FabSwingers.com forum: Unwanted contact- profile not clear enough?

By *exsex2 OP Couple
over a year ago

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Why!!! ?

Why do people insist on contacting us when we explicitly say we only meet bi women or SELECT bi female couples... So far today we've had 6 single guys, two straight couples- a transsexual and a party invite from people old enough to be our parents....

We have used mail filters before but we do chat to some local "sound" guys who know not push for meets...

Is it a full moon or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's wank moon

Just adjust your filters again, anyone you have been talking to will still be able to mail you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest to keep your filters and pro-actively contact people outside your filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you complaining about? Your profile says part invites more then welcome ( and I just scan read it and still saw that)

All mail that doesn't interest you, delete. Takes seconds

Put your filters back on if its too much of a hassle and be pro -active in searching for the people who interest you instead if waiting for them to fall into your laps

Seriously you will find the site works a lot better for you that way

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By *exsex2 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I suggest to keep your filters and pro-actively contact people outside your filters"
? You mean single guys we've been chattin to?

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By *exsex2 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"What are you complaining about? Your profile says part invites more then welcome ( and I just scan read it and still saw that)

All mail that doesn't interest you, delete. Takes seconds

Put your filters back on if its too much of a hassle and be pro -active in searching for the people who interest you instead if waiting for them to fall into your laps

Seriously you will find the site works a lot better for you that way

You also missed the 20-40 only part.... Party invites from 55 year olds is unwanted contact!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we get it all the time here we just reply with thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we get it all the time here we just reply with thanks but no thanks "

We spend more time doing that than talking to people. Its actually one of our biggest issues and a huge turn off for us if someone can't take 2 mins to read our profile,if they're impatient here how are they on meets?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you complaining about? Your profile says part invites more then welcome ( and I just scan read it and still saw that)

All mail that doesn't interest you, delete. Takes seconds

Put your filters back on if its too much of a hassle and be pro -active in searching for the people who interest you instead if waiting for them to fall into your laps

Seriously you will find the site works a lot better for you that way

You also missed the 20-40 only part.... Party invites from 55 year olds is unwanted contact!"

Like I said. I skim read. And just cos the hosts are that age, dies it mean all those going are that age bracket?

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By *exsex2 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"What are you complaining about? Your profile says part invites more then welcome ( and I just scan read it and still saw that)

All mail that doesn't interest you, delete. Takes seconds

Put your filters back on if its too much of a hassle and be pro -active in searching for the people who interest you instead if waiting for them to fall into your laps

Seriously you will find the site works a lot better for you that way

You also missed the 20-40 only part.... Party invites from 55 year olds is unwanted contact!

Like I said. I skim read. And just cos the hosts are that age, dies it mean all those going are that age bracket?

Skim readers such as yourself are a major issue .... And if the hosts are over 50 it's a fair guess to say that most of the guests are going to be 40+

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