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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members "

Who are you - the Fab police??

People can and will use the site just how they want to. You don't like it? Don't read it !!

Mr 2-4

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By *oey3Man
over a year ago

galway

Have to agree with you

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By *edrockcoupleCouple
over a year ago

athlone


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members

Who are you - the Fab police??

People can and will use the site just how they want to. You don't like it? Don't read it !!

Mr 2-4"
I agree mrs b here. Wish some would understand some people arent into instant meets and it helps build up a rapport with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have no problem with it. People use it how they like and thats the thrill they get from it. They usually state on the profile what they want from the site. I know it can be frustrating for a guy to want but cannot have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members

Who are you - the Fab police??

People can and will use the site just how they want to. You don't like it? Don't read it !!

Mr 2-4"

what Mr 2-4 said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social aspect and I happily chat away until someone catches my eye that I would like to play with, this isn't a free for all?? And sure if you want instant meets then join a sex personals site and not a swing site.

IMO swingers are a social bunch and it's all about networking and meeting people in the community.

Maybe your on the wrong site and just for the record, the women here aren't unpaid prostitutes here to answer your every beck and call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet a lady I haven't chatted to before, how else do you suggest we get an idea of what someone is like before meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the social aspect and I happily chat away until someone catches my eye that I would like to play with, this isn't a free for all?? And sure if you want instant meets then join a sex personals site and not a swing site.

IMO swingers are a social bunch and it's all about networking and meeting people in the community.

Maybe your on the wrong site and just for the record, the women here aren't unpaid prostitutes here to answer your every beck and call "

Go Lollipop. You said it better than I did ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the social aspect and I happily chat away until someone catches my eye that I would like to play with, this isn't a free for all?? And sure if you want instant meets then join a sex personals site and not a swing site.

IMO swingers are a social bunch and it's all about networking and meeting people in the community.

Maybe your on the wrong site and just for the record, the women here aren't unpaid prostitutes here to answer your every beck and call "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad for single guys here who genuinely want to get involved in swing and the community, but lads who just use the site for a quick and easy lay? Not my thing I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think that this site has changed lots over the time I've been on, it's more like a social network and less a sexual network. The ladies are as always in control and maybe the attention brings out a different persona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel bad for single guys here who genuinely want to get involved in swing and the community, but lads who just use the site for a quick and easy lay? Not my thing I'm afraid "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies are only in control of who they let have sex with them?? Surely you can't begrudge them this right??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think that this site has changed lots over the time I've been on, it's more like a social network and less a sexual network. The ladies are as always in control and maybe the attention brings out a different persona."

If it brings out a persona you don't like then don't meet them, plenty of nice ladies on here who are down to earth and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think that this site has changed lots over the time I've been on, it's more like a social network and less a sexual network. The ladies are as always in control and maybe the attention brings out a different persona.

If it brings out a persona you don't like then don't meet them, plenty of nice ladies on here who are down to earth and friendly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think that this site has changed lots over the time I've been on, it's more like a social network and less a sexual network. The ladies are as always in control and maybe the attention brings out a different persona."

I agree that the site has definitely changed over time and yes we all know why we are here and some use the site differently than others but there's so much abuse coming from men lately it's an absolute joke

Some men seem to think that when they mail you and say "hi" that's it you're supposed to mail back asking where and when you'll get your knickers off!

That's never how i've done things and i never will, if people want to take the time to get to know me they will be rewarded and if they don't well it's not my loss

At the end of the day RESPECT and MANNERS cost nothing... Ohh yeah and accepting a polite thanks but no thanks costs nothing either

Happy hump day

x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladies are only in control of who they let have sex with them?? Surely you can't begrudge them this right??"

I don't , we are all in control of who we are intimate with, but my argument is more to do with the ladies who won't chat unless they see a pic first and won't send a pic to initiate the swap. Trust has to be both ways and discretion is the key here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men seem to think that when they mail you and say "hi" that's it you're supposed to mail back asking where and when you'll get your knickers off!

"

If it was that easy it would actually be a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies are only in control of who they let have sex with them?? Surely you can't begrudge them this right??

I don't , we are all in control of who we are intimate with, but my argument is more to do with the ladies who won't chat unless they see a pic first and won't send a pic to initiate the swap. Trust has to be both ways and discretion is the key here, "

If you argument is more to do with ladies not chatting, but your thread is about people using this as a social site for chat and not meeting?

Trust is of course key and when any two people meet they are taking a risk, I personally would never meet without face pics first

If I mail a lad first I will attach my face pic, and if a lad mails me with his face pic and I'm interested I will send mine back. If not I'll tell him thanks but no thanks

Just a lot of men here can't take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love men on here like this they fuck it up for themselves and it just helps the rest of us men out only 10,000 men more to fuck up and i will have my pick of the 10 women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love men on here like this they fuck it up for themselves and it just helps the rest of us men out only 10,000 men more to fuck up and i will have my pick of the 10 women on here "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i love men on here like this they fuck it up for themselves and it just helps the rest of us men out only 10,000 men more to fuck up and i will have my pick of the 10 women on here "

That's my point, so many women , so few genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i love men on here like this they fuck it up for themselves and it just helps the rest of us men out only 10,000 men more to fuck up and i will have my pick of the 10 women on here "

Lol

Ahh that should take only a week or so more the way things are going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well u have lost me and i cant see your point what so ever. i dont think we are making the same point as each other mate sorry.

ps stop talking to me ur fucking my chances up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well u have lost me and i cant see your point what so ever. i dont think we are making the same point as each other mate sorry.

ps stop talking to me ur fucking my chances up "

Hahaha

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

well i dont see whats wrong with being social. i find most the the guys that just want the instant shag are the ones that are married and just want their hole. swinging is a lifestyle and is a lot more about the social side if things than just fucking. id say most cpls and women would agree that there has to be some social side to it ?

MR Laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i dont see whats wrong with being social. i find most the the guys that just want the instant shag are the ones that are married and just want their hole. swinging is a lifestyle and is a lot more about the social side if things than just fucking. id say most cpls and women would agree that there has to be some social side to it ?

MR Laid"

We love to socialise before or on a meet. We have never and will never meet for a shag and go. Love to make a night out of it with drinks, chat and laugh with flirting. Heightens the expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the social aspect and I happily chat away until someone catches my eye that I would like to play with, this isn't a free for all?? And sure if you want instant meets then join a sex personals site and not a swing site.

IMO swingers are a social bunch and it's all about networking and meeting people in the community.

Maybe your on the wrong site and just for the record, the women here aren't unpaid prostitutes here to answer your every beck and call "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think that this site has changed lots over the time I've been on, it's more like a social network and less a sexual network. The ladies are as always in control and maybe the attention brings out a different persona.

If it brings out a persona you don't like then don't meet them, plenty of nice ladies on here who are down to earth and friendly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members "

Quick question, how do you know they are not meeting, are you basing this on your own personal experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy the social side in here ALOT but we also love the filthy side and the build up....teasing flirting etc....heres a tip you meet alot more people and gain trust from being socail first!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i dont see whats wrong with being social. i find most the the guys that just want the instant shag are the ones that are married and just want their hole. swinging is a lifestyle and is a lot more about the social side if things than just fucking. id say most cpls and women would agree that there has to be some social side to it ?

MR Laid"

i don't care what Mrs L says about you bud, you're sound as a pound

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I love the social side on here there's people that left I still talk to a lot I'd rather talk to people and hav a laugh before I met up with them least u no u get on a bit before u do meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i dont see whats wrong with being social. i find most the the guys that just want the instant shag are the ones that are married and just want their hole. swinging is a lifestyle and is a lot more about the social side if things than just fucking. id say most cpls and women would agree that there has to be some social side to it ?

MR Laid"

Married men wanting their whole....never...mine will get his hole spanked with all his flirting nonsense...not....we looooves flirting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think that this site has changed lots over the time I've been on, it's more like a social network and less a sexual network. The ladies are as always in control and maybe the attention brings out a different persona.

I agree that the site has definitely changed over time and yes we all know why we are here and some use the site differently than others but there's so much abuse coming from men lately it's an absolute joke

Some men seem to think that when they mail you and say "hi" that's it you're supposed to mail back asking where and when you'll get your knickers off!

That's never how i've done things and i never will, if people want to take the time to get to know me they will be rewarded and if they don't well it's not my loss

At the end of the day RESPECT and MANNERS cost nothing... Ohh yeah and accepting a polite thanks but no thanks costs nothing either

Happy hump day

x x x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies are only in control of who they let have sex with them?? Surely you can't begrudge them this right??

I don't , we are all in control of who we are intimate with, but my argument is more to do with the ladies who won't chat unless they see a pic first and won't send a pic to initiate the swap. Trust has to be both ways and discretion is the key here,

If you argument is more to do with ladies not chatting, but your thread is about people using this as a social site for chat and not meeting?

Trust is of course key and when any two people meet they are taking a risk, I personally would never meet without face pics first

If I mail a lad first I will attach my face pic, and if a lad mails me with his face pic and I'm interested I will send mine back. If not I'll tell him thanks but no thanks

Just a lot of men here can't take no for an answer "

Well said lollipop,

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Where does it say people have to meet and have sex?????

If people wish to chat surely that's part of the mating game!!!! god for bid a woman should only want to talk.

An of course there are no guys that just want to chat, woman we are so bad not having sex with everyone that chats to us!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that the women I chat to say on their profiles that they are up for meeting, we then chat through mails , exchanging numbers, the usual. Then after days/weeks and various suggestions for meets they don't reply in the end and then through chatting with guys the same women are mentioned for doing the same with others, what's that about?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where does it say people have to meet and have sex?????

If people wish to chat surely that's part of the mating game!!!! god for bid a woman should only want to talk.

An of course there are no guys that just want to chat, woman we are so bad not having sex with everyone that chats to us!!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members

Who are you - the Fab police??

People can and will use the site just how they want to. You don't like it? Don't read it !!

Mr 2-4"

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members "

What's it got to do with you

People use it as they see fit ffs....just go about your own business and leave the ladies to do whatever they want sur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just noticed that a lot of the ladies are using this like Facebook, just for chat. Surely the point of fab is to meet . If your not interested in meeting then join Facebook not fabswingers

What say the other members "

very welcome to the beginning of the pointless reply game

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