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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch! "

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male "
the way a man should take control over a woman in the act lol

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

Not for me I like a man who knows what he wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male the way a man should take control over a woman in the act lol"

well thts what i like,not sure if all women feel this way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male the way a man should take control over a woman in the act lol

well thts what i like,not sure if all women feel this way"
i no it's each to their own but it just sounded weird and wouldn't be me at all

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Submissive men would not be for me at all. I prefer my man to be more dominant

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male the way a man should take control over a woman in the act lol

well thts what i like,not sure if all women feel this wayi no it's each to their own but it just sounded weird and wouldn't be me at all"

me either,but it can be the other way round too,sum women like to be submissive and have a"dom" partner to dominate them,and if they behave they get "treats",sum even like to be humilliated and degraded,and this turns them on,i dont get it either but i guess everyone has different likes and dislkes,but i just dont understand how sum can be aroused by pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on ladies.

Don't you like dressing up in your dominatrix gear while he's strapped to the bed? Mine doesn't come out often but when it does it's Mistress Candy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male the way a man should take control over a woman in the act lol

well thts what i like,not sure if all women feel this wayi no it's each to their own but it just sounded weird and wouldn't be me at all

me either,but it can be the other way round too,sum women like to be submissive and have a"dom" partner to dominate them,and if they behave they get "treats",sum even like to be humilliated and degraded,and this turns them on,i dont get it either but i guess everyone has different likes and dislkes,but i just dont understand how sum can be aroused by pain "
ye I know what you mean! Sure life is strange in different ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All hot women on this thread so far like the alpha male! Good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on ladies.

Don't you like dressing up in your dominatrix gear while he's strapped to the bed? Mine doesn't come out often but when it does it's Mistress Candy! "

yea maybe now and again for a laugh if i was in a realationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch! "

Wouldn't be for me personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

Wouldn't be for me personally "
i think I'd have guessed your answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both dom and sub males. Each type has its own appeal but in saying that most men who claim to be submissive I've found at least, have a view of it that comes only from porn films and not a proper understanding of what bdsm is. Just think that it will get them a kinky lay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male the way a man should take control over a woman in the act lol

well thts what i like,not sure if all women feel this wayi no it's each to their own but it just sounded weird and wouldn't be me at all

me either,but it can be the other way round too,sum women like to be submissive and have a"dom" partner to dominate them,and if they behave they get "treats",sum even like to be humilliated and degraded,and this turns them on,i dont get it either but i guess everyone has different likes and dislkes,but i just dont understand how sum can be aroused by pain "

As the Marquis De Sade once said, " It is only by way of pain, one arrives at pleasure."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

Wouldn't be for me personally i think I'd have guessed your answer lol"

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I like both dom and sub males. Each type has its own appeal but in saying that most men who claim to be submissive I've found at least, have a view of it that comes only from porn films and not a proper understanding of what bdsm is. Just think that it will get them a kinky lay."

And most people claiming to be Dom/Domme think that cursing is enough and then ask you "would you do........? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like both dom and sub males. Each type has its own appeal but in saying that most men who claim to be submissive I've found at least, have a view of it that comes only from porn films and not a proper understanding of what bdsm is. Just think that it will get them a kinky lay.

And most people claiming to be Dom/Domme think that cursing is enough and then ask you "would you do........? ""

thats true too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither dominant nor submissive. But it's fun to play with both sides. Calling a man sissy because they're submissive in the bedroom is very ignorant and rude.

Just because someone likes to be submissive in bed doesn't mean they are in life. Some people have a lot of responsibilities in life and work and maybe just enjoy letting someone else take charge for a bit of fun.

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

I dunno about this one. I'm not at all submissive now mind. But I have been in relationships before where I've done submissive for the night and the lady's loved it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what are you Snickers?...

Are you more Dominant or Submissive?

Which roll do you fit into?

(If any at all?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what are you Snickers?...

Are you more Dominant or Submissive?

Which roll do you fit into?

(If any at all?) "
certainly not submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I am a submissive person and prefer a dom man around!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say I am a submissive person and prefer a dom man around!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like both dom and sub males. Each type has its own appeal but in saying that most men who claim to be submissive I've found at least, have a view of it that comes only from porn films and not a proper understanding of what bdsm is. Just think that it will get them a kinky lay.

And most people claiming to be Dom/Domme think that cursing is enough and then ask you "would you do........? ""

Difficult to make out what he's saying though with a ball-gag in. Maybe more candle wax will make him speak more clearly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with sweets.....calling someone a sissy cause they're submissive is just completely not understanding anything about it.

I can be dominant or submissive depending on my mood and sometimes both dom and sub in the same night. I'm just a bit kinky like that.....get your head round that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sick to the stomach seems like quite an extreme reaction lol, you must be quite a sensitive wee soul

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sick to the stomach seems like quite an extreme reaction lol, you must be quite a sensitive wee soul"
the stuff I read is disgusting and not manly like at all

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Op your such a biatch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick to the stomach seems like quite an extreme reaction lol, you must be quite a sensitive wee soulthe stuff I read is disgusting and not manly like at all "

lol, sure then it must have at least made you feel even more manly afterwards

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Saw it a few times said on here in statuses the past week by men! what's your take on it? Do you like been submissive guys and women do you like guys who are? Reading some of the stuff it actually turned my stomach! It reminded me of a sissy guy or one who wanted to be treated like a bitch!

defo no for me!i like a man to tell me what to do and take charge,i dont want a sissy lol,if i was seeing sumone maybe now and then it wud be fun for me to take over if he wanted me too but id rather an alpha male "

Get in touch there and get them dishes done wench !!!!!!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Many a man I'd like to ball-gag and not in a sexual way

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Many a man I'd like to ball-gag and not in a sexual way "

Where do you buy them

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Many a man I'd like to ball-gag and not in a sexual way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many a man I'd like to ball-gag and not in a sexual way

Where do you buy them "

You can get them in Pennys!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Many a man I'd like to ball-gag and not in a sexual way

Where do you buy them

You can get them in Pennys! "

The men or the ball-gags??

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Many a man I'd like to ball-gag and not in a sexual way

Where do you buy them

You can get them in Pennys! "

Besides the Arcade

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read one line that a man loved his gf walking him around on a dogs lead while he's gagged! All I could do was lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick to the stomach seems like quite an extreme reaction lol, you must be quite a sensitive wee soulthe stuff I read is disgusting and not manly like at all "

Why don't you share some of these disgusting things you've read MT?

Just so we can judge for ourselves like, some use the term 'manly' when they mean misogynistic I find.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sick to the stomach seems like quite an extreme reaction lol, you must be quite a sensitive wee soulthe stuff I read is disgusting and not manly like at all

Why don't you share some of these disgusting things you've read MT?

Just so we can judge for ourselves like, some use the term 'manly' when they mean misogynistic I find."
There is one just above you! Disgusting maybe wrong but certainly strange imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a guy who's assertive not necessarily dominant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a guy who's assertive not necessarily dominant. "
i would agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are you Snickers?...

"

Heh heh heh.

What you did there, I see it.

-Mr Slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

A sub guy makes most sense to a woman who likes to play Domme, definitely isn't for everyone. A Domme has a lot of respect for a good sub, and won't see him as less 'manly' for having the balls to explore his sexuality.

I'm mostly Dominant but switch and play at sub a bit too, always great fun.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I read one line that a man loved his gf walking him around on a dogs lead while he's gagged! All I could do was lmao! "

I read about men that spent hundreds of pounds a year watching other men in skimpy clothing spend 90 minutes a week playing with balls. All I could do was lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither dominant nor submissive. But it's fun to play with both sides. Calling a man sissy because they're submissive in the bedroom is very ignorant and rude.

Just because someone likes to be submissive in bed doesn't mean they are in life. Some people have a lot of responsibilities in life and work and maybe just enjoy letting someone else take charge for a bit of fun. "

I agree with this lady. This is supposed to be a place for openminded people is it not? Looks like a thinly veiled homophobic post to me..but then im not a hot chick. What would i know.

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By *entleman DMan
over a year ago

city center, limerick city.


"Come on ladies.

Don't you like dressing up in your dominatrix gear while he's strapped to the bed? Mine doesn't come out often but when it does it's Mistress Candy! "

I think i like Mistress Candy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read one line that a man loved his gf walking him around on a dogs lead while he's gagged! All I could do was lmao!

I read about men that spent hundreds of pounds a year watching other men in skimpy clothing spend 90 minutes a week playing with balls. All I could do was lmao!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither dominant nor submissive. But it's fun to play with both sides. Calling a man sissy because they're submissive in the bedroom is very ignorant and rude.

Just because someone likes to be submissive in bed doesn't mean they are in life. Some people have a lot of responsibilities in life and work and maybe just enjoy letting someone else take charge for a bit of fun.

I agree with this lady. This is supposed to be a place for openminded people is it not? Looks like a thinly veiled homophobic post to me..but then im not a hot chick. What would i know. "

Using words like disgusting is really over the top in my opinion and if things like that offend the OP so much to the point they make him feel physically ill places like this aren't the place for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of both I like a guy to take control but with a woman I love to be in control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What some may find " Disgusting and Strange " is normal for others.

What the OP might rind Erotic and Sexy others may find boring.

The key here is to do what you like to whether be Submissive or Dominant or just have an open mind.

If D/S isn't for you don't do it.

I personally wouldn't class myself as either. I'm confident and not cocky and find when the action starts with paying a little attention I find I can better judge what my partner would like.

That's just me though it is a swing site after all so I wouldn't close my mind off from things just yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's all opinions! I just class men in a manly form and just think some of the submissive stuff they do from reading it is strange

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Each to there own i like s man to take control its the only time I do if honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What some may find " Disgusting and Strange " is normal for others.

What the OP might rind Erotic and Sexy others may find boring.

The key here is to do what you like to whether be Submissive or Dominant or just have an open mind.

If D/S isn't for you don't do it.

I personally wouldn't class myself as either. I'm confident and not cocky and find when the action starts with paying a little attention I find I can better judge what my partner would like.

That's just me though it is a swing site after all so I wouldn't close my mind off from things just yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither dominant nor submissive. But it's fun to play with both sides. Calling a man sissy because they're submissive in the bedroom is very ignorant and rude.

Just because someone likes to be submissive in bed doesn't mean they are in life. Some people have a lot of responsibilities in life and work and maybe just enjoy letting someone else take charge for a bit of fun. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all opinions! I just class men in a manly form and just think some of the submissive stuff they do from reading it is strange "

So you have went now from being disgusted and physically ill to just thinking it is strange? Make up your mind lol, maybe you are in denial?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... I just class men in a manly form... "

What does this drivel even mean?

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"... I just class men in a manly form...

What does this drivel even mean?

"

Presumably he equates being manly with the behaviour of a range ofmen and so being manly could include receiving anal and wearing a collar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love me a submissive man!! Especially if he's older than me!! Mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... I just class men in a manly form...

What does this drivel even mean?

Presumably he equates being manly with the behaviour of a range ofmen and so being manly could include receiving anal and wearing a collar!"

Oh, I think he'd love that Nikki.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be argued that male pride/ego holds them back from experiencing a very natural innate side of their own sexuality. We like to go to the gym,post cock photos on here,and try prove to ourselves and others how macho we are,male bravado bullshit. The reality is men love powerful women,we love their courage, their abandonment of norms. But we go fuck it all up by putting labels on each role they play. The sensual domination of a woman can be very beautiful,as the sensual domination of a man to a women. Don't knock it,until you try it. Dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... I just class men in a manly form...

What does this drivel even mean?

"

It means snickers is back from his holiday.

Mr Slut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's pretty simple what a man being submissive is in different ways! To me it's strange! it's not something I would associate with a manly man! if a bloke I associated with been an alpha male said to me I love been submissive doing this and that for women's pleasure I'd be shocked! Rinky you seem to be taking an awful lot of offence but ur profile pic explains to me a lot why your getting so adjetated! You love this side of things obviously but for me a man been ultra submissive is different to a woman! I class myself as an alpha male and the submissive side of things I portray as strange an example been the one I gave already! A man with a lead on been led around while gagged! Weird behaviour is my opinion on it but as I said each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty simple what a man being submissive is in different ways! To me it's strange! it's not something I would associate with a manly man! if a bloke I associated with been an alpha male said to me I love been submissive doing this and that for women's pleasure I'd be shocked! Rinky you seem to be taking an awful lot of offence but ur profile pic explains to me a lot why your getting so adjetated! You love this side of things obviously but for me a man been ultra submissive is different to a woman! I class myself as an alpha male and the submissive side of things I portray as strange an example been the one I gave already! A man with a lead on been led around while gagged! Weird behaviour is my opinion on it but as I said each to their own "

Offence? No dear I don't take offence to things as easily you seem to, it is your choice of language I find over the top, words like disgusting and sick to my stomach, you must lead a very sheltered life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... I just class men in a manly form...

What does this drivel even mean?

It means snickers is back from his holiday.

Mr Slut."

oh noes not him again, now it makes more sense lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's pretty simple what a man being submissive is in different ways! To me it's strange! it's not something I would associate with a manly man! if a bloke I associated with been an alpha male said to me I love been submissive doing this and that for women's pleasure I'd be shocked! Rinky you seem to be taking an awful lot of offence but ur profile pic explains to me a lot why your getting so adjetated! You love this side of things obviously but for me a man been ultra submissive is different to a woman! I class myself as an alpha male and the submissive side of things I portray as strange an example been the one I gave already! A man with a lead on been led around while gagged! Weird behaviour is my opinion on it but as I said each to their own

Offence? No dear I don't take offence to things as easily you seem to, it is your choice of language I find over the top, words like disgusting and sick to my stomach, you must lead a very sheltered life "
lol sheltered life would be the last thing I lead but most certainly not into been submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all opinions! I just class men in a manly form and just think some of the submissive stuff they do from reading it is strange

So you have went now from being disgusted and physically ill to just thinking it is strange? Make up your mind lol, maybe you are in denial?"

Lol Rinky I think maybe that's exactly what this is he's really hoping for a dominatrix to whip him into shape. Ah snickers welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty simple what a man being submissive is in different ways! To me it's strange! it's not something I would associate with a manly man! if a bloke I associated with been an alpha male said to me I love been submissive doing this and that for women's pleasure I'd be shocked! Rinky you seem to be taking an awful lot of offence but ur profile pic explains to me a lot why your getting so adjetated! You love this side of things obviously but for me a man been ultra submissive is different to a woman! I class myself as an alpha male and the submissive side of things I portray as strange an example been the one I gave already! A man with a lead on been led around while gagged! Weird behaviour is my opinion on it but as I said each to their own

Offence? No dear I don't take offence to things as easily you seem to, it is your choice of language I find over the top, words like disgusting and sick to my stomach, you must lead a very sheltered life lol sheltered life would be the last thing I lead but most certainly not into been submissive "

yea yea we get it,you real man , you big man, you beat chest

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Op new user name submissive snickers.

It goes well.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

The description "alpha male" seems to be used in the animal Kingdom to describe a male that dominates the other males in the group. That seems to be demonstrated by them mounting the submissive males. Interestingly "alpha male" gorillas have very small penises. Just saying. Draw your own conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nikki is correct here as regard the alpha male title. However it's the submissive types that do all the running round chasing females, beating their chests etc. the Alpha male is secure in the position they hold and does not need to resort to constant chasing or humping. The alpha male is the one who helps the females rear the young and any other tasks needed to keep a cohesive family union. The alpha male is usually the quietest one, the most observant one and the one you would least think is the alpha.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Any luck with that meet yet snickers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. "
people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up! "

It's one thing having an opinion but to broadcast that your opinion of something is disgusting and wrong for me is just looking for a reaction. Either way it worked

That's my opinion

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By *iobraidarannMan
over a year ago

.. south


"Sick to the stomach seems like quite an extreme reaction lol, you must be quite a sensitive wee soulthe stuff I read is disgusting and not manly like at all

Why don't you share some of these disgusting things you've read MT?

Just so we can judge for ourselves like, some use the term 'manly' when they mean misogynistic I find.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up!

It's one thing having an opinion but to broadcast that your opinion of something is disgusting and wrong for me is just looking for a reaction. Either way it worked

That's my opinion "
as I said disgusting could be portrayed as the wrong word! It certainly isn't normal for a man to want to be led around on a coller while gagged IMO! That's a form of submissery! the first 3-4 replies to this thread was a discussion then a few came in who took offence to wording

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look it's not for me to tell you what you can or can't say at all..

I wasn't trying to say your wrong or your right but there will be people who take offence when someone uses those terms and agree with you they were not words you should have used.

But like I have said it's a swinging site and your entitled to your opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any luck with that meet yet snickers?"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up!

It's one thing having an opinion but to broadcast that your opinion of something is disgusting and wrong for me is just looking for a reaction. Either way it worked

That's my opinion as I said disgusting could be portrayed as the wrong word! It certainly isn't normal for a man to want to be led around on a coller while gagged IMO! That's a form of submissery! the first 3-4 replies to this thread was a discussion then a few came in who took offence to wording "

lol that old line again 'oh people are taking offence to what I'm saying' , no , people maybe just think your posts are just rude , ignorant and wanting to have a dig at people, but then you dress it up saying that it's your 'opinion' and people are being too sensitive, the usual rigmarole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look it's not for me to tell you what you can or can't say at all..

I wasn't trying to say your wrong or your right but there will be people who take offence when someone uses those terms and agree with you they were not words you should have used.

But like I have said it's a swinging site and your entitled to your opinion..."
exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up!

It's one thing having an opinion but to broadcast that your opinion of something is disgusting and wrong for me is just looking for a reaction. Either way it worked

That's my opinion as I said disgusting could be portrayed as the wrong word! It certainly isn't normal for a man to want to be led around on a coller while gagged IMO! That's a form of submissery! the first 3-4 replies to this thread was a discussion then a few came in who took offence to wording

lol that old line again 'oh people are taking offence to what I'm saying' , no , people maybe just think your posts are just rude , ignorant and wanting to have a dig at people, but then you dress it up saying that it's your 'opinion' and people are being too sensitive, the usual rigmarole "
lol it is my opinion and unlike some I'm not afraid to give it! As I said already the first 3-4 posts were a discussion, no one complaining, just giving there opinion then it changed!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up!

It's one thing having an opinion but to broadcast that your opinion of something is disgusting and wrong for me is just looking for a reaction. Either way it worked

That's my opinion as I said disgusting could be portrayed as the wrong word! It certainly isn't normal for a man to want to be led around on a coller while gagged IMO! That's a form of submissery! the first 3-4 replies to this thread was a discussion then a few came in who took offence to wording

lol that old line again 'oh people are taking offence to what I'm saying' , no , people maybe just think your posts are just rude , ignorant and wanting to have a dig at people, but then you dress it up saying that it's your 'opinion' and people are being too sensitive, the usual rigmarole lol it is my opinion and unlike some I'm not afraid to give it! As I said already the first 3-4 posts were a discussion, no one complaining, just giving there opinion then it changed! "

is this knickersoaker by any chance , did u set up a new profile , missed ur posts

now where have i seen those pics before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op new user name submissive snickers.

It goes well. "

Don't you mean Snickmissive!!?

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"Personally I think people get far too hung up on what others do or enjoy to do.

I think if it's not for you its not for you no need to put it down.

Just say not for me and move on.

If you don't like reading about that in the stories don't read them

Each to their own and im not saying who is right or wrong just have an open mind.

I presumed everyone on the site did. people have an opinion! I wouldn't call it getting far to hung up!

It's one thing having an opinion but to broadcast that your opinion of something is disgusting and wrong for me is just looking for a reaction. Either way it worked

That's my opinion as I said disgusting could be portrayed as the wrong word! It certainly isn't normal for a man to want to be led around on a coller while gagged IMO! That's a form of submissery! the first 3-4 replies to this thread was a discussion then a few came in who took offence to wording "

So why is it 'disgusting' or 'not normal' for a man to want to be led around in a collar, but not a woman? Or are the women supposed to be chained barefoot to the kitchen sink?

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"

So why is it 'disgusting' or 'not normal' for a man to want to be led around in a collar, but not a woman? Or are the women supposed to be chained barefoot to the kitchen sink? "

At least chain them to the hoover in stilettos after they make my tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... As I said already the first 3-4 posts were a discussion, no one complaining, just giving there opinion then it changed! "

Do you mean it all went tits up when someone disagreed with you?

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"

So why is it 'disgusting' or 'not normal' for a man to want to be led around in a collar, but not a woman? Or are the women supposed to be chained barefoot to the kitchen sink?

At least chain them to the hoover in stilettos after they make my tea!"

I have visions of Freddie Mercury in the vid for 'I want to break free'!!

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... As I said already the first 3-4 posts were a discussion, no one complaining, just giving there opinion then it changed!

Do you mean it all went tits up when someone disagreed with you?

"

this! All you've pretty much have done was giving thumbs up to the ones who said that it's not for them and the others were either ignored or now being told that you're allowed to have your opinion.

It's not a voting pole and a popularity requests of getting as many people to agree with you as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... As I said already the first 3-4 posts were a discussion, no one complaining, just giving there opinion then it changed!

Do you mean it all went tits up when someone disagreed with you?

this! All you've pretty much have done was giving thumbs up to the ones who said that it's not for them and the others were either ignored or now being told that you're allowed to have your opinion.

It's not a voting pole and a popularity requests of getting as many people to agree with you as possible."
not at all! The first few came in and gave their opinion! The didn't come in and whinge and moan about what was said!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Op new user name submissive snickers.

It goes well.

Don't you mean Snickmissive!!? "
ohhhh I love it ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whinge and moan???? You were being disrespectful towards people here.

Pardon to challenge "Mr Alpha Male". I know it must be hard for you to comprehend that some women actually have an opinion which isn't the same like yours and DARE to speak up about it.

Get over yourself lol.

Alpha Male my arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whinge and moan???? You were being disrespectful towards people here.

Pardon to challenge "Mr Alpha Male". I know it must be hard for you to comprehend that some women actually have an opinion which isn't the same like yours and DARE to speak up about it.

Get over yourself lol.

Alpha Male my arse.

"
whinge and moan that's exactly it lol! U can give your opinion to the questions asked in the OP and that doesn't involve whining! The first few gave their opinion then it went downhill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alpha male/Homer Simpson had a job as a mattress tester.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alpha male/Homer Simpson had a job as a mattress tester."
i know! He was good at it to

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"

whinge and moan that's exactly it lol! U can give your opinion to the questions asked in the OP and that doesn't involve whining! The first few gave their opinion then it went downhill! "

Maybe you intended it to encourage debate but your intemperate language provoked a different response. I was surprised to see what seemed to be a very intolerant attitude to male submission. I accept that the general populace is still less than tolerant but hope that in.forums like this we can foster greater understanding. (Indeed the support on.this and other threads shows it can be expected.)

I think we all accept that one person will like something that another will be appalled by. We just need to understand that we should try not to make them feel uncomfortable on this forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

whinge and moan that's exactly it lol! U can give your opinion to the questions asked in the OP and that doesn't involve whining! The first few gave their opinion then it went downhill!

Maybe you intended it to encourage debate but your intemperate language provoked a different response. I was surprised to see what seemed to be a very intolerant attitude to male submission. I accept that the general populace is still less than tolerant but hope that in.forums like this we can foster greater understanding. (Indeed the support on.this and other threads shows it can be expected.)

I think we all accept that one person will like something that another will be appalled by. We just need to understand that we should try not to make them feel uncomfortable on this forum."
my wording was wrong but I personally maintain whether I used those words or not people would of still jumped on the bandwagon over the thread title/topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

whinge and moan that's exactly it lol! U can give your opinion to the questions asked in the OP and that doesn't involve whining! The first few gave their opinion then it went downhill!

Maybe you intended it to encourage debate but your intemperate language provoked a different response. I was surprised to see what seemed to be a very intolerant attitude to male submission. I accept that the general populace is still less than tolerant but hope that in.forums like this we can foster greater understanding. (Indeed the support on.this and other threads shows it can be expected.)

I think we all accept that one person will like something that another will be appalled by. We just need to understand that we should try not to make them feel uncomfortable on this forum."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Submissive men would not be for me at all. I prefer my man to be more dominant

Miss Mcjoy "

have to agree. .I like a dominant guy. . Although I have been known to turn the tables on occasion. ... or maybe that's me being bossy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whinge and moan???? You were being disrespectful towards people here.

Pardon to challenge "Mr Alpha Male". I know it must be hard for you to comprehend that some women actually have an opinion which isn't the same like yours and DARE to speak up about it.

Get over yourself lol.

Alpha Male my arse.

whinge and moan that's exactly it lol! U can give your opinion to the questions asked in the OP and that doesn't involve whining! The first few gave their opinion then it went downhill! "

It doesnt count when the opinion given in the first place is obviously for the sake of tryin to cause offence and reaction , try being more subtle next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

whinge and moan that's exactly it lol! U can give your opinion to the questions asked in the OP and that doesn't involve whining! The first few gave their opinion then it went downhill!

Maybe you intended it to encourage debate but your intemperate language provoked a different response. I was surprised to see what seemed to be a very intolerant attitude to male submission. I accept that the general populace is still less than tolerant but hope that in.forums like this we can foster greater understanding. (Indeed the support on.this and other threads shows it can be expected.)

I think we all accept that one person will like something that another will be appalled by. We just need to understand that we should try not to make them feel uncomfortable on this forum. "

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