FabSwingers.com forum: sexual feelings to a work colleague

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv a major crush on a work colleague who happens to be my boss. Yes shes female. Shes a bit older than me and i work with much prettier woman but she turns me on. She isn't available and i respect that. I like to know how many people have been in this situation's and acted on it or haven't and hoe do they feel. Smartarse commenters not needed so be funny elsewhere please

By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

"Iv a major crush on a work colleague who happens to be my boss. Yes shes female. Shes a bit older than me and i work with much prettier woman but she turns me on. She isn't available and i respect that. I like to know how many people have been in this situation's and acted on it or haven't and hoe do they feel. Smartarse commenters not needed so be funny elsewhere please

I've always believed in avoiding work relationships. Too complicated and too much to lose! Others may disagree, but the facts that she is your boss and also "isn't available" would be definite reasons for me to advise you to stay well clear!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember years ago in a job the manager turned me on big time and he was not attractive but he sent out these horny vibes without trying. It oozed out of him. I was very innocent back then and he'd always mess when he passed by dry humping me. He'd laugh and walk off but for me it was torture sexually, he was married and my nativity assumed nothing would happen. If that was today I'd have grabbed his groin to let him know I want it and stop teasing me the way he did.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of people meet their partners at work, we do spend a lot of time there after all! However, whenever possible try and avoid this to happen with your boss or subordinate. It's quite likely against company's policy and asks for trouble.

But it's nice to have someone at work you fancy, it makes your day more interesting.