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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My mate rang me this morning he got a txt message on Facebook from some guy with a whole conversation he was having with his wife . In message this guy said to mates wife I meet u Sunday at 2 in usual place . My mate doesn't want ti believe his wife is cheating , I'm thinking of just telling him straight out but he's a very hot head n he he will self destruct what should I do?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Tell him straight out what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell him straight out what ? "

I was wondering that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That his wife is cheating ?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Are you the guy sending the messages but under a assumed name....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you telling him something he already knows?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you the guy sending the messages but under a assumed name...."

No she has met this fella couple of times.

And it's to tell him his partner is cheating.

I could tell him n he goes nuts or not n I'm letting her away with it but if mate finds out I knew that's 30 years friendship gone

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm still confused

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

How do you know she's met some guy....dose she confide in you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That his wife is cheating is not your fault. How come you know about it? But your friend knows now as well about his wife cheating he just doesnt want to know it. If you're a true friend you have to be able to talk about it. Thats what friends are for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He told me bout it I went over to him n I saw message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now even more confused ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So he knows and you know. All you can do is be there for him and talk to him

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By *arlow77Man
over a year ago

carlow

How abt if u txt her from an new number saying u know wats going on and that its up to her wat she wants to do. 1 she tells her partner wats going on or u will. 2 she stops it straight away and never see this guy again and u'll forget abt it too.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Then its obvious she is cheating.

And he knows as much as you because he had the message.

Or its this lad wanting her being obsessive and is stiring shit.

Unfortunately the answer is with the wife.

You just be there when the truth comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion such as it's worth is mind your own business.

Because people do shoot the messenger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really confused how you know for sure and he doesn't?

he's seen the evidence, why would you have to tell him now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, years ago i saw my friend's boyfriend cheating, i told her the day after, she never spoke to me again and now they are married and with children, he needs to chat with his wife and you need to be a friend , but he already knows she is cheating sure

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By *edrockcoupleCouple
over a year ago

athlone

I was in a nightclub one night and my friend was sitting for me. I met her bf in the club all over another woman. Told him I was going to tell her. Went home and did exactly that. He got there first and told her a heap of stories. Luckily enough we are that close she took my word. She is married now to a great man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say wtf raise a eyebrow and stay well clear of it. better to be a friend when he needs one as to be the the one that split there marrage up!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say wtf raise a eyebrow and stay well clear of it. better to be a friend when he needs one as to be the the one that split there marrage up!!!!!"

Have to agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree, years ago i saw my friend's boyfriend cheating, i told her the day after, she never spoke to me again and now they are married and with children, he needs to chat with his wife and you need to be a friend , but he already knows she is cheating sure "

something very similar happened to me too. I told my best friend of 15 years at the time that her bf was cheating on her. She was shocked and enraged but he made up all these lies and said that I came onto him and was jealous.... she didn't talk to me again for 5 years until they broke up and she realised I was right.

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By *ick and lisaCouple
over a year ago

hull

If I was the injured party I wouldnt say anything but follow her to the meet then when I saw with my own eyes kick her to the kerb. Once a cheat always a cheat. Your worth more.

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Well I'm confused by your post cos he seems to know already from what im reading.

Generally my opinion is that noone knows what goes on in anyone's marriage. There could be a reason for the cheating, arguments, violence or just plain boredom. Yes it's not nice but who r u to judge that OP? Are u whiter than white? Be your mates friend and be there when he needs you.

Mrs L

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By *R and Sue EllenCouple
over a year ago

Near the City

I say tell him. Because when my ex husband did it to me everyone of my friends new. Not one of them told me even though I asked them. I will never forgive them for letting me be his fool. Believed his lies. I say tell if he dose not speak to you again his loss loosing a true friend!

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