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Nervous about first time!

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

So were new to all this. Only been to a few M&G parties. Although weve met some amazing people. And weve been asked to parties/meets.

We're shy and to be honest little scared about out first sex meet.

Is this normal? How dis ye feel? Were ye totally relaxed once u got there??

Any help out be great!

I/C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, still get nervous when getting ready for a meet. However after i get there I start to relax and just go with the flow. I think if I was ever to lose those nerves I would stop

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Yes quiet normal as it approaches the excitement grows along with the nerves they should be good nerves once u meet up maybe for a drink or coffee first it usually subsides and u feel at ease let the fun begin remember if u still feel nervous enough that u feel uncomfortable its ok to say no

enjoy once u get in to it its addictive be warned

happy swinging

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

Nerves is all part of the excitement and build up. Meet for drink / coffee first and if it doesn't feel right you don't have to go any further. Same as party you don't have to play unless you want to. Happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do, even when i meet my regular guys, so it's totally normal, take it easy, few drinks and let the chat flow and hopefully other things will, no rush either, when it feels right ye'll know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So were new to all this. Only been to a few M&G parties. Although weve met some amazing people. And weve been asked to parties/meets.

We're shy and to be honest little scared about out first sex meet.

Is this normal? How dis ye feel? Were ye totally relaxed once u got there??

Any help out be great!

I/C"

when i went to my first party i drank so much with my nerves i was pissed!everyone is nervous at meeting new ppl ,its natural so i wudnt worry about it,once u have a drink or 2 u will feel more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all very human and nerves are a very human quality and reaction. If we didn't have them there would be something wrong with us as it shows we care & we're human

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

nerves are always there before a meet but if u met the right people and ye click the nerves go straight out the window and when ur on the home u will wonder what u were nervous about.

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Dont get me wrong.when we go out to parties we are good fun. Anyone who has met us can confirm.were not shy individuals with drink in us. Lol

But its the sexual side were nervous bout. Aswell as maybe being too picky and wanting it to be perfect. Which is bad idea cos.

If u plan for perfection and you dont get it. You'll be turned off the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nerves are always there before a meet but if u met the right people and ye click the nerves go straight out the window and when ur on the home u will wonder what u were nervous about. "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

perfection can never be planned . its comes naturally when ur comfortable with who u meet and that usually takes the 2nd meet to get everything perfect as by this time u know exactly what turns the other people on and they know what turns ye on

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"perfection can never be planned . its comes naturally when ur comfortable with who u meet and that usually takes the 2nd meet to get everything perfect as by this time u know exactly what turns the other people on and they know what turns ye on "

as above the first time is to have fun and a laugh get comfortable with each other u will find a second and further it gets better

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...

Cos were lost really.

Think we'd try "soft swing" before

Full swap though.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

_razy-cpl holds out there hands to irishcouple 2000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...

Cos were lost really.

Think we'd try "soft swing" before

Full swap though.

"
that's exactly what we are thinking as well, takes a lot of stress away that way, we are cam verified but if don't get a meet soon people are going to think we are time wasters , Gerri xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves...are normal...if there was no buzz then we would stop meeting. ...its the unknown...we just put all our nerves into having a great time...

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Yip can be nerve wrecking...but when you click with a cpl it's so much fun...meet for a drink first that's what we do that way theres no pressure...and if everyone wants take it from there....partys are also great places to meet with no pressure to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...

Cos were lost really.

Think we'd try "soft swing" before

Full swap though.

"

Now come trust Auntie Annie....ill hold yer hand.....

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...

Cos were lost really.

Think we'd try "soft swing" before

Full swap though.

Now come trust Auntie Annie....ill hold yer hand..... "

Hehe We're definately not ready for u annie. You'll eat us alive

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...

Cos were lost really.

Think we'd try "soft swing" before

Full swap though.

Now come trust Auntie Annie....ill hold yer hand.....

Hehe We're definately not ready for u annie. You'll eat us alive"

Annie their nervous.....not nieve....us on the other hand you could trust with your lives

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Thanks for all ur help guys.

Guess we'll have to pick a couple to be our first.

Anyone know anyone interested?? Lol.

Baby steps for us beginners

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By *ohnsmith69dMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Best of luck guys with your first

Hope you enjoy

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...

Cos were lost really.

Think we'd try "soft swing" before

Full swap though.

that's exactly what we are thinking as well, takes a lot of stress away that way, we are cam verified but if don't get a meet soon people are going to think we are time wasters , Gerri xx "

Gerri don't rush it and don't worry what other people think. Just when you both feel comfortable with it let it happen.

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

We just had our first meet meet last weekend. Was strange in that some of the things we were worried about were fine and some things we didn't even think about were a bit iffy. The couple we were with were brilliant though so yeah, I'd say choose carefully. Have to say this week has been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for both of us, so be prepared for that I guess. Feel free to message if you have questions

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