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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Cos fab is full of double standards. We all know that.

I personally when was a single profile would have met either

Mrs L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females "

married guys are treated like the scum of the earth on here but I have yet to see anyone give a married woman a hard time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females "

married guys are treated like the scum of the earth on here but I have yet to see anyone give a married woman a hard time.

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females

married guys are treated like the scum of the earth on here but I have yet to see anyone give a married woman a hard time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females

married guys are treated like the scum of the earth on here but I have yet to see anyone give a married woman a hard time.

"

it's total bull

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Alot of the above is true but as a married man on here having a good variety of friends those that will meet and those i chat with, I have to say i have only ever being treated with respect. If they don't want to meet married guys that's their preference as there are tons of single guys here to spoil them the numbers of women however is much smaller some may have to alter their preference to fulfill their requirements.its a fact of life u adapt to ur environs unfortunately for males we are in over supply at this time but the tide will turn and the power shall shift men shall rein supreme once more

well i can always dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of the above is true but as a married man on here having a good variety of friends those that will meet and those i chat with, I have to say i have only ever being treated with respect. If they don't want to meet married guys that's their preference as there are tons of single guys here to spoil them the numbers of women however is much smaller some may have to alter their preference to fulfill their requirements.its a fact of life u adapt to ur environs unfortunately for males we are in over supply at this time but the tide will turn and the power shall shift men shall rein supreme once more

Well said cj

well i can always dream "

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I remember a few weeks ago this subject was raised in Ireland Chat, by me re thinking my hypocritical stance regarding the acceptance of married females and disrespectful stance towards married men.

Either way it was considered cheating!

But it goes deeper than that. We don't know the circumstances in the marriage on either side so we can only go on gut instinct and interaction with the adulterous partner!

If there are people out there think men lie more than women and are more deceitful and dangerous. They are wrong humans of both sexes are equally capable of all manners of behaviour.

So I have come to the conclusion,the reason married men as a group are more vilified; its because fab is dominated by the female of the species and their desires. I think this is also wrong because every persons sexual desires are equal. Its a matter of using fab to find the ones similar to yourself and leaving others alone to get on with their needs in life.

I stand humbly before you a corrected man and will no longer judge married men and ladies as a group but each one individually on their actions and interactions

Jaz xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because people are looking their legover and as it is harder to meet a woman than a man on here, they don't want to lessen their chances even more by saying they don't meet married females, as that would probably cut the small chances of meeting woman anyway but at least a half on here. Shallow and hypocritical yes but sure that's what fab is all about most of the time anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need it explaining, pick up a dictionary. It's not gender based.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because people are looking their legover and as it is harder to meet a woman than a man on here, they don't want to lessen their chances even more by saying they don't meet married females, as that would probably cut the small chances of meeting woman anyway but at least a half on here. Shallow and hypocritical yes but sure that's what fab is all about most of the time anyway. "

This

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Possibly men deep down want to be the knight in shining armour saveing the damsel in distress from a horrible brute of a husband who treats her bad dosent understand her and is useless in bed....and he wants to get his leg over

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I remember a few weeks ago this subject was raised in Ireland Chat, by me re thinking my hypocritical stance regarding the acceptance of married females and disrespectful stance towards married men.

Either way it was considered cheating!

But it goes deeper than that. We don't know the circumstances in the marriage on either side so we can only go on gut instinct and interaction with the adulterous partner!

If there are people out there think men lie more than women and are more deceitful and dangerous. They are wrong humans of both sexes are equally capable of all manners of behaviour.

So I have come to the conclusion,the reason married men as a group are more vilified; its because fab is dominated by the female of the species and their desires. I think this is also wrong because every persons sexual desires are equal. Its a matter of using fab to find the ones similar to yourself and leaving others alone to get on with their needs in life.

I stand humbly before you a corrected man and will no longer judge married men and ladies as a group but each one individually on their actions and interactions

Jaz xxxxxxxxxxxx

"

now that's what i call open minded

open to others opinions

accept the will to change ur mind

jaz u have to be one of the most learned people on fab u always have good grip on reality and somehow make sense of the most complicated questions on fab

its a pleasure to read ur input at any time

now feck off before i declare my love for u and people start talking about us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no difference and we wouldn't meet either just not for us at all but we make it clear at very start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember a few weeks ago this subject was raised in Ireland Chat, by me re thinking my hypocritical stance regarding the acceptance of married females and disrespectful stance towards married men.

Either way it was considered cheating!

But it goes deeper than that. We don't know the circumstances in the marriage on either side so we can only go on gut instinct and interaction with the adulterous partner!

If there are people out there think men lie more than women and are more deceitful and dangerous. They are wrong humans of both sexes are equally capable of all manners of behaviour.

So I have come to the conclusion,the reason married men as a group are more vilified; its because fab is dominated by the female of the species and their desires. I think this is also wrong because every persons sexual desires are equal. Its a matter of using fab to find the ones similar to yourself and leaving others alone to get on with their needs in life.

I stand humbly before you a corrected man and will no longer judge married men and ladies as a group but each one individually on their actions and interactions

Jaz xxxxxxxxxxxx

"

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor


"Explain Cheating"

My girlfriend said I was awful in bed so, as a treat for her, some very nice women here have been helping me train to get better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females "

theres no difference!cheating is cheating whether yur male or female!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is.. Fucking someone else while in a relationship with another person. The other person would be upset and probably end the relationship or look for a divorce. Everyone who is cheating finds it exciting but nobody likes been cheated on. However most cheating occurs when one of the parties isn't getting something they desire or is living a life together because of kids etc

Is cheating wrong?? Yes and No. Yes as your in a relationship based on trust and the other party would be hurt finding out. No if your discrete and getting your desires or its helping overcome the hardship or shortcomings in your relationship.

It's a personal choice.. I love married women and as nsa goes the likely hood of complications is reduced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a married woman and happily married at that, I joined here because of no sex in the marriage due to ill health, initially my husband didn't know, but always had encouraged me to fulfil my needs elsewhere but I never believed him, after a short while I told him what I was doing this has now lead to a slight improvement in our martial sex and me having a ball elsewhere, so much so that my hubby is thinking abt joining me with another couple!

So folks don't judge a book by its cover no one knows what goes on behind closed doors!

Ps any nice couples out there like to meet with a new and nervous couple and break them in gently?! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a married woman and happily married at that, I joined here because of no sex in the marriage due to ill health, initially my husband didn't know, but always had encouraged me to fulfil my needs elsewhere but I never believed him, after a short while I told him what I was doing this has now lead to a slight improvement in our martial sex and me having a ball elsewhere, so much so that my hubby is thinking abt joining me with another couple!

So folks don't judge a book by its cover no one knows what goes on behind closed doors!

Ps any nice couples out there like to meet with a new and nervous couple and break them in gently?! Lol x "

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I remember a few weeks ago this subject was raised in Ireland Chat, by me re thinking my hypocritical stance regarding the acceptance of married females and disrespectful stance towards married men.

Either way it was considered cheating!

But it goes deeper than that. We don't know the circumstances in the marriage on either side so we can only go on gut instinct and interaction with the adulterous partner!

If there are people out there think men lie more than women and are more deceitful and dangerous. They are wrong humans of both sexes are equally capable of all manners of behaviour.

So I have come to the conclusion,the reason married men as a group are more vilified; its because fab is dominated by the female of the species and their desires. I think this is also wrong because every persons sexual desires are equal. Its a matter of using fab to find the ones similar to yourself and leaving others alone to get on with their needs in life.

I stand humbly before you a corrected man and will no longer judge married men and ladies as a group but each one individually on their actions and interactions

Jaz xxxxxxxxxxxx

now that's what i call open minded

open to others opinions

accept the will to change ur mind

jaz u have to be one of the most learned people on fab u always have good grip on reality and somehow make sense of the most complicated questions on fab

its a pleasure to read ur input at any time

now feck off before i declare my love for u and people start talking about us "

Im feelin the love cj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Ireland forums should be proud of itself. The responses to this complex question have been mature and considered, not what I expected at all

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Just a wee question,

Can anyone on here tell me the difference in a married Male and a married Female , some folk will not meet a married male as they are called cheaters ?? Yet if a married female is on without there spouses knowledge some people or couples will be happy to meet with them, just a ? that has come up as iv saw on a few profiles that the peeps wont meet men with partners yet they have met married females

married guys are treated like the scum of the earth on here but I have yet to see anyone give a married woman a hard time.

it's total bull"

Well said

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the tales I heard and experience of ppl cheating weather married or not. Say on a night out if a guy cheats it is reported back to the women faster than it takes him to finish the last swallow of his pint and he treated like rubbish. But if a women cheats on a night out wit her friends there a whole big cover up operation the cia wouldn't even be able to findout . And if she is caught in the act he the one who get the hassle from all her friends or family to leave her alone.

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