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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A friend of mine used to give "favours" for cash in Australia. She wants to do it again for a while in Dublin. Should I try to stop her or leave her to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what kind of a friend you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like 'Bob-a-job'.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking for weddings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She worked in a massage place that gave happy endings before. She's looking to do similar work.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Maybe I should talk to her instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well try this OP, when she's tugging off an old sweaty gurner & he is grunting away & cumming in her hand, do you really want her to think 'gee, I'm glad JC persuaded me this was a good idea'???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well try this OP, when she's tugging off an old sweaty gurner & he is grunting away & cumming in her hand, do you really want her to think 'gee, I'm glad JC persuaded me this was a good idea'??? "

I'm not talking her into anything. I was asking people's opinions on whether I should try to talk her out of it or let her make her own choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well try this OP, when she's tugging off an old sweaty gurner & he is grunting away & cumming in her hand, do you really want her to think 'gee, I'm glad JC persuaded me this was a good idea'???

I'm not talking her into anything. I was asking people's opinions on whether I should try to talk her out of it or let her make her own choice."

Come on! Any decent friend would obviously try & talk her out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is her own woman and can make her own decisions. If you told your friend you are swinging would you like to be told off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she liked it the first time, she would more than likely like it this time around.

Sure, swinging is the same without a payment.

Swingers meet random strangers and don't get paid.

Hookers meet random strangers and get paid..

only difference is money exchanges hands at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she liked it the first time, she would more than likely like it this time around.

Sure, swinging is the same without a payment.

Swingers meet random strangers and don't get paid.

Hookers meet random strangers and get paid..

only difference is money exchanges hands at the end"

Big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do explain to me the difference apart from the payment ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was referring to the payment, other than that you're pretty much right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do explain to me the difference apart from the payment ?"

Swingers do it for pleasure, hookers do it to make money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the pay. Im curious about this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do explain to me the difference apart from the payment ?

Swingers do it for pleasure, hookers do it to make money."

Good point, although I see a very large grey area inbetween.

For instance, if someone accepts a gift at a meet is that prostitution?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Whats the pay. Im curious about this one "

Purely for research purposes like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just curious. If its good money and she enjoys it then why not.....theres plenty of people doing shit jobs for shit pay. Live to work. Work to live is a vicious little circle but it keeps the goverment happy

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"No just curious. If its good money and she enjoys it then why not.....theres plenty of people doing shit jobs for shit pay. Live to work. Work to live is a vicious little circle but it keeps the goverment happy "

No, sorry, I meant that was the only reason I was interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do explain to me the difference apart from the payment ?

Swingers do it for pleasure, hookers do it to make money.

Good point, although I see a very large grey area inbetween.

For instance, if someone accepts a gift at a meet is that prostitution?

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Just my point of view, but I'd only say if the gift was a condition of the meet. No harm in a man, or woman for that matter bringing a gift to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew that so hows ya been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knew that so hows ya been"

Mick that is

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I knew that so hows ya been

Mick that is"

I'm good. I see the name has changed back. You've been quiet. Good to see you again..

Apologies op, we're going to get a room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is her own woman and can make her own decisions. If you told your friend you are swinging would you like to be told off? "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally as her friend you wouldnt want to see her do anything desperate to get some money, if thats the sole reason for doing it.

But as others have said shes an adult & can make her own decisions.

Its nice that your concerned tho, a true friend by sounds of it.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"No just curious. If its good money and she enjoys it then why not.....theres plenty of people doing shit jobs for shit pay. Live to work. Work to live is a vicious little circle but it keeps the goverment happy "

i don't think its classed as taxable income so the gov treat it like black market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No just curious. If its good money and she enjoys it then why not.....theres plenty of people doing shit jobs for shit pay. Live to work. Work to live is a vicious little circle but it keeps the goverment happy

i don't think its classed as taxable income so the gov treat it like black market "

Maybe they have declared self employed

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