FabSwingers.com forum: A year without sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spoke to a girl the other day and it turned into a fun convo and she told me she hasn't had sex in over a year! I nearly fell off the chair with shock! What's the longest you have gone without sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17yrs from the day I was born

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"17yrs from the day I was born"

17!!!! God I was young at 15

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"17yrs from the day I was born

17!!!! God I was young at 15

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i had sex for the first time at 15 and it would seem an enternity to me if I had to go a year without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"17yrs from the day I was born

17!!!! God I was young at 15

i had sex for the first time at 15 and it would seem an enternity to me if I had to go a year without "

I didn't have sex for almost 2 years but that was due to ill health. I am now making up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"17yrs from the day I was born

17!!!! God I was young at 15

i had sex for the first time at 15 and it would seem an enternity to me if I had to go a year without

I didn't have sex for almost 2 years but that was due to ill health. I am now making up for it

that's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"17yrs from the day I was born

17!!!! God I was young at 15

I make up for it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a year, i was humping tree stumps by the end of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fem here and a year aswell b4 I found fab or it found me lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Well with the exception of palm 18months but have heard up to six years for some peeps thankfully they are now making up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"

maybe they're in a sexless relationship? maybe they're picky and just can't find the right partner for sex? maybe religious guilt stops them from having sex outside marriage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"
you cant judge ppl!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex you cant judge ppl!!! "

Of course he can Dutch!

He's the knickersoaker, he is the Oracle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 fucking years!!!! And I never cheated! He didnt find me attractive.............made me feel like shite. But hey I'm making up for it now. But it does upset me if ppl on here are doing this because they are not getting ' enough' sex at home or not exciting enough sex.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex you cant judge ppl!!! "
where did I judge people? It's there own business but for something that's so enjoyable and pleasurable it's strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 1/2 years for me then i joined here. its been a month now and its killer..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a lot of people were not having regular sex until they joined here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 13 years away from making the "40 year old virgin" a true story.. yes there is a bit of maths involved.. looking back now I honestly don't know how I fucking managed

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By *damsamMan
over a year ago

South

"2 1/2 years for me then i joined here. its been a month now and its killer..lol"
Just give me the nod and I will rectify that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its one thing to be a virgin and not in a relationship and not having sex. But when youre in a relationship and there is no sex, something is wrong. Well in my case anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was over a year then got away and have been making up for it since

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By *edrockcoupleCouple
over a year ago

athlone

"Its one thing to be a virgin and not in a relationship and not having sex. But when youre in a relationship and there is no sex, something is wrong. Well it my case anyway. "
I was in a sex less marraige too its not a happy place. Much better now that he is gone and I discovered fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its one thing to be a virgin and not in a relationship and not having sex. But when youre in a relationship and there is no sex, something is wrong. Well it my case anyway. I was in a sex less marraige too its not a happy place. Much better now that he is gone and I discovered fab"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male here,went 10years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Male here,went 10years."
ur own choice or did something cause it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends why its tat way ie health reasons once sorted happy days

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

About ten years ago I went a year without sex. Nearly lost my mind. A tough time and one I never want to repeat

It helped that the first girl I was with after that time was amazing fun and very open to experimenting. So many hot memories from my short time going out with her. If she's here. Thanks

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By *he VansCouple
over a year ago

mullingar

Myself and mrsv have to go without it nearly every 7 days as i work away from home ! But hey when i do get home im nearly ready to drill a wall so to speak lol ! But on the otherhand Mrs V is so welcoming as she loves and misses our sex when im away too !!! So much so she throws her knickers into case when im packing just so it reminds me of what im missing while im away lol !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?"
No! I left.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?"

In an ideal world no but its not an ideal world

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?"

I'm currently in a sexless "marriage". I took things into my on hands, so to speak a few yrs ago after enduring years of no sex.

He now knows I have had lovers and hosted parties etc.

he's no interest in coming along and I think he's relieved that he doesn't have to do it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam currently a year without but no idea why iam admitting it publicly lol The minute i gave me drinking my sex life dried up ha

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Very sporadically over a cpl of years.if at all

A relationship ended up like that

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?"

And yes id b still in it for my kids.no prob

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I done it nearly did a yr in a relationship no sex what do ever im out of it now and sooo glad.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?

I'm currently in a sexless "marriage". I took things into my on hands, so to speak a few yrs ago after enduring years of no sex.

He now knows I have had lovers and hosted parties etc.

he's no interest in coming along and I think he's relieved that he doesn't have to do it.. "

and we are delighted that ur here too

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

6 months and it was the worse 6 months of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets sort that out then kat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"

well for me my mum passed away and I moved home from abroad to put order on the household..teach the auld lad how to use the washing machine and the likes .. having sex wasn't somethin I even thought about it.. I think after 2.5 yrs here I more than made up for a year without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"

Happen to be when I became a single mum, won't tell you for how long cause we would all cry, so been there done that got the t-shirt ain't going back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?

And yes id b still in it for my kids.no prob"

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

6 weeks after the child was born long six weeks it was too.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"6 weeks after the child was born long six weeks it was too.

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I got pregnant two weeks after my first couldn contain myself ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found sites like fab when I was about 24/25 so never really had a shortage, until I decided to settle down and get married. Went without for 2 years before the marriage broke down and now I'm back on sites like fab

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By *damsamMan
over a year ago

South

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?

And yes id b still in it for my kids.no prob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"17yrs from the day I was born"

22 yrs over protective mummy to blame lol

but now a days i suppose 6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?

In an ideal world no but its not an ideal world "

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends

I'm in a very similar situation.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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good for you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a very similar situation......."

I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a very similar situation.......

I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better

happy birthday by the way xxxx

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

I'm in a very similar situation.......

I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better

Likewise! I stuck out the marriage without any sex for 9 years, and it wes totally destroying my confidence and self esteem. coming on here was a decision I didn't take lightly, as I would prefer a marriage with intimacy and sex, but as curvy said, we don't live in a perfect world.

Happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a very similar situation.......

I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better

happy birthday by the way xxxx "

Aww thank you curvy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a very similar situation.......

I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better

Happy birthday

Aww thank you xx

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

It takes different strokes to turn the world some have paradise with all the trimmings others have utopia the rest of us make do what ever way we can

happy birthday down xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 1 year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spoke to a girl the other day and it turned into a fun convo and she told me she hasn't had sex in over a year! I nearly fell off the chair with shock! What's the longest you have gone without sex?"

i went without sex for 2 yrs b4

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

im actually having less sex since i joined fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im actually having less sex since i joined fab "
get on nights out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only a year ... well my longest was 3 years when married ... thankfully that's all over

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

out every weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im actually having less sex since i joined fab get on nights out more "

how often do u have sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"out every weekend

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are you struggling to pull or do you try?

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By *arlow77Man
over a year ago

carlow

Took me 21 year to have sex and 10 mths was the longest since then .

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?"

i try but just not having much luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?"

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a sexless relationship which I left..I was unaware of Fab and had I known Fab was so easy Id have had my cake and eat it..que sera sera

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?"

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there

hey, could I buy you a drink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there

hey, could I buy you a drink?

sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?"
yes! U have to try! Otherwise u will never no whether u would succeed or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there

hey, could I buy you a drink?

sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!"

Well that Babycham I got ya went a LONG way, Classy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months but I was married at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there

hey, could I buy you a drink?

sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!

Well that Babycham I got ya went a LONG way, Classy!

u spiked tht and tuk advantage of me u brute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out every weekend

are you struggling to pull or do you try?

how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?

id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there

hey, could I buy you a drink?

sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!

Well that Babycham I got ya went a LONG way, Classy!

u spiked tht and tuk advantage of me u brute!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything. "

And stealing knickers!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.

And stealing knickers!

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u must have a right collection now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.

And stealing knickers!

u must have a right collection now. "

They've gone all crusty though!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.

And stealing knickers!

u must have a right collection now.

They've gone all crusty though!

"
don't worry foofoo I will send u another pair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.

And stealing knickers!

u must have a right collection now.

They've gone all crusty though!

don't worry foofoo I will send u another pair. "

Woohooo

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