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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A swinger ?

Obviously this site is made up of all sorts but I guess I'm aiming this topic at singles but would love to hear the views of everyone .,

If as a single you meet a person either on this site or the many other sites, or in the vanilla world .. And it's a choice of vanilla monogamy , love and all that goes with it .. Or the lifestyle ?

What wins out ? Do you think people are either inherently swingers and would feel they are missing out ? or it's a phase that can easily replaced with true love ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can become dangerously addictive but I have seen people meet on here and go on to have a full blown monogamous relationship...ie leave Fab

It depends on the individual...

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Thats a tough 1 miss p. Always said im a cuck til the end but mayb for the right girl id giv it all up.but then the right girl for me wud b a cuckoldress.

Depends on the girl.the right girl and id do as she wished.even if it meant givin up the lifestyle.maybe

Feck I dont kno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats a tough 1 miss p. Always said im a cuck til the end but mayb for the right girl id giv it all up.but then the right girl for me wud b a cuckoldress.

Depends on the girl.the right girl and id do as she wished.even if it meant givin up the lifestyle.maybe

Feck I dont kno"

lol yes u sound confused alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When im single and if i meet a new person i will make sure they will swing with me. As for the love side of it....i think if you find someone you really love and its not for them then you have already decided that ur giving it up. its hard to explain in text but ya know where im coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When im single and if i meet a new person i will make sure they will swing with me. As for the love side of it....i think if you find someone you really love and its not for them then you have already decided that ur giving it up. its hard to explain in text but ya know where im coming from "

Well said!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Dont tell us u met "mr right" miss p n leavin

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Dont tell us u met "mr right" miss p n leavin "

I was going to ask same of you. (Mrs right instead)You seemed like you were in a dilema

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No .. Just curious .. I have seen lots leaving after meeting mr/mrs right

I have seen lots of singles become successful couples

I'm just wondering can love conquer all ! Lol

Or does the kink win out ?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Well my kink isnt swinging as such.its not like I want to fuck lots of women.even vanilla girls can see the plus side of having a faithful monogamous guy who worships them and if she has occasional hot night with a hot stud he worships her even more

Slightly diffetent than tryin to convince vanilla girl to partake in orgies or the like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No .. Just curious .. I have seen lots leaving after meeting mr/mrs right

I have seen lots of singles become successful couples

I'm just wondering can love conquer all ! Lol

Or does the kink win out ? "

I would say love can conquer all, if the person is the right fir it shouldn't actually feel like you are losing out or compromising for the sake of a good relationship and that applies to all aspects of a relationship not just swinging. Besides there are ways of being kinky without involving other people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well my kink isnt swinging as such.its not like I want to fuck lots of women.even vanilla girls can see the plus side of having a faithful monogamous guy who worships them and if she has occasional hot night with a hot stud he worships her even more

Slightly diffetent than tryin to convince vanilla girl to partake in orgies or the like"

I'd be similar , I have zero interest in one to one meets , have done two in my two years swinging ! I like parties , mmf's , mmff's , ffm , greedy girls ! Lol ! And I'm all quality over quantity .. I have only arranged two swing meets since January's party !

It's not a hobby that is easily discussed on a vanilla date night !! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No .. Just curious .. I have seen lots leaving after meeting mr/mrs right

I have seen lots of singles become successful couples

I'm just wondering can love conquer all ! Lol

Or does the kink win out ?

I would say love can conquer all, if the person is the right fir it shouldn't actually feel like you are losing out or compromising for the sake of a good relationship and that applies to all aspects of a relationship not just swinging. Besides there are ways of being kinky without involving other people "

Very very true, I believe once people are open & honest about themselves who they are and what there into anything is possible. Communication though so easily said is really a make or break of relationships and especially those around kink & from the sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started swinging together before we got married had our 1st mff on honeymoon! Weve had periods before and after marraige of" just us" spanning 4/5 yrs so swinging isnt a must i wouldnt say we are pure swingers rather just horny Feckers! But when We are in the lifestyle we enjoy every minute! The kink ....I do think its either in you or its not! It cant be ignored or avoided!

Mrs.s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started swinging together before we got married had our 1st mff on honeymoon! Weve had periods before and after marraige of" just us" spanning 4/5 yrs so swinging isnt a must i wouldnt say we are pure swingers rather just horny Feckers! But when We are in the lifestyle we enjoy every minute! The kink ....I do think its either in you or its not! It cant be ignored or avoided!

Mrs.s"

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Well my kink isnt swinging as such.its not like I want to fuck lots of women.even vanilla girls can see the plus side of having a faithful monogamous guy who worships them and if she has occasional hot night with a hot stud he worships her even more

Slightly diffetent than tryin to convince vanilla girl to partake in orgies or the like

I'd be similar , I have zero interest in one to one meets , have done two in my two years swinging ! I like parties , mmf's , mmff's , ffm , greedy girls ! Lol ! And I'm all quality over quantity .. I have only arranged two swing meets since January's party !

It's not a hobby that is easily discussed on a vanilla date night !! Lol "

Thats a tough 1 to bring up on first vanilla date alright lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started swinging together before we got married had our 1st mff on honeymoon! Weve had periods before and after marraige of" just us" spanning 4/5 yrs so swinging isnt a must i wouldnt say we are pure swingers rather just horny Feckers! But when We are in the lifestyle we enjoy every minute! The kink ....I do think its either in you or its not! It cant be ignored or avoided!

Mrs.s"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my kink isnt swinging as such.its not like I want to fuck lots of women.even vanilla girls can see the plus side of having a faithful monogamous guy who worships them and if she has occasional hot night with a hot stud he worships her even more

Slightly diffetent than tryin to convince vanilla girl to partake in orgies or the like

I'd be similar , I have zero interest in one to one meets , have done two in my two years swinging ! I like parties , mmf's , mmff's , ffm , greedy girls ! Lol ! And I'm all quality over quantity .. I have only arranged two swing meets since January's party !

It's not a hobby that is easily discussed on a vanilla date night !! Lol "

Very very true but when you can its a great feeling!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"We started swinging together before we got married had our 1st mff on honeymoon! Weve had periods before and after marraige of" just us" spanning 4/5 yrs so swinging isnt a must i wouldnt say we are pure swingers rather just horny Feckers! But when We are in the lifestyle we enjoy every minute! The kink ....I do think its either in you or its not! It cant be ignored or avoided!

Mrs.s"

Iv heard ur amazing honeymoon story mrs s and its definitely 1 for the stories n fantasy section

Wowee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started swinging together before we got married had our 1st mff on honeymoon! Weve had periods before and after marraige of" just us" spanning 4/5 yrs so swinging isnt a must i wouldnt say we are pure swingers rather just horny Feckers! But when We are in the lifestyle we enjoy every minute! The kink ....I do think its either in you or its not! It cant be ignored or avoided!

Mrs.s

Iv heard ur amazing honeymoon story mrs s and its definitely 1 for the stories n fantasy section

Wowee"

Lol it was amazing! And just to clarify it was an mmf! The mffs came well before!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When im single and if i meet a new person i will make sure they will swing with me. As for the love side of it....i think if you find someone you really love and its not for them then you have already decided that ur giving it up. its hard to explain in text but ya know where im coming from

Well said! "

thanks...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A swinger ?

Obviously this site is made up of all sorts but I guess I'm aiming this topic at singles but would love to hear the views of everyone .,

If as a single you meet a person either on this site or the many other sites, or in the vanilla world .. And it's a choice of vanilla monogamy , love and all that goes with it .. Or the lifestyle ?

What wins out ? Do you think people are either inherently swingers and would feel they are missing out ? or it's a phase that can easily replaced with true love ?

"

I was a member of a different site for many years before I met my ex. When I met her I came off any sites I was on and never gave the lifestyle another thought as it wasn't the lifestyle I wanted with her.

The relationship didn't work out for other reasons and now I have found here I wonder how I went all those years and never gave it a second thought. I guess it's all about what you choose to be part of your life and what you don't.

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By *itreMan
over a year ago

killarney

Years ago, was on another site, met some great people, and a few not so. Met someone unconnected with the lifestyle, and left it all.. Had a last meeting with an American couple who I had met often. They were very experienced on the scene.. As they knew I was leaving, will never forget he said to me... "Once you have been in this lifestyle, you can never totally leave, even though you may be happy in your relationship, part of you will often drift back to this"

I found this to be totally true..

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