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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Witty message would work for me if I had my filters turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks "

im not bothered what the message says as long as its not sumthing like "hi can i destroy yur ass!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland

Something original and witty and shows you've read the profile. If you get my attention the chat will soon turn dirty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol"

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?"

Nope I wouldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?"
id be to shy for all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol"
hi classy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask something like "R u ok hun?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ask something like "R u ok hun?""
u e i ther get blocked or just deleted for that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ask something like "R u ok hun?" u e i ther get blocked or just deleted for that lol "

Pretty much this.

There is never a garauntee that she will be interested, just take a shot either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half my messages are never read. The other half are ignored. Very hard to get a reply from a woman on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady "

hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady

hello "
lol do's that work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady

hello lol do's that work "

ah yea,say hi and im anybodys lol

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?"

I would! Mrs L

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland

A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention"

even in the unlikely event tht he was hot as fuck?

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland


"A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention

even in the unlikely event tht he was hot as fuck? "

yeah well might bend the rules a wee bit in that case lol...always have to have a wee peek at profile to make sure before shooting yourself in the foot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady

hello lol do's that work

ah yea,say hi and im anybodys lol "
hi!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention

even in the unlikely event tht he was hot as fuck?

yeah well might bend the rules a wee bit in that case lol...always have to have a wee peek at profile to make sure before shooting yourself in the foot!!"

yea i always luk at the profile first b4 i even read the message,sumtimes a first message mite be,"hi,how are u?" but after a few convos he mite be really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady

hello lol do's that work

ah yea,say hi and im anybodys lol hi!!! "

buy

only joking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol"
never send you a dirty msgs what so ever,to classy for sorth of thing.

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By *ahir82Man
over a year ago

cork

It does not matter what kind of message you send

They dont see your message most of the time

It is like lotto you have small chance to get reply

Unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Witty message would work for me if I had my filters turned on"

Us also....witty...intelligent....articulate....with a little cheeky kink on top....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails "

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through"

Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through

Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now... "

offs sssshhh sending you pics of my unhoovered carpet isn't too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through

Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now... "
i always start my message with muck lady's love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through

Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now...

offs sssshhh sending you pics of my unhoovered carpet isn't too bad "

I keep telling you to get that bum fluff removed and i know you like multitasking with your hoover lotta that pic you sent was.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through

Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now... i always start my message with muck lady's love it "

Rather be rolling about in the muck tbh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed"

If Mr L wrote that last line about me I'd kill him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks "

Maybe just maybe the reason people block you is nothing to do with sending a dirty message...

More to do with the fact of calling people childish names...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails

ah my tried and tested method

something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through

Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is iout now...

offs sssshhh sending you pics of my unhoovered carpet isn't too bad

I keep telling you to get that bum fluff removed and i know you like multitasking with your hoover lotta that pic you sent was..... "

interesting??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed

If Mr L wrote that last line about me I'd kill him. "

Really... ah im sure she wont mind haha. Ssshhh haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks

Maybe just maybe the reason people block you is nothing to do with sending a dirty message...

More to do with the fact of calling people childish names..."

Most of the time I try and show women respect on this when sending a message but then there are times I like to try a different approach yano

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

People see messages as an intro, I have had dirty messages which were quit funny and liked them, then have had some that are just plain crud rude and unnecessary explicit. the later is unwanted I guess its about balance and keeping it light for me, just my thoughts

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

A nice polite bit of conversation to start with then I like a bit of flirty banter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dint think it really matters tbh,

I've sent all sorts of mail,apart from pure filthy ones,dont see the point,its a sex site,we are all here for same thing...

Most are read but no reply or just deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks

Maybe just maybe the reason people block you is nothing to do with sending a dirty message...

More to do with the fact of calling people childish names...

Most of the time I try and show women respect on this when sending a message but then there are times I like to try a different approach yano"

So a different approach is "hey wanna chat? " and someone says "no thanks" and the reply they get is no problem GRANNY??? ... Good luck with that i can see that approach will surely get you lots of meets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can remember u saying something more than just no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You remember wrong then, I am very straight and if i abused you in anyway i would hold my hands up but as well you know i didn't!

This is the full conversation and that's all i have to say on the matter!

Happy fabbing

***************************************

No problem granny

2 weeks ago

No thanks.

2 weeks ago

Hey how are ya fancy a chat

2 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol

i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady

hello "
is it ok to send a durty message n ow since i got hello ou tta the way

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim


"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails "

Sarcasm st it's highest

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