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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi peeps just wondering as im stocky build guy what girls r comfortable with in terms of name tagging when it comes to size, iv seen in a few profiles women refering to themselves as fat, that tag doesnt sit well with me, also women seem to refer to themselves as bbw's, i think this is a term created by males ..........so basically im asking if you r plus size what way in describing yourself do you prefer to be catergorized, curvy is my fave

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Hate name tags. I have however seen some 'big girls' as you put it describing themselves as fabulous so I think we should all call ourselves that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi peeps just wondering as im stocky build guy what girls r comfortable with in terms of name tagging when it comes to size, iv seen in a few profiles women refering to themselves as fat, that tag doesnt sit well with me, also women seem to refer to themselves as bbw's, i think this is a term created by males ..........so basically im asking if you r plus size what way in describing yourself do you prefer to be catergorized, curvy is my fave "

I have my body shape as ample as I am certainly overweight, I did have pics up so people could see what shape I am instead of me picking a word to describe myself,as you will find on here that no matter what you say, there's always someone to tell you that it's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

Exactly, curvy is a hip to waist ratio, as long as there's a curve then the woman is curves no matter what the size! I'm a 16/18 and usually am considered over weight but each to their own! I'm happy with my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

Exactly, curvy is a hip to waist ratio, as long as there's a curve then the woman is curves no matter what the size! I'm a 16/18 and usually am considered overweight but each to their own! I'm happy with my body

Lol...same....i loooove curvy women also very sexy!!!...wouldnt swap my curves for anything...

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasmic panthers and lollipop, there is no way either of you could be called "over weight".. "Sexy as fuck" yes.. "Over weight" no..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing "

I think all the guys would be putting ample down lol...think when you have photo's up people can see anyway...i suppose everyone has their own definition of body types...i had average down when we first joined but did like curvy better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Orgasmic panthers and lollipop, there is no way either of you could be called "over weight".. "Sexy as fuck" yes.. "Over weight" no.."

Why thankyou...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol aw that's very nice, and a nice little lift of a Sunday morning

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy is all about the way you carry yourself, size is irrelevant.

In answer to your question though, I'm quite happy being curvy and being called curvy!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising"

I'm just one big curve, round all over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising"

A very nice peachy bum..from what i can see...hehe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have described myself as curvy! A bit ambitious, considering I am 5' and a size 16!!! But I am a lot happier with what I have now.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising

I'm just one big curve, round all over lol"

Awk rinky lol...cum'on round to mine and we can that bum looking hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising

I'm just one big curve, round all over lol

Awk rinky lol...cum'on round to mine and we can that bum looking hot!!

hehe

give me a few months when I have lost a few stone, then'll I'll be back in the saddle, or even wearing the saddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoooohoooo....rinky lol...yeehaaa!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy is all about the way you carry yourself, size is irrelevant. "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be curvy when I was younger but now I'm just overweight, don't consider myself curvy at all

gonna have to get a plan together for the new year...need my curves back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is any woman ever happy with her body I wonder, just gotta embrace what you have and make the most of it, it also helps when your man loves your body regardless of your insecurities, that makes me feel confident and sexier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a 16-18...i don't seem to have any problems,I also prefer a curvy girl to play with....nice big boobies.....mmmmmmm.....boobiesssssss.......

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just put fabulous its how u feel about ur self that matters i could do with a few pounds a sixpack and muscular arms but hey i am what i am and that's happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is any woman ever happy with her body I wonder, just gotta embrace what you have and make the most of it, it also helps when your man loves your body regardless of your insecurities, that makes me feel confident and sexier. "

This is so true. He's the only guy I've felt so comfortable around with my body. I feel sooooo sexy around him and it's great but I'd still llike to feel that way when he's not around. And I've been told I'll feel sexier over the next few months by some but right now i just feel fat and frumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Pressure on men to have big Willis dam and here's me flaunting my three incher thinking i cock of the walk

surly size doesn't matter

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Ive went from a size 20/22 to a 16 since the new year but i did it for myself and to feel healthier. Its how you feel about yourself thats important...not what others say/think.

There are larger woman than me in my weight class that can beat me hands down in circuits etc.

Womens bodies are amazing things and should never be judged by the cover.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising

A very nice peachy bum..from what i can see...hehe...

Thats a nice way of describing it lol but thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

I think that is the definition of curvy....but I always thought ample referred to guys private parts.....lol

I didn't know what to put so I just put average sounds very boreing

I would love to put curvy......but with no bum to speak of it might be considered false advertising

A very nice peachy bum..from what i can see...hehe...

Thats a nice way of describing it lol but thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Really?? NOT feeling under pressure from anyone is one of the reasons we use Fabs, there's something for everyone. Not sure what the guys are gonna do about feeling the need to have a big dick either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Yes really lol...thats the reality of getting naked with complete strangers...im not saying anyone personally has put us under pressure but in general if you read some of the profiles they are very demanding...vvwe only...no bbw...no one over a certain size!!This place is very much looks based...no point buttering it up...wouldnt meet shallow minded people but no avoiding it either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Not only in the trouser dept.

Some of the lads have very impressive physiques, but I suppose its the same for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Not only in the trouser dept.

Some of the lads have very impressive physiques, but I suppose its the same for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Not only in the trouser dept.

Some of the lads have very impressive physiques, but I suppose its the same for all.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Yes some of the profiles are very off putting with the list of nos....we usually just pass them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Not only in the trouser dept.

Some of the lads have very impressive physiques, but I suppose its the same for all.

Yes that is true...mr p has felt the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

I getcha. Yeah, I've seen some of those ads too, I just think 'next'.

It's a pick 'n' mix here, sometimes I want a bag of white mice, sometimes I want liquorice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want lots of sweeties lol...greedy like that....best to say next...someone wrote on their status recently which made me laugh...that why dont people just clone themselves and they can fuck themselves...seeing they love themselves so much...lol..true!!!

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

When we joined we both had no confidence we both are large and felt we had nothing to offer. We have had some fantastic, horny times but have made some off the best friends we have ever had.

It's funny but shape doesn't seem to be important at all once the fun starts it's all about the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

Exactly, curvy is a hip to waist ratio, as long as there's a curve then the woman is curves no matter what the size! I'm a 16/18 and usually am considered overweight but each to their own! I'm happy with my body

Lol...same....i loooove curvy women also very sexy!!!...wouldnt swap my curves for anything...

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OMG , neither wud I !!!!! Lol......if only !!!!!! Dream on Mrcajun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we joined we both had no confidence we both are large and felt we had nothing to offer. We have had some fantastic, horny times but have made some off the best friends we have ever had.

It's funny but shape doesn't seem to be important at all once the fun starts it's all about the connection.

Well said...i suppose its just about meeting the right people...i have grown in confidence since joining here also...im embracing my sexuality...my body ( well would rather someone else embracing it lol)...doesnt mean we dont have a type sex wise...but we have met some really lovely people on here and made great friends...and ive learnt first hand that even if its all great looks wise if we dont click then i just cant jump into bed lol...its hard to explain...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Im a big girl too would I like to be smaller I would every lump and bump I have I worked hard to get with the help of my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Totally agree, main reason I'm not even interested in looking for meets for the forseeable, I find this place very harsh at times and it has put me off wanting to meet anyone until I feel better about myself, otherwise it's just not fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a curvy size 12....curvy to me is having bum/ hips....etc...bitta junk in the trunk!!

Exactly, curvy is a hip to waist ratio, as long as there's a curve then the woman is curves no matter what the size! I'm a 16/18 and usually am considered overweight but each to their own! I'm happy with my body

Lol...same....i loooove curvy women also very sexy!!!...wouldnt swap my curves for anything...

OMG , neither wud I !!!!! Lol......if only !!!!!! Dream on Mrcajun"

Aww lol...thanks... xx

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By *he JiggliesCouple
over a year ago

Athlone

I am a big girl and proud to be called a bbw. Not for every1 but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who cares what you call yourself? As long as you're happy with yourself, that's important! I'm quite big and 'defined' myself on my profile as large.

I do think the term curvy could be easily misunderstood since in the media women like Beyonce are considered curvy, even though she's much thinner than the average woman.

That's why I prefer to make clear what my size is... I don't want a guy expecting to meet Beyonce and then meet Dawn French instead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

Thats sad to hear tbh...but i can understand...think we all go through highs and lows in this place..we count ourselves very lucky when we meet likeminded people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a 16-18...i don't seem to have any problems,I also prefer a curvy girl to play with....nice big boobies.....mmmmmmm.....boobiesssssss.......

does that mean you've nice big booobies

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By *R and Sue EllenCouple
over a year ago

Near the City

Big or small we are all the same.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Its all about the connection. ..have met ppl and if id met them in real life would not consider them my type...but knowing that theres a good chance your going to end up naked together kinda throws a different light on things lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just reading replys guys , great to get some feed back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with Rinky, one of the many reasons i am holding back and i've hidden my profile, very judgemental and shallow people here lately, the abuse does get to me sometimes so i'd rather step back and focus on other stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree with Rinky, one of the many reasons i am holding back and i've hidden my profile, very judgemental and shallow people here lately, the abuse does get to me sometimes so i'd rather step back and focus on other stuff!"

Small minded ignorant people.

Gorgeous lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Sorry to hear that....but there will always be ignorance and rudeness just a pity it has to creep in here....

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By *hrisboobymanMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Best not to get hung on tags/ names. No matter what size you, some will like, others will not. AS has been previously mentioned, doesn't matter if you are on the large side as long as you are fit and healthy! Regular (s)exercise and good diet helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks mrs, not trying to make everyone feel sorry for me, but i have seen so many threads lately were people were so ignorant and judgemental, not to mention hipocritical, stepping back is better for me right now and i hope the shallwo and narrow minded go away if i come back someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks mrs, not trying to make everyone feel sorry for me, but i have seen so many threads lately were people were so ignorant and judgemental, not to mention hipocritical, stepping back is better for me right now and i hope the shallwo and narrow minded go away if i come back someday

Don't stay away to long.. You'll be missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxxx

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

Having chatted for weeks now I class myself privileged to call you my friend. You are a beautiful woman inside and out and I count myself lucky to have you in my life.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

You have to do whats right for you...but just think about all the positive experience's you have had and I bet there has been a lot more of them....and anyone that would think you were looking for sympathy. ...big mistake lol best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks girls, if all people were like ye this would really be a much better place xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's it, I am not as thick skinned as I like to believe , and on here the nastiness can get to you, I don't feel like I'm in the right headspace for meets, as much as it isn't nice to hear you also feel like that , I must say I'm glad I'm not alone on this, I was startin to think I was just blowing it out of proportion.

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare

Do come back soon - we need your Iberian passion here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how you feel and i am sure others do too, very lucky to have met wonderful people that i am still in touch with

Now i will stop before certain people say i stole the thread and blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sultryenna i can go on record as saying u ooooze sex appeal, your body is yummmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But tbh...being on a site like this does put pressure on women to have a great body and men to have big willies...

You can do something about your body size if want but we cant do anything about our size ll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a size 10 to 12 so i probabley shud be curvy,id like to be a bit thinner tho

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