FabSwingers.com forum: stop abusive men ruining things for nice guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have noticed like other guys have the amount of updates from ladies complaining about being abused by guys for saying no which in turns has ladies not replying to mails from nice guys.. is there anyway this can be stopped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope unless all the ladies turned on the single male filter

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Abusive guys only ruin things for abusive guys.if anything they do decent guys a favour.makes half decent guys seem good.

In the land of the blind the man with 1 eye is king

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Abusive guys only ruin things for abusive guys.if anything they do decent guys a favour.makes half decent guys seem good.

In the land of the blind the man with 1 eye is king"

Excellently put !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have noticed like other guys have the amount of updates from ladies complaining about being abused by guys for saying no which in turns has ladies not replying to mails from nice guys.. is there anyway this can be stopped?

a campaign involving tshirts would raise awareness

but really you can only drive your car. If you're nice, its noticed, if you're abusive it is too and we can't all be tarred with one brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Abusive guys only ruin things for abusive guys.if anything they do decent guys a favour.makes half decent guys seem good.

In the land of the blind the man with 1 eye is king"

i have 3.... I'm a God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Abusive guys only ruin things for abusive guys.if anything they do decent guys a favour.makes half decent guys seem good.

In the land of the blind the man with 1 eye is king"

So true and it's not that hard to distinguish the decent from the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure all the women know you're a good guy Risk!

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By *aterfordDomMan
over a year ago

waterford

What we need to do is stop any new men joining..

Then we need one really brave woman to meet every man on here for a coffee..

find out which ones are nice.. which are scary!!

Any takers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience for every rude,abusive male on here there's 3 who are really lovely genuine guys!

Both types out themselves pretty quickly so it's not hard to spot the nice ones from the nasty ones

Don't tar everyone with the same brush

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Abusive messages from anyone does not affect my decision on whether to answer another persons message. I reply, or not, based on a number of factors including message content, profile content and public pics.

Maybe having a look at these may help, and result in a more successful outcome/reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met and talked to some really lovely people on here

you know what they about arseholes... But you can't tar everyone with the same brush

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