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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I as out tonight for the first time in ages and i got chatted up a few times by young lads looking to get their leg over. was funny and flattering but it shocked me at how abrupt they were. straight to the point no wasting time....do u want me to fuck u with or without a condom if its with one you have to buy them urself but id rather go without and fill you up......now we all love bareback with ones we trust as it feels great but these young lads thought nothing of it....one guy i said to him what if i said i had a vd...he didnt know what vd was and then he said ah its the chance ya take.... its no wonder syphilis is on a major rise here. The guys i was chatting to were about 25+.... shocking at how they had no problem risking their health for a shag down a back alley...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should really know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep its the difference in Boys and Men...

Jesus they are the wee Clowns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where were you out? None of my friends who are roughly that age go on like that! Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be a big theme now to go bareback, which makes me more wary who you actually would do it with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been suggested to me before alright, but only with girls I know would I do it!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"The guys i was chatting to were about 25+.... shocking at how they had no problem risking their health for a shag down a back alley... "

Not just their health but quite happy to risk yours as well. Stunning how HIV dropping from the news seems to have means it drops from people's minds as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's bloody nuts

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

I'm officially old. I could never even dream about talking to a lady like cc like that! And I'd never consider myself a gent or anything cause I do love the ladies and have been a major hound back in the day. But wtf? That's just wrong!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

trouble is they will find a girl that has had a few too many drinks and been forgotten about by her friends to say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I as out tonight for the first time in ages and i got chatted up a few times by young lads looking to get their leg over. was funny and flattering but it shocked me at how abrupt they were. straight to the point no wasting time....do u want me to fuck u with or without a condom if its with one you have to buy them urself but id rather go without and fill you up......now we all love bareback with ones we trust as it feels great but these young lads thought nothing of it....one guy i said to him what if i said i had a vd...he didnt know what vd was and then he said ah its the chance ya take.... its no wonder syphilis is on a major rise here. The guys i was chatting to were about 25+.... shocking at how they had no problem risking their health for a shag down a back alley... "

Really?

That wouldn't happen in Galway... they'd get a clip in the ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a fucking joke

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit


"I as out tonight for the first time in ages and i got chatted up a few times by young lads looking to get their leg over. was funny and flattering but it shocked me at how abrupt they were. straight to the point no wasting time....do u want me to fuck u with or without a condom if its with one you have to buy them urself but id rather go without and fill you up......now we all love bareback with ones we trust as it feels great but these young lads thought nothing of it....one guy i said to him what if i said i had a vd...he didnt know what vd was and then he said ah its the chance ya take.... its no wonder syphilis is on a major rise here. The guys i was chatting to were about 25+.... shocking at how they had no problem risking their health for a shag down a back alley...

Really?

That wouldn't happen in Galway... they'd get a clip in the ear. "

absolutely brother! Dead right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry guys but afraid its here too the amount of guys in here that try to enter with out protection is crazy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't happen everywhere that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry guys but afraid its here too the amount of guys in here that try to enter with out protection is crazy !"
Yeah a lot of lads on here wanna go bareback rather than use protection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I couldnt believe it....in a society where sex is pretty liberated compared to when we were teenagers what i witnessed last night was an eyeopener. i cant drink so was sober and thats prop why i even questioned the lads...well men.didnt even know wat a vd was i mean come on...i said i i had herpes or aids or anything would u still want to go bb....he said ah yeah sure i mightnt catch it.jyst as long as u cant get pregnant..... ffs a baby is the least of their worries

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

So any way... Did u get lucky in the end lol

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit


"So any way... Did u get lucky in the end lol"

pmsl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldnt believe it....in a society where sex is pretty liberated compared to when we were teenagers what i witnessed last night was an eyeopener. i cant drink so was sober and thats prop why i even questioned the lads...well men.didnt even know wat a vd was i mean come on...i said i i had herpes or aids or anything would u still want to go bb....he said ah yeah sure i mightnt catch it.jyst as long as u cant get pregnant..... ffs a baby is the least of their worries"
haha yeah sure he mightn't catch it hahaha he had to be havin a laugh either that or hes just a cabbage

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I had a similar experience a few weeks ago chatting to a Lad and me being me I chatted away. Until I got asked out of the blue.

Fancy coming with me down the side of the pub and I show and I ride u.

I started laughing to which he replied aww come om I have not had sex in a yr.

He was 23; if I was foolish enough I can guarantee he would not of worn anything.

At 23 I know he's young but not that foolish to

disregard safe sex.

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Restore my faith in the future of irish men ok? Tell me he had a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, ever would I let a man or boy speak to me in that manner. That's disgraceful. I probably would have told them '"hey, I know yer ma! I'll give her a ring and tell her what yer up to" They need a good ole Irish mammy slapping!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a cheeky little fucker I'd never speak like that and I'd always use protection until I trust them even tho it feels better without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever would I let a man or boy speak to me in that manner. That's disgraceful. I probably would have told them '"hey, I know yer ma! I'll give her a ring and tell her what yer up to" They need a good ole Irish mammy slapping!!! "
Lol they probably would enjoy that too

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit


"Never, ever would I let a man or boy speak to me in that manner. That's disgraceful. I probably would have told them '"hey, I know yer ma! I'll give her a ring and tell her what yer up to" They need a good ole Irish mammy slapping!!! "

I know my home place and I'm awful proud of the young fellas there. You know what I mean. Good men and would have a problem with boys like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever would I let a man or boy speak to me in that manner. That's disgraceful. I probably would have told them '"hey, I know yer ma! I'll give her a ring and tell her what yer up to" They need a good ole Irish mammy slapping!!! Lol they probably would enjoy that too "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never, ever would I let a man or boy speak to me in that manner. That's disgraceful. I probably would have told them '"hey, I know yer ma! I'll give her a ring and tell her what yer up to" They need a good ole Irish mammy slapping!!! "

well it got to the stage where i questioned him more than letting him speak to me like that. either way it was crazy....it wasnt just 1 bloke either....it seemed to be the said thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sons only 18 but as soon as girls came on the scene a few years ago I told him his dick would turn green and fall off without a condom being used.

Yeah he laughed just like you probably but stopped as soon as I told him the price of nappies too......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My sons only 18 but as soon as girls came on the scene a few years ago I told him his dick would turn green and fall off without a condom being used.

Yeah he laughed just like you probably but stopped as soon as I told him the price of nappies too......

"

lol yes they are very concerned at the whole children thing...

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

Two of ye ladies posted that that kinda crap happened to ye. I reckon by all the responses ye know yer well respected and loved on here anyway. Fuck em! Assholes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever would I let a man or boy speak to me in that manner. That's disgraceful. I probably would have told them '"hey, I know yer ma! I'll give her a ring and tell her what yer up to" They need a good ole Irish mammy slapping!!!

well it got to the stage where i questioned him more than letting him speak to me like that. either way it was crazy....it wasnt just 1 bloke either....it seemed to be the said thing "

we're turning back the clocks to cave men times, it seems!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry guys but afraid its here too the amount of guys in here that try to enter with out protection is crazy ! Yeah a lot of lads on here wanna go bareback rather than use protection "
I actually think these lads have spent their youth watching porn with the adult entertainers wearing no protectiona and it has actually sunk into

their heads that it is acceptable no to wrap up!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry guys but afraid its here too the amount of guys in here that try to enter with out protection is crazy ! Yeah a lot of lads on here wanna go bareback rather than use protection I actually think these lads have spent their youth watching porn with the adult entertainers wearing no protectiona and it has actually sunk into

their heads that it is acceptable no to wrap up!!!"

is quite possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup..... "

I have seen a lot of barebacking at some parties and I heard of one last summer where condoms weren't even provided!!! A lot of people seem to think if there are no symptoms then they are clean..... So there is a lot of risk taking everywhere we look!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I as out tonight for the first time in ages and i got chatted up a few times by young lads looking to get their leg over. was funny and flattering but it shocked me at how abrupt they were. straight to the point no wasting time....do u want me to fuck u with or without a condom if its with one you have to buy them urself but id rather go without and fill you up......now we all love bareback with ones we trust as it feels great but these young lads thought nothing of it....one guy i said to him what if i said i had a vd...he didnt know what vd was and then he said ah its the chance ya take.... its no wonder syphilis is on a major rise here. The guys i was chatting to were about 25+.... shocking at how they had no problem risking their health for a shag down a back alley...

Really?

That wouldn't happen in Galway... they'd get a clip in the ear.

absolutely brother! Dead right. "

Um... Galway on a Saturday night? Some of the stuff men come out with would make your toes curl... and not in a good way.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Good question cc.there is a couple of possibilities. Either the world will end by a natural catastrophe or it will be a gradual decline.either was astronomy teaches us there was a beginning and there will b an end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup..... "

I'm speechless!

Did you not feel like punching him, never mind hubs?

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

You'll not get that up north this week CC!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll not get that up north this week CC!

"

I would disagree, when have been out on town and talking bout sex the amount that think it's strange to use protection is present here too

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"You'll not get that up north this week CC!

I would disagree, when have been out on town and talking bout sex the amount that think it's strange to use protection is present here too"

That's a shame!

I'm glad I'm old and wise for a change!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup..... "

Jaysus annie

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any


"Yep its the difference in Boys and Men...

Jesus they are the wee Clowns "

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Sorry guys but afraid its here too the amount of guys in here that try to enter with out protection is crazy !"

Yep seen it all to often.. One of my reasons for staying away from meets. Just sickened by the amount of bare backing I've seen recently.

I wouldn't have sex without a condom with anyone- don't care how well you "know" them or trust them, if they're doing it with you they're doing it with others.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup.....

Jaysus annie "

ive seen a lot of bare back going on at parties over the years it scares the be jebus out of me and we are supposed all clued in swingers it only takes one person to start an epidemic. whether they are young or old its no excuse to not wearing protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup.....

Jaysus annie

ive seen a lot of bare back going on at parties over the years it scares the be jebus out of me and we are supposed all clued in swingers it only takes one person to start an epidemic. whether they are young or old its no excuse to not wearing protection "

Hey....you know who im talking about??? You were there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup.....

Jaysus annie

ive seen a lot of bare back going on at parties over the years it scares the be jebus out of me and we are supposed all clued in swingers it only takes one person to start an epidemic. whether they are young or old its no excuse to not wearing protection "

Hey....you know who im talking about??? You were there....

TO CLARIFY IT WASN'T LAID.....OK!!!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

yeah I do and for the rest I want to say it sure wasnt me !!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"yeah I do and for the rest I want to say it sure wasnt me !! "

Definitely wasn't laid.. We got the hell outta there as soon as we saw that..

Not the way we swing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah I do and for the rest I want to say it sure wasnt me !!

Definitely wasn't laid.. We got the hell outta there as soon as we saw that..

Not the way we swing..

"

Ye know now why we left too....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup..... "

that is a disgrace and not good enough...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm almost 27 and I would never have unprotected sex it's something that is always in the back of my mind. It just isn't worth the worrying about after.

It would take a special woman I was in a relationship with to have unprotected sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This doesn't surprise me to be honest most guys I know have unprotected sex they don't care most think if they do get an Sti that it's not dangerous

As for kids and that a lot of guys and girls are very careless and just think oh the morning after pill or a bit of a holiday to England!

The younger generation 17 18 19 year olds don't seem to care it's worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is another example of the global dumbing down of society.

the likes of geordie/jersey shore and their ilk have a lot to answer for. younger people see them as role models. I see them as dangerous idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup..... "

that's exactly what has been stopping me from going to parties. This happened to you being with your hubby! Makes you wonder how much more they try this with a single woman.

Even if he had worn a condom. Entering or even touching me without my permission is an absolute no no and unacceptable!!!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup.....

that's exactly what has been stopping me from going to parties. This happened to you being with your hubby! Makes you wonder how much more they try this with a single woman.

Even if he had worn a condom. Entering or even touching me without my permission is an absolute no no and unacceptable!!!!"

We go to lots of partys and I think Annie will agree this was a exception......most hosts know their guests well at any party if a man behaved like that he would be asked to leave.....think that's why most hosts don't really enjoy their own partys their busy makeing sure everything is going well and there is no problems.....but don't think I would go alone unless I had met everyone before....so I understand your fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...we love parties this was a well verified mature male....back at a room! Not the norm for a party no....

One party a guy had a few too many got messy fingers and hands everywhere a taxi was called he was asked to leave...parties are the safest place to play normally....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not just the young guys unfortunately....at a meet n greet back at the room a mature well verified male slipped into me from behind bare back as i was giving another person head!! It shocked me to the core....i was speechless...had a few words with him,he didn't seem to see the big deal!! I did not tell my hubby either..i was avoiding a punchup.....

that's exactly what has been stopping me from going to parties. This happened to you being with your hubby! Makes you wonder how much more they try this with a single woman.

Even if he had worn a condom. Entering or even touching me without my permission is an absolute no no and unacceptable!!!!"

one of the reasons we don't go to parties as well

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Yes...we love parties this was a well verified mature male....back at a room! Not the norm for a party no....

One party a guy had a few too many got messy fingers and hands everywhere a taxi was called he was asked to leave...parties are the safest place to play normally.... "

Agree....really hope this doesn't put anyone off going to a party

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