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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just tried to message a couple who we have never had any connection with and it says we're blocked by them or they are blocked by us, or their account has been suspended by admin. What does that mean... do people get put on the naughty bench for a certain time limit and why?

Can't think why they'd block us with no prior communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tried to message a couple who we have never had any connection with and it says we're blocked by them or they are blocked by us, or their account has been suspended by admin. What does that mean... do people get put on the naughty bench for a certain time limit and why?

Can't think why they'd block us with no prior communication."

We once got a ban for posting pics that had something in the background...cant think why...maybe they didnt appreciate your witty profile...it made me and my mr chuckle lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ur probably blocked....take it from an experienced one here..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they blocked you,perhaps you are not what they are looking for,and to save time reading your profile at a further date,or you reading theirs, they have simply blocked.nothing personal im sure

or as you have said,they have indeed been naughty and admin has suspended their account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tried to message a couple who we have never had any connection with and it says we're blocked by them or they are blocked by us, or their account has been suspended by admin. What does that mean... do people get put on the naughty bench for a certain time limit and why?

Can't think why they'd block us with no prior communication."

You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You have changed it!! I loved the other one!! "

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Op I love ur profile picture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op I love ur profile picture. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)"

hehe...it sure is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)

hehe...it sure is... "

Ah but this is your thread so knock yourselves out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)

hehe...it sure is...

Ah but this is your thread so knock yourselves out!"

Well look who it is! So are you suspended by admin or have you blocked us? I'm thick skinned, let it all out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)

hehe...it sure is...

Ah but this is your thread so knock yourselves out!

Well look who it is! So are you suspended by admin or have you blocked us? I'm thick skinned, let it all out...."

Awkward....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)

hehe...it sure is...

Ah but this is your thread so knock yourselves out!

Well look who it is! So are you suspended by admin or have you blocked us? I'm thick skinned, let it all out....

Awkward.... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just to clarify, I was actually only trying to look at the profile... the caption reads couple looking for couples so I thought that was a good start,lol...... well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just to clarify, I was actually only trying to look at the profile... the caption reads couple looking for couples so I thought that was a good start,lol...... well?"

Who, us?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just to clarify, I was actually only trying to look at the profile... the caption reads couple looking for couples so I thought that was a good start,lol...... well?

Who, us?"

yes you! fun couple who like to play with others.... I was only trying to have a peep, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just to clarify, I was actually only trying to look at the profile... the caption reads couple looking for couples so I thought that was a good start,lol...... well?

Who, us?

yes you! fun couple who like to play with others.... I was only trying to have a peep, lol"

maybe they were tryin to wink you and their finger slipped? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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maybe they were tryin to wink you and their finger slipped? lol"

ooooh, they've got slippy fingers!? yumm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone reports you you get suspended even if there just being spiteful, and uve done norhing wrong, the way the site is moderated leaves it wide opwn for vindictive abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You have changed it!! I loved the other one!!

aw! just cos you're a cute little panther I've put it back again, purr purr

(this is the sort of personal banter that people give out about being in the forums isn't it,lol)

hehe...it sure is...

Ah but this is your thread so knock yourselves out!

Well look who it is! So are you suspended by admin or have you blocked us? I'm thick skinned, let it all out...."

I'll reply to this one as we've established you were talking to us.

Not suspended as far as I know, perhaps you weren't what we were looking for? I certainly don't remember having any cross words with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone reports you you get suspended even if there just being spiteful, and uve done norhing wrong, the way the site is moderated leaves it wide opwn for vindictive abuse "

Uh oh, better get in quick guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh well that's cool, maybe we were chatting ages and ages ago and I forgot, I'd just never come across being blocked before, it's a first!

Thanks for clarifying! Lovely profile pic by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked"

Mother of all the saints, all the flippi' petty rules! I've read most of the site guidelines but that's a new one, lol. I wasn't using the forum to get around a block anyway, the original post asks a valid question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked"

I wouldn't have discussed it anyway Nippy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well that's cool, maybe we were chatting ages and ages ago and I forgot, I'd just never come across being blocked before, it's a first!

Thanks for clarifying! Lovely profile pic by the way "

Thanks, I like yours too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked"

Not much of a tech but i can't see that on either the mobile or desktop site???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked

Mother of all the saints, all the flippi' petty rules! I've read most of the site guidelines but that's a new one, lol. I wasn't using the forum to get around a block anyway, the original post asks a valid question."

Don't shoot the messenger , was just pointing out how you can tell why you can't see a profile

Not sure where the thing about using the forums to get around a block comes from, just had a certain forum god quote it enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked

Not much of a tech but i can't see that on either the mobile or desktop site???"

Found it. Highlighted in yellow on the reply to post page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, if they were suspended, they wouldn't be able to post on the forums not interact with the rest of us

Look at that page again, if you have blocked them it tells you on the top left of the page. If you haven't blocked them, they have you blocked

And it's against the rules to use the forum to get around a block - ie ask on here why you are blocked

Not much of a tech but i can't see that on either the mobile or desktop site???

Found it. Highlighted in yellow on the reply to post page"

Gotcha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I can't see any of that anywhere. We're obviously blocked by them, and that's their business. What an eye opener... can we universally block ALL single males so they can't even see our profile the way we can't see that couple's ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I can't see any of that anywhere. We're obviously blocked by them, and that's their business. What an eye opener... can we universally block ALL single males so they can't even see our profile the way we can't see that couple's ? "

Surely there's a filter if you havr no interest in single men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I can't see any of that anywhere. We're obviously blocked by them, and that's their business. What an eye opener... can we universally block ALL single males so they can't even see our profile the way we can't see that couple's ?

Surely there's a filter if you havr no interest in single men."

Yeah they can't message us but they can perv our profile, we can't even look at your profile... we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I can't see any of that anywhere. We're obviously blocked by them, and that's their business. What an eye opener... can we universally block ALL single males so they can't even see our profile the way we can't see that couple's ?

Surely there's a filter if you havr no interest in single men.

Yeah they can't message us but they can perv our profile, we can't even look at your profile... we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites."

Oh, I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I can't see any of that anywhere. We're obviously blocked by them, and that's their business. What an eye opener... can we universally block ALL single males so they can't even see our profile the way we can't see that couple's ?

Surely there's a filter if you havr no interest in single men.

Yeah they can't message us but they can perv our profile, we can't even look at your profile... we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites."

Sure just block them one by one,should only take a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I can't see any of that anywhere. We're obviously blocked by them, and that's their business. What an eye opener... can we universally block ALL single males so they can't even see our profile the way we can't see that couple's ?

Surely there's a filter if you havr no interest in single men.

Yeah they can't message us but they can perv our profile, we can't even look at your profile... we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites.

Sure just block them one by one,should only take a few weeks "

Or a few years...haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites."

....which would have meant that I would never have seen your profile, and not have been able to say how much I enjoyed reading it; are we all getting *that* precious?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites.

....which would have meant that I would never have seen your profile, and not have been able to say how much I enjoyed reading it; are we all getting *that* precious?"

Thanks, glad you enjoyed reading it

I bet you only get Playboy to read the articles too,lol (joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were blocked by a couple who use the Forum.. dunno why.. never had any bad words etc etc...

then.. we seen a verification of a couple they had met who we don't really like.. ( clean version ).. at a meet n greet..

and well, we sort of put 2 and 2 together as to why that couple should block us

could possibly hold record for people blocking them on Fab... any one wanna go toe 2 toe lol !!!

don't worry OP... theres loads others out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were blocked by a couple who use the Forum.. dunno why.. never had any bad words etc etc...

then.. we seen a verification of a couple they had met who we don't really like.. ( clean version ).. at a meet n greet..

and well, we sort of put 2 and 2 together as to why that couple should block us

could possibly hold record for people blocking them on Fab... any one wanna go toe 2 toe lol !!!

don't worry OP... theres loads others out there "

Pet hate. ..people that wont meet you...because they see youve met someone they dont like...who cares...i judge people myself...i dont listen to all that nonsense or get involved...sex is sex...got my normal vanilla life to be worrying about all that nonsense!!...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not worried one bit, was only perving profiles at lunch time. Original post was purely enquiring what "suspended by admin" means in terms of sitting on the naughty bench. Never heard of it and we'd never noticed been blocked before, so I was just wondering what the system is. The profile wasn't suspended but it's nothing to do with my question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were blocked by a couple who use the Forum.. dunno why.. never had any bad words etc etc...

then.. we seen a verification of a couple they had met who we don't really like.. ( clean version ).. at a meet n greet..

and well, we sort of put 2 and 2 together as to why that couple should block us

could possibly hold record for people blocking them on Fab... any one wanna go toe 2 toe lol !!!

don't worry OP... theres loads others out there

Pet hate. ..people that wont meet you...because they see youve met someone they dont like...who cares...i judge people myself...i dont listen to all that nonsense or get involved...sex is sex...got my normal vanilla life to be worrying about all that nonsense!!... "

Yea, we've had things said about us to couples by a couple who were angry we didn't wanna meet em again, I guess if people want to believe it they will, nothing ya can do about it, I'm sure I've been blocked plenty over the years cos people think Im an asshole on here but I'm actually not that bad in real life, honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the articles in Playboy and your profile have one other thing in common - they're at least spelled correctly. And for that alone you're to be congratulated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were blocked by a couple who use the Forum.. dunno why.. never had any bad words etc etc...

then.. we seen a verification of a couple they had met who we don't really like.. ( clean version ).. at a meet n greet..

and well, we sort of put 2 and 2 together as to why that couple should block us

could possibly hold record for people blocking them on Fab... any one wanna go toe 2 toe lol !!!

don't worry OP... theres loads others out there

Pet hate. ..people that wont meet you...because they see youve met someone they dont like...who cares...i judge people myself...i dont listen to all that nonsense or get involved...sex is sex...got my normal vanilla life to be worrying about all that nonsense!!...

Yea, we've had things said about us to couples by a couple who were angry we didn't wanna meet em again, I guess if people want to believe it they will, nothing ya can do about it, I'm sure I've been blocked plenty over the years cos people think Im an asshole on here but I'm actually not that bad in real life, honest!"

Yous seem great to me!! Im fiesty and opinionated...but im a pussy cat really lol....i could guess what you mean...we were on here before...

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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Pet hate. ..people that wont meet you...because they see youve met someone they dont like...who cares...i judge people myself...i dont listen to all that nonsense or get involved...sex is sex...got my normal vanilla life to be worrying about all that nonsense!!... "

So agree but im like that in all aspects of my life too. I make my own judgement call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Pet hate. ..people that wont meet you...because they see youve met someone they dont like...who cares...i judge people myself...i dont listen to all that nonsense or get involved...sex is sex...got my normal vanilla life to be worrying about all that nonsense!!...

So agree but im like that in all aspects of my life too. I make my own judgement call. "

Best way to be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites.

....which would have meant that I would never have seen your profile, and not have been able to say how much I enjoyed reading it; are we all getting *that* precious?

Thanks, glad you enjoyed reading it

I bet you only get Playboy to read the articles too,lol (joke) "

Can I just say. ..I have just read yr profile and its brilliant...I want to Be on the island lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...we'd love to be totally unavailable to single males. You can do that on other sites.

....which would have meant that I would never have seen your profile, and not have been able to say how much I enjoyed reading it; are we all getting *that* precious?

Thanks, glad you enjoyed reading it

I bet you only get Playboy to read the articles too,lol (joke)

Can I just say. ..I have just read yr profile and its brilliant...I want to Be on the island lol

"

Were coming to...looks great haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tried to message a couple who we have never had any connection with and it says we're blocked by them or they are blocked by us, or their account has been suspended by admin. What does that mean... do people get put on the naughty bench for a certain time limit and why?

Can't think why they'd block us with no prior communication."

just means yur blocked!sure i got blocked a cpl of times by profiles i never even viewed b4!got blocked by a cpl for no reason yet they seem real nice to me on the forums so im not sure which one of them blocked me

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