FabSwingers.com forum: face pics with first message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers was just wondering your views on people requesting face pics with first message or you will get blocked or receive no reply.

There are various threads / profiles endorsing discretion and stressing caution yet some request face pics from outset.

Personally it puts me off responses as god knows where my face pic may end up.

Even though I have nothing to hide I think its a step too far. What's your opinions?

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare

It's total bullshit asking for face pics straight up.

That they can do so just reflects the inequity on here in terms of males to females.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

people can ask for what ever they want doesnt mean they will get it its simple if you dont want to send one u just dont email the cpl/woman/man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said yest I look for face pix if guy doesn't send it no problems move along I have no issue sending pix or been on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people can ask for what ever they want doesnt mean they will get it its simple if you dont want to send one u just dont email the cpl/woman/man "

I never understand why people think they should dictate how others should run their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabbers was just wondering your views on people requesting face pics with first message or you will get blocked or receive no reply.

There are various threads / profiles endorsing discretion and stressing caution yet some request face pics from outset.

Personally it puts me off responses as god knows where my face pic may end up.

Even though I have nothing to hide I think its a step too far. What's your opinions?"

As said before in my topic..Sad but true, so is the game here. Completely idiotic, you can play the rules , or equal delete your account... Even if you get an answer, that says not that the woman is to your taste, if you get an face pic in return, what is more than seldom, even if some of the ladies here think that they are God's gift to us men ... many here believe men shag everything without standards..not all of the girls of course .. so you have to decide whether and how long you play the game .. and whether it makes sense.

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By *edserMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I just send it with first message I think it helps a meeting move forward to meeting ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just send it with first message I think it helps a meeting move forward to meeting ...

Yeah that's it, but the bad taste stays that you could feed fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry jay u keep goin on abt fakes but ur profile aint verified u could be a fake just saying it as I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send ten cock pics from varying angles and with different objects measured against it, always a winner

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Jaysus if the profile ur lookin at has conditions u dont like move on to 1 that suits u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry jay u keep goin on abt fakes but ur profile aint verified u could be a fake just saying it as I see it

Yawn .. one of the problems here how can you get verified if you cant get a meet?

and when you get a meet. just verified members can verify you..

And if they are verified, they are to lazy are to write something, to verify you ..

you want my phone number ?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Sorry jay u keep goin on abt fakes but ur profile aint verified u could be a fake just saying it as I see it

Yawn .. one of the problems here how can you get verified if you cant get a meet?

and when you get a meet. just verified members can verify you..

And if they are verified, they are to lazy are to write something, to verify you ..

you want my phone number ?

Try sendin face pic with ur message jay.if not u cant really complain if u find it hard to get meet

Not saying u shud send face pic if ur not comfortable doin it but its goin to b much harder to get meet without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry jay u keep goin on abt fakes but ur profile aint verified u could be a fake just saying it as I see it

Yawn .. one of the problems here how can you get verified if you cant get a meet?

and when you get a meet. just verified members can verify you..

And if they are verified, they are to lazy are to write something, to verify you ..

you want my phone number ?

Try sendin face pic with ur message jay.if not u cant really complain if u find it hard to get meet

Not saying u shud send face pic if ur not comfortable doin it but its goin to b much harder to get meet without"

_al2001 read my messages please .. I do that always !! Because it is the game !! I just stir the shit pot

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

Rarely send face pic, and never ask for one. If a lady wants to send her's to me, then I will send back, but I never ask nor offer. It adds to the excitement of the meet. It works for me, have met some lovely ladies on the "blind", so to speak! And they have never been disappointed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rarely send face pic, and never ask for one. If a lady wants to send her's to me, then I will send back, but I never ask nor offer. It adds to the excitement of the meet. It works for me, have met some lovely ladies on the "blind", so to speak! And they have never been disappointed lol

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

????????

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

glad ur laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic is getting really boring.....

If you don't like what a profile says move on.... if you don't want to send a face pic in the first message - don't message. Same as if you don't like someone's face pic - move on.

Think someone said it yesterday but no reply is a reply in itself

It's really that simple. Each to their own and all

All the bitching and moaning on here would totally put me off messaging a guy!

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

glad ur laughing

CC you always make me smile, you know that, don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coz u have so many profiles im sure ur confused as to which one is really you..!!!!

glad ur laughing

CC you always make me smile, you know that, don't you

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i always ask for face pics as i have face pics on my profile and can be seen most days with my face on cam... only seems fair to me and helps to get the attraction going if you actually know what the person u are chatting with looks like ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send with first message, which is maybe a bad thing as I rarely get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always send with first message, which is maybe a bad thing as I rarely get a reply"

You have a fine looking ass so your face can't be that bad!!!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"I always send with first message, which is maybe a bad thing as I rarely get a reply

You have a fine looking ass so your face can't be that bad!!!"

Lol I was thinking same..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This topic is getting really boring.....

If you don't like what a profile says move on.... if you don't want to send a face pic in the first message - don't message. Same as if you don't like someone's face pic - move on.

Think someone said it yesterday but no reply is a reply in itself

It's really that simple. Each to their own and all

All the bitching and moaning on here would totally put me off messaging a guy!

Agree agree and agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This topic is getting really boring.....

If you don't like what a profile says move on.... if you don't want to send a face pic in the first message - don't message. Same as if you don't like someone's face pic - move on.

Think someone said it yesterday but no reply is a reply in itself

It's really that simple. Each to their own and all

All the bitching and moaning on here would totally put me off messaging a guy!

too right, bloody fabwhingers.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always send with first message, which is maybe a bad thing as I rarely get a reply

You have a fine looking ass so your face can't be that bad!!!

Lol I was thinking same..

I saw him first get inline lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i'm interested enough to contact someone, I always send a face pic and mobile number with my introduction. What annoys me, is people who contact me and then demand a face pic. In that case I always say, actually you contacted me, so it's up to you to send me yours...unsurprisingly most of them don't and come up with some bullshit reason why they can't, or promise to send it in return for mine. Like busty says....slide on by, plenty of other people out there that are well worth meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i'm interested enough to contact someone, I always send a face pic and mobile number with my introduction. What annoys me, is people who contact me and then demand a face pic. In that case I always say, actually you contacted me, so it's up to you to send me yours...unsurprisingly most of them don't and come up with some bullshit reason why they can't, or promise to send it in return for mine. Like busty says....slide on by, plenty of other people out there that are well worth meeting."

I hate when guys send a face pic in first message then keep asking for a face pic back, I don't ask for face pics and I dont send them on here, but nice tactics there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabbers was just wondering your views on people requesting face pics with first message or you will get blocked or receive no reply.

There are various threads / profiles endorsing discretion and stressing caution yet some request face pics from outset.

Personally it puts me off responses as god knows where my face pic may end up.

Even though I have nothing to hide I think its a step too far. What's your opinions?"

maybe not the first message but its not unreasonable to ask after say 3 or 4 i dont think,no point in chatting to sumone for ages if u dont fancy each other

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I get butterfly's wen someone asks for a face pic i do be terrified I'll get a message back sayin I know u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only send face pics if we have a definite meet arranged and have been asked for one. I do however, like to see a pic of 'the goods' Like most fabbers wr've too much to lose if we were recognised in a face pic. But as the old saying goes 'who looks at the mantlepiece when poking the fire'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get butterfly's wen someone asks for a face pic i do be terrified I'll get a message back sayin I know u "

yea me too or if they said something like no way yur ugly lol

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Didn't I see this under different heading yesterday.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"I get butterfly's wen someone asks for a face pic i do be terrified I'll get a message back sayin I know u

yea me too or if they said something like no way yur ugly lol "
haha that would be horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Like most fabbers wr've too much to lose if we were recognised in a face pic. "

have we ..?

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

" Like most fabbers wr've too much to lose if we were recognised in a face pic.

have we ..?

Of course. Public perception of scene would make most of people's lives here difficult if discovered. People have kids family friends who may be affected by it. Neighbours find out for example keep their kids from playing with yours. Teenage kids hear from others at impressionable age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's too much to demand a face pic with first email if this person doesn't have even have a face pic up.

OP, if you're not prepared to do it don't email them, simples. The possibility that they will delete and block are quite likely anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no bother sending face pic, its the recoil in horror from folks that hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no bother sending face pic, its the recoil in horror from folks that hurts "

Lol love it but your brave and do it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no bother sending face pic, "

same here ...

I do nothing reprehensible...

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Never with the first message, too many fake profiles on here or time wasting pic collectors. Have had idiots using my pic for fake profiles in the past ( google image search is great for finding those ).

Will send it after getting to know some one and building some trust.

And only then if they are a verified user.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Never with the first message, too many fake profiles on here or time wasting pic collectors. Have had idiots using my pic for fake profiles in the past ( google image search is great for finding those ).

Will send it after getting to know some one and building some trust.

And only then if they are a verified user."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will send it after getting to know some one and building some trust.

And only then if they are a verified user."

You are right .. but, good luck then here , as said before, you have to decide whether it makes sense for you or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get butterfly's wen someone asks for a face pic i do be terrified I'll get a message back sayin I know u

yea me too or if they said something like no way yur ugly lol "

This very thong has happened to us twice, first was, I was at your wedding, and second was I know you very well. But hey are we not all here for the same thing???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get butterfly's wen someone asks for a face pic i do be terrified I'll get a message back sayin I know u

yea me too or if they said something like no way yur ugly lol

This very thong has happened to us twice, first was, I was at your wedding, and second was I know you very well. But hey are we not all here for the same thing??? "

Haha I see, no one wants to send a facial image. But they want to see it from others. The old game ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no bother sending face pic, its the recoil in horror from folks that hurts

Lol love it but your brave and do it anyway

God loves a tryer

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"I get butterfly's wen someone asks for a face pic i do be terrified I'll get a message back sayin I know u

yea me too or if they said something like no way yur ugly lol

This very thong has happened to us twice, first was, I was at your wedding, and second was I know you very well. But hey are we not all here for the same thing??? "
ha that's true I'd still die a little inside if someone said it to me haha

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

I'm enjoying here, the face pic or no reply crowd are not what I'm looking for I ain't complaining about it.

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

"I'm enjoying here, the face pic or no reply crowd are not what I'm looking for I ain't complaining about it."

Me too

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By *utdoorsGuy8Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The thing I seem to find, the ones who demand a facepic right away in their first message are usually the ones with 0 pics on their profile, public or private.

I am comfortable exchanging facepics after a few exchanges, I have them in my private section. And usually tell people to add me to their friends list and they can see it. But given my line of work, I do not think it is best I hand out face pics right away without knowing or talking to the person first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing I seem to find, the ones who demand a facepic right away in their first message are usually the ones with 0 pics on their profile, public or private.

This ^^^^^

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I don't request face pic at all nor do I send. Its all about the banter and getting a gut feeling for someone. Respect is what I'm looking for and sending cock pics with first msg is a big nono. Actually sending cock pics any time is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabbers was just wondering your views on people requesting face pics with first message or you will get blocked or receive no reply.

There are various threads / profiles endorsing discretion and stressing caution yet some request face pics from outset.

Personally it puts me off responses as god knows where my face pic may end up.

Even though I have nothing to hide I think its a step too far. What's your opinions?"

I would be having none of it...but for the guys on here...some women...request it as they probably get soooo many messages it just cuts to the chase...ive had people ask and never send any themselves...so byeee time...but after a few messages and the potential of a meet and they are verified then we are ok....

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