FabSwingers.com forum: ONE THING.!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the one thing that's pisses u off about fab ..mine is sending a message and getting deleted straight away...is it really that hard to just reply and say sorry not interested...little bit of manners goes a long way..or is this just me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This forum needs a FAQ section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the one thing that's pisses u off about fab ..mine is sending a message and getting deleted straight away...is it really that hard to just reply and say sorry not interested...little bit of manners goes a long way..or is this just me...

I can only answer this for myself when i say that anytime i've answered a mail with a polite thanks but no thanks i get abused

so the easiest option just seems to be to delete and ignore, also i just delete and don't reply when it's clear that the person who mailed me has not read my profile (yes i know there's not much on it now but it was very detailed and very few read it )

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get maybe abuse 1 out of 150 emails when replying and saying no ... so not sure why others get abused every time.

Do you reply with only 'thanks but no thanks'? ... if that's the case, I think that would piss me off more than no reply.

OP, nothing really pisses me off on here. I get sometimes frustrated by people trying to stir up trouble. But probably the angriest I have been was when I got stood up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being stood up is the worst! specially after taking the time to book a nice hotel and getting o ther things sorted for the day then no showwwwwwwwww grrrr not even a text or call! shows total lack of respect towards the other person!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"being stood up is the worst! specially after taking the time to book a nice hotel and getting o ther things sorted for the day then no showwwwwwwwww grrrr not even a text or call! shows total lack of respect towards the other person! "

hate the fact with so many cpls on fab that we cant click with a cpl from cork and save us driving for hours for our meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it really tht hard to just accept a no reply means not interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me myself if i get a mail you can read the first bit and if it sayd love your profile but does not have that special word in the status i know they didn't bother to read my profile so i delete straight away may sound cruel but i'm fed up geting abuse for saying not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you send a face PIC and they say you look great then delete it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you start chatting they seem cool then they start being creepy/pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you start chatting they seem cool then they start being creepy/pushy"
that as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When some ppl can't take no as a answer.. Keep mailing you, I know I could block but they are still polite about it..

Maybe I'm too soft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this has happened to me twice and it really pisses me off!u get a message of a guy saying yur hot and the usual stuff,hes verified and seems really nice,after a few messages u swap face pics and he tells u he thinks yur beautiful,u chat away for a few days and he says he wud luv to meet u so u arrange to meet the following wk,swap numbers and are texting every day,even chatted on the phone a cpl of times,the day b4 the meet arrives and he has to cancel which i dont mind,hes terribley sorry and we arrnge to meet the following wk but i never hear frm him again!i texted him and he never replied!hes still on this site,i just dont get it!whu bother even texting sumone in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually they leave the site but sign back up again under a deifferent name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this has happened to me twice and it really pisses me off!u get a message of a guy saying yur hot and the usual stuff,hes verified and seems really nice,after a few messages u swap face pics and he tells u he thinks yur beautiful,u chat away for a few days and he says he wud luv to meet u so u arrange to meet the following wk,swap numbers and are texting every day,even chatted on the phone a cpl of times,the day b4 the meet arrives and he has to cancel which i dont mind,hes terribley sorry and we arrnge to meet the following wk but i never hear frm him again!i texted him and he never replied!hes still on this site,i just dont get it!whu bother even texting sumone in the first place"

So he can have a tug, in fantasy land

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