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One partner wants to play other dose not what do you do

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By *R and Sue Ellen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near the City

If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "

Both must want to play or jealousy/envy with rot away at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be both otherwise will cause problems with relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this???

Both must want to play or jealousy/envy with rot away at them "

Am not in a couple atm but from previous relationships i would have to agree. It might work ok at the start but I think if it continues in a similar fashion it could lead to rows as the non swinging partner may become feeling jealous or possibly inadequate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "

If it's their rules, and they're both happy it's nothing to do with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, if in a couple feel a bit shitty if my partner was off bonking while I wasn't in the mood.. But I agree with the rules.. set them before you go and no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be uncomfortable if soneone was left. Wouldn't be nice to be just left sitting there in my opinion. Think it could lead to too many problems.

xBratx

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "

Does the one not wanting to play get enjoyment watching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would, if in a couple feel a bit shitty if my partner was off bonking while I wasn't in the mood.. But I agree with the rules.. set them before you go and no problems "

True....when we meet as a couple...if one of us doesnt want to play the other wont...mr p is very good he wouldnt play unless i was happy...but if rules are set out and you's find what works for you then its your business...

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis


"I'd be uncomfortable if soneone was left. Wouldn't be nice to be just left sitting there in my opinion. Think it could lead to too many problems.

xBratx"
don't think you would b left sitting alone !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% about communication between the couple. If both parties are happy for 1 to play with someone else then no problem. As long as everything is open, honest, and up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think u suck it up and both head home relationships are far more important than some random legover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "

In a party situation we play with who we want....Im cool with funbuns playing if im not and vice versa.....that being said that was in our "rule book!" we talked about it and that was our agreement....

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Its all about the communication of the rules!!!

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

Trim


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this???

In a party situation we play with who we want....Im cool with funbuns playing if im not and vice versa.....that being said that was in our "rule book!" we talked about it and that was our agreement.... "

Mmm rule book love the sound of that

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Mr L and I must get a rule book

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "

I think both need to be very careful in that situation, would be shit to be left sitting waiting while the other person got their jollies , however if both are happy with the other playing alone then don't see a problem no.

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?... "

I would think so!

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By *sername publicMan
over a year ago

dublin

Bad combination

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?... "

I think so and only right that the person who assisted in the rule breaking should get a spank too

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

At a party we play with whoever we want to no problem....but if it's a cpl met we have the drink meet first go home and decide if we want to make a date....there is no question of one of us takeing things further unless we both do

...and as for breaking any rules....the rule book should be firmly shoved up the offenders arse.....but only if the don't like anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?... "

You looking for a spanked bottom?

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?...

You looking for a spanked bottom? "

Madam I'm a 'spanker' not a 'spankee'...

'Switch' me hole!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "

See it as a single meet,and enjoy. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?...

You looking for a spanked bottom?

Madam I'm a 'spanker' not a 'spankee'...

'Switch' me hole!! "

You offering??????

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