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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Everybody, what's your opinion on Racism in swinging? I've been here a while now and met lots of lovely people, but while finding swingers to be very liberal (for obvious reasons). I've come across swingers who have not been as liberal!!! when it comes to skin tone.

Is this just preference or racism

BTW I'm NOT a Racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference I'd say

Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc

Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not racist. Some people just aren't attracted to a particular race. People just turn it into racism because political correctness has gone mad. Being choosy about colour is the exact same as being choosy about any other physical characteristic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal preference I'd say

Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc

Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences"

Agreed its up to everyones personal preference who they would like to be intimate with.I don't think its racist not to want to have sex outside of your own preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal preference I'd say

Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc

Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences

Agreed its up to everyones personal preference who they would like to be intimate with.I don't think its racist not to want to have sex outside of your own preferences"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal preference I'd say

Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc

Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences"

This would be my view too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism is for small minded people....

Have to say its all about the attraction....

Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most who decline a meet with someone of opposite skin tone are NOT racist.

However, I think to decline a meet, even to just to say hi and chat, with someone because of ethnic roots is.

You wouldn't refuse to sit next to someone at work because of ethnic roots would you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Racism is for small minded people....

Have to say its all about the attraction....

Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!! "

Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racism is for small minded people....

Have to say its all about the attraction....

Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!

Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!"

Exactly....everyone has a preference

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit


"Racism is for small minded people....

Have to say its all about the attraction....

Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!

Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!"

ah I've a thing for red heads definitely lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most who decline a meet with someone of opposite skin tone are NOT racist.

However, I think to decline a meet, even to just to say hi and chat, with someone because of ethnic roots is.

You wouldn't refuse to sit next to someone at work because of ethnic roots would you ?"

Live and let live I say!!! The reason I brought it up is because of an incident, at a gathering were there was an overtly strong reaction to interracial sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my way of looking at it if god made us all the same we be a fairly boring race off people that why he made everyone different to add some excitement lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a racist I'd get up on anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Everybody, what's your opinion on Racism in swinging? I've been here a while now and met lots of lovely people, but while finding swingers to be very liberal (for obvious reasons). I've come across swingers who have not been as liberal!!! when it comes to skin tone.

Is this just preference or racism

BTW I'm NOT a Racist "

dont think its racism at all!sum ppl prefer big girls/guys and sum prefer smaller,so its down to personal preference id say

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hi Everybody, what's your opinion on Racism in swinging? I've been here a while now and met lots of lovely people, but while finding swingers to be very liberal (for obvious reasons). I've come across swingers who have not been as liberal!!! when it comes to skin tone.

Is this just preference or racism

BTW I'm NOT a Racist "

Not wanting to play with people of a particular race or ethnicity is fine, everyone has their own preferences and no one has to do anything they don't want to , hanging up the phone and blocking because you were too stupid to realise the person is not irish before you spoke to them, or standing up and walking out of the bar when you realise the person is not Irish is ignorance.

If it is that important to you,,, ask.

Actually don't understand why this site asks for ethnicity in your profile but doesn't publish it anywhere.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

I won't meet Romanians....unless they've washed my car and sold me a rose

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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago

Destination Unknown Munster


"Racism is for small minded people....

Have to say its all about the attraction....

Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!

Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!

Exactly....everyone has a preference "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice for me!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"I won't meet Romanians....unless they've washed my car and sold me a rose "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a foreigner myself but I'm not black, brown or caramel. So it probably has less of an effect on me. I do get made fun of a lot though because of it. I don't think though I was ever rejected because of it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what race, size etc somebody. If they are good in bed what does it matter. If you were blind folded with headphones on ( which is quite kinky btw) then you would make your judgement on how the sex is, not the person. After all we're all pink on the inside ... literally.

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By *amollieCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

there is no racism in swinging and never will be,anybody who swings knows that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one topic i usually stay away from.

Racism or no racism, leave people off, let them do whatever they feel like doing.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"I won't meet Romanians....unless they've washed my car and sold me a rose

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Sarcasm ....don't play the drama queen

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I love foreign women and different ethnic races even more. My only problem is there are not as many on here although make the most of it when get over to England. So I for one am delighted to see more and more foreign women coming looking to grab us pale ass innocent Irish guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just read an article on "Sexual Racism" whilst it was aimed at gay sex I am amazed to see it covers all genders when Googled it in depth and raised in a forum here, I also see it is mainly men who are not up for mixed meets of color, so its not a gay thing its a man thing.

Me i don't care i like cock, though a bit ocd when it comes to cleanliness..slightest hint of odour and i am off...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

If you read it in an article it must be true.

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Are men racist when it comes to sex? I wouldn't have thought so, or at least not any more than they are in relation to anything else. Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the impression that some eastern european girls are not treated with the respect they should be ...

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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My skin is a little darker than the average Irish male, I am from a different country and still I have had some rejection recently because of I am not originally from here. I was surprised, very surprised but I let it go so I suggest to do the same.

No need to complain about it for centuries it will always happen.

Regards,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My skin is a little darker than the average Irish male, I am from a different country and still I have had some rejection recently because of I am not originally from here. I was surprised, very surprised but I let it go so I suggest to do the same.

No need to complain about it for centuries it will always happen.

Regards, "

I'd doubt it's because of skin colour or what country your from...

Possibly you weren't attractive to the op...it happens...

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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Maybe I was not what they were looking for but I was clearly told that they only go for Irish.

Fine with me, their loss. lol

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By *izoBiMan
over a year ago

limerick city


"It doesn't matter what race, size etc somebody. If they are good in bed what does it matter. If you were blind folded with headphones on ( which is quite kinky btw) then you would make your judgement on how the sex is, not the person. After all we're all pink on the inside ... literally. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I was not what they were looking for but I was clearly told that they only go for Irish.

Fine with me, their loss. lol"

Im shocked at that response...

But I guess it takes all sorts...

We don't care about Race,colour,country or if your vegan or vegetarian! It's all bollocks at the end of the day!!

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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Thank Annie but I am not worried at all and as you said it is all bollocks at the end. Mines need attention...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we prefare too meet well spoken english people as it gets confusing in mails so does that make me a racist i hope not as im not a racist you can be green pink white red black what ever and from anywhere as we state in our profile no liife storys or drama but we did have 1 person call us a racist as we said sorry but we cannot meet u cause of your english in the mails our reply was fcuk you.irish racist so i dunno maybe you can tell me if i am or not

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