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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before I start this isn't a nasty rant.

Last night was chatting to someone who just said I was married because I cannot accommodate. Is this the general assumption the ladies make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, i don't even care why the people i chat to can't accomodate, if we get on and wanna meet all i wanna know is wich hotel are we going to!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I certainly would not assume your married if you can't accommodate.

Plenty reasons people won't accommodate for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is fairly standard for lot of single guys they can't accom because the wife is at home lol but honest guys get caught up in it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I start this isn't a nasty rant.

Last night was chatting to someone who just said I was married because I cannot accommodate. Is this the general assumption the ladies make?

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It seems to be, however I think it is wiser not to accomodate as I don't want strangers knowing where I live, just cos you meet someone once doesn't mean you know them at all.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I think in the majority of cases it is...

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Younger guys prob house share.alot of older guys smart enough not to invite strangers to their house or hav kids

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm more bothered by guys who say they can accommodate but if you plan to meet them there is always some flimsy excuse why they can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more bothered by guys who say they can accommodate but if you plan to meet them there is always some flimsy excuse why they can't "

Hey open, ltns

I do think guys get the raw end of the stick on this. It seems to be perfectly acceptable for a woman not to be able to accommodate, yet men are assumed to be married

Surely if you suspect a guy may be married its simple to ask rather then just assume?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im free and single live alone and can acc like i said before it annoys me when ladys say they can travel and den they dont.I dont meet attached or married ladys just to much hardwork to arrange meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad it isn't the norm. Maybe it's cause I'm ugly that people won't meet me lol.

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm more bothered by guys who say they can accommodate but if you plan to meet them there is always some flimsy excuse why they can't

Hey open, ltns

I do think guys get the raw end of the stick on this. It seems to be perfectly acceptable for a woman not to be able to accommodate, yet men are assumed to be married

Surely if you suspect a guy may be married its simple to ask rather then just assume?"

I've no problem with a guy being upfront about not being able at accommodate. A lot of people have their reasons for not accommodating. I do ask guys if they are single etc. Most are honest but sometimes you get guys telling you they are single and can accommodate no problem but when you plan to meet up, then all of a sudden their sister/brother/best friends auntie etc has suddenly arrived unexpectedly to stay. However it's ok, they can get out for half an hour to meet you in the local deserted car park!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more bothered by guys who say they can accommodate but if you plan to meet them there is always some flimsy excuse why they can't

Hey open, ltns

I do think guys get the raw end of the stick on this. It seems to be perfectly acceptable for a woman not to be able to accommodate, yet men are assumed to be married

Surely if you suspect a guy may be married its simple to ask rather then just assume?

I've no problem with a guy being upfront about not being able at accommodate. A lot of people have their reasons for not accommodating. I do ask guys if they are single etc. Most are honest but sometimes you get guys telling you they are single and can accommodate no problem but when you plan to meet up, then all of a sudden their sister/brother/best friends auntie etc has suddenly arrived unexpectedly to stay. However it's ok, they can get out for half an hour to meet you in the local deserted car park! "

Classy

Reminds me of the post in the lounge yesterday. Guy posting how he shagged his mates best friend up against a supermarket wall lol

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm single and live alone so I have accommodated in the past. I'm fussy about who I would accommodate and would arrange to meet in a bar or something first. There are risks in everything you just have to minimise them to what you're comfortable with. There would also be a risk if I met some randomer in a bar some weekend and brought her home for a d*unken shag (note to self, not done that in ages, rectify asap )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I start this isn't a nasty rant.

Last night was chatting to someone who just said I was married because I cannot accommodate. Is this the general assumption the ladies make?

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I don't think people assume that...we certainly don't. A lot of people, single and cpls choose not to have swing friends to their home. I think its perfectly reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky when it comes to accommodating. It's a huge risk.

I have been accused of being fake, timewaster, married and everything because I didn't want to accommodate or even worse I didn't let them come to my place straight away without ever having met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't be arsed hoovering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can't be arsed hoovering."

I went to this guy's place - he was hot and I was about to devour him - until we arrived there and it was such a filthy, messy, gruesome place... I lost all my appetite.. for everything. I didn't even want to lean against a wall for a fuck, it was just manky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can't be arsed hoovering.

I went to this guy's place - he was hot and I was about to devour him - until we arrived there and it was such a filthy, messy, gruesome place... I lost all my appetite.. for everything. I didn't even want to lean against a wall for a fuck, it was just manky. "

Yeah but that's the extreme, like. Me being a week behind in the hoovering doesn't equate to that.

On 'another site' there was the same sort of bloke; nicely spoken in the chat rooms; witty profile; spoken about nicely by the ladies whom he'd travelled to see; all unravelled when he took someone back to his. Slums of India didn't have a patch on this guy's house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can't be arsed hoovering."

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By *ohngillerMan
over a year ago

Near Town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married ... so yeah that's the reason for me... but I wouldn't assume when reading another profile ...

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

ladies you are safer meeting a guy for the first time in s hotel. Because there's a paper trail if something should go wrong Always think safety. And for that reason some guys won't use Hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ladies you are safer meeting a guy for the first time in s hotel. Because there's a paper trail if something should go wrong Always think safety. And for that reason some guys won't use Hotels "
... well said...

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

People are house sharing a lot more these days and well into their thirties - even forties, so it's kind of a different climate IMO

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway


"ladies you are safer meeting a guy for the first time in s hotel. Because there's a paper trail if something should go wrong Always think safety. And for that reason some guys won't use Hotels ... well said... "
Thanks Ulpia

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"ladies you are safer meeting a guy for the first time in s hotel. Because there's a paper trail if something should go wrong Always think safety. And for that reason some guys won't use Hotels "

Oddly enough the reason I won't meet single guys in hotels is partly safety but more because the buggers often don't turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more bothered by guys who say they can accommodate but if you plan to meet them there is always some flimsy excuse why they can't

Hey open, ltns

I do think guys get the raw end of the stick on this. It seems to be perfectly acceptable for a woman not to be able to accommodate, yet men are assumed to be married

Surely if you suspect a guy may be married its simple to ask rather then just assume?"

wise words!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"ladies you are safer meeting a guy for the first time in s hotel. Because there's a paper trail if something should go wrong Always think safety. And for that reason some guys won't use Hotels

Oddly enough the reason I won't meet single guys in hotels is partly safety but more because the buggers often don't turn up!"

get them to book the hotel then its up to u to turn up

unless ur very friendly with someone here i think its mad bring them home plus in a hotel u don't have to worry about changing the sheets or cleaning up or the neighbours well that is of course if its not the middle of the night and security ask to keep the noise down

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Hotels are definitely best, means that if they turn out to be a nutter/stalker etc they don't know where you live! Although in the past I've ended up sitting in a hotel room by myself and having the pleasure of paying for it. So now my rule is, I'm happy to split costs but I'm not booking anything on my card!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"ladies you are safer meeting a guy for the first time in s hotel. Because there's a paper trail if something should go wrong Always think safety. And for that reason some guys won't use Hotels

Oddly enough the reason I won't meet single guys in hotels is partly safety but more because the buggers often don't turn up!

get them to book the hotel then its up to u to turn up

unless ur very friendly with someone here i think its mad bring them home plus in a hotel u don't have to worry about changing the sheets or cleaning up or the neighbours well that is of course if its not the middle of the night and security ask to keep the noise down "

We can agree to disagree. I of course have had little experience of keeping myself safe and getting to meet single guys

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

Girls you should always use hotel s It's crazy bringing a total stranger to your home It also gives you an escape clause if there is something that you don't like. I always book room if you are a gent you won't ask for anything for your meet Always Play safe

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Wen I say I can accommodate I mean to a hotel don't think I'd like people comin to my house unless I knew them a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad it isn't the norm. Maybe it's cause I'm ugly that people won't meet me lol. "

I do assume men in there 40s 50s are married if they can't accom,,if they are still at home at that age serious turn off !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad it isn't the norm. Maybe it's cause I'm ugly that people won't meet me lol.

I do assume men in there 40s 50s are married if they can't accom,,if they are still at home at that age serious turn off !!! "

is it ok if my mother still does some washing? (jk)

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway


"Glad it isn't the norm. Maybe it's cause I'm ugly that people won't meet me lol.

I do assume men in there 40s 50s are married if they can't accom,,if they are still at home at that age serious turn off !!! "
Some guy's are for sure Don't tar all men with one brush. I always treat ladies with respect It's the only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad it isn't the norm. Maybe it's cause I'm ugly that people won't meet me lol.

I do assume men in there 40s 50s are married if they can't accom,,if they are still at home at that age serious turn off !!! Some guy's are for sure Don't tar all men with one brush. I always treat ladies with respect It's the only way "

what's wrong with being married if you are up front about it?

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