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"there is no rule here that says anyone must be verified within whatever time frame you deem suitable , people use this site at their own pace , for some that means getting verified within a week , for others it may be a year , .What I find silly is the assumption that just because you asked you should be given "proof" . I was told last night that I am definately not real and genuine by someone I turned down as it transpired they were playing without permission which doesnt sit well with me . Why on earth a person cant take a polite no for an answer without accusations of being fake or whatever I just do not know .Move along to the next oppertunity if what you see does not suit you .Simple as that .!"  | |||
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"Think the op means to foto verify themselves.which is fair enuff I think.a foto verie means feck all really but if ur here 6 months and not meet verified its the least u cud do" Why? To satisfy the curiosity of a complete stranger? As has been said before,if there's something you don't like on a profile,move on to the next one.people are here for themselves,not to hanker to the needs of others. | |||
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"Why is it that when u ask a fem who's been here for 6mths and not verified to verify themselves they block u???? Was told by the fem she's not a McDonalds" whatever the feck that means" I would take from that , that the lady is private and is not someone who is open to going with just anyone. She obiviously does not feel the need to display her meets nor does she feel the need to be verified. I'm exactly the same and feel the same about veris, I personally don't find it attractive | |||
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"Why is it that when u ask a fem who's been here for 6mths and not verified to verify themselves they block u???? Was told by the fem she's not a McDonalds" whatever the feck that means" I'm going on the assumption that you contacted her first, correct me if I'm wrong. So you would have seen she wasn't verified by reading her profile. If this bothered you why contact her.  | |||
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"Think the op means to foto verify themselves.which is fair enuff I think.a foto verie means feck all really but if ur here 6 months and not meet verified its the least u cud do Why? To satisfy the curiosity of a complete stranger? As has been said before,if there's something you don't like on a profile,move on to the next one.people are here for themselves,not to hanker to the needs of others." agreed | |||
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"Why is it that when u ask a fem who's been here for 6mths and not verified to verify themselves they block u???? Was told by the fem she's not a McDonalds" whatever the feck that means I'm going on the assumption that you contacted her first, correct me if I'm wrong. So you would have seen she wasn't verified by reading her profile. If this bothered you why contact her. "I thought the very same thing Kim, but you put it so much nicer!  | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers" What's unverified to you? | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you?" Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... | |||
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"A fake dreamer? Is that someone that sleeps with one eye open? Sweet won't meet anyone that isn't verified,for that reason we simply move onto the next profile.No point dwelling on what might be or could be. " | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though....." so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private?? | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private??" No it doesn't, as long as it's not the dreaded, joined 1 hour ago and received their first verification, which is immediately hidden?? I don't think it unreasonable of anyone, considering meeting someone, to ask if they have any mutual friends, or to show a verif, or verifs, for a short period of time? There are definitely verified profiles, with only self verification, through multiple profiles. Usually guys posing as couples/females. There have been a couple of profiles recently, supposedly from a married woman from Armagh, who appears to spend every other night in a Hotel, looking male company. Those profiles have immediately been verified but the verification hidden. I called 'her' bluff and played along...'she' agreed to meet me but wouldn't ring or text me...I continued to play along..'she' told me the Hotel 'she' was supposedly in.....ok, that's not far from me, I asked 'her' to meet me in the Bar?....no 'she' couldn't risk being seen.....fair enough, I continued to play along.....'she' told me to come to the second floor....ok,I asked what room number?.....no, 'she' says just stamp your foot 3 times and i'll let you in..... Really?  | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private?? No it doesn't, as long as it's not the dreaded, joined 1 hour ago and received their first verification, which is immediately hidden?? I don't think it unreasonable of anyone, considering meeting someone, to ask if they have any mutual friends, or to show a verif, or verifs, for a short period of time? There are definitely verified profiles, with only self verification, through multiple profiles. Usually guys posing as couples/females. There have been a couple of profiles recently, supposedly from a married woman from Armagh, who appears to spend every other night in a Hotel, looking male company. Those profiles have immediately been verified but the verification hidden. I called 'her' bluff and played along...'she' agreed to meet me but wouldn't ring or text me...I continued to play along..'she' told me the Hotel 'she' was supposedly in.....ok, that's not far from me, I asked 'her' to meet me in the Bar?....no 'she' couldn't risk being seen.....fair enough, I continued to play along.....'she' told me to come to the second floor....ok,I asked what room number?.....no, 'she' says just stamp your foot 3 times and i'll let you in..... Really? "I was only asking for a yes/ no.... Out of curiosity why would you waste your time conversing with someone you thought was fake?? | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private?? No it doesn't, as long as it's not the dreaded, joined 1 hour ago and received their first verification, which is immediately hidden?? I don't think it unreasonable of anyone, considering meeting someone, to ask if they have any mutual friends, or to show a verif, or verifs, for a short period of time? There are definitely verified profiles, with only self verification, through multiple profiles. Usually guys posing as couples/females. There have been a couple of profiles recently, supposedly from a married woman from Armagh, who appears to spend every other night in a Hotel, looking male company. Those profiles have immediately been verified but the verification hidden. I called 'her' bluff and played along...'she' agreed to meet me but wouldn't ring or text me...I continued to play along..'she' told me the Hotel 'she' was supposedly in.....ok, that's not far from me, I asked 'her' to meet me in the Bar?....no 'she' couldn't risk being seen.....fair enough, I continued to play along.....'she' told me to come to the second floor....ok,I asked what room number?.....no, 'she' says just stamp your foot 3 times and i'll let you in..... Really?
I was only asking for a yes/ no....
Out of curiosity why would you waste your time conversing with someone you thought was fake??
"Sorry, just had came into my head as I replied lol Why? I was bored.....kind of like catching a fish?? I like to see how stupid they think people really are....trouble is, I could honestly see some of the guys on Fab, standing in a Hotel corridor, stamping their feet | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private?? No it doesn't, as long as it's not the dreaded, joined 1 hour ago and received their first verification, which is immediately hidden?? I don't think it unreasonable of anyone, considering meeting someone, to ask if they have any mutual friends, or to show a verif, or verifs, for a short period of time? There are definitely verified profiles, with only self verification, through multiple profiles. Usually guys posing as couples/females. There have been a couple of profiles recently, supposedly from a married woman from Armagh, who appears to spend every other night in a Hotel, looking male company. Those profiles have immediately been verified but the verification hidden. I called 'her' bluff and played along...'she' agreed to meet me but wouldn't ring or text me...I continued to play along..'she' told me the Hotel 'she' was supposedly in.....ok, that's not far from me, I asked 'her' to meet me in the Bar?....no 'she' couldn't risk being seen.....fair enough, I continued to play along.....'she' told me to come to the second floor....ok,I asked what room number?.....no, 'she' says just stamp your foot 3 times and i'll let you in..... Really? "Who was she expecting,red rum?  | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private?? No it doesn't, as long as it's not the dreaded, joined 1 hour ago and received their first verification, which is immediately hidden?? I don't think it unreasonable of anyone, considering meeting someone, to ask if they have any mutual friends, or to show a verif, or verifs, for a short period of time? There are definitely verified profiles, with only self verification, through multiple profiles. Usually guys posing as couples/females. There have been a couple of profiles recently, supposedly from a married woman from Armagh, who appears to spend every other night in a Hotel, looking male company. Those profiles have immediately been verified but the verification hidden. I called 'her' bluff and played along...'she' agreed to meet me but wouldn't ring or text me...I continued to play along..'she' told me the Hotel 'she' was supposedly in.....ok, that's not far from me, I asked 'her' to meet me in the Bar?....no 'she' couldn't risk being seen.....fair enough, I continued to play along.....'she' told me to come to the second floor....ok,I asked what room number?.....no, 'she' says just stamp your foot 3 times and i'll let you in..... Really?
Who was she expecting,red rum? "Red Rum was a Gelding....not much use to her at all  | |||
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"No rational reason why someone would wish to remain unverified, unless they have no intention of meeting and just use Fab for chat and the like. All the privacy shite is just that....shite. I slide on by such people/profiles....it's a Swingers site, get out from behind the computer/phone and meet people. I await the lecture from the 'Private' people.......suck it up.....most of you are fake/dreamers What's unverified to you? Neither photo verified, or verified by others....ie some proof they are who they purport to be. I get contacted frequently by unverified profiles, asking all sorts of questions. I ignore them all and it's amazing how many are 'no longer on site', within a day or two. It's the 6 months and over a year one's that annoy me the most though..... so that doesn't include people that are verified and wish to keep their verifications private?? No it doesn't, as long as it's not the dreaded, joined 1 hour ago and received their first verification, which is immediately hidden?? I don't think it unreasonable of anyone, considering meeting someone, to ask if they have any mutual friends, or to show a verif, or verifs, for a short period of time? There are definitely verified profiles, with only self verification, through multiple profiles. Usually guys posing as couples/females. There have been a couple of profiles recently, supposedly from a married woman from Armagh, who appears to spend every other night in a Hotel, looking male company. Those profiles have immediately been verified but the verification hidden. I called 'her' bluff and played along...'she' agreed to meet me but wouldn't ring or text me...I continued to play along..'she' told me the Hotel 'she' was supposedly in.....ok, that's not far from me, I asked 'her' to meet me in the Bar?....no 'she' couldn't risk being seen.....fair enough, I continued to play along.....'she' told me to come to the second floor....ok,I asked what room number?.....no, 'she' says just stamp your foot 3 times and i'll let you in..... Really?
Who was she expecting,red rum?
Red Rum was a Gelding....not much use to her at all "I'm sure it could still tap its foot,give me a break,I was proud I knew the name of a horse | |||
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"Think the op means to foto verify themselves.which is fair enuff I think.a foto verie means feck all really but if ur here 6 months and not meet verified its the least u cud do" . Well said Hal | |||
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