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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know our profile is quite new but I'm disappointed with the response or lack of from other couples. I thought the fact that we're both verified would help us when contacting couples. Any ideas as to why very few are replying/showing interest? Would love opinions on this

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Having played as both a single and a couple I can tell you that most meets are actual work to organize. Despite what you might think couples are just as bad as singles for no shows, timewastng etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya in my innocence I thought couples would be less likely to be time wasters. Silly me

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron

My wife an I were a couple, but found it almost impossible to find another couple where all parties had a mutual attraction. We now play separately, which works better for us..

Having said that, you still need to work at it. Participate in the forums and chat rooms, and get yourself known as a genuine couple, (so both of you need to chat etc). Go on cam as a couple, you can hide your face etc, but let people see you are both there and participating. That will help remove some of the doubts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt say it anything to do with cpls who are timewasters. i would more say its to do with you guys being fuck buddies o know a few cpls who will only play with real attached or married cpls as trying to arrange with fbuddies can be seen as to much trouble. at a partiy might be differant but a cpl on cpl meeting isnt what they like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I imagine its less hassle for us to be able to arrange a meet. We don't have to organise babysitters etc like some other couples here. I do agree with the point about it being harder for four people to be attracted to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt say its about the hassle of arranging baby sitters or anything its more to do with the drama that is attached with fuck buddies 1 or both of them could be attached and married cpls dont like drama when arranging cpl on cpl meets

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Our profile says we aren't meeting people but we get messages every day from couples trying to arrange summit.

I hate the words fuck buddy so that would probably turn me off your profile a little. But that's just me

Mrs L x

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Really dont like the term fuck buddy, prefer the term fun partner.

I would agree with the idea you might be carrying baggage if the possibility of one being married. If it was clarified your both single looking for fun it might help.

Also as you were both single i would have thought you would still like singles as well, that would open it up to other fun partners to have the 4-some fun.

i have often thought about arranging something with an fb for couples fun. But it just doesnt seem right for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our profile says we aren't meeting people but we get messages every day from couples trying to arrange summit.

I hate the words fuck buddy so that would probably turn me off your profile a little. But that's just me

Mrs L x"

Thanks I changed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i wouldnt say its about the hassle of arranging baby sitters or anything its more to do with the drama that is attached with fuck buddies 1 or both of them could be attached and married cpls dont like drama when arranging cpl on cpl meets"

But sure anyone could be married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the fact of liking the same things when I comes to sex ie. Same Room / separate, soft swap / full swap and so on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also the fact of liking the same things when I comes to sex ie. Same Room / separate, soft swap / full swap and so on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think your missing my point in saying 1 or both could be married when cpls are meeting cpls for the first time its usually a social place first then maybe all going well back to theirs or a hotel the cpl dont want to have to worry as they are out with each other. where as the fuck buddy cpl have to be more carefull and that might put a little pressure on other cpl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okey dokey

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any

I'de agree with the idea of mutual attraction for all parties, very hard to meet everyones needs in the looks/likes dept

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By *.L.CMan
over a year ago

Kilmallock

Or maybe their just timewasters like a couple i've been chatting to for a couple of weeks,and then get blocked for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of couples just aren't interested in meeting fwb's or fuckbuddys or whatever ye want to call it.The ones we've met certainly aren't.If its not a genuine couple,in the traditional sense of course,then that's one huge glaring thing we won't have in common,and that's massively important if you're letting people be part of such an intimate part of your relationship.

In saying that tho we've come across lots of fwb couples so you'll find them soon!!

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis


"Okey dokey "
guys don't b stuck

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We are a well established cpl......plenty of veries.....and we don't have a line of cpls beating a path to our door....most cpls that live together have a lot more then swinging to do together so it is not a priority for most......just thinking out loud

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"i think your missing my point in saying 1 or both could be married when cpls are meeting cpls for the first time its usually a social place first then maybe all going well back to theirs or a hotel the cpl dont want to have to worry as they are out with each other. where as the fuck buddy cpl have to be more carefull and that might put a little pressure on other cpl."

why would the fb cple need to e more careful???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think your missing my point in saying 1 or both could be married when cpls are meeting cpls for the first time its usually a social place first then maybe all going well back to theirs or a hotel the cpl dont want to have to worry as they are out with each other. where as the fuck buddy cpl have to be more carefull and that might put a little pressure on other cpl.

why would the fb cple need to e more careful???"

My take on that was maybe the fb's (depending on their status away from each other)might not want to be out meeting other couples in public.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"i think your missing my point in saying 1 or both could be married when cpls are meeting cpls for the first time its usually a social place first then maybe all going well back to theirs or a hotel the cpl dont want to have to worry as they are out with each other. where as the fuck buddy cpl have to be more carefull and that might put a little pressure on other cpl.

why would the fb cple need to e more careful???

My take on that was maybe the fb's (depending on their status away from each other)might not want to be out meeting other couples in public."

That's how I read it too

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"i think your missing my point in saying 1 or both could be married when cpls are meeting cpls for the first time its usually a social place first then maybe all going well back to theirs or a hotel the cpl dont want to have to worry as they are out with each other. where as the fuck buddy cpl have to be more carefull and that might put a little pressure on other cpl.

why would the fb cple need to e more careful???

My take on that was maybe the fb's (depending on their status away from each other)might not want to be out meeting other couples in public.

That's how I read it too"

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of couples just aren't interested in meeting fwb's or fuckbuddys or whatever ye want to call it.The ones we've met certainly aren't.If its not a genuine couple,in the traditional sense of course,then that's one huge glaring thing we won't have in common,and that's massively important if you're letting people be part of such an intimate part of your relationship.

In saying that tho we've come across lots of fwb couples so you'll find them soon!! "

Not so sure about that! We've already met a genuine married couple, and they were interested in playing, not interested in our marital status

Maybe I should just say we're married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know our profile is quite new but I'm disappointed with the response or lack of from other couples. I thought the fact that we're both verified would help us when contacting couples. Any ideas as to why very few are replying/showing interest? Would love opinions on this "

We are fbs on here and have had some great meets with cpls and singles, our only problem is we tend to stick to cpls who don't have to travel too far because we can only accommodate for a few hours in the evening time, if things were different for us we'd be chatting to all cpls on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know our profile is quite new but I'm disappointed with the response or lack of from other couples. I thought the fact that we're both verified would help us when contacting couples. Any ideas as to why very few are replying/showing interest? Would love opinions on this

We are fbs on here and have had some great meets with cpls and singles, our only problem is we tend to stick to cpls who don't have to travel too far because we can only accommodate for a few hours in the evening time, if things were different for us we'd be chatting to all cpls on here."

Good to hear couples meet FWB

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If the four were attracted to each other don't think their status would matter to us.....not something we have given much thought too

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