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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it unreasonable to ask for a face pic before a possible meet ??? i asked a guy yesterday for a face pic and he informed me i was being immature and to hung up on looks ? but surly you have to have a small idea if there might be a connection ? .... or maybe im just immature

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By *allfungent24Man
over a year ago

city

Not at all. Face pic straight away for me. No point messing around.

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

Before a meet yes because you have to know who your looking for in the bar/cafe. Or you could end up chatting to a well known Irish comic and thinking it's your meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face pic before a coffee is essential...you have to have a connection Curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to see who I'm talking to after 3-4 messages. Whether they want to do this by picture or cam. Cam is obviously better as you know that's the actual person.

So, gosh no, you're not hung up on looks. You want to know if there's a chance of you feeling physically attracted to them, right?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it unreasonable to ask for a face pic before a possible meet ??? i asked a guy yesterday for a face pic and he informed me i was being immature and to hung up on looks ? but surly you have to have a small idea if there might be a connection ? .... or maybe im just immature "

not at all, if your not attracted to the person, what's the point in meeting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic before a coffee is essential...you have to have a connection Curvy "

curvy, grey is sooo flirting with you! In case it wasn't obvious enough haha

he's a great coffee meet btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my favourite answer when i asked for a face pic is "i dont have one on here" (but has loads of cock pic ) so give me your number and ill send you one lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face pic before a coffee is essential...you have to have a connection Curvy

curvy, grey is sooo flirting with you! In case it wasn't obvious enough haha

he's a great coffee meet btw "

i was hoping he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always send a face pic with my first message its only right plus you never know who u will pass on the street when on your lunchbreak wouldnt u agree whispers

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have to have a few msgs before a face pic but i have sent them as i also like to see who i am chatting with, also done a few coffee meets with out pics (ill be sitting under the big tree red shoes and red hand bag) adds a little excitement to the build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always send a face pic with my first message its only right plus you never know who u will pass on the street when on your lunchbreak wouldnt u agree whispers "

you didn't even glance at me so feck off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my favourite answer when i asked for a face pic is "i dont have one on here" "

That's legitimate enough to be fair. We have never uploaded facepics to a swing site, you can't trust the site not being hacked or closing down unexpectedly with your personal data on their server.

But we always swap face pics by email very early on. It's a matter of trust, between couples at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we usually send ours early on in the chat,gives people a chance to say "not our type "sooner rather than later and saves us all wasting each others time

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We were always reluctant to do this didn't trust internet ....but we never had a problem going on cam....

The only complaint we have about fab is the lack of private cams not sure why they don't have this facility....we would only send face pic to cpls

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"we usually send ours early on in the chat,gives people a chance to say "not our type "sooner rather than later and saves us all wasting each others time "

us too

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I like a face pic after the first few mails. Let's both of you know if it's worth continuing to chat or not. You have to be attracted to someone to plan to meet them.

Is also good if their pic is less than a year old, some guys on here have been known to show pics from +10 years ago when they had hair, few wrinkles and were 5 stone lighter.

I would want to see a pic first but then have a social meet. After all if there is no attraction then there's no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face picts are fine and if you are going to meet why would there be an issue???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We insist within the first few mails. No point in wasting anyone's time

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I always jus send one fairly quick jus to get it outta it way not to everyone tho only if I'm interested in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn it... I knew I was going wrong somewhere!!

I send pictures of my Sky remote!!

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron


"Before a meet yes because you have to know who your looking for in the bar/cafe. Or you could end up chatting to a well known Irish comic and thinking it's your meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a face pic exchange before a meet

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"is it unreasonable to ask for a face pic before a possible meet ??? i asked a guy yesterday for a face pic and he informed me i was being immature and to hung up on looks ? but surly you have to have a small idea if there might be a connection ? .... or maybe im just immature "

Everyone has their own method of how this site works for them. I don't send nor ask for face pic. But I don't think it's immature and hung up on looks to request one. Do what works for you. Each to our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before a meet yes because you have to know who your looking for in the bar/cafe. Or you could end up chatting to a well known Irish comic and thinking it's your meet. "

ahem ahem.... Who would do a ridiculous thing like that i wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before a meet yes because you have to know who your looking for in the bar/cafe. Or you could end up chatting to a well known Irish comic and thinking it's your meet.

ahem ahem.... Who would do a ridiculous thing like that i wonder "

I doubt that'll ever be lived down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before a meet yes because you have to know who your looking for in the bar/cafe. Or you could end up chatting to a well known Irish comic and thinking it's your meet.

ahem ahem.... Who would do a ridiculous thing like that i wonder

I doubt that'll ever be lived down "

certainly not with all the piss takers on here... i will never live it down....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic is a must at some stage but only after a few chats and ONLY if you supply one if asking. Think that's fair

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

We swap early on no point in wasting everyones time if they dont like look of you or you them...himself has no problem giving face pics to anyone id be a bit more cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have no problem with sending a face pic, but after chatting with a few ladies on here and seemingly getting on well with them, we agree to swap face pics, but they always insist that I send mine first and then when I do - they instantly block me! I'm no male model but I don't think I am that repulsive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have no problem with sending a face pic, but after chatting with a few ladies on here and seemingly getting on well with them, we agree to swap face pics, but they always insist that I send mine first and then when I do - they instantly block me! I'm no male model but I don't think I am that repulsive lol"

Agree buddy had the same issue. Think if you are asking for a face pic and you don't have one on ur profile you should at least have the decency to attach yours when asking for someone else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it unreasonable to ask for a face pic before a possible meet ??? i asked a guy yesterday for a face pic and he informed me i was being immature and to hung up on looks ? but surly you have to have a small idea if there might be a connection ? .... or maybe im just immature "

off course u have to ask for a face pic b4 meeting sumone unless yur into blind dates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually send pic or ask for one ..if a meet is arranged then its usually I send just mine so they know who to spot in the bar

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By *estcorkfunMan
over a year ago

clonakilty

I found there are more replies if face pics are sent with messages. Be weary enough sending pics in the first one or two messages but usually it's asked fairly quickly.

As someone above said there's no point wasting peoples time not knowing what you look like. If there's no attraction there's no spark. No point meeting for coffee if the female is expecting tom hardy and tom green turns up, and vice versa.

I'll be the first one to put my hand up and say I look awful in selfies but I'll send them on anyway. That way in person they get a pleasant surprise (so modest).

What ever way you prefer to send pics is up to yourself. On other sites I used send them by email myself.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I'm pretty certain no one is expecting tom hardy...

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By *estcorkfunMan
over a year ago

clonakilty


"I'm pretty certain no one is expecting tom hardy... "

True, but I couldn't think of someone to use as an example. Maybe tom cruise but he's a hobbit. Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to have a few msgs before a face pic but i have sent them as i also like to see who i am chatting with, also done a few coffee meets with out pics (ill be sitting under the big tree red shoes and red hand bag) adds a little excitement to the build up "

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By *R and Sue EllenCouple
over a year ago

Near the City

I always ask for a face picture. No way would I meet otherwise..

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By *ublinmeathmanMan
over a year ago

clonee

Most girls on this site won't write back unless you send a face pic so Der essential if your a male on this site

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By *oeirlMan
over a year ago

dublin

NEVER meet without seing a face pic. i did it once and i got what i deserved. ill never make that mistake again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think either face pics or cam is essential, how else can one establish is there or attraction...or identify the other person at a cafe/bar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it unreasonable to ask for a face pic before a possible meet ??? i asked a guy yesterday for a face pic and he informed me i was being immature and to hung up on looks ? but surly you have to have a small idea if there might be a connection ? .... or maybe im just immature "

Not at all. Face pic is no problem if the opposite also can offer one.No one decide to meet on base of a tits pic ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you need to weight it up right at the start and if you feel you might like to meet a profile and they are in contact with you, a face pic near the start of correspondence can save each profile a lot of time.

time saved can be used productively elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a similar thread ... I am so sorry to say , but if a guy is not willing to email a face photo or go on cam, no matter how well we get on on paper so to speak, it would be no DATE!

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