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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what u say most won't reply anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol "

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If uve a decent pic photo verified and have verifications are a start!! Just b honest and genuine we are all here for the same thing! A bit of humour goes a long way too

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty.... "

i'd say this sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol "

I find its easier waiting for them to make contact

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I think any message that looks like a little thought has been put into it deserves a reply.

Always nice to recieve a message that shows that our profile has been read. And even better if there is a little humour in there too.......

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys

Getting lot of replies here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think any message that looks like a little thought has been put into it deserves a reply.

Always nice to recieve a message that shows that our profile has been read. And even better if there is a little humour in there too.......

Miss Mcjoy "

who doesn't enjoy a little humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"I think any message that looks like a little thought has been put into it deserves a reply.

Always nice to recieve a message that shows that our profile has been read. And even better if there is a little humour in there too.......

Miss Mcjoy

who doesn't enjoy a little humour "

Some of us enjoy a 'lotta' humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get disheartened when the majority still won't answer you.....there are just some very rude people around......I view it that if they can't be bothered answering, they probably weren't worth meeting anyhow.

I've had some great replies, from couples politely declining and they're worth 10 of the couples that blindly don't bother.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Don't get disheartened when the majority still won't answer you.....there are just some very rude people around......I view it that if they can't be bothered answering, they probably weren't worth meeting anyhow.

I've had some great replies, from couples politely declining and they're worth 10 of the couples that blindly don't bother."

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By *aptivating2Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If uve a decent pic photo verified and have verifications are a start!! Just b honest and genuine we are all here for the same thing! A bit of humour goes a long way too"

This ...and patience...best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get disheartened when the majority still won't answer you.....there are just some very rude people around......I view it that if they can't be bothered answering, they probably weren't worth meeting anyhow.

I've had some great replies, from couples politely declining and they're worth 10 of the couples that blindly don't bother."

At least I don't have the problem of having to politely decline females lol. I'd like to politely accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think any message that looks like a little thought has been put into it deserves a reply.

Always nice to recieve a message that shows that our profile has been read. And even better if there is a little humour in there too.......

Miss Mcjoy

who doesn't enjoy a little humour

Some of us enjoy a 'lotta' humour "

others not so much but can't win em all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scan the first line of the unopened message, so if it's something offensive or too forward I won't open the email at all. E.g. if I see the word tits, pussy, cock, throbbing, horny, fucking, alone in hotel, meet tonight etc in that first line I won't look at it further.

Then I look at the profile and if it looks nice and normal I will open the email and reply, even if I'm not interested and to say this politely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people, ye are great

Must practice this good advice in future!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from a single guy point of view first message is tough bescause of the competition i always send a respectful message but it gets deleted or ignored.if its to long its boring or if it short ur not making an effort.hard to please on here sometimes to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think any message that looks like a little thought has been put into it deserves a reply.

Always nice to recieve a message that shows that our profile has been read. And even better if there is a little humour in there too.......

Miss Mcjoy

who doesn't enjoy a little humour

Some of us enjoy a 'lotta' humour

others not so much but can't win em all"

Are you serious!!! Who doesnt like a bit of humour??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think any message that looks like a little thought has been put into it deserves a reply.

Always nice to recieve a message that shows that our profile has been read. And even better if there is a little humour in there too.......

Miss Mcjoy

who doesn't enjoy a little humour

Some of us enjoy a 'lotta' humour

others not so much but can't win em all

Are you serious!!! Who doesnt like a bit of humour?? "

i'm yet to find them but there's always one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my comment was in jest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If uve a decent pic photo verified and have verifications are a start!! Just b honest and genuine we are all here for the same thing! A bit of humour goes a long way too

This ...and patience...best of luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty.... "
.. Brilliantly put ! I so agree with it as some may not even bother to read an entire profile, plus ,respecting one wishes !

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I scan the first line of the unopened message, so if it's something offensive or too forward I won't open the email at all. E.g. if I see the word tits, pussy, cock, throbbing, horny, fucking, alone in hotel, meet tonight etc in that first line I won't look at it further.

Then I look at the profile and if it looks nice and normal I will open the email and reply, even if I'm not interested and to say this politely. "

Feck... It's all making sense now. I usually like to start my messages with a list of my favourite creatures, tits, especially blue tits, pussy, cock, although he wakes me up with all that crowing in the morning, and horny toads which I've only seen in the zoo. Nobody ever opens my message though.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Sometimes I ask the other person if they have a nice ass like me, but I guess women just don't like donkeys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting best results now with formal brief hello's.

Try let d intelligence flow after

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol "

Its not so much the message unless its the usual one line crap/insult but the pictures on display, the interests and the profile come into consideration. Mostly anyone that I am interested in I will either wink or send a message to first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty.... "

Spot on, though most of it can be garnered from a profile. Informative profiles are usually more attractive than the one liners or fill in later. Also get known in chat and on forums could attract more interest than just blindly sending out random messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I ask the other person if they have a nice ass like me, but I guess women just don't like donkeys? "

You cant bate a good ass Michael

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Sometimes I ask the other person if they have a nice ass like me, but I guess women just don't like donkeys?

You cant bate a good ass Michael "

Sometimes you just have to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like ass's LoveLife2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do girls like to see in a first message?

I'm crap at it lol

Intelligence....that the profile has been read...no text speech...no cock pics attached...good sense of humour and respectfull and can take no for an answer and not get nasty....

i'd say this sounds about right"

Yep definitely the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just been asking the same question on the ireland chat room as most of my messages i send get deleted lol

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