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"Seen a lot of cpls state....won't take one for the team....and just wondering what this means....is it if you don't fancy them even if your partner dose no way.... or is it their ok but it's gonna be a one off....personally I think this veries from cpl to cpl.....myself I can go with the flow I don't have to want to rip their cloths off can be a bit trickier for hubby for obvious reasons.....would be interested in other cpls views" Woohoo, I'm in there!  | |||
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"We wouldn't use that term but I suppose it means it has to be that all parties are mutually attracted ie:Mrs won't just meet because Mr is attracted to one half of the other couple just to please him.It must be a two way thing " Dislike the term myself.....mutual attraction to the same degree is very hard to find when 4 ppl are involved we find | |||
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"Sorry Michael ....theres no way hubby is gonna do ya no matter how much I want ya" Thank god for that! Phew!  | |||
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"Seen a lot of cpls state....won't take one for the team....and just wondering what this means....is it if you don't fancy them even if your partner dose no way.... or is it their ok but it's gonna be a one off....personally I think this veries from cpl to cpl.....myself I can go with the flow I don't have to want to rip their cloths off can be a bit trickier for hubby for obvious reasons.....would be interested in other cpls views Woohoo, I'm in there! "lol Michael.....you are Fabs definition of optimism 
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"We wouldn't use that term but I suppose it means it has to be that all parties are mutually attracted ie:Mrs won't just meet because Mr is attracted to one half of the other couple just to please him.It must be a two way thing Dislike the term myself.....mutual attraction to the same degree is very hard to find when 4 ppl are involved we find" Even harder when it's 6   | |||
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"We wouldn't use that term but I suppose it means it has to be that all parties are mutually attracted ie:Mrs won't just meet because Mr is attracted to one half of the other couple just to please him.It must be a two way thing Dislike the term myself.....mutual attraction to the same degree is very hard to find when 4 ppl are involved we find Even harder when it's 6 " I find five is a much more workable number myself..... | |||
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"For us if Mr is attracted to the female half he lets me have final say if we will or not, as I'd be playing with both. There's been times when we have liked people and the other hasn't but wouldn't meet as it wouldn't be fair on the other ifthere was no attraction" Same here as I play with both also....but I must say it dose have a influence on my decision if Mr is very attracted to the lady | |||
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"I apologise for butting in as well. I should be watching this one from the sidelines. "Butting?? Unfortunate choice of words there michael | |||
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"For us if Mr is attracted to the female half he lets me have final say if we will or not, as I'd be playing with both. There's been times when we have liked people and the other hasn't but wouldn't meet as it wouldn't be fair on the other ifthere was no attraction Same here as I play with both also....but I must say it dose have a influence on my decision if Mr is very attracted to the lady" I admit I'm the same but Mr knows when I'm not attracted at all and even though I offered once he refused as it wasn't fair on me. | |||
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"Poor Dark has,he will kill me for posting this lol. But it was his choice ,we all have a choice. Me,not a hope. But for us it's about sex,not a beauty contest. Roxy "A poor dark....for us too it's not about looks.....finding someone sexually attractive is not as simple as that | |||
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"For us if Mr is attracted to the female half he lets me have final say if we will or not, as I'd be playing with both. There's been times when we have liked people and the other hasn't but wouldn't meet as it wouldn't be fair on the other ifthere was no attraction Same here as I play with both also....but I must say it dose have a influence on my decision if Mr is very attracted to the lady I admit I'm the same but Mr knows when I'm not attracted at all and even though I offered once he refused as it wasn't fair on me." He sounds like a very nice guy | |||
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"Poor Dark has,he will kill me for posting this lol. But it was his choice ,we all have a choice. Me,not a hope. But for us it's about sex,not a beauty contest. Roxy
A poor dark....for us too it's not about looks.....finding someone sexually attractive is not as simple as that"hot tubs are a great place to find that attraction | |||
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"Poor Dark has,he will kill me for posting this lol. But it was his choice ,we all have a choice. Me,not a hope. But for us it's about sex,not a beauty contest. Roxy
A poor dark....for us too it's not about looks.....finding someone sexually attractive is not as simple as that hot tubs are a great place to find that attraction "Depends whose in it with you lol | |||
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"I know in group fun scenarios people might play with someone they ordinarily wouldn't be attracted to as the buzz is different but nobody should feel like they need to 'take one for the team'. Life isn't always straight forward though and people do things for many reasons " In a equal and long term relationship one person may want to rather then feel they should.....and your right about group play....that's what makes it such fun | |||
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"I know in group fun scenarios people might play with someone they ordinarily wouldn't be attracted to as the buzz is different but nobody should feel like they need to 'take one for the team'. Life isn't always straight forward though and people do things for many reasons In a equal and long term relationship one person may want to rather then feel they should.....and your right about group play....that's what makes it such fun " Good point. 'Wanting' to in that scenario is a sure sign of someone loving their partner and wanting them to be happy. There's also the extra buzz of watching their partner having fun too.  | |||
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"Seen a lot of cpls state....won't take one for the team....and just wondering what this means....is it if you don't fancy them even if your partner dose no way.... or is it their ok but it's gonna be a one off....personally I think this veries from cpl to cpl.....myself I can go with the flow I don't have to want to rip their cloths off can be a bit trickier for hubby for obvious reasons.....would be interested in other cpls views" I had it on our profile but took it off and loads more as probably a bit brutal...to us it means...if i pink am happy with the mr and the fem and my mr isnt happy with the fem then if he went through with it he'd be taking one for the team...as he wouldnt want to spoil my fun.... | |||
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"Seen a lot of cpls state....won't take one for the team....and just wondering what this means....is it if you don't fancy them even if your partner dose no way.... or is it their ok but it's gonna be a one off....personally I think this veries from cpl to cpl.....myself I can go with the flow I don't have to want to rip their cloths off can be a bit trickier for hubby for obvious reasons.....would be interested in other cpls views I had it on our profile but took it off and loads more as probably a bit brutal...to us it means...if i pink am happy with the mr and the fem and my mr isnt happy with the fem then if he went through with it he'd be taking one for the team...as he wouldnt want to spoil my fun.... "Well now what a generous man you have there lol | |||
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"Seen a lot of cpls state....won't take one for the team....and just wondering what this means....is it if you don't fancy them even if your partner dose no way.... or is it their ok but it's gonna be a one off....personally I think this veries from cpl to cpl.....myself I can go with the flow I don't have to want to rip their cloths off can be a bit trickier for hubby for obvious reasons.....would be interested in other cpls views I had it on our profile but took it off and loads more as probably a bit brutal...to us it means...if i pink am happy with the mr and the fem and my mr isnt happy with the fem then if he went through with it he'd be taking one for the team...as he wouldnt want to spoil my fun....
Well now what a generous man you have there lol"lol...he is indeed...im just plain greedy...3 sexy peeps all to myself!! | |||
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