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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm having a bit of a flirt with a lady on an app (not sure if it's ok to name it here), you know the one where you swipe right if you like or left if you don,t. Anyway I was just wondering are many of you on it and have you found any NSA fun from it? I have come across one girl on it that I recently chatted with on here.

My main concern is that when you chat to people on there, they may want a relationship and how they might take it when you say it's just a bit of fun your after? It's not defined as a serious relationship site and I take it as a bit of fun, but then the way I see it and the way women may see it are probably 2 completely different things.

I guess this is for all the single peeps on here, as there is no option for couples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a dating site quite a while ago, I've actually encountered more men on Fab that wanted to date me than the dating site! I can't imagine anyone joining any free site would be expecting anything serious but that's only my experience.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"So I'm having a bit of a flirt with a lady on an app (not sure if it's ok to name it here), you know the one where you swipe right if you like or left if you don,t. Anyway I was just wondering are many of you on it and have you found any NSA fun from it? I have come across one girl on it that I recently chatted with on here.

My main concern is that when you chat to people on there, they may want a relationship and how they might take it when you say it's just a bit of fun your after? It's not defined as a serious relationship site and I take it as a bit of fun, but then the way I see it and the way women may see it are probably 2 completely different things.

I guess this is for all the single peeps on here, as there is no option for couples profiles."

I've met a few people from that site for nsa. I just made sure that they were aware from the start that I wasn't looking for a relationship. It worked quite well for me, but you're right, there are a lot of women there looking for romance. You just need to make sure there are no crossed wires.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on a dating site quite a while ago, I've actually encountered more men on Fab that wanted to date me than the dating site! I can't imagine anyone joining any free site would be expecting anything serious but that's only my experience. "

Yeah I know what you mean, I just think there's a clear definition being on either a dating site or a swingers site, but not for the app I am talking about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm having a bit of a flirt with a lady on an app (not sure if it's ok to name it here), you know the one where you swipe right if you like or left if you don,t. Anyway I was just wondering are many of you on it and have you found any NSA fun from it? I have come across one girl on it that I recently chatted with on here.

My main concern is that when you chat to people on there, they may want a relationship and how they might take it when you say it's just a bit of fun your after? It's not defined as a serious relationship site and I take it as a bit of fun, but then the way I see it and the way women may see it are probably 2 completely different things.

I guess this is for all the single peeps on here, as there is no option for couples profiles.

I've met a few people from that site for nsa. I just made sure that they were aware from the start that I wasn't looking for a relationship. It worked quite well for me, but you're right, there are a lot of women there looking for romance. You just need to make sure there are no crossed wires. "

Guess your right Michael, best be honest cause you'll only end up leading someone on if you don't. Good to know it's worked for you though, so I know it is something that happens on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as Michael said, if you make your intentions clear early on there shouldn't be any confusion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think as Michael said, if you make your intentions clear early on there shouldn't be any confusion! "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"So I'm having a bit of a flirt with a lady on an app (not sure if it's ok to name it here), you know the one where you swipe right if you like or left if you don,t. Anyway I was just wondering are many of you on it and have you found any NSA fun from it? I have come across one girl on it that I recently chatted with on here.

My main concern is that when you chat to people on there, they may want a relationship and how they might take it when you say it's just a bit of fun your after? It's not defined as a serious relationship site and I take it as a bit of fun, but then the way I see it and the way women may see it are probably 2 completely different things.

I guess this is for all the single peeps on here, as there is no option for couples profiles.

I've met a few people from that site for nsa. I just made sure that they were aware from the start that I wasn't looking for a relationship. It worked quite well for me, but you're right, there are a lot of women there looking for romance. You just need to make sure there are no crossed wires.

Guess your right Michael, best be honest cause you'll only end up leading someone on if you don't. Good to know it's worked for you though, so I know it is something that happens on there "

It works alright, and there's another site, the name of which suggests you might want to go fishing, which used to work well also. I abandoned it though, as they seemed to be making an effort to turn it into a proper dating site with no naughty stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm having a bit of a flirt with a lady on an app (not sure if it's ok to name it here), you know the one where you swipe right if you like or left if you don,t. Anyway I was just wondering are many of you on it and have you found any NSA fun from it? I have come across one girl on it that I recently chatted with on here.

My main concern is that when you chat to people on there, they may want a relationship and how they might take it when you say it's just a bit of fun your after? It's not defined as a serious relationship site and I take it as a bit of fun, but then the way I see it and the way women may see it are probably 2 completely different things.

I guess this is for all the single peeps on here, as there is no option for couples profiles.

I've met a few people from that site for nsa. I just made sure that they were aware from the start that I wasn't looking for a relationship. It worked quite well for me, but you're right, there are a lot of women there looking for romance. You just need to make sure there are no crossed wires.

Guess your right Michael, best be honest cause you'll only end up leading someone on if you don't. Good to know it's worked for you though, so I know it is something that happens on there

It works alright, and there's another site, the name of which suggests you might want to go fishing, which used to work well also. I abandoned it though, as they seemed to be making an effort to turn it into a proper dating site with no naughty stuff. "

Been there done that and got bored quite quickly

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


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Been there done that and got bored quite quickly "

They kept deleting my profile so I eventually gave up. I had met a few from it as well, although one turned into a stalker for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Been there done that and got bored quite quickly

They kept deleting my profile so I eventually gave up. I had met a few from it as well, although one turned into a stalker for a while. "

Lol See that's why I'm worried about the clear definition of what your looking for from the difference in sites

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


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Been there done that and got bored quite quickly

They kept deleting my profile so I eventually gave up. I had met a few from it as well, although one turned into a stalker for a while.

Lol See that's why I'm worried about the clear definition of what your looking for from the difference in sites "

This was clearly defined as well, and we had been in contact for quite a while beforehand. After meeting she decided she wanted more though. It only lasted a few weeks but it was a bit scary at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Been there done that and got bored quite quickly

They kept deleting my profile so I eventually gave up. I had met a few from it as well, although one turned into a stalker for a while.

Lol See that's why I'm worried about the clear definition of what your looking for from the difference in sites

This was clearly defined as well, and we had been in contact for quite a while beforehand. After meeting she decided she wanted more though. It only lasted a few weeks but it was a bit scary at the time. "

I suppose the same can.still happen on here, suppose you just have to risk it for a biscuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is ironic that more sober sites tend to have a higher success rate for NSA fun than one which you can open about your naughty side.

The persons life is on display but their thoughts are hidden vs their life is hidden and their thoughts are display. It all might just come down to a sense of security.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It is ironic that more sober sites tend to have a higher success rate for NSA fun than one which you can open about your naughty side.

The persons life is on display but their thoughts are hidden vs their life is hidden and their thoughts are display. It all might just come down to a sense of security."

I can see why you're called deep!

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