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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are these 2 single ppl on here I suppose different if its a Cpl but single I don't see a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It has been said before by a couple but recently they were singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?"

Oo 'eck! I have to be honest, i'd probably be like 'he's my man now'.

Until my actual man found out then i'd be like 'who?'

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By *ornyunicornWoman
over a year ago

Sligo

Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?"

its not something I'd like but its how some ppl get their kicks....its their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah give them a month they will be singles again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???"

no..not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has this guy been in contact since he themed up with this lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???

no..not yet"

I think u should tell him....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has this guy been in contact since he themed up with this lady "

oh hes met her alright and others but they are not a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is she saying there a Cpl ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they aren't a couple then he's fair game? If he was sneaking round behind her back and you knew they were a couple then it's down to your own morals really!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?"

Back off bitch!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???

no..not yet

I think u should tell him...."

to be honest im a bit nervous to go down that route.its a bit like tell tale tattling and will back fire on me at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???

no..not yet

I think u should tell him....

to be honest im a bit nervous to go down that route.its a bit like tell tale tattling and will back fire on me at the end of the day "

Did you take the message as serious or jokey?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is she saying there a Cpl ?"

shes saying she doesnt want anyone else with him.i did tell her to talk to him about that not me but dont want to be bitchy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?"

Stealing other womens men tut tut tut, I think you should be banned from the forums immediately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Back off bitch!!! "

Damn it kim

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Stealing other womens men tut tut tut, I think you should be banned from the forums immediately"

Lol no way u aint winning this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???

no..not yet

I think u should tell him....

to be honest im a bit nervous to go down that route.its a bit like tell tale tattling and will back fire on me at the end of the day

Did you take the message as serious or jokey?"

dont know how to take it.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?"

have u being pestering men for sex again

feck sake if he is single and on here as such fair game i cant understand this some people because they met a few times claim ownership without the other knowing may be best stay clear avoid the grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if u have met him before id say it to him he prob not aware of whats going on

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Back off bitch!!!

Damn it kim "

I'll fight you over him.... Just tell me his name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Back off bitch!!!

Damn it kim "
.he's a grown man and can make his own choices tell her to mind her own. Business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u told the guy wat this woman has been saying ta u???

no..not yet

I think u should tell him....

to be honest im a bit nervous to go down that route.its a bit like tell tale tattling and will back fire on me at the end of the day

Did you take the message as serious or jokey?

dont know how to take it."

Tell him and let him decide maybe it was jokey but I'm sure he'd like to know if he's been claimed lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if u have met him before id say it to him he prob not aware of whats going on "

i have not met him but openly flirt on the forums with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Back off bitch!!!

Damn it kim

I'll fight you over him.... Just tell me his name "

im afraid of u kim...u win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

have u being pestering men for sex again

feck sake if he is single and on here as such fair game i cant understand this some people because they met a few times claim ownership without the other knowing may be best stay clear avoid the grief "

Im a terrible one for pestering men for sex cj.....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Back off bitch!!! "

whoo hoo bitch fight will there be hair pulling and torn blouses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if u have met him before id say it to him he prob not aware of whats going on

i have not met him but openly flirt on the forums with him"

She sounds like a bunny boiler, you have to tell (warn) him.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Sure the wimmin do be feckin' mental sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure the wimmin do be feckin' mental sometimes "

Lol what now you tell us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think u should tell him what have u to loose the other lady hates ya anyway so I think tell him and if he gets pissy with ya well let the other lady have him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think u should tell him what have u to loose the other lady hates ya anyway so I think tell him and if he gets pissy with ya well let the other lady have him "

yeah exactly....well when and if i do yiz will all hear about it and possibly another TO for me coz i will get ripped apart on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think u should tell him what have u to loose the other lady hates ya anyway so I think tell him and if he gets pissy with ya well let the other lady have him

yeah exactly....well when and if i do yiz will all hear about it and possibly another TO for me coz i will get ripped apart on here "

Don't worry Cat, we've got your back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a question this lady is she new just sum newbies think fook a guy a few times his mine kinda thing

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Wait u haven't met him u openly flirt with him here as most of us do ur being warned off i think i would ask him is there a problem and if there is let them to it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Think u should tell him what have u to loose the other lady hates ya anyway so I think tell him and if he gets pissy with ya well let the other lady have him

yeah exactly....well when and if i do yiz will all hear about it and possibly another TO for me coz i will get ripped apart on here "

remember the breathing slow and deep let it all flow

and relax

or is that sex

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Best to just stay clear of them both and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just a question this lady is she new just sum newbies think fook a guy a few times his mine kinda thing "

i suppose relatively new. a couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow she sounds like a Looney...

Tell him, I would....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she shouldn't be on here if she thinks this way its not pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell him cat if it was me id want know.

but prob best you stay clear love not worth the hassle.

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen

Next time you're chatting to him, subtly drop in 'oh I hear you and (insert name here) are an item now....you kept quiet about that one you sly dog' and see how he reacts.....opens the subject up then. Or 'I'm sorry if I've caused trouble between you and (her).....if only I'd known I wouldn't have been flirty'...or words to the effect.

Either way you aren't running telling tales but he still gets to hear what she's saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"she shouldn't be on here if she thinks this way its not pof "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next time you're chatting to him, subtly drop in 'oh I hear you and (insert name here) are an item now....you kept quiet about that one you sly dog' and see how he reacts.....opens the subject up then. Or 'I'm sorry if I've caused trouble between you and (her).....if only I'd known I wouldn't have been flirty'...or words to the effect.

Either way you aren't running telling tales but he still gets to hear what she's saying "

thank u for that yes i will do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sad really on her part but remember there is always three sides go every story

His

Hers

The truth

He could be telling her that he is into her and maybe it may be going somewhere .. To keep her exclusively

She could be delusional and think she is on match.com and that they are 'dating'

Or maybe we will never know

If it was me curvy ., I would ask him directly and say she has made comments to the effect 'stay away'

And she his reaction .

There are so many options her I wouldn't get caught up on this .. Unless your the kinda girl who likes a challenge ! Personally I like drama free fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next time you're chatting to him, subtly drop in 'oh I hear you and (insert name here) are an item now....you kept quiet about that one you sly dog' and see how he reacts.....opens the subject up then. Or 'I'm sorry if I've caused trouble between you and (her).....if only I'd known I wouldn't have been flirty'...or words to the effect.

Exactly

Either way you aren't running telling tales but he still gets to hear what she's saying "

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Next time you're chatting to him, subtly drop in 'oh I hear you and (insert name here) are an item now....you kept quiet about that one you sly dog' and see how he reacts.....opens the subject up then. Or 'I'm sorry if I've caused trouble between you and (her).....if only I'd known I wouldn't have been flirty'...or words to the effect.

Either way you aren't running telling tales but he still gets to hear what she's saying

thank u for that yes i will do that"
it's ok I know... His yours

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's sad really on her part but remember there is always three sides go every story

His

Hers

The truth

He could be telling her that he is into her and maybe it may be going somewhere .. To keep her exclusively

She could be delusional and think she is on match.com and that they are 'dating'

Or maybe we will never know

If it was me curvy ., I would ask him directly and say she has made comments to the effect 'stay away'

And she his reaction .

There are so many options her I wouldn't get caught up on this .. Unless your the kinda girl who likes a challenge ! Personally I like drama free fun "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's sad really on her part but remember there is always three sides go every story

His

Hers

The truth

He could be telling her that he is into her and maybe it may be going somewhere .. To keep her exclusively

She could be delusional and think she is on match.com and that they are 'dating'

Or maybe we will never know

If it was me curvy ., I would ask him directly and say she has made comments to the effect 'stay away'

And she his reaction .

There are so many options her I wouldn't get caught up on this .. Unless your the kinda girl who likes a challenge ! Personally I like drama free fun "

god no a challange is not for me....although there is one that is being particularly difficult but i dont think i will win on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Back off bitch!!!

whoo hoo bitch fight will there be hair pulling and torn blouses "

Next thing u will be looking for is mud !!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

god no a challange is not for me....although there is one that is being particularly difficult but i dont think i will win on that one "

Maybe he's just not into you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's up to him to tell u to back off, she's clearly deluded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

god no a challange is not for me....although there is one that is being particularly difficult but i dont think i will win on that one

Maybe he's just not into you? "

which is why i said i wont win on that one....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

god no a challange is not for me....although there is one that is being particularly difficult but i dont think i will win on that one

Maybe he's just not into you?

which is why i said i wont win on that one.... "

Not quite. You said you "don't think"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

god no a challange is not for me....although there is one that is being particularly difficult but i dont think i will win on that one

Maybe he's just not into you?

which is why i said i wont win on that one....

Not quite. You said you "don't think" "

I stand corrected.... I DONT THINK i will win on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?"

Jesus Christ Curvy you are hardly going to take heed of this woman, sure you have a husband at home for how many yrs telling you not to meet other men and you havn't paid a blind bit of notice to him so why would you give one ounce of thought to a strange woman you don't know and is only on site a few months.Don't pay any attention to any of them and you do what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Jesus Christ Curvy you are hardly going to take heed of this woman, sure you have a husband at home for how many yrs telling you not to meet other men and you havn't paid a blind bit of notice to him so why would you give one ounce of thought to a strange woman you don't know and is only on site a few months.Don't pay any attention to any of them and you do what you want."

thats a bit personal freshmeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told this recently and am a bit perplexed.im sure if one is on a site like this they dont "belong" to anyone.

whats ur opinions on this?

Jesus Christ Curvy you are hardly going to take heed of this woman, sure you have a husband at home for how many yrs telling you not to meet other men and you havn't paid a blind bit of notice to him so why would you give one ounce of thought to a strange woman you don't know and is only on site a few months.Don't pay any attention to any of them and you do what you want.

thats a bit personal freshmeat"

How so, its all information you divulged to us last week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely it's up to him to tell u to back off, she's clearly deluded "

clearly...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes it was a bit personal and yes you will get an apology, without beating further about the bush what i should have said is not to divulge so much information about your private life on here, ppl will ridicule you and to be honest sometimes its hard not to pass judgement on it even if its only to themselves. So you have an unreservedly apology over that remark from me. However i meant no personal malice in it as each ones private life is their own business and yes i can see where the harm comes in as others will draw conclusions from my comment, however that comment makes me look a hell of a lot worse and i hereby announce that if anyone wants to draw a conclusion from it they can direct it towards me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we all have personal lives and no one knows whats going on behind closed doors and this place is a release from all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG tell him... thats crazy... fuck sakes.. obviously some talking needs to be done!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we all have personal lives and no one knows whats going on behind closed doors and this place is a release from all that "

it sure is

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

If there not in a relationship she has no right tellin u what u can and can't do should of told her to fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to get knotted

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Tell her to get knotted "
knotted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her to get knotted knotted? "

basically fk off

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

My tuppence worth, tell him and them leave it at that. No point playing with fire. Plenty of other nice lads on here.

Little example, friend of ours met a girl a few times. She kind of "claimed him". She told him she would leave the site, become monogomous etc... he was lke, "eh nope!I'm a swinger"!

Needless to say he doesnt meet her anymore. Unfortunately some ladies (and men) tend to "fall in love" quiet quickly. Thats fair enough, but maybe this is not the site for them then.

Happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My tuppence worth, tell him and them leave it at that. No point playing with fire. Plenty of other nice lads on here.

Little example, friend of ours met a girl a few times. She kind of "claimed him". She told him she would leave the site, become monogomous etc... he was lke, "eh nope!I'm a swinger"!

Needless to say he doesnt meet her anymore. Unfortunately some ladies (and men) tend to "fall in love" quiet quickly. Thats fair enough, but maybe this is not the site for them then.

Happy swinging xx"

I ALMOST total agree only thing is ppl can fall in love here and have the swing lifestyle or fab lifestyle(if will) nothing wrong as long as jealousy does not come into it.

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow


"I ALMOST total agree only thing is ppl can fall in love here and have the swing lifestyle or fab lifestyle(if will) nothing wrong as long as jealousy does not come into it. "

Totally agree with this. People do get together on here and continue to happily swing together. I was referring to the ones who want to become monogomous.

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