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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if any couples are finding it hard to find other couples that they both find attractive and want to play with...maybe we are to fussy...also can be hard to find experienced swinging couples...thats who we would rather play with...

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Just wondering if any couples are finding it hard to find other couples that they both find attractive and want to play with...maybe we are to fussy...also can be hard to find experienced swinging couples...thats who we would rather play with... "
I'm exactly the same there's always one I'm just not into taught it was jus me been a fussy wierdo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering if any couples are finding it hard to find other couples that they both find attractive and want to play with...maybe we are to fussy...also can be hard to find experienced swinging couples...thats who we would rather play with... I'm exactly the same there's always one I'm just not into taught it was jus me been a fussy wierdo "

lol..its a nightmare...as we both have to be happy so limits our options...and we hate to take one for the team..weve done it before and wasnt good lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only imagine how hard it is for a couple. I'm very picky on my own, now multiply this by 2, different kinks etc.... good luck to you!!

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Haha he's not that fussy at all he does be like ah go on jus suck it up u will be grand once ya get into it ha I jus can't I hav to like both of them iv only met one couple so far from here wer I actually liked both of them

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

We are finding it quite difficult to find couples that there is a mutual attraction from all sides with too.

I think I probably am quite fussy.......

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah two people looking is hard...my mr is probably more fussy...but he does say sure its only sex..so enjoy it...i normally end up liking one more than the other which is worse being a bi fem as i will normally be playing with both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no harm in being fussy

I'm like sweet , I'd rather go without then drop my standards so to get four people together to play must be a logistical nightmare

I think it's easier for swinging couples in the UK where there are so many clubs to go to. It must be easier to be able to meet many couples at once to be able to sort out who you click with

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I'd be more fussy towards the female as I tend to want to play with her more than the male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no harm in being fussy

I'm like sweet , I'd rather go without then drop my standards so to get four people together to play must be a logistical nightmare

I think it's easier for swinging couples in the UK where there are so many clubs to go to. It must be easier to be able to meet many couples at once to be able to sort out who you click with"

Yes thats very true..and your right why do it for the sake of it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be more fussy towards the female as I tend to want to play with her more than the male "

Same...very few females ive really been attracted to im very fussy with females...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to try meeting couples again as a couple but it is such a minefield I dont think I could be bothered lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no harm in being fussy

I'm like sweet , I'd rather go without then drop my standards so to get four people together to play must be a logistical nightmare

I think it's easier for swinging couples in the UK where there are so many clubs to go to. It must be easier to be able to meet many couples at once to be able to sort out who you click with"

Deffo, we need more clubs here, not ones that are miles away from me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to try meeting couples again as a couple but it is such a minefield I dont think I could be bothered lol."

Starting to loose hope ourselves...with the exception of a few we cant wait to meet...thats about it lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone of the idea of meets altogether right now, prefer a party setting, then can see who we like and if anyone likes us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've gone of the idea of meets altogether right now, prefer a party setting, then can see who we like and if anyone likes us."

Weve done a few parties...but mr prefers one-on-ones...they are hard to beat lol...

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By *aptivating2Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just wondering if any couples are finding it hard to find other couples that they both find attractive and want to play with...maybe we are to fussy...also can be hard to find experienced swinging couples...thats who we would rather play with... "

Keep being fussy

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We also find it difficult to find cpls were both attracted to and the fact were both bi curious makes it even worse, The few cpls we have clicked with are so far away it just gets so frustrating at times but think every cpl are in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering if any couples are finding it hard to find other couples that they both find attractive and want to play with...maybe we are to fussy...also can be hard to find experienced swinging couples...thats who we would rather play with...

Keep being fussy "

lol....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We also find it difficult to find cpls were both attracted to and the fact were both bi curious makes it even worse, The few cpls we have clicked with are so far away it just gets so frustrating at times but think every cpl are in the same boat "

I think we have it worse than blokes lol...its dam hard work...

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

could not agree more i think being part of a cpl is a nightmare when it comes to swinging.....and that is one of the reasons we like a party...we dont always play as a cpl at a party so we usually end up finding someone to suit each of us......its very unusual for both of us to like both of them.....but when it happens its great

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I'd be more fussy towards the female as I tend to want to play with her more than the male

Same...very few females ive really been attracted to im very fussy with females... "
ye I'm the same taught it was jus me least I'm not alone ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"could not agree more i think being part of a cpl is a nightmare when it comes to swinging.....and that is one of the reasons we like a party...we dont always play as a cpl at a party so we usually end up finding someone to suit each of us......its very unusual for both of us to like both of them.....but when it happens its great"

Enjoying the swinging ride together is very great thing indeed...but if you find people at parties then whats the harm...if everyones happy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could not agree more i think being part of a cpl is a nightmare when it comes to swinging.....and that is one of the reasons we like a party...we dont always play as a cpl at a party so we usually end up finding someone to suit each of us......its very unusual for both of us to like both of them.....but when it happens its great"

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"could not agree more i think being part of a cpl is a nightmare when it comes to swinging.....and that is one of the reasons we like a party...we dont always play as a cpl at a party so we usually end up finding someone to suit each of us......its very unusual for both of us to like both of them.....but when it happens its great

Enjoying the swinging ride together is very great thing indeed...but if you find people at parties then whats the harm...if everyones happy.... "

both being happy is what its all about......but even at a party you can still work it that your both within eye or ear shot and for us seeing each other is the fun bit.....were pervee like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more fussy towards the female as I tend to want to play with her more than the male

Same...very few females ive really been attracted to im very fussy with females... "

This is why I won't be turning to the dark side. I find nothing sexually attractive about women. Where as men, there is usually something

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

No fun what so ever in "taking one for the team"

so l guess we are a fussy bunch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes daviet seeing each other getting turned on is one of the reasons we joined nothing beats it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be more fussy towards the female as I tend to want to play with her more than the male

Same...very few females ive really been attracted to im very fussy with females...

This is why I won't be turning to the dark side. I find nothing sexually attractive about women. Where as men, there is usually something "

lol..nippy i was just saying recently that when i joined i was really bi but...im learning being with other men is even better...my mr prefers to see me with other men which is probably odd lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No fun what so ever in "taking one for the team"

so l guess we are a fussy bunch lol"

It sure isnt....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem."

very true...we are not all looks based fussy wise its so much more...and arrogance is horrible ive no time for it...the im better attitude not nice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem."

Up their own arse couples are a pet hate of ours too. It is necessary to be fussy as hell here though (and we are) but its possible to do it without acting as though you're above everyone else. Arrogance is not sexy....

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem.

Up their own arse couples are a pet hate of ours too. It is necessary to be fussy as hell here though (and we are) but its possible to do it without acting as though you're above everyone else. Arrogance is not sexy.... "

Well said

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem.

Up their own arse couples are a pet hate of ours too. It is necessary to be fussy as hell here though (and we are) but its possible to do it without acting as though you're above everyone else. Arrogance is not sexy.... "
iv yet to talk to a couple like that only only seem to come across ones that can't hold a conversation for at least three messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem.

Up their own arse couples are a pet hate of ours too. It is necessary to be fussy as hell here though (and we are) but its possible to do it without acting as though you're above everyone else. Arrogance is not sexy....

Well said "

So true, which is another reason we are put off meeting couples, ones who go on about how sexy they and how you will have the time of your life if you meet them on their profiles, I mean, who really thinks like that apart from arseholes! Confidence is sexy, thinking you are god's gift really isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem.

Up their own arse couples are a pet hate of ours too. It is necessary to be fussy as hell here though (and we are) but its possible to do it without acting as though you're above everyone else. Arrogance is not sexy.... iv yet to talk to a couple like that only only seem to come across ones that can't hold a conversation for at least three messages "

Or its going nowhere fast lol...!!

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"We have been very lucky,however Dark did take a hit for the team once,so not worth it. However,there are some couples so far up their own ass,"anal must not be a problem" are on here to boost their ego,it would seem.

Up their own arse couples are a pet hate of ours too. It is necessary to be fussy as hell here though (and we are) but its possible to do it without acting as though you're above everyone else. Arrogance is not sexy.... iv yet to talk to a couple like that only only seem to come across ones that can't hold a conversation for at least three messages

Or its going nowhere fast lol...!! "
haha exactly over before it even started

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron

This is one of the reasons G and I are on here as singles, because we couldn't find compatibility as a couple with other couples..

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


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So true, which is another reason we are put off meeting couples, ones who go on about how sexy they and how you will have the time of your life if you meet them on their profiles, I mean, who really thinks like that apart from arseholes! Confidence is sexy, thinking you are god's gift really isn't."

This is a major turn off for us too...... If you need to go in about how sexy and great you are then you're not for us.

Or the endless lists on profiles which are more like a list of demands....... Immediate turn off.

We are all here to meet nice, confident, outgoing fun people.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons G and I are on here as singles, because we couldn't find compatibility as a couple with other couples.."

Yeah...i know...you were saying about that...can understand now why people maybe do go down that route...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May as well throw our tuppence worth in here...

Looks are the last thing we would be looking for when deciding to meet anyone off here.. hence why all our friends are ugly fuckers

Attraction to us is sitting having a laff over a drink and a good chat, and loads of craic... even before we think of jumping into bed with them.. knowing that we all get on, and are comfortable with the other people and actually like them, thats when we know theres an "attraction"

If we click at this first stage. then it really doesnt matter to us if someones classed as "beautiful" or "attractive" or "sexy".. the list goes on..

Real beauty comes from somewhere inside that shines through no matter what the outward appearance is..

If we ever start judging anyone on looks, someone kill us please xxx

oh.. ps... we really do actually know a lot of "Good Looking" swingers from this site, but.. they know us.. they aint gonna get their egos massaged lol))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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So true, which is another reason we are put off meeting couples, ones who go on about how sexy they and how you will have the time of your life if you meet them on their profiles, I mean, who really thinks like that apart from arseholes! Confidence is sexy, thinking you are god's gift really isn't.

This is a major turn off for us too...... If you need to go in about how sexy and great you are then you're not for us.

Or the endless lists on profiles which are more like a list of demands....... Immediate turn off.

We are all here to meet nice, confident, outgoing fun people.

Miss Mcjoy "

Yea I know! Ive had messages in the past from couples laying out rules and regulattions of meets before even asking if Im interested in them, then they complain that people wont meet them, no bloody wonder, scared me off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So true, which is another reason we are put off meeting couples, ones who go on about how sexy they and how you will have the time of your life if you meet them on their profiles, I mean, who really thinks like that apart from arseholes! Confidence is sexy, thinking you are god's gift really isn't.

This is a major turn off for us too...... If you need to go in about how sexy and great you are then you're not for us.

Or the endless lists on profiles which are more like a list of demands....... Immediate turn off.

We are all here to meet nice, confident, outgoing fun people.

Miss Mcjoy

Yea I know! Ive had messages in the past from couples laying out rules and regulattions of meets before even asking if Im interested in them, then they complain that people wont meet them, no bloody wonder, scared me off!"

Lol...ive just binned half my profile now...incase we came across scary...its starts off short and ends up like a manual...

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


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So true, which is another reason we are put off meeting couples, ones who go on about how sexy they and how you will have the time of your life if you meet them on their profiles, I mean, who really thinks like that apart from arseholes! Confidence is sexy, thinking you are god's gift really isn't.

This is a major turn off for us too...... If you need to go in about how sexy and great you are then you're not for us.

Or the endless lists on profiles which are more like a list of demands....... Immediate turn off.

We are all here to meet nice, confident, outgoing fun people.

Miss Mcjoy

Yea I know! Ive had messages in the past from couples laying out rules and regulattions of meets before even asking if Im interested in them, then they complain that people wont meet them, no bloody wonder, scared me off!"

I know!! It's just ridiculous........ Obviously there needs to be a physical attraction but you could be gods gift to look at and all that nonsense is just so off putting that we wouldn't even dream of a meet.

Have only had rules laid out to us in messages once and needless to say we were less than interested in even continuing a conversation with the person.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"

So true, which is another reason we are put off meeting couples, ones who go on about how sexy they and how you will have the time of your life if you meet them on their profiles, I mean, who really thinks like that apart from arseholes! Confidence is sexy, thinking you are god's gift really isn't.

This is a major turn off for us too...... If you need to go in about how sexy and great you are then you're not for us.

Or the endless lists on profiles which are more like a list of demands....... Immediate turn off.

We are all here to meet nice, confident, outgoing fun people.

Miss Mcjoy

Yea I know! Ive had messages in the past from couples laying out rules and regulattions of meets before even asking if Im interested in them, then they complain that people wont meet them, no bloody wonder, scared me off!

Lol...ive just binned half my profile now...incase we came across scary...its starts off short and ends up like a manual... "

Nothing off putting on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive deleted most of it...aww thanks was wanting to do it anyway...easier to read...and does what it needs to...

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Ive deleted most of it...aww thanks was wanting to do it anyway...easier to read...and does what it needs to... "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"could not agree more i think being part of a cpl is a nightmare when it comes to swinging.....and that is one of the reasons we like a party...we dont always play as a cpl at a party so we usually end up finding someone to suit each of us......its very unusual for both of us to like both of them.....but when it happens its great

Enjoying the swinging ride together is very great thing indeed...but if you find people at parties then whats the harm...if everyones happy....

both being happy is what its all about......but even at a party you can still work it that your both within eye or ear shot and for us seeing each other is the fun bit.....were pervee like that lol"

this is why even at a party we love to play together as its just so good seeing one another been pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May as well throw our tuppence worth in here...

Looks are the last thing we would be looking for when deciding to meet anyone off here.. hence why all our friends are ugly fuckers

Attraction to us is sitting having a laff over a drink and a good chat, and loads of craic... even before we think of jumping into bed with them.. knowing that we all get on, and are comfortable with the other people and actually like them, thats when we know theres an "attraction"

If we click at this first stage. then it really doesnt matter to us if someones classed as "beautiful" or "attractive" or "sexy".. the list goes on..

Real beauty comes from somewhere inside that shines through no matter what the outward appearance is..

If we ever start judging anyone on looks, someone kill us please xxx

oh.. ps... we really do actually know a lot of "Good Looking" swingers from this site, but.. they know us.. they aint gonna get their egos massaged lol))"

did you just get blanked or what??? lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doh !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"May as well throw our tuppence worth in here...

Looks are the last thing we would be looking for when deciding to meet anyone off here.. hence why all our friends are ugly fuckers

Attraction to us is sitting having a laff over a drink and a good chat, and loads of craic... even before we think of jumping into bed with them.. knowing that we all get on, and are comfortable with the other people and actually like them, thats when we know theres an "attraction"

If we click at this first stage. then it really doesnt matter to us if someones classed as "beautiful" or "attractive" or "sexy".. the list goes on..

Real beauty comes from somewhere inside that shines through no matter what the outward appearance is..

If we ever start judging anyone on looks, someone kill us please xxx

oh.. ps... we really do actually know a lot of "Good Looking" swingers from this site, but.. they know us.. they aint gonna get their egos massaged lol))

did you just get blanked or what??? lmao"

Yes it sure isnt all looks based...not with us anyway....ok an attraction helps but a mutual connection is just as great...then the fun can really begin....yum yum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With ya on that one orgasmic maybe were to fussy aswell.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With ya on that one orgasmic maybe were to fussy aswell.x"

Lol...all us fussy folk should get together haha...

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"With ya on that one orgasmic maybe were to fussy aswell.x

Lol...all us fussy folk should get together haha... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i be real honest here..

now, before i say this, im not tarring everyone with the same brush.. im only talking of experience here.. and for those who we dont know on this "fussy" thread... this isnt amied at any of you... please dont take personal anyone

ok... so, the "fussy" "choosy" "picky" or "up to their standards" people who we have met.... reading their comments and profile, we thought that they were gonna be the most outstanding beautiful people in the world ever... then...

when we met them at m&g or parties..

holy fuck.. they were some of the most "ugliest fuckers" on Fab... ( now thats on the basis of judging on looks )

so.. anyhow, my point is on this whole thing .. is... if your gonna set yourself "high standards" then, by fuck, you better be pretty damn good lookin when u meet others.. or.. it really will be one big dissapointment

i just wonder what kind of mirrors some people from Fab have in their houses, cus, they need a good reality check if they think theyre "stunning"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm taking all the mirrors out of my house lol

Devils advocate...yes there has to be a physical attraction, to make you 'want' to meet someone but there also has to be a connection when you meet. I've met people, that I wouldn't say I was immediately attracted to and I doubt they were attracted to me but we've clicked and had some great fun together.

I've rarely heard of couples meeting, where there hasn't had to be some form of compromise, as in one maybe being keener than the other but as long as this is managed and isn't always to the favour of one, over the other, there's nothing wrong with that.

Each to their own, it's not dissimilar to having age limits, some don't have any and some set very narrow parameters.

As long as people aren't nasty about it, then everyone should get along just fine.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a status by a couple once complaining that there were chubby ladies in the most fabbed pics section, and why weren't their pics fabbed as they were obviously superior, or words to that effect, that is the kind of attitude from people I avoid like the plague.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I saw a status by a couple once complaining that there were chubby ladies in the most fabbed pics section, and why weren't their pics fabbed as they were obviously superior, or words to that effect, that is the kind of attitude from people I avoid like the plague."
wtf really? Whoever said that is a fukin arsehole who needs a good slap slaggin people off sounds like she was more jealous than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a status by a couple once complaining that there were chubby ladies in the most fabbed pics section, and why weren't their pics fabbed as they were obviously superior, or words to that effect, that is the kind of attitude from people I avoid like the plague. wtf really? Whoever said that is a fukin arsehole who needs a good slap slaggin people off sounds like she was more jealous than anything "

Yea , was a bit weird, their pics were great too, so I don't understand why they would even want to say things like that? Just let people enjoy themselves like

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I saw a status by a couple once complaining that there were chubby ladies in the most fabbed pics section, and why weren't their pics fabbed as they were obviously superior, or words to that effect, that is the kind of attitude from people I avoid like the plague. wtf really? Whoever said that is a fukin arsehole who needs a good slap slaggin people off sounds like she was more jealous than anything

Yea , was a bit weird, their pics were great too, so I don't understand why they would even want to say things like that? Just let people enjoy themselves like "
jus sounds like jealousy cause her pics wheren up there she shouldn't of said that tho I hate people like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a couple who used to use the Irish chat room, diamonds will remember them, who were/ are particularly scathing about the not so young, the not so fit, the not so beautiful. And I mean really cutting and nasty

Now where as I prefer not to judge people, there are some people I won't go meet now because I know played with them

Because somewhere in the back of my mind I will be thinking, this person plays with them and attends their parties, do they have the same mind set

Really plays on my insecurities I know and it's prolly not the case, but it's always there because I saw how nasty this couple could be

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Don't understand how people can go on like that I treat everyone the same way that I'd want to be and I was always like that from very young my granny planted it into my head don't no what people get out if been nasty and puttin others down doesn make sense to me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember them well nippy.. well.. in between the red wine sessions lol..

Matthew 7:1-3

Judge not, that ye be not judged.

For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

lets hold hands and pray

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over a year ago


"There was a couple who used to use the Irish chat room, diamonds will remember them, who were/ are particularly scathing about the not so young, the not so fit, the not so beautiful. And I mean really cutting and nasty

Now where as I prefer not to judge people, there are some people I won't go meet now because I know played with them

Because somewhere in the back of my mind I will be thinking, this person plays with them and attends their parties, do they have the same mind set

Really plays on my insecurities I know and it's prolly not the case, but it's always there because I saw how nasty this couple could be"

I wonder if it is the same couple I'm thinkin of Nippy?

There are definitely ones on here I couldnt meet as I'm not exactly part of the body or face elite, my usual habitat is under a dark bridge , some on here get on like they are superstars like, it's quite intimidating, wouldn't ever want to meet someone and they were thinking that they were doing you a favour or comparing you to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

"

I hear ya, that's exactly the way I feel about meeting people, it just makes me think they would be judging and critiquing the whole time lol

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

"

That's awful, you should try not to let people like that get inside your head.

He may have played in their circles but he clearly finds you very attractive and enjoys your company. I wouldn't be letting those sort of people stop me from having a potentially great meet

Miss Mcjoy

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

That's awful, you should try not to let people like that get inside your head.

He may have played in their circles but he clearly finds you very attractive and enjoys your company. I wouldn't be letting those sort of people stop me from having a potentially great meet

Miss Mcjoy

"

yes agree dont let it spoil things....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can i be real honest here..

now, before i say this, im not tarring everyone with the same brush.. im only talking of experience here.. and for those who we dont know on this "fussy" thread... this isnt amied at any of you... please dont take personal anyone

ok... so, the "fussy" "choosy" "picky" or "up to their standards" people who we have met.... reading their comments and profile, we thought that they were gonna be the most outstanding beautiful people in the world ever... then...

when we met them at m&g or parties..

holy fuck.. they were some of the most "ugliest fuckers" on Fab... ( now thats on the basis of judging on looks )

so.. anyhow, my point is on this whole thing .. is... if your gonna set yourself "high standards" then, by fuck, you better be pretty damn good lookin when u meet others.. or.. it really will be one big dissapointment

i just wonder what kind of mirrors some people from Fab have in their houses, cus, they need a good reality check if they think theyre "stunning"

"

Ive always said that its the people who dont know they are stunning that really are stunning...the not knowing how beautiful they are...but certainly us being fussy isnt looks based..and being fussy doeant mean we all love ourselves either far from it lol...i mrs have a certain type and so does mr....one of our main problems is finding EXPERIENCED REAL SWINGERS...who we both like so by the time we have narrowed that down it kind of limits our options lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

"

Don't worry sexy nipps....you can remove warts!!!! Cheap n cheerful spray now in most pharmacys.....

Although its the people who makes these comments its them i feel sorry for as there is still no known cure for being a fucking eejit....

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

Don't worry sexy nipps....you can remove warts!!!! Cheap n cheerful spray now in most pharmacys.....

Although its the people who makes these comments its them i feel sorry for as there is still no known cure for being a fucking eejit....

"

So true!

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

Don't worry sexy nipps....you can remove warts!!!! Cheap n cheerful spray now in most pharmacys.....

Although its the people who makes these comments its them i feel sorry for as there is still no known cure for being a fucking eejit....

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The daft thing is, I met a guy for coffee, drop dead sex on legs, we really hit it off and he's always inviting me up, and I'd love to. Only at the back if my mind I know he plays in their circles usually

I mean, he's met me, he's seen me warts and all and still wants to take it further but it's my insecurities all because of comments made by that couple

That's awful, you should try not to let people like that get inside your head.

He may have played in their circles but he clearly finds you very attractive and enjoys your company. I wouldn't be letting those sort of people stop me from having a potentially great meet

Miss Mcjoy

"

Thank you xx

I do know its daft. I'm not usually like this at all. I don't usually get so affected I think it was because I was newish here and was finding my feet, and this couple , even though they weren't talking to me, bought all my fears to the surface. I mean I'm sure we all had doubts when we first started this journey. I'm usually very confident in my skin and am more then happy to get naked in groups of strangers

Anyways enough of them, think they have been a voice in my head long enough. Just this thread stirred it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a cpl here every week it's need male for sexy fun so I txt they never reply n by midnight there calling everyone arseholes wankers . The next day their saying oh fab nite last nite n post another meet and do the same that nite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a cpl here every week it's need male for sexy fun so I txt they never reply n by midnight there calling everyone arseholes wankers . The next day their saying oh fab nite last nite n post another meet and do the same that nite"

Problem is on here...that the males are a plenty and replacable...not my view but thats probably how some see it...they can delete and choose who they like as there are a loads more queing up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about them Nippers.. your fine kid Id definitely smash your back doors in !!!

Anyhow, im the sexiest muva fuka on this fkn site, so would everyone form an orderly queue and come kiss the feet of your king !!!!

You may also kiss my ring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont worry about them Nippers.. your fine kid Id definitely smash your back doors in !!!

Anyhow, im the sexiest muva fuka on this fkn site, so would everyone form an orderly queue and come kiss the feet of your king !!!!

You may also kiss my ring "

Your a character alright...ill give you that!!! lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont worry about them Nippers.. your fine kid Id definitely smash your back doors in !!!

Anyhow, im the sexiest muva fuka on this fkn site, so would everyone form an orderly queue and come kiss the feet of your king !!!!

You may also kiss my ring "

I've never noticed you wear a ring......oh wait

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