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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quick question.as a bi male iv been turned down by women and iv no problem with that as everyone has their own prefrences

Im wondering do women see it as a man is less of a man?im not camp in any way i come across as straight as the next guy.

A female perspective would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not a turn off for me at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thats good to know sweet!

The majority of girls i talk to think it is i was even told it makes a man less masceline......

Am i talking to the wrong women?

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

It doesn't bother me.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv no problem telling people on fab that im bi but outside of here iv never told any gfs or girls i no.....would you think different of a guy outside of fab?maybe a guy youv known a long time?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Have they said its cos ur bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv no problem telling people on fab that im bi but outside of here iv never told any gfs or girls i no.....would you think different of a guy outside of fab?maybe a guy youv known a long time?"

I know a guy off here who is the same. He's leading a bit of a double life to be honest and I just wish he would be honest with himself and everyone else.

I treat people the same, whether on here or friends, family etc. As long as they're happy why would I judge them? No, I would salute them for being honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have they said its cos ur bi?"

Yea i was told they dont like bi guys and

I asked just out of curiousity and i was told they like real men.....

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Iv no problem telling people on fab that im bi but outside of here iv never told any gfs or girls i no.....would you think different of a guy outside of fab?maybe a guy youv known a long time?"

I wouldn't think any different outside of fab. My opinions are the same on or off this site. Just remember not to confuse which sex your with...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im the same sweet,iv known im bi the last 10 years and still havnt told any one within my friend/family circle but do they need to know about my sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have they said its cos ur bi?

Yea i was told they dont like bi guys and

I asked just out of curiousity and i was told they like real men....."

each to their own but you would think on a site like this people would be a bit more open minded and less judgemental. But I guess if that thought is in their mind they can't really help it being turned off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im the same sweet,iv known im bi the last 10 years and still havnt told any one within my friend/family circle but do they need to know about my sex life?"

you said you never told your girlfriends... I think they should know?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep and im fine with whatever turns them on or dosent as the case may be.

Is it better to keep it a secret until the oportunity presents itself.....quite possibly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im the same sweet,iv known im bi the last 10 years and still havnt told any one within my friend/family circle but do they need to know about my sex life?

you said you never told your girlfriends... I think they should know?! "

I allways felt they wouldnt approve and i

Never acted on it while with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iv no problem telling people on fab that im bi but outside of here iv never told any gfs or girls i no.....would you think different of a guy outside of fab?maybe a guy youv known a long time?

I wouldn't think any different outside of fab. My opinions are the same on or off this site. Just remember not to confuse which sex your with... "

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Im the same sweet,iv known im bi the last 10 years and still havnt told any one within my friend/family circle but do they need to know about my sex life?"

That's a question only you can answer!! You know your family and friends better than anyone. Obviously your frightened of the reaction and the repercussions or otherwise you'd of told them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im the same sweet,iv known im bi the last 10 years and still havnt told any one within my friend/family circle but do they need to know about my sex life?

That's a question only you can answer!! You know your family and friends better than anyone. Obviously your frightened of the reaction and the repercussions or otherwise you'd of told them."

Yea i think on here people need to know but outside of here its not really relevent...

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By *ike_365Man
over a year ago

sligo

You are not wrong in general, I do social work so work in a mainly female environment, I have heard many female conversations on the topic. It is not right or fair but they do view bi women in a different way to bi men, many said it was the penetration part of the act that disturbed them, higher risk of infection.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Quick question.as a bi male iv been turned down by women and iv no problem with that as everyone has their own prefrences

Im wondering do women see it as a man is less of a man?im not camp in any way i come across as straight as the next guy.

A female perspective would be appreciated "

we only meet bi or bi curious males when we do look for single guys and as it just adds more to the meet and u dont have to worry whos hands are where , also hate when they put straight on their profile and mail us saying they straight , guys just be honest and u will be rewarded lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question.as a bi male iv been turned down by women and iv no problem with that as everyone has their own prefrences

Im wondering do women see it as a man is less of a man?im not camp in any way i come across as straight as the next guy.

A female perspective would be appreciated "

yes ,i know its wrong but when i think of a gay or bi guy i dont think of them as masculine or manly but more girly

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Quick question.as a bi male iv been turned down by women and iv no problem with that as everyone has their own prefrences

Im wondering do women see it as a man is less of a man?im not camp in any way i come across as straight as the next guy.

A female perspective would be appreciated

we only meet bi or bi curious males when we do look for single guys and as it just adds more to the meet and u dont have to worry whos hands are where , also hate when they put straight on their profile and mail us saying they straight , guys just be honest and u will be rewarded lol "

oopppsss meant to say they have straight on profile but mail and say they are bi ooppppsss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, it's a weird thing. If a couple with a straight female are happy to meet a bi fem as long as no girl/girl play happens, then why cant a couple with a straight male meet a bi guy as long as no guy/guy stuff happens? isnt it a bit of a double standard?

It seems bi women are more accepted on swingers sites.....if not expected.

I've experimented enough in my younger years to know that i'm straight, but if in the middle of some group fun sometimes i'm not gonna care who's hand is on my cock

I think that as long as do's and don'ts are laid out early on then it doesnt matter who you meet.

The profiles that dont allow bi men to message them are a tad afraid in my opinion, I bet the male half is scared that the bi guy will force bi stuff on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a bj ,is good enough for a lady/girl ??

Its good enough fir me,

Some couples put "no bi guys" its no biggie mate,dont sorry bout it!!.

Each to their own,back on the saddle lad

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

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"Iv no problem telling people on fab that im bi but outside of here iv never told any gfs or girls i no.....would you think different of a guy outside of fab?maybe a guy youv known a long time?

I know a guy off here who is the same. He's leading a bit of a double life to be honest and I just wish he would be honest with himself and everyone else.

I treat people the same, whether on here or friends, family etc. As long as they're happy why would I judge them? No, I would salute them for being honest. "

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow


"yes ,i know its wrong but when i think of a gay or bi guy i dont think of them as masculine or manly but more girly"

Im not mad or anything but is that not kind of a very offensive comment to make?

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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago

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"Have they said its cos ur bi?

Yea i was told they dont like bi guys and

I asked just out of curiousity and i was told they like real men....."

Real men?? Bull shit So old fashioned and ignorant is what I'd say..(female here)

Every one to their own if it's not for tthem just say no but not to brand the guys not real men..I think it's such a turn on and prefer the honesty..

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Quick question.as a bi male iv been turned down by women and iv no problem with that as everyone has their own prefrences

Im wondering do women see it as a man is less of a man?im not camp in any way i come across as straight as the next guy.

A female perspective would be appreciated

yes ,i know its wrong but when i think of a gay or bi guy i dont think of them as masculine or manly but more girly"

defo a very unfair comment to make , and i can 100% garuntee that mr crazy is masculine and manly and defo not girlie, if u could only ask the fems we play with and they would defo tell he can go at hard and strong and wear them out, just cause he likes a little extra while we play doesnt make him less of a man , oppisite in fact as he has the strength to keep male and female happy , whats girlie about that

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By *onstructionladMan
over a year ago

Tipperary/limerick

Most bi guys are very straight acting and not in the least camp ...it never ceases to surprise me how bi women are so well excepted but bi guys are still very taboo .... but each to their own I suppose ......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes ,i know its wrong but when i think of a gay or bi guy i dont think of them as masculine or manly but more girly

Im not mad or anything but is that not kind of a very offensive comment to make?"

Only seeing this now and it just confirms what i already new.....id like to think if more women met bi guys such as myself they would see that bi guys arent girly.......

I am 100% masceline,i have a "manly job" im a machine operator,i enjoy lifting weights,motor x,football,i love steak and chips.....all the typical manly stuff haha so would i still be seen as girly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do u care so much about the views of the odd bigot? After all it is their loss, not yours. I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone who had views that belong in the 18th century....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do u care so much about the views of the odd bigot? After all it is their loss, not yours. I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone who had views that belong in the 18th century...."

Not so much that i care but more that i want to understand....thats all.everyone is entitled to their opinion,even if it is some what out dated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi men. They are so much more openminded and definitely not girly. This country has a bit of catching up to do. Bring on the bi guys i say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love bi men. They are so much more openminded and definitely not girly. This country has a bit of catching up to do. Bring on the bi guys i say! "

Glad you feel that way

If only more had your way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no problem with Bi Guys...

Its a bit of a taboo in the world outside fab but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've no problem with Bi Guys...

Its a bit of a taboo in the world outside fab but "

If only we didnt have to live in that world

Lol

Anyway im over it,im gona continue to have fun with whoever wants me and to those who dont......good luck

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