FabSwingers.com forum: NO Photo just excuses !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was talking to a guy since I joined the site,he is always polite, charming ,funny etc ,and , he has 2 nice body shots but would not send a face photo or go on cam, always an excuse...so , what do ye think ? He shy,a messer etc...

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your gut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a guy since I joined the site,he is always polite, charming ,funny etc ,and , he has 2 nice body shots but would not send a face photo or go on cam, always an excuse...so , what do ye think ? He shy,a messer etc...

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

???? I am confused !Now there are two of

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

???? I am confused !Now there are two of

Wats confusing jay?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

If it walks like a duck,quacks like a duck its usually a duck, hes respectful u enjoy chatting otherwise u would not be replying go with ur feeling some are quiet private and if u feel safe then meet him for coffee in a public place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it walks like a duck,quacks like a duck its usually a duck, hes respectful u enjoy chatting otherwise u would not be replying go with ur feeling some are quiet private and if u feel safe then meet him for coffee in a public place

Thank you cj... maybe you are right !

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Personally I wudnt.why go tru bothr of affanging coffee meet n all that entails if he refuses to send pic.obviously its ops preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he's a duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think he's a duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut feeling always seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more fish in the sea, move on it's his loss

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

Have you been talking to him for over a year??

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

He knows u maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

agree with you Dave "go with ur gut

Personally i wouldnt take a chance jeeeezzzzz if ur talking ages surely a face pic at the very least isnt much to ask for MARRIED MAN springs to mind !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

agree with you Dave "go with ur gut

Personally i wouldnt take a chance jeeeezzzzz if ur talking ages surely a face pic at the very least isnt much to ask for MARRIED MAN springs to mind !!!!!!!"

Thank you ... I appreciate all opinions !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop him and come with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

???? I am confused !Now there are two of

Wats confusing jay?"

If she is talking to a guy since she joined the site ,got 2 body shots but would not send a face photo or go on cam .... you still follow hal ?

next -- he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply !

so .. I think it is confusing .. why he let it go so far..just to stop when it becomes serious ???? That make no sense to me ... CONFUSING !! If he would be not interested any longer, why not say ..SORRY

Do you understand my point of view now Hal ..? do you ..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I promised to pm my pics recently but the person involved couldn't understand why I didn't right away. This person had no pic's at all and didn't pm anything so I didn't reply. They got highly insulted!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

???? I am confused !Now there are two of

Wats confusing jay?

If she is talking to a guy since she joined the site ,got 2 body shots but would not send a face photo or go on cam .... you still follow hal ?

next -- he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply !

Do you understand my point of view now Hal ..? do you ..?

Sort of.thought u didnt understand op

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By *urious fem ddWoman
over a year ago

dublin

I don't and won't swap face pics. So I understand where he is coming from.

I agree with the 'go with your gut' comments too. You describe him as a nice guy. If you want to meet..as cj suggests go for a very public place.

As for his veri's not replying. ..not everyone checks in often. Benefit of the doubt? Nothing ventured nothing gained x

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare

Some people don't reckon it is worth the risk to put face pics on here or send them. I won't and am happy to meet blind. Obviously some of the guys above see it as a chance to knock out a bit of competition.

One women sent me a face pic. I googled it and it came up with her name and job. I don't give a shit but some people could use it to cause her trouble if things went bad.

I told her and she won't be using that picture again.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Now the interesting part is that he has verifications, but after emailing "them" never got a reply ! I am confused !

agree with you Dave "go with ur gut

Personally i wouldnt take a chance jeeeezzzzz if ur talking ages surely a face pic at the very least isnt much to ask for MARRIED MAN springs to mind !!!!!!!"

i am married lots have my face pic and ulpia has seen me on cam ffs the wife recognised my cock pic before my face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people don't reckon it is worth the risk to put face pics on here or send them. I won't and am happy to meet blind. Obviously some of the guys above see it as a chance to knock out a bit of competition.

One women sent me a face pic. I googled it and it came up with her name and job. I don't give a shit but some people could use it to cause her trouble if things went bad.

I told her and she won't be using that picture again. "

Exactly!!!

Have people forgotten that thus is the WORLD WIDE WEB!!!

Married isn't the point, it's simply privacy and discretion.

If there's a connection chatting then I think it's worth a blind coffee.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

One women sent me a face pic. I googled it and it came up with her name and job. I don't give a shit but some people could use it to cause her trouble if things went bad.

I told her and she won't be using that picture again.

Exactly!!!

Have people forgotten that thus is the WORLD WIDE WEB!!!

Married isn't the point, it's simply privacy and discretion.

If there's a connection chatting then I think it's worth a blind coffee."

jayus nosey as fook now to know her decision and if it worked out for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ulpia, you don't have any verifications after a year? An you're asking people to send face pics to you????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she is verified, she has the green tick anyway but her verifications are hidden,many people do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me too haha"

hello

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Ulpia, you don't have any verifications after a year? An you're asking people to send face pics to you???? "

she is on cam in chat all the time she is real

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By *rishpleasureMan
over a year ago

about

Avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me too haha

hello

Hellooooooo Zoro

Do you look like Antonio Banderas too?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Ulpia, you don't have any verifications after a year? An you're asking people to send face pics to you????

she is on cam in chat all the time she is real "

very real and dam sexy looking to boot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ulpia, you don't have any verifications after a year? An you're asking people to send face pics to you???? "
...maybe you should look lower on the page where it said "verified profile"! I just chose to have it in private !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so many others on here just say cheerio and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For those that did not read my entire profile, I am verified and been seen on cam in the chat room !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id tell him to get lost!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with classy no face pic piss off harsh but best way sure even if he does send the face pic u might say piss off or thank fook i didnt meet him on a blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here I wouldn't meet him simple plenty others out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i agree with classy no face pic piss off harsh but best way sure even if he does send the face pic u might say piss off or thank fook i didnt meet him on a blind date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i agree with classy no face pic piss off harsh but best way sure even if he does send the face pic u might say piss off or thank fook i didnt meet him on a blind date

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...I agree, I lways send a face photo or go on cm in the Irish Chat room ... so that way one can make up they mind...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same here I wouldn't meet him simple plenty others out there

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...Thank you BB, you always right

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If you like him already meet him for a coffee in a public place in your lunch hour nothing ventured nothing gained...what harm can it do if he can't meet for coffee well I think you know the answer then

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By *illytullMan
over a year ago

Anywhere I travel a lot

I am not excusing no photo but on the Cam, up to a few weeks ago I had a laptop with no cam and I also use my I phone like now and cant cam on it to cam either(if someone knows how help me) Photo is another thing if he doesn't want to show his photo that's ok but he could have it in private and send it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd never meet even for coffee without a face pic, otherwise how are you supposed to recognize them

Oh and +1 Ulpia is 100% real and verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'd never meet even for coffee without a face pic, otherwise how are you supposed to recognize them

Oh and +1 Ulpia is 100% real and verified "

have met her in a social context twice and she is a gem of a woman & as honest as you'd find on here. A true gem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you never know.

since there are a good few messers on here there could be a chance alright.

but in fairness, I live in rural Ireland and ain't have internet at all and a very crappy phone reception in addition.

so I can't skype or video chat when I am actually at home. bit of a disadvantage. I personally can't do it during the day, bare from a few occasions, use skype etc or even private email during work.

however, a face pic should go, but hey, may be he's just careful , but go with your gut feeling...

ciao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the nice advice, much appreciate it !

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By *ike_365Man
over a year ago

sligo

Ulpia, My pics are for friends only, my x got someone to befriend me, my membership and pics were presented in court at divorce hearing, apart from that I work in care sector so I def wont cam, I can understand how people are cautious, I am male and wont meet unless I am referred, too many weird people out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ulpia, My pics are for friends only, my x got someone to befriend me, my membership and pics were presented in court at divorce hearing, apart from that I work in care sector so I def wont cam, I can understand how people are cautious, I am male and wont meet unless I am referred, too many weird people out there"

OMG, so sorry about that ! Was not me !

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By *ike_365Man
over a year ago

sligo

lol

didn't think it was but now you mention it, joking

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By *ike_365Man
over a year ago

sligo

billy iphones don't support flash so u cant use it to cam, u can get a cam with usb cable to fit to laptop

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