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By *aterfordDom OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford

Im not even going to try and solve this one lol

Anyone got any ideas??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience,dont b pushy,chat lots..lol

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol."

has worked well for you, hasn't it long??? ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol."

Lol

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol.

has worked well for you, hasn't it long??? ha "

Ohhhh yessssss

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By *aterfordDom OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol.

has worked well for you, hasn't it long??? ha

Ohhhh yessssss"

I hadn't thought of that... might give it ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok whispers seriously how cn we improve? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok whispers seriously how cn we improve? Xx"

ehm, spotlight on me... ehm.... ehm.....

right, use common sense; don't forget your manners; if it looks to good to be true, it probably is; put up a few pics - probably not a cock pic as your profile picture but a nice chest, bum shot; have face pic ready in private to send after you feel ok to send it; get picture verified if you're not meet verified; chat on the forums; chat in the chat room; be friendly; have an interesting enough profile; have a sense of humour; attend meet and greets

last but not least, be patient and don't think too much with your cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww"

gosh yes!!! I wish they would put this in bold on top of the window whenever you are sending someone an email.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww"

Jaysus sweet be fair. I always give you at least ten minutes notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree whispers... most of all be repectful to the ladies and be straight up front to them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww

gosh yes!!! I wish they would put this in bold on top of the window whenever you are sending someone an email. "

Like there should be a flashing light on their pc when they try and send that

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww"

Jaysus, would it not be even worse if they treated them like paid prostitutes?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ok whispers seriously how cn we improve? Xx

ehm, spotlight on me... ehm.... ehm.....

right, use common sense; don't forget your manners; if it looks to good to be true, it probably is; put up a few pics - probably not a cock pic as your profile picture but a nice chest, bum shot; have face pic ready in private to send after you feel ok to send it; get picture verified if you're not meet verified; chat on the forums; chat in the chat room; be friendly; have an interesting enough profile; have a sense of humour; attend meet and greets

last but not least, be patient and don't think too much with your cock lol"

The best advice I ever heard was in the comedy series How Not To Live Your Life, when our hero, Don Danbury, claimed you should always "think with your balls"

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

To be honest and serious here the op should ask guys who do well here more than women

I'm sure it is not so simple to be successful meet wise and these guys would probably give u better insight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest and serious here the op should ask guys who do well here more than women

I'm sure it is not so simple to be successful meet wise and these guys would probably give u better insight. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww

gosh yes!!! I wish they would put this in bold on top of the window whenever you are sending someone an email.

Like there should be a flashing light on their pc when they try and send that "

Haha!

"Tick this box here before you send this email. By doing this you agree to the following email rules:

- You confirm that you have given yourself a good slap to remind yourself that you have a brain in your skull.

- You treat every person with full respect even though you can't stop imagining how much you want to hump them because you've been so horny since the moment you woke up this morning and the hangover makes you even hornier than ever and you can't stop wanking

- You fully understand that women on here are not free prositutes and that they have feelings like every other human being.

- You are an actual human being.

- A no means no.

- You don't take yourself too seriously by slapping yourself again

- Have looked in the mirror and remind yourself of who you really are and not that internet persona you want to be

- Had a wank before you press send because it takes the pressure off

Feel free to add more rules

Note, I tried not to generalise this for single males only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did expirement.sent couple polite txt n pic. Surprise not even a hi! Nxt sent rude txt to same n surprise got reply straight away..

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"To be honest and serious here the op should ask guys who do well here more than women

I'm sure it is not so simple to be successful meet wise and these guys would probably give u better insight. "

U can give me thumbs up anytime lollipops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww

gosh yes!!! I wish they would put this in bold on top of the window whenever you are sending someone an email.

Like there should be a flashing light on their pc when they try and send that

Haha!

"Tick this box here before you send this email. By doing this you agree to the following email rules:

- You confirm that you have given yourself a good slap to remind yourself that you have a brain in your skull.

- You treat every person with full respect even though you can't stop imagining how much you want to hump them because you've been so horny since the moment you woke up this morning and the hangover makes you even hornier than ever and you can't stop wanking

- You fully understand that women on here are not free prositutes and that they have feelings like every other human being.

- You are an actual human being.

- A no means no.

- You don't take yourself too seriously by slapping yourself again

- Have looked in the mirror and remind yourself of who you really are and not that internet persona you want to be

- Had a wank before you press send because it takes the pressure off

Feel free to add more rules

Note, I tried not to generalise this for single males only "

Ha ha ha ha I think you should get a job in fab lol, it would be a much better place with them kinda filters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest and serious here the op should ask guys who do well here more than women

I'm sure it is not so simple to be successful meet wise and these guys would probably give u better insight.

U can give me thumbs up anytime lollipops"

Trackies and all lol

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"To be honest and serious here the op should ask guys who do well here more than women

I'm sure it is not so simple to be successful meet wise and these guys would probably give u better insight.

U can give me thumbs up anytime lollipops

Trackies and all lol "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww"

i agree

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By *aterfordDom OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww

gosh yes!!! I wish they would put this in bold on top of the window whenever you are sending someone an email.

Like there should be a flashing light on their pc when they try and send that

Haha!

"Tick this box here before you send this email. By doing this you agree to the following email rules:

- You confirm that you have given yourself a good slap to remind yourself that you have a brain in your skull.

- You treat every person with full respect even though you can't stop imagining how much you want to hump them because you've been so horny since the moment you woke up this morning and the hangover makes you even hornier than ever and you can't stop wanking

- You fully understand that women on here are not free prositutes and that they have feelings like every other human being.

- You are an actual human being.

- A no means no.

- You don't take yourself too seriously by slapping yourself again

- Have looked in the mirror and remind yourself of who you really are and not that internet persona you want to be

- Had a wank before you press send because it takes the pressure off

Feel free to add more rules

Note, I tried not to generalise this for single males only "

I like that sweet...

Very true lol

But if I slapped myself every time I wanted to each sexy woman on here...id be concussed lol

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By *aterfordDom OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"I did expirement.sent couple polite txt n pic. Surprise not even a hi! Nxt sent rude txt to same n surprise got reply straight away.. "

Cut n paste that rude txt mate... it must be diamond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join a dating site instead of a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're trying to chat up a couple don't address all your chat to the female only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol."

ah the tried and tested method......"here love have a gander"

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Go into chatroom whip it out and wank on cam for the ladies lol.

ah the tried and tested method......"here love have a gander" "

Remember let them think they talked u into it though lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Ok whispers seriously how cn we improve? Xx

ehm, spotlight on me... ehm.... ehm.....

right, use common sense; don't forget your manners; if it looks to good to be true, it probably is; put up a few pics - probably not a cock pic as your profile picture but a nice chest, bum shot; have face pic ready in private to send after you feel ok to send it; get picture verified if you're not meet verified; chat on the forums; chat in the chat room; be friendly; have an interesting enough profile; have a sense of humour; attend meet and greets

last but not least, be patient and don't think too much with your cock lol"

Change that to THINK about what you want to say before you comment on forums because I have to say there are quite a few that are off-putting going by their comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not even going to try and solve this one lol

Anyone got any ideas?? "

Ah ,I've heard of this problem before.The solution is as follows. There's a woman around at the back of the markets,it's all very hush hush but if you give her a nod and a wink and she looks back at you like this and you respond like this ,mention me .Then she will sell you four boxes of seedless dates for a fiver.

I blame society for putting in place couples only restrictions on dates.

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Im not even going to try and solve this one lol

Anyone got any ideas??

Ah ,I've heard of this problem before.The solution is as follows. There's a woman around at the back of the markets,it's all very hush hush but if you give her a nod and a wink and she looks back at you like this and you respond like this ,mention me .Then she will sell you four boxes of seedless dates for a fiver.

I blame society for putting in place couples only restrictions on dates. "

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

DO Get younger, better looking, more confident than arrogant, loose the wife!, develop a streak of naughty, a jet never hurts, both on the runway and in the pants.

DON'T be an asshole!

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By *enny BenassiMan
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww"

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By *enny BenassiMan
over a year ago

Portlaoise

be relaxed , don't be a weirdo .. well the perverted type at least ... and treat the people on the site for what it is .. a place to have fun .. the win rate when u go to a pub and take ur cock our and ask someone to suck it is .00001% .. pretty much the same here .. people just don't appreciate it .. male or female

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By *R and Sue EllenCouple
over a year ago

Near the City

Woman get so many messages they can't answer everyone. Keep trying there will be someone there that will reply and fuck your brains out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not even going to try and solve this one lol

Anyone got any ideas?? "

..........go out and meet people in the REAL world !

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

An off the wall suggestion here.

Read the profile BEFORE sending a message

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By *aterfordDom OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"DO Get younger, better looking, more confident than arrogant, loose the wife!, develop a streak of naughty, a jet never hurts, both on the runway and in the pants.

DON'T be an asshole!

"

Lol.. I like that..Get Younger!! Lmao

OK I'll try that lol

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By *aterfordDom OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"Woman get so many messages they can't answer everyone. Keep trying there will be someone there that will reply and fuck your brains out.. "

Heyyyyy Jr n sue x

I like ur advice...

Sooo when can we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...don't contact woman with profiles with .. STOP READ !! followed by small prints of an insurance contract .. such ladies are a waste of time

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin


"If single lads stopped treating the women like unpaid prostitutes who are here to be at their beck and call. That would be a good start the single lads (IMO) who do well here are the ones who are chatty and respectful. Not the ones who mail you "I'm bout to cum, can I cum on u" ewwwww"

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"...don't contact woman with profiles with .. STOP READ !! followed by small prints of an insurance contract .. such ladies are a waste of time "

I'm sure they hide small print in there too. Ever notice they are also the really judgmental ones. You could normally also leave judg out of the the word tbh. Was I being judgmental there. Oh no. Off to draw up me contract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join a dating site instead of a swingers site "

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