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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey All

Now I'm not having a go at anyone or any group of people.

I'm new here about a week. I have literally just been granted access to the forums hence the post now.

But i have found myself a little intimated I must admit.

Now I'm s big boy and can take rejection / criticism etc bug find the atmosphere sometimes a little hostile.

Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Maybe it's because I'm new .. I'm not sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way? Sorry, maybe i am not understanding well!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

You need to be more specific..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey All

Now I'm not having a go at anyone or any group of people.

I'm new here about a week. I have literally just been granted access to the forums hence the post now.

But i have found myself a little intimated I must admit.

Now I'm s big boy and can take rejection / criticism etc bug find the atmosphere sometimes a little hostile.

Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Maybe it's because I'm new .. I'm not sure.."
think people can be very sarcastic and even rude at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just in replies on the forums. . Not aimed at me but in general.

I have received some rude mails but I understand you'll get that.

Maybe it's sarcasm I don't know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things do get heated sometimes but i think it can be normal as we are all humans and get a bit annoyed , not saying is right, about the pm well try and don't let it bother you, no need for rude or nasty messages x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose as I'm returning I had this image of it being great.. but obviously forgot the nor so nice experiences. .

It's probably just me being a bit timid I suppose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Gaz....the forum is a great place to have a laugh! You gotta be thick skinned here too tho...but i think the most of the "usuals" who post here mean no harm and just like a bit of banter....Also i think sometimes people can be misinterpreted through text,heated or sarcastic....no that's just mick Mc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey Gaz....the forum is a great place to have a laugh! You gotta be thick skinned here too tho...but i think the most of the "usuals" who post here mean no harm and just like a bit of banter....Also i think sometimes people can be misinterpreted through text,heated or sarcastic....no that's just mick Mc lol

Ah no I understand and thanks for all the replies I was just a little overwhelmed I suppose. Maybe I'm just a little sensitive

I'll have to grow thicker skin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

It's probably going to fall off at this stage

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I suppose as I'm returning I had this image of it being great.. but obviously forgot the nor so nice experiences. .

It's probably just me being a bit timid I suppose..."

Big hug and enjoy ,..... and develop skin like a rhino

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose as I'm returning I had this image of it being great.. but obviously forgot the nor so nice experiences. .

It's probably just me being a bit timid I suppose...

Big hug and enjoy ,..... and develop skin like a rhino

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

Just need to learn to ignore the bitching. The genuine one's make this place fun and worth it. Relax and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaz you will grown thicker skin, i was a bit like you, and it does get better, keep posting and block those who are not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

It's probably going to fall off at this stage

Welcome to the forums

We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmm.....thick skinnnnnnnnnnn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to read that twice, thought it was a foreskin like a rhino ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

It's probably going to fall off at this stage

Welcome to the forums

We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever

I'll bear that in mind lol

But I still think I may wear a cup

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

It's probably going to fall off at this stage

Welcome to the forums

We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever

No but you do a Quare head lock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just head butted them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gaz you will grown thicker skin, i was a bit like you, and it does get better, keep posting and block those who are not nice

xx"

Thanks for the advice and the other guys and you are right..

I must be having an emotional night

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Mmmmmmmm.....thick skinnnnnnnnnnn lol "

Simmer

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"Lol

Just need to learn to ignore the bitching. The genuine one's make this place fun and worth it. Relax and enjoy.

Don't lie...It's the bitching that make it fun!!!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Had to read that twice, thought it was a foreskin like a rhino ! Lol "

That's an optional extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

It's probably going to fall off at this stage

Welcome to the forums

We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever

No but you do a Quare head lock

Watch it sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty naughty Kim, Ha ha. Would never dream of getting invoved....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just head butted them "

Omg people are going to start believing this soon

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.

It's probably going to fall off at this stage

Welcome to the forums

We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever

No but you do a Quare head lock

Watch it sunshine

I thought it was a moon

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Lol

Just need to learn to ignore the bitching. The genuine one's make this place fun and worth it. Relax and enjoy.

Don't lie...It's the bitching that make it fun!!!

Fun ?? When did this start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gaz you will grown thicker skin, i was a bit like you, and it does get better, keep posting and block those who are not nice

Thanks for the advice and the other guys and you are right..

I must be having an emotional night

Is not that bad lol. ... We are all a pretty friendly bunch . Well most lol. .. Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "
aww foxie don't as my mum used say feck the bergrudgers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "

Bitching on here really? Next ya will be saying the cliques!!!!!.

Good to see ya back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "

Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry guys its not worth the effort... have fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...

Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great. "

The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world..

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...

Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.

The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world.."
that's a shame roxie so many people have taken a back seat in the forums lately.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago.

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Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled

The place is a joke

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago.

Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled

The place is a joke "

. Thanks, I have a very nice lad, or did I read that wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand that the forum can come across as intimidating. Some people know each other or others have been on the forums for a while and it looks like one big gang. Then there are the shit stirrers and the ones who wait for the shit stirrers to start so they can have a good go too lol

Remember it's all just an online thing, it's not actually real. Just have fun and when the shit hits the fan, duck!

You're probably best off not to post any complaining threads about not getting any meets or how rude all the women are.... that won't help haha

Best of luck and welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the forum is like finding a bunch of teenagers who just learned how to use the internet yesterday.

Don't worry too much about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome OP...

Now, thats all the girls on their besh behavior.. nice welcoming tones and friendly bunch...

Just you wait till theyre all on their periods m8.. fuckin hell... dont look at them the wrong way on here.. theyre like wild bunch of hyenas.. rip ya to bits they would !!

Anyhow, welcome, grow a thick skin, youll be loved one day, hated the next, dont say anything too controversial, remember, the walls have eyes... and ears.. and sometimes a big boot that kick yas out of Forums

May your stay be long and a happy one

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago.

Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled

The place is a joke "

i bet u say that to all the guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes the forum is like finding a bunch of teenagers who just learned how to use the internet yesterday.

Don't worry too much about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you. When you're an outsider looking in their is peeps here who I would not meet due to their rudeness or been unpleasant to others.Everyone has a right to post here yet regular forum users will make unnecessary comment on threads to stir a reaction.

No surprise why there are time outs and bans!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome OP...

Now, thats all the girls on their besh behavior.. nice welcoming tones and friendly bunch...

Just you wait till theyre all on their periods m8.. fuckin hell... dont look at them the wrong way on here.. theyre like wild bunch of hyenas.. rip ya to bits they would !!

May your stay be long and a happy one

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

The forums are not an accurate representation of the site anyway, sure it is only a small percentage of people that even post on them, the rest are lurkers.

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

The forums are not an accurate representation of the site anyway, sure it is only a small percentage of people that even post on them, the rest are lurkers."

I'm a lurker

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

The forums are not an accurate representation of the site anyway, sure it is only a small percentage of people that even post on them, the rest are lurkers.

I'm a lurker

Do you look a bit like a greyhound?

Oh wait, is that a lurcher?

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...

Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.

The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world.."

I thought this was the real world!!

Like real life the forums have their good n bad times but overall its more good than bad I reckon. But I agree with Letme......we do miss the posters who were more active on here with positive/informative/entertaining/witty posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago.

Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled

The place is a joke "

Once again finding myself agreeing with Letme....... I won't embarrass you Michael lol....but will just say he is sound out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it

There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react

Spot on

and take responsibility for their reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw OP....welcum aboard

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Lots read buy don't post.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...

Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.

The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world..

I thought this was the real world!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Btw OP....welcum aboard

Thanks and thanks to all for the replies. Very much appreciated.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago.

Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled

The place is a joke

Once again finding myself agreeing with Letme....... I won't embarrass you Michael lol....but will just say he is sound out

Yip one of the good guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey All

Now I'm not having a go at anyone or any group of people.

I'm new here about a week. I have literally just been granted access to the forums hence the post now.

But i have found myself a little intimated I must admit.

Now I'm s big boy and can take rejection / criticism etc bug find the atmosphere sometimes a little hostile.

Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Maybe it's because I'm new .. I'm not sure.."

I will hold your hand lol...honestly...its not that scary...a thick skin...hell yessss...but as some above have said...it isnt the real world so if it gets bit much just have a break...i just lept into the forums and its great fun and a good way to meet people and tbh the laughs i have on here outway the negatives!!

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