom does not hold the power in a D/s relationship,the sub does. Don't force the issues of submission with her,allow her to find it,you are there to nurture it and help it grow. And you can only do this with 100%respect. It's a beautiful world we live in "

Listen to this couple they know a lot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking advice on how to bring out the subside of my gf. When having sex she doesn't seem to mind if I dominate her to a degree but im worried I might put her off if I push her too far or too fast. Any sub ladies out there who can tell me what are the signs to look out for?

A Dom does not hold the power in a D/s relationship,the sub does. Don't force the issues of submission with her,allow her to find it,you are there to nurture it and help it grow. And you can only do this with 100%respect. It's a beautiful world we live in "

Couldn't have put it any better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very domme usually but have recently liked being sub also...its a bit of both depends on the situation and if i trust the person....but you need to discuss this and be very open about how she feels...and respect her that is the main thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very domme usually but have recently liked being sub also...its a bit of both depends on the situation and if i trust the person....but you need to discuss this and be very open about how she feels...and respect her that is the main thing.... "

So true

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