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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

If uv had meets ask them to verie u.that is if they are veried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The meets were not verifed. But how to verifed if the verifed people will not talk to u if u r not verifed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't give you a verification you may need to ask yourself why that is the case,rather than questioning their reasons for not giving you one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't give you a verification you may need to ask yourself why that is the case,rather than questioning their reasons for not giving you one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't give you a verification you may need to ask yourself why that is the case,rather than questioning their reasons for not giving you one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would going into cam chat help, like go on cam prove your real ask someone that looked at you on cam to verify you, then you go and verify the meets you had, then they can verify you back

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"

A meet and greet was being talked about by Lbow to help people like yourself , keep an eye out for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had good meets with repeat meets. But none have been verifed but they have the same problem

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"The meets were not verifed. But how to verifed if the verifed people will not talk to u if u r not verifed?"

So the meets you had were not verified either?

So first thing is for you all to verify each other.. that's a start.

Most people here will look at ur verifications.. and prob not believe them.. so...

Ur next step is to try and get someone man..woman..couple... anyone who has a good few veris from others who also have good few veris...

to meet u ... For Coffee!! Just coffee...

That veri will be believed

Its a start... its difficult... its a very slow process unless ur hung like a horse and 6ft tall and have muscles coming out of ur ears

Also go to the next meet n greet.... meet everyone in one go... that's my plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet and greets probably will help you there.

lovely bathroom you have btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wex, unverified people can't verify others.... so it's not a start lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your help will take it all on.

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"wex, unverified people can't verify others.... so it's not a start lol

"

Oh I didn't know that

Thank god someone verified me before lol

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Thanks for all your help will take it all on.

"

Thomas if u were closer... id of met u for that coffee mate..

Real people need veris... hope someone helps you out there

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

If there is anyone who can travel to Wex town... man woman couple..alien.. I'll meet you for coffee n verify you

What can I say... I'm a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"
its because new people cant verfie eachother i think the site got bit strict because off all the fake ones not very welcommin for new members i got lucky because i had a great meet with a verified lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too "

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

Thomas...maybe u need to set up ur own meet n greet...

Open it to everyone but Allowing non verified people especially to go

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

Thomas check out the thread:

Hang on lads I have an idea

By longbow

He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't know u can do that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

"

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative. "

Sweet... that sounds more like a private party

Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet

If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wex, I'm not saying it's fair. But there are no rules and it's not a democracy lol

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Thomas check out the thread:

Hang on lads I have an idea

By longbow

He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies "

Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me.

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"wex, I'm not saying it's fair. But there are no rules and it's not a democracy lol"

Its not a democracy?? Damnit !!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.

Sweet... that sounds more like a private party

Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet

If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party "

The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.

Sweet... that sounds more like a private party

Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet

If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party

The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males"

I hear what ur saying Sofia

My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..

So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter

That's fairest way ... in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And uproar and unwanted publicity by those turned away at the door.

You're forgetting this is Ireland! Swinging is still taboo.

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"And uproar and unwanted publicity by those turned away at the door.

You're forgetting this is Ireland! Swinging is still taboo."

True lol

But if u know the rules... door open at 8.. first 80 in.. and someone turns up at 10... and can't get in...that's their own fault... people need to be adults on this site

Don't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its so hard for u single guys on here its not fair at all i think im going to cry for u lol

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"its so hard for u single guys on here its not fair at all i think im going to cry for u lol"

Lol

Thanks for ur concern... even if its fake lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.

Sweet... that sounds more like a private party

Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet

If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party

The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males

I hear what ur saying Sofia

My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..

So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter

That's fairest way ... in my opinion "

So potentially it could end up with 80 single men only!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.

Sweet... that sounds more like a private party

Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet

If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party

The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males

I hear what ur saying Sofia

My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..

So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter

That's fairest way ... in my opinion

So potentially it could end up with 80 single men only!! "

And those 80 will just be 'lurkers'

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too

Hi Sofia.. is that true?

I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members

Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.

Sweet... that sounds more like a private party

Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet

If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party

The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males

I hear what ur saying Sofia

My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..

So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter

That's fairest way ... in my opinion

So potentially it could end up with 80 single men only!! "

Lol it could... the random factor... isn't that what lives all about

At least they all can verify each other

Not sure that would help my profile though... 79 veris from guys lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Wex meets and greets have to have some control to get the balance right believe me there is nothing worse than being at a m&g where its a cock fest its uncomfortable for all

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford


"Wex meets and greets have to have some control to get the balance right believe me there is nothing worse than being at a m&g where its a cock fest its uncomfortable for all "

Lol I can see ur point

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Thomas check out the thread:

Hang on lads I have an idea

By longbow

He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies

Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"

go into browse. ..see who is near you and message them and explain and ask them if they would meet you for a coffee and verify you're real. ... We have all be there and it's difficult but definitely doable... Good luck

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron


"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"

I'll meet for coffee, if that will help..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was just going to say if meet you for a coffee sometime too. But to be honest being verified hasn't made a tap of difference to my fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?

I'll meet for coffee, if that will help.. "

Such a lovely man you are....

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?

go into browse. ..see who is near you and message them and explain and ask them if they would meet you for a coffee and verify you're real. ... We have all be there and it's difficult but definitely doable... Good luck "

Your very doable

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Thomas check out the thread:

Hang on lads I have an idea

By longbow

He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies

Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Thomas check out the thread:

Hang on lads I have an idea

By longbow

He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies

Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Thomas check out the thread:

Hang on lads I have an idea

By longbow

He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies

Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."

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