FabSwingers.com forum: pregnancy in your forties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys, I would love to see how people feel here about pregnancy in your 40's. You here a lot of pros and cons about it but I'd like to hear how true open minded people feel about it. I'd also like to hear both male and females fabbers thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a mother myself but why not? Nowadays women can have very safe and healthy pregnancies in their 40s.

I guess some people think you wouldn't want to be those 'old' parents looking like the grandparents. But the most important thing is that the child has a loving home.

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

"Hey guys, I would love to see how people feel here about pregnancy in your 40's. You here a lot of pros and cons about it but I'd like to hear how true open minded people feel about it. I'd also like to hear both male and females fabbers thoughts."

I think its great

age isn't a factor anymore.. with medical technologies.

I find Preggy women sooo sexy... love the bump.. the bigger the better x

All women should be Preggy all the time.. just kidding

But if there's any hot Preggys out there id love to meet ya x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think it is to really be believed that the risks of having a healthy child are lower? Personally I would love another child but the fear of what I've heard is putting me off and as I'm turning 44 next week I feel its now or never. Is 44 too old?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think its fair play to any woman having a child but I was young having my oldest kids.

I was 31 having my youngest but I was classed as a older mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need to ask your doctor/gynea this. How can we judge this for you? I'm sure every woman is different and they can determine what the risk factors are.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You really need to ask your doctor/gynea this. How can we judge this for you? I'm sure every woman is different and they can determine what the risk factors are.

Best of luck"

I guess I'm just asking for opinions to see how others view it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a child is a personal choice,regardless how we view you and your partner should make the choice!

I personally wouldn't have a child at 44, but that's me

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

There's always a risk in everything we do.. and the risks have to be higher the older a woman is. This is also true for the man...I read somewhere.

But as one of the ladies was saying.. speak to doctors..get ur n ur hubbys health checked.. talk about it together..does ur hubby want one?

A new baby is a big change to ur life...

How about surrogacy or adoption?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it is to really be believed that the risks of having a healthy child are lower? Personally I would love another child but the fear of what I've heard is putting me off and as I'm turning 44 next week I feel its now or never. Is 44 too old?"
44 is too old for me personally. I had my last child at 31 and would not have wanted to be starting again in my forties. I'm 47 this year, so hopefully it's not something i need to think too much about now. If another baby is something you really want though, 44 isn't too old for you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys for all your opinions, we're lucky to have a gorgeous little girl already and I guess I was lucky to have her at 38, so we'll see its all in the hands of mother nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you take advice of people who don't have kids,well says it all really.i think i will get on to the hse about you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you take advice of people who don't have kids,well says it all really.i think i will get on to the hse about you

Excuse me I don't quite get what your saying, could you clarify?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way....you could be 45 by the time you get pregnant and have said baby add 18 years till they start and finish school is 63 old to have a teenager leaving school and going to college? Only you can answer how you feel!!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"If you take advice of people who don't have kids,well says it all really.i think i will get on to the hse about you

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that's s ridiculous thing to say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it wouldn't be easy but I think 63 is OK to have an 18 year old. Kids grow up so fast and are so advanced these days and hopefully more open minded that I don't think having older parents would matter, but I suppose everyone is different and everyone copes in different ways. Its just good to hear all opinions on it as others may have things to say that I may not have thought about. Thank you though for your opinion

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

I believe your never too old to have a child. Mother nature will decide. Be prepared for it to work out and be braced for it to be complicated.

Many many women have had careers, or a change in partner and the timings on the clock have come a little later than anticipated. It happens. Don't let your age get in the way.

If you have the capacity to give love provide a nest, support and raise your child, and feel up for it, then go for it.

For some it is easy to get pregnant being older. For others it is hard if they are younger. I believe that if women we not meant to have children after 35 then they would all go into instant menopause on their 35th birthday. A woman is too old to have a baby only when her body decides it’s time to quit. Until then I believe that it is society making women become uncomfortable about becoming mothers when they are older because we have this idea that a mom is someone who is young and the very idea of seeing a 40+ old woman pushing a baby around and being a mom destroys this image.

If by chance it doesn't work out for you, or your unsure, perhaps consider adoption. Any child in an orphanage anywhere in the world right now is lacking a future. But when adopted you give them a future. The world is a big place, and there are many many children in need of loving guidance and support and an environment to grow up.

There is not much in life that makes me cry, but I can tell you when I see parents of one race with children of another, it makes me bawl with joy. Adoption is beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I believe your never too old to have a child. Mother nature will decide. Be prepared for it to work out and be braced for it to be complicated.

Many many women have had careers, or a change in partner and the timings on the clock have come a little later than anticipated. It happens. Don't let your age get in the way.

If you have the capacity to give love provide a nest, support and raise your child, and feel up for it, then go for it.

There is not much in life that makes me cry, but I can tell you when I see parents of one race with children of another, it makes me bawl with joy. Adoption is beautiful.

I cannot thank you enough for such eloquent words , you have a beautiful soul and what you have said has touched me deeply and I will not forget it. You are definitely a special person do not loose that in this mad world. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you take advice of people who don't have kids,well says it all really.i think i will get on to the hse about you

What a F**king Stupid thing to say....

I doubt the HSE will listen to you rant about something you saw on a Swingers Site....

Regarding OP...

Only you know what your body can and Can't do... If your Healthy and Happy I don't see any reason who you shouldn't Have another Child

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would just like to say that _ickirishallsorts comment has been the most elevating comment I've ever seen on this site. I know this is a swinging site and this thread is not about sex directly but it has restored my faith in humanity and is certainly one person with a wonderfully balanced outlook on life. Cheers and I wish you good things with karma what you give out you shall receive back tenfold

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

This is an offensive and idiot thread. My mom was 42, my dad was 58. I was 39 before my son was born. Cop on, grow up, or shut the fuck up. I find this offensive.

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By *onstructionladMan
over a year ago

Tipperary/limerick

"This is an offensive and idiot thread. My mom was 42, my dad was 58. I was 39 before my son was born. Cop on, grow up, or shut the fuck up. I find this offensive.

Wow that's harsh ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is an offensive and idiot thread. My mom was 42, my dad was 58. I was 39 before my son was born. Cop on, grow up, or shut the fuck up. I find this offensive.

Jeez. Who rattled your cage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is an offensive and idiot thread. My mom was 42, my dad was 58. I was 39 before my son was born. Cop on, grow up, or shut the fuck up. I find this offensive.

Wow that's harsh ........"

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty...."

Well having reread my posts I don't believe I ever said life ends at forty, now I've had a good re check and I honestly can't see where I actually typed that sentence or those words.II'm open to conjecture

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Smart arse. You were def not open to conjecture. But open to implication, supposition, and presumption...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty...."

Statistically the rate of birth abnormalities is higher in children born to women over the age of forty.

Plenty of women over forty will have healthy babies, and plenty of women under forty will have babies with problems, but statistically more of these problems occur as the age of the mother increases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother had me when she was 47 my dad was 55 never made any difference to me growing up having much older parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just opened this thread and I literally could've guessed who was here to cause trouble. It's a sad little life indeed.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I have just opened this thread and I literally could've guessed who was here to cause trouble. It's a sad little life indeed.

Who?

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

"I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty....

Statistically the rate of birth abnormalities is higher in children born to women over the age of forty.

Plenty of women over forty will have healthy babies, and plenty of women under forty will have babies with problems, but statistically more of these problems occur as the age of the mother increases. "

it's a swinging site! ? !! Wtf! You may be dead right. But when this becomes some sort of nazi ageist spot? It should be finished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe your never too old to have a child. Mother nature will decide. Be prepared for it to work out and be braced for it to be complicated.

Many many women have had careers, or a change in partner and the timings on the clock have come a little later than anticipated. It happens. Don't let your age get in the way.

If you have the capacity to give love provide a nest, support and raise your child, and feel up for it, then go for it.

There is not much in life that makes me cry, but I can tell you when I see parents of one race with children of another, it makes me bawl with joy. Adoption is beautiful.

Wow fucking wow.......

Beautiful well written well thought words I want to Fuck you now!!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty....

Statistically the rate of birth abnormalities is higher in children born to women over the age of forty.

Plenty of women over forty will have healthy babies, and plenty of women under forty will have babies with problems, but statistically more of these problems occur as the age of the mother increases.

it's a swinging site! ? !! Wtf! You may be dead right. But when this becomes some sort of nazi ageist spot? It should be finished."

What in the name of God are you on about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe your never too old to have a child. Mother nature will decide. Be prepared for it to work out and be braced for it to be complicated.

Many many women have had careers, or a change in partner and the timings on the clock have come a little later than anticipated. It happens. Don't let your age get in the way.

If you have the capacity to give love provide a nest, support and raise your child, and feel up for it, then go for it.

There is not much in life that makes me cry, but I can tell you when I see parents of one race with children of another, it makes me bawl with joy. Adoption is beautiful.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Smart arse. You were def not open to conjecture. But open to implication, supposition, and presumption... "

That's a helluva lot of tions !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just opened this thread and I literally could've guessed who was here to cause trouble. It's a sad little life indeed.

Who?

Not you Michael

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty....

Statistically the rate of birth abnormalities is higher in children born to women over the age of forty.

Plenty of women over forty will have healthy babies, and plenty of women under forty will have babies with problems, but statistically more of these problems occur as the age of the mother increases.

it's a swinging site! ? !! Wtf! You may be dead right. But when this becomes some sort of nazi ageist spot? It should be finished."

While I have sometimes disagreed with the OP's opinion and posts before, I don't see that any harm or judgement was passed by them here?

I'm not sure why you're getting so worked up here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

"I'm trying to find the gobshite that decided life ended at forty....

Statistically the rate of birth abnormalities is higher in children born to women over the age of forty.

Plenty of women over forty will have healthy babies, and plenty of women under forty will have babies with problems, but statistically more of these problems occur as the age of the mother increases.

it's a swinging site! ? !! Wtf! You may be dead right. But when this becomes some sort of nazi ageist spot? It should be finished.

What in the name of God are you on about?

this is basically a thread banning, or trying to, pregnancy after 40 ok? You pointed out the risks, and very well done btw, I pointed out the fact that I'm a product of over 40 parents. So you have to ask what the question was to begin with. Basically, you're feced, breeding wise, when you get to 40. Sorry buddy, I disagree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK , I'm open to all opinions , it doesn't matter what it may be, or how bizarre it may appear. Everyone to their own , just to clarify I'm not in anyway suggesting that older parents are not as good as younger ones. Its all good and we certainty live and we learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/04/14 00:35:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late, I think I read all posts and I can't remember seeing anyone saying pregnancies over 40 should be banned?

The OP is considering having a child in their 40s and not saying anywhere it should be banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol are some ppl high when they post here, how could any one misinterpret that question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about disagreement and argueing your point. The lady was asking on this thread for peoples opinions. You obviously think that having kids over 40 is cool, being a product of over 40 parents. So why give her crap, when she has clearly agreed with a marvellous comment about nothing wrong with having kids over 40. You're constantly trying to irritate people on every thread. Your personality, to me and in my eyes, is poisonous and highly childish.

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

I'm all for another new loved life joining this wonderful party we call life. There should never be a proviso on it tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol are some ppl high when they post here, how could any one misinterpret that question."

Some people shouldn't be allowed a keyboard when drinking me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word gimp springs to mind!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all for some fantastic feedback , it has actually been a very pleasant thread and has given much needed thoughts. It would be

nice if we just left it at that and left everyone to there own regardless, at times we all need advice and its nice to know that their are some wonderful attitudes still out there. I'll leave you all with this..... "We are all in the gutter but some of us are looking at the stars"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The word gimp springs to mind! "

ok, how many more names do you want to call him? You're not any better really throwing abuse around yourself

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Right. Grand. I thought this whole topic was wrong. If that makes me poisionish and childlike, suck it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say this now. I will not sit back or allow anyone to try and bully me or anyone else on these forums. I do not tolerate trouble makers or anyone hell bent on constantly trying to cause trouble. Some of you may think that is ok. I do not. I was not brought up to sit back and watch. I will always stand up and say what is right with regards to such persons. Whether it is physically in my presence or being done cowardly from behind a computer or on a phone. So be clear on this. I'm not going to zip it and sit back. If I did I would be more of a coward than these type of people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will say this now. I will not sit back or allow anyone to try and bully me or anyone else on these forums. I do not tolerate trouble makers or anyone hell bent on constantly trying to cause trouble. Some of you may think that is ok. I do not. I was not brought up to sit back and watch. I will always stand up and say what is right with regards to such persons. Whether it is physically in my presence or being done cowardly from behind a computer or on a phone. So be clear on this. I'm not going to zip it and sit back. If I did I would be more of a coward than these type of people. "

An honourable true and courageous statement that in my opinion is admirable

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

That's all good. Couldn't agree with you more.I would stand full square, shoulder to shoulder with you buddy, for your right to free speech.but, I've got a right too. Difference is. I'm not looking over my shoulder. I'm not asking anybody to agree with me. I'm actually expecting most people not to. Doesn't mean to say I'll stay silent. You'd have some craic trying to pull that off lol! And that's not being a bully. That's just voicing an opinion. Thank whatever ever god you prey to we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Risks are higher but my mum had twins at 40 n one of those twins had a daughter at 40 so u go for it if thats wat u want, me (fem) at 47 am enjoying being a grandmother to 4 n 2 on the way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my last child at 38 I was tested for Down syndrome, after 35 the chance increases and after 40 it increases again. If you eat a healthy diet and take frolic acid the chance decreases. So eat healthy and good luck the choice is yours there is nothing wrong with becoming a mother/ parent at any stage in life. A child is a gift from god as the saying goes. Xxxx fingers crossed for you's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice from us sex mad fabsters about pregnancy!!! Wrong place me thinks or has everyone suddenly become family planning experts on ere! Wtf like. Swinging site i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice from us sex mad fabsters about pregnancy!!! Wrong place me thinks or has everyone suddenly become family planning experts on ere! Wtf like. Swinging site i thought

Hell of a lot of women on here who are mothers though so why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice from us sex mad fabsters about pregnancy!!! Wrong place me thinks or has everyone suddenly become family planning experts on ere! Wtf like. Swinging site i thought

Hell of a lot of women on here who are mothers though so why not ?"

I concur. Swinging doesn't that peeps aren't family orientated or have families. Strange view point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say up until 45 is the child bearing age.

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By *ike_365Man
over a year ago

sligo

My son is 9 and I was 48 when he was born. I used to worry about things like when he is 15 I will be in my 60s. I am fit and work out quite a bit so I match his energy at the moment, I hope I will be around for him for some time. I wouldn't change a thing he makes life complete.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My son is 9 and I was 48 when he was born. I used to worry about things like when he is 15 I will be in my 60s. I am fit and work out quite a bit so I match his energy at the moment, I hope I will be around for him for some time. I wouldn't change a thing he makes life complete."

How beautiful , I'm sure you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not?if a woman is fit and healthy id say go for it!actually i think having a baby in yur 40s has its benefits!yur more tolerant and relaxed as u age,and yur clubbing days are usually over at tht age so u wont mind staying in wkends with yur bundle of joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers guys for all your opinions, we're lucky to have a gorgeous little girl already and I guess I was lucky to have her at 38, so we'll see its all in the hands of mother nature"

My mum had me at 43 and my sister 2 years later... We were both born early but that was to do with other health issues not her age.

Talk to your doctor x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't want children in my forties and I'm happy with the two i have but if you want another child then go for it. having checked out everything, and good luck. I love seeing new babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the world is full of unwanted children.... However I believe that if somebody wants to bring life into this world at whatever age they are, as long ad they love them and care for them and protect them when needing protection then its well worth it.

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By *atsWoman
over a year ago

wexford

As an ’older’ mom life can be hard on the kid. I was 16 when I had my first kid and 38 when I had my second.

While I love my kids, and wouldn't change either of them for the world,

I think that my second one has gotten the short end of the stick.

A lot of mums are a bit older today ,but it's not nice for the kids when their friend, who a mom is 20 asks your kid. ...Why does your gran bring you to and from school everyday, ?

So if you are thinking of having a kid

In your 40s think about the kid and how other kids will treat yours when you are about.

Older dad's seem to be accepted more easily than older moms no matter how good you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be late to the party here.

There are risks as u get older but I do think the risk has reduced as medicine has advanced.

I think it also depends on your health, the healthier and fitter u are the better,

You would be classified as higher risk

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

"My mother had me when she was 47 my dad was 55 never made any difference to me growing up having much older parents "
Aimee you are a beautiful person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend had a baby when she was 43, and every thing was fine.

Some people say you enjoy a baby more and are more relaxed

One of the cons is the age thing when the child goes to school or as the child gets older.

My personnel view on this, if you healthy, have a healthy life, want another baby, then go for it, just listen to your doctor if you become pregnant, stay safe and healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want another baby now I don't think is be able to keep up with them and would hate to look like I'm its nan picking them up from school but s friend of mine who had teenagers when she met her partner went on to have a baby with him and everythings going great.....so depends on who you are and what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe your never too old to have a child. Mother nature will decide. Be prepared for it to work out and be braced for it to be complicated.

Many many women have had careers, or a change in partner and the timings on the clock have come a little later than anticipated. It happens. Don't let your age get in the way.

If you have the capacity to give love provide a nest, support and raise your child, and feel up for it, then go for it.

There is not much in life that makes me cry, but I can tell you when I see parents of one race with children of another, it makes me bawl with joy. Adoption is beautiful.

awwww that is so lovely.brownie points for you

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert

Well as you are looking for options mine is this

First you and he sit down and talk about it.

Second both of ye book an appointment with your GP and talk about it with them.

After that its only up to you and him to decide.

It all goes back to what you want.

But that is only my idea

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