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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go Team Panthers "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!! "

well said and totally agree with u as threads do go way off topic and ends up in a convo between a few , nothing to do with the original topic , but they always win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!! "

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think if more people used the forum it wouldn't be the same people all the time... I personally don't mind things going away off topic... I find the forum good craic...

Ya get out what ya put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think if more people used the forum it wouldn't be the same people all the time... I personally don't mind things going away off topic... I find the forum good craic...

Ya get out what ya put in "

I agree there, plus I often ramble to myself which is no different than real life

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say "

That usually happens to me I get totally ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think if more people used the forum it wouldn't be the same people all the time... I personally don't mind things going away off topic... I find the forum good craic...

Ya get out what ya put in

I agree there, plus I often ramble to myself which is no different than real life "

Aye I tend to be ignored but I don't care I'll still waffle away

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

That's what I do I'd say it pisses a few off but fuck it ha

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

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"Well I think if more people used the forum it wouldn't be the same people all the time... I personally don't mind things going away off topic... I find the forum good craic...

Ya get out what ya put in "

true but u dont want to go into a thread that interests you and all if a sudden u have a few chatting amongst themselfs and u trying to keep up with the topic at hand but dozens of posts are taking up the thread and by the time u post something about the original topic it ends down the bottom in the middle if a convo about something else , that a main reason we dont post to much as it would just get ignored and lost

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Well I for one am def not in any clique or anything n ha if thought could get shags from posting forums would never be off it lol!

Tbh think as Donegal legs, sorry can't rem profile name! said above it is a lot to do with participating. Yes threads can sometimes go off on one n rem one I apologised to OP for this involving legs as touched on something we both could laugh about. Wasn't trying to get a shag just was having a laugh n that's what this should be about on such a site. Please people the more the merrier as I keep posting as it's a bit of craic n who cares if there are groups on here, not me!

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Sorry, can see the profiles now Fallen Angel but quick back to the thread before blasted for going off on one hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I for one am def not in any clique or anything n ha if thought could get shags from posting forums would never be off it lol!

Tbh think as Donegal legs, sorry can't rem profile name! said above it is a lot to do with participating. Yes threads can sometimes go off on one n rem one I apologised to OP for this involving legs as touched on something we both could laugh about. Wasn't trying to get a shag just was having a laugh n that's what this should be about on such a site. Please people the more the merrier as I keep posting as it's a bit of craic n who cares if there are groups on here, not me! "

Donegal Legs

LMFAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an awful lot of people on the forums interlinked to each other! What do I mean by that? U can see by posts they get on really well, then they have their own lite chat on a thread! Also u can see certain foke on forum who would never disagree with each other and literally lick the arses off each other on all topics and at all times! Just my IMO from looking in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I used to get fed up with it but I'm just kinda losing interest in the whole thing now. Apparently I hijack everything anyway, so maybe I shouldn't be posting on this at all.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

God be with the days when we used to have some great meaty debates about serious issues, yes, including politics and religion. Ah, memories!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think if more people used the forum it wouldn't be the same people all the time... I personally don't mind things going away off topic... I find the forum good craic...

Ya get out what ya put in "

exactly...everyone is different and has different opinions so naturally a conversation will branch out in different directions

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Threads to and fro same as most conversations in any pub yes there some that post a lot and it may seem that they enter their own convos mid thread but what about it any serious thread gets aired we are entitled to add to it as much as a first time poster

what i cant understand is how do u know ur being ignored is it that ur post isn't quoted and replied to sometimes that can happen i usually quote when replying it makes sure the person that posted knows ur replying to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone say something!??

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Did someone say something!??

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do u be hijacking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say something!??

do u be hijacking "

Tut tut cj as if United have a chance

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Hi Jack! Wait, who's jack?

No, sorry, I apologise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find my views often differ with the majority on here, therefore usually it is ignored, no biggie though, as nippy says, what you say is still there for others to read, if they choose to ignore it is still there for the many other site users who read but have the good sense not to post lol.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Where is jack

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Where is jack "
he's still here jus not on here

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I don't care I comment if I feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find my views often differ with the majority on here, therefore usually it is ignored, no biggie though, as nippy says, what you say is still there for others to read, if they choose to ignore it is still there for the many other site users who read but have the good sense not to post lol."

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I don't care I comment if I feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care I comment if I feel like it.

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yeah me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Panthers you have a point. I said something similar when we first started posting here.

Alas, i tried to beat em but I had to join em.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panthers you have a point. I said something similar when we first started posting here.

Alas, i tried to beat em but I had to join em....."

how do you join em if it's a clique tho

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I try not to get into private chats too much on here.cpl of posts ok but id pm them if wanted to chat more.

Well I do if they hav tits

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!! "

Good for you. I agree with you, there is a clique and most times if you are not "in" then you just get ignored. I like feisty women who speak their mind, but there is truth in what you say

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

See ye all followed the lead

damm ye for having a little fun

it happens and then some one posts and the thread comes back on line where is the harm in that

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Panthers you have a point. I said something similar when we first started posting here.

Alas, i tried to beat em but I had to join em.....

how do you join em if it's a clique tho "

u post regular enough u get painted with the one brush

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say

That usually happens to me I get totally ignored

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Dont stop postin sean.more ppl read forums than post here .positive posts by nice guys are noticed if not always commented on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol...have read them all. ..yes i do read everyones opinion lol...thanks for the feed back...yes have to agree i talk away also..and post on most things ...never worried about giving my honest opinion as in the real world im very opinionated!!...its just ive spoke to a few who would like to be more involved in the forum but had the same opinion as me....just thought all these ones who want to shag should hire out a big room and get it over with lol...and feel bad for some of the blokes on here...some are twats dont get me wrong but some really get ripped to shreads...give everyone a chance...its an open forum afterall! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

"

Yep you must be in a load of pain...when was your last meet??? emmm aug 2013....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say

That usually happens to me I get totally ignored

Dont stop postin sean.more ppl read forums than post here .positive posts by nice guys are noticed if not always commented on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol...have read them all. ..yes i do read everyones opinion lol...thanks for the feed back...yes have to agree i talk away also..and post on most things ...never worried about giving my honest opinion as in the real world im very opinionated!!...its just ive spoke to a few who would like to be more involved in the forum but had the same opinion as me....just thought all these ones who want to shag should hire out a big room and get it over with lol...and feel bad for some of the blokes on here...some are twats dont get me wrong but some really get ripped to shreads...give everyone a chance...its an open forum afterall! ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol...have read them all. ..yes i do read everyones opinion lol...thanks for the feed back...yes have to agree i talk away also..and post on most things ...never worried about giving my honest opinion as in the real world im very opinionated!!...its just ive spoke to a few who would like to be more involved in the forum but had the same opinion as me....just thought all these ones who want to shag should hire out a big room and get it over with lol...and feel bad for some of the blokes on here...some are twats dont get me wrong but some really get ripped to shreads...give everyone a chance...its an open forum afterall! ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Lol...have read them all. ..yes i do read everyone's opinion lol...thanks for the feed back...yes have to agree i talk away also..and post on most things ...never worried about giving my honest opinion as in the real world im very opinionated!!...its just ive spoke to a few who would like to be more involved in the forum but had the same opinion as me....just thought all these ones who want to shag should hire out a big room and get it over with lol...and feel bad for some of the blokes on here...some are twats dont get me wrong but some really get ripped to shreads...give everyone a chance...its an open forum afterall! ! "

haven't seen a good shredding in months nothing like a bit of blood

the more that post the more diverse the conversation become and a better view can be formed it is an open fourm and room for every one to join in why they feel intimated is beyond me as with any new circle of friends it takes time to see who who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

Yep you must be in a load of pain...when was your last meet??? emmm aug 2013...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

Yep you must be in a load of pain...when was your last meet??? emmm aug 2013....

"

ohhh looks like someone didn't get her coffee yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques in the forum! NEVER! You'll be saying the chat rooms are the same next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

Yep you must be in a load of pain...when was your last meet??? emmm aug 2013....

lol...my bad...slap on the wrist for me...just an idiot...couldnt resist...but i did say there are alot of decent blokes on here...

ohhh looks like someone didn't get her coffee yet "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cliques in the forum! NEVER! You'll be saying the chat rooms are the same next."

YES there is indeed...But thats...no worries to me...lol...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it "

There may be some seriously flawed logic in that. Having a thread that fills up quickly hardly makes you "the man" and posting something ridiculous that the majority disagrees with doesn't mean there's a clique working against you, or that you're automatically cool. I'm not saying you're not cool though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*"

lol i love it!!!

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

lol i love it!!!"

My point proven, not one commented or answered my points on here, again! LMFAO I rest my case

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!! "

I've been told im part of a ' pack' on here!! Is that the same

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

I love it too!!! It is funny

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over a year ago

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

lol i love it!!!

My point proven, not one commented or answered my points on here, again! LMFAO I rest my case "

I think we were all too busy trying to address the op's post to deal with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it "

That's because most of his posts are insulting and ridiculous. A lot of people feel the need to let him know this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

lol i love it!!!"

lol, cheeky of me but sure, noone takes any notice of what i say so i can get away with it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I love it too!!! It is funny "

i think u see what u want to see ur post was taken in to account so it wasn't quoted what about it

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"I love it too!!! It is funny

i think u see what u want to see ur post was taken in to account so it wasn't quoted what about it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques. where I've never noticed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cliques. where I've never noticed "

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*"

Tomatoes at dawn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

lol i love it!!!

lol, cheeky of me but sure, noone takes any notice of what i say so i can get away with it "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

lol i love it!!!

lol, cheeky of me but sure, noone takes any notice of what i say so i can get away with it "

rinky if i had only known it was u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say

That usually happens to me I get totally ignored

Dont stop postin sean.more ppl read forums than post here .positive posts by nice guys are noticed if not always commented on "

There's a lot of truth there. Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say

That usually happens to me I get totally ignored

Dont stop postin sean.more ppl read forums than post here .positive posts by nice guys are noticed if not always commented on

There's a lot of truth there. Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums"

Aren't they removed after a while?

I went looking for an old post a while back but could only find posts going back about 6 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the man! Truth be told at last! "I'm the king of the swingers…………………"

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over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

I've been told im part of a ' pack' on here!! Is that the same "

I suppose it is...if you have been told that lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!! "

Here here!! So true! Im looking forward to joining your new rejects forum ..stunning pics btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other...there are other people who want to chat to about the topics posted. ...maybe i should open up my own forum for all us rejects haha...and yes i have the balls to write this post because its the Truth....and im a fiesty woman...who likes great sex and a dam good coversation!!

Just talk over the top of them. I do

So my post is ignored whilst the arse licking commences but i will still have had my say

That usually happens to me I get totally ignored

Dont stop postin sean.more ppl read forums than post here .positive posts by nice guys are noticed if not always commented on

There's a lot of truth there. Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums

Aren't they removed after a while?

I went looking for an old post a while back but could only find posts going back about 6 weeks."

All there. Right back to February 2009

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

Yep you must be in a load of pain...when was your last meet??? emmm aug 2013...."

Ooooh!....

I didn't realise this was about 'meets',

Was I crying about meets??

I don't think so...

And since you kindly brought it up, people do leave the site (unfortunately), although i do have repeat meets, I don't believe in repeat veris!...

So does that answer you nicely put question??

Oh and here's a Squishy tomato for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums

Aren't they removed after a while?

I went looking for an old post a while back but could only find posts going back about 6 weeks.

All there. Right back to February 2009"

I wonder is it because I only use the mobile site?

Was it a PC you used to look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

Tomatoes at dawn "

anyone wanna squeeze my turnips?

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

I (Mr) put up a similar post about this a few months back. Try the following with a thread:

1. Read the first post

2. Read a post about half way down

3. Read the most recent post

In most cases the thread has gone totally off topic. Now, we do like reading threads when the topic interests us and then get fed up by the usual "you're great, I'm great" posts that start to appear.

One young lad put up a post about dogging. A perfectly legitimate thead for a site of this nature. The "crowd" arrived in a turn it into a big joke. Whats the point in that. Either comment about dogging or move to the next thread. Simple really....

Anyway we dont see it changing so we just read the fist few posts of a thread and leave it at that.

Happy swinging xx

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"... Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums

Aren't they removed after a while?

I went looking for an old post a while back but could only find posts going back about 6 weeks.

All there. Right back to February 2009

I wonder is it because I only use the mobile site?

Was it a PC you used to look?"
use desktop version on mobile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

Tomatoes at dawn

anyone wanna squeeze my turnips?"

How about I squeeze the Dinks out of ya!

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

Yep you must be in a load of pain...when was your last meet??? emmm aug 2013....

Ooooh!....

I didn't realise this was about 'meets',

Was I crying about meets??

I don't think so...

And since you kindly brought it up, people do leave the site (unfortunately), although i do have repeat meets, I don't believe in repeat veris!...

So does that answer you nicely put question??

Oh and here's a Squishy tomato for ya "

Good for you man, veris do not tell whole story, so people should not be so judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

Tomatoes at dawn

anyone wanna squeeze my turnips?

How about I squeeze the Dinks out of ya! "

Now that sounds just what I need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums

Aren't they removed after a while?

I went looking for an old post a while back but could only find posts going back about 6 weeks.

All there. Right back to February 2009

I wonder is it because I only use the mobile site?

Was it a PC you used to look?"

Desktop version on mobile. Think Kim got there first

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jesss thought we weren't allowed to go off topic here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesss thought we weren't allowed to go off topic here "

quite right cj, just realised I was derailing it there oops! *scurries off*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I've a pain being 'invisible' on here....

Can't see myself coming!

"

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Unless a thread is pulled, the words you have written stay here forever. Niceness and nastiness , can be traced back from the start of the forums

Aren't they removed after a while?

I went looking for an old post a while back but could only find posts going back about 6 weeks.

All there. Right back to February 2009

I wonder is it because I only use the mobile site?

Was it a PC you used to look?

Desktop version on mobile. Think Kim got there first

"

OK, never tried it. Thanks.

Cliques? Aren't these peeps just friends chatting with each other?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mmmmm hung kong i loooove tomatoes thanks!!It was a tongue n cheek comment if you can give it...take it you were being smart yourself and i said my bad already...and put my hands up!!Here have the tomatoe back and you can have a wank in it lol....will ease that pain!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lost .. I mustn't be part of the clique so ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm lost .. I mustn't be part of the clique so ..

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certainly not

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over a year ago


"I'm lost .. I mustn't be part of the clique so ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm lost .. I mustn't be part of the clique so ..

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your not either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mmmmm hung kong i loooove tomatoes thanks!!It was a tongue n cheek comment if you can give it...take it you were being smart yourself and i said my bad already...and put my hands up!!Here have the tomatoe back and you can have a wank in it lol....will ease that pain!!"

So kind!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation"

Couldnt have said it better myself you are spot on...so true!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation"

oh but its gotta start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mmmmm hung kong i loooove tomatoes thanks!!It was a tongue n cheek comment if you can give it...take it you were being smart yourself and i said my bad already...and put my hands up!!Here have the tomatoe back and you can have a wank in it lol....will ease that pain!!

So kind! "

Awww friends...love a challenge!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere"

suppose theres no harm in a bit of flirting human nature!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation"

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

suppose theres no harm in a bit of flirting human nature!!"

of course it is.we are all here for the same thing and it gets started by flirting. i may be wrong but its how it starts for most on here

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere"

maybe but for me it just seems silly and very annoying and best kept to pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

maybe but for me it just seems silly and very annoying and best kept to pm"

yes pm the heavy stuff but to get to that stage flirting is required

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

suppose theres no harm in a bit of flirting human nature!!

of course it is.we are all here for the same thing and it gets started by flirting. i may be wrong but its how it starts for most on here "

Not for me. I keep potential meets to pms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said everyone like to do it differently.its no biggy tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

maybe but for me it just seems silly and very annoying and best kept to pm"

Hard for the blokes on here i have to say...and i suppose not all of them are as cheeky as others...i am now seeing another side to this place after reading all these posts...as there are alot of men on here...they probably find it easier to chat with the females in the forum and flirt as in some cases messages dont get answered...as lets face it there are loads....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic

oh but its gotta start somewhere

maybe but for me it just seems silly and very annoying and best kept to pm

Hard for the blokes on here i have to say...and i suppose not all of them are as cheeky as others...i am now seeing another side to this place after reading all these posts...as there are alot of men on here...they probably find it easier to chat with the females in the forum and flirt as in some cases messages dont get answered...as lets face it there are loads.... "

exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho "

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

maybe but for me it just seems silly and very annoying and best kept to pm"

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

suppose theres no harm in a bit of flirting human nature!!

of course it is.we are all here for the same thing and it gets started by flirting. i may be wrong but its how it starts for most on here

Not for me. I keep potential meets to pms."

same here if we see someone that we think we might get on with we message them directly and see where it goes from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack "

Awwk Slinky your while Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thats why everyone is different.neither way is wrong.its personal choice at the end of the day. its only fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack "

You buying?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Well thats why everyone is different.neither way is wrong.its personal choice at the end of the day. its only fun "

true but it can be very annoying wadeing through the drivel when its a topic that interests you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well thats why everyone is different.neither way is wrong.its personal choice at the end of the day. its only fun "
yes, things can be takin awfully serious on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I do agree! If u have an interst in someone it should be kept at private mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I do agree! If u have an interst in someone it should be kept at private mail "

its fun seeing people flirting i think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well thats why everyone is different.neither way is wrong.its personal choice at the end of the day. its only fun

true but it can be very annoying wadeing through the drivel when its a topic that interests you"

lol...the drivel part is true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack

Awwk Slinky your while Nice "

well i do try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack

You buying?"

already did, it was lovely but i'll stand you one. Where is your nearest weatherspoons. I guess carrick or Belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just best to agree to disagree on this one

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

oh but its gotta start somewhere

maybe but for me it just seems silly and very annoying and best kept to pm

Hard for the blokes on here i have to say...and i suppose not all of them are as cheeky as others...i am now seeing another side to this place after reading all these posts...as there are alot of men on here...they probably find it easier to chat with the females in the forum and flirt as in some cases messages dont get answered...as lets face it there are loads.... "

everybody uses the site different to their advantage or sometimes disadvantage but at least u seem to have seen others points of view this is exactly why those on the fence should throw in their two cents u get a better discussion

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By *R and Sue EllenCouple
over a year ago

Near the City

I totally agree with you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I do agree! If u have an interst in someone it should be kept at private mail

its fun seeing people flirting i think "

Us too.

But similarly it can be infuriating when a good debate gets interrupted. I did it myself earlier without realising it. I suppose the OP should be the judge & if their thread gets diverted they can ask to either keep it on track or just let it roam.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I totally agree with you xxx "

there a lot of points put forward there which is it u agree with

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation"

Too right....imagine the very cheek of those silly males looking a shag in this site.....how very dare them eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it

There may be some seriously flawed logic in that. Having a thread that fills up quickly hardly makes you "the man" and posting something ridiculous that the majority disagrees with doesn't mean there's a clique working against you, or that you're automatically cool. I'm not saying you're not cool though! "

Well he's the man to get everyone posting and using the forums and that's what the site wants, so he's the 'man' they want.

And I don't post ridiculous things to be cool. Cool is what you were in college, I didn't get as far as leaving cert so 'cool' doesn't come into it.

'Ridiculous' is your stupid jokes when there's a serious thread posted.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it

There may be some seriously flawed logic in that. Having a thread that fills up quickly hardly makes you "the man" and posting something ridiculous that the majority disagrees with doesn't mean there's a clique working against you, or that you're automatically cool. I'm not saying you're not cool though!

Well he's the man to get everyone posting and using the forums and that's what the site wants, so he's the 'man' they want.

And I don't post ridiculous things to be cool. Cool is what you were in college, I didn't get as far as leaving cert so 'cool' doesn't come into it.

'Ridiculous' is your stupid jokes when there's a serious thread posted. "

i think u will find not everyone posts on them

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation

Couldnt have said it better myself you are spot on...so true!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack

You buying?

already did, it was lovely but i'll stand you one. Where is your nearest weatherspoons. I guess carrick or Belfast "

Ballymena. We even have eclectric up here these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I do agree! If u have an interst in someone it should be kept at private mail

its fun seeing people flirting i think

Us too.

But similarly it can be infuriating when a good debate gets interrupted. I did it myself earlier without realising it. I suppose the OP should be the judge & if their thread gets diverted they can ask to either keep it on track or just let it roam."

Lol thanks...didnt even think anyone would reply...how wrong was i. ..love a good debate...and ive learnt alot from reading all the posts...even the silly ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I do agree! If u have an interst in someone it should be kept at private mail

its fun seeing people flirting i think

Us too.

But similarly it can be infuriating when a good debate gets interrupted. I did it myself earlier without realising it. I suppose the OP should be the judge & if their thread gets diverted they can ask to either keep it on track or just let it roam.

Lol thanks...didnt even think anyone would reply...how wrong was i. ..love a good debate...and ive learnt alot from reading all the posts...even the silly ones "

That's what we're here for....

A mass debate.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

You picked a good day to post.... None of the clique around!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You picked a good day to post.... None of the clique around!!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I do agree! If u have an interst in someone it should be kept at private mail

its fun seeing people flirting i think

Us too.

But similarly it can be infuriating when a good debate gets interrupted. I did it myself earlier without realising it. I suppose the OP should be the judge & if their thread gets diverted they can ask to either keep it on track or just let it roam.

Lol thanks...didnt even think anyone would reply...how wrong was i. ..love a good debate...and ive learnt alot from reading all the posts...even the silly ones

That's what we're here for....

A mass debate. "

we are a heated nation lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho

i'd never ignore you, or Sean, or wee Donegal legs or anybody, feck i sat and talked to a boy in Cullybackey about tractots for half an hoyr today, think i'll talk the leg off my table later

fyi, weatherspoons, thursday curry club. Curry and a pint for 6 quid. Hard to whack

You buying?

already did, it was lovely but i'll stand you one. Where is your nearest weatherspoons. I guess carrick or Belfast

Ballymena. We even have eclectric up here these days "

get away, ya do not, i jest. Was in Cullybackey today, why did we travel to Ards weatherspoon?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put me down for the reject forum club!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be annoying when you're in the middle of a on topic conversation and suddenly there are masses of off topic conversations in between. I sometimes lose interest then. But then again, I think anyone can be pulled into a conversation on the side and they don't even realise it at first. I prefer as well if a guy wants to talk to me only they can pm me. And some do. Or sometimes I pm them. But if there are suddenly 20 posts forth and back between two people off topic I can find it a bit tedious. .

As some said it just sometimes happens, as if you were in a pub with a group of friends... you all talk together but sometimes the topic changes or 2 people start talking about something else.

To the OP, my posts often get ignored or aren't quoted again. I just have to assume that I didn't write anything inspiring enough lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It can be annoying when you're in the middle of a on topic conversation and suddenly there are masses of off topic conversations in between. I sometimes lose interest then. But then again, I think anyone can be pulled into a conversation on the side and they don't even realise it at first. I prefer as well if a guy wants to talk to me only they can pm me. And some do. Or sometimes I pm them. But if there are suddenly 20 posts forth and back between two people off topic I can find it a bit tedious. .

As some said it just sometimes happens, as if you were in a pub with a group of friends... you all talk together but sometimes the topic changes or 2 people start talking about something else.

To the OP, my posts often get ignored or aren't quoted again. I just have to assume that I didn't write anything inspiring enough lol "

Yes true...things do go off. ..and people get side tracked...i always try and read the whole thread..and try and skip the silly bits lol...i think when people take the time to answer a post it should be read and all decent replys responded to..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put me down for the reject forum club!! xx"

Haha...your already in it!! xxxx

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By *hillen89Man
over a year ago

London

A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol "

Great reply...youve taken the time...and might aswell not have bothered...as silly stuff takes over...i feel your pain...dont get me wrong we dont have to be serious 24/7 depends on the post really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with op.......my pet hate is when a female says something sagestive that has nothing to do with the topic and all the males that are hopeing for a leg over answer at the same time drooling at the mouth it then turns into a conversation between them puts me right off its hard to witness such stupidity and desperation"

But do you blame the silly ppl giving all the compliments in the hope of a shag or the silly ppl for lapping it all up as all they crave is attention and they can't see it for what it actually is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol "

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho "
I hear you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op"

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes nippy...same have sat and spent time writing replys for nothing...but keep writing them...its the person who wrote the thread that should be reading the replys...isnt that the point lol..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it

There may be some seriously flawed logic in that. Having a thread that fills up quickly hardly makes you "the man" and posting something ridiculous that the majority disagrees with doesn't mean there's a clique working against you, or that you're automatically cool. I'm not saying you're not cool though!

Well he's the man to get everyone posting and using the forums and that's what the site wants, so he's the 'man' they want.

And I don't post ridiculous things to be cool. Cool is what you were in college, I didn't get as far as leaving cert so 'cool' doesn't come into it.

'Ridiculous' is your stupid jokes when there's a serious thread posted. "

The word "you" in my post was meant to be a general term, not literally you!

It seems you don't love me anymore

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I do find I get ignored a lot on some of them doesn stop me from writin stuff tho I hear you"
least someone does haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted! "

I've come to realise that those are who I call the attention whores

You know,there's a drama a day with them? Every email, let down, stand up, broken nail has to be bought to the forum

And if it's not about them, they flirt on a thread to turn it around to them

Still, I keep posting and hopefully have helped someone somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it

There may be some seriously flawed logic in that. Having a thread that fills up quickly hardly makes you "the man" and posting something ridiculous that the majority disagrees with doesn't mean there's a clique working against you, or that you're automatically cool. I'm not saying you're not cool though!

Well he's the man to get everyone posting and using the forums and that's what the site wants, so he's the 'man' they want.

And I don't post ridiculous things to be cool. Cool is what you were in college, I didn't get as far as leaving cert so 'cool' doesn't come into it.

'Ridiculous' is your stupid jokes when there's a serious thread posted.

The word "you" in my post was meant to be a general term, not literally you!

It seems you don't love me anymore

"

Well I thought it was a direct at me. I never did 'love' you but I don't dislike you either.

Your not funny all the time M but some of the time you do come out with good ones.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted! "

yip noticed this more then once i have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques are everywhere in life. Schools, workplace, sports teams etc. Fact of life whether we like it or not. Don't bother me at all if I've something to say I post it, usually get ignored mind! Lol I think the clique thing appears because these are clearly the guys who spend most time on the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted!

I've come to realise that those are who I call the attention whores

You know,there's a drama a day with them? Every email, let down, stand up, broken nail has to be bought to the forum

And if it's not about them, they flirt on a thread to turn it around to them

Still, I keep posting and hopefully have helped someone somewhere"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Well I have commented on things in threads that went against the grain and got slated for it. The clique gang up very quick and back each other up but I never back down from what I post.

Other times in a serious thread it gets hijacked by silly stupid jokes, as in taking a post to mean something silly and trying to be the funny person.

Also knickers gets completely lambasted and told where to go and shut up when he starts a thread but in case folks didn't notice his threads get full very very quickly and some of those that stick in him can't hit 5 posts on a thread they start.

So your the 'man' knickers and don't forget it

There may be some seriously flawed logic in that. Having a thread that fills up quickly hardly makes you "the man" and posting something ridiculous that the majority disagrees with doesn't mean there's a clique working against you, or that you're automatically cool. I'm not saying you're not cool though!

Well he's the man to get everyone posting and using the forums and that's what the site wants, so he's the 'man' they want.

And I don't post ridiculous things to be cool. Cool is what you were in college, I didn't get as far as leaving cert so 'cool' doesn't come into it.

'Ridiculous' is your stupid jokes when there's a serious thread posted.

The word "you" in my post was meant to be a general term, not literally you!

It seems you don't love me anymore

Well I thought it was a direct at me. I never did 'love' you but I don't dislike you either.

Your not funny all the time M but some of the time you do come out with good ones. "

I thought the very last line would clarify it, but not too worry. All is good in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted!

yip noticed this more then once i have to say"

It is something I actively try to avoid now, too much fakery , bum sniffing , back slapping and bullshittery I don't really want to be part of lmao

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted!

I've come to realise that those are who I call the attention whores

You know,there's a drama a day with them? Every email, let down, stand up, broken nail has to be bought to the forum

And if it's not about them, they flirt on a thread to turn it around to them

Still, I keep posting and hopefully have helped someone somewhere"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say something!??

"

ssshh were trying to ignore you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted!

I've come to realise that those are who I call the attention whores

You know,there's a drama a day with them? Every email, let down, stand up, broken nail has to be bought to the forum

And if it's not about them, they flirt on a thread to turn it around to them

Still, I keep posting and hopefully have helped someone somewhere"

preach it nipster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am wondering if you are all talking about the same person here.... its a bit uncomfortable to read actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people just like the attention on here lol that's all well and good but when they post asking for advice and someone takes the time to give it they shouldn't then ignore the genuine advice in favor of some crap joke or flirt someone else posted. It defeats the purpose.

As you can tell this angered me lol

I was victim off that just a few weeks back. I offered a real easy solution to a problem someone had, and I was totally ignored yet every man who answered , with no solution just a flirt, was replied to

Needless to say I now don't offer help or advice to that op

Yea I have made the mistake in the past of replying to posts and then soon realising that is not female replies that were wanted!

I've come to realise that those are who I call the attention whores

You know,there's a drama a day with them? Every email, let down, stand up, broken nail has to be bought to the forum

And if it's not about them, they flirt on a thread to turn it around to them

Still, I keep posting and hopefully have helped someone somewhere"

Well said Nipster!

Seen it time and time again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cliques are everywhere in life. Schools, workplace, sports teams etc. Fact of life whether we like it or not. Don't bother me at all if I've something to say I post it, usually get ignored mind! Lol I think the clique thing appears because these are clearly the guys who spend most time on the site. "

lol..thought that myself like being at school again... even at the school run same thing with the parents...ooh well not good at being a sheep myself...think we all more aware now...to read things i hope. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this thread hilarious, This subject was brought up about 3 weeks ago and there are at least 6 people posting on this thread agreeing with the op who 3 weeks ago strenuously denied that there was a clique, Baa Baa, I just find it very insulting towards my intelligence when people just post something agreeing with people because they want to be popular, if ye are that afraid of falling foul of the popular crowd why bother post on the topic at all instead of the hypocritical posts 3 weeks apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say something!??

ssshh were trying to ignore you!!

"

Damn!

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By *-kandiCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Aren't Cliques just groups of angry

fat people with too much time

on their hands? !!!

Thankfully most people have a brain

on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't Cliques just groups of angry

fat people with too much time

on their hands? !!!

Thankfully most people have a brain

on here! "

angry fat people ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aren't Cliques just groups of angry

fat people with too much time

on their hands? !!!

Thankfully most people have a brain

on here! "

oooh dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't Cliques just groups of angry

fat people with too much time

on their hands? !!!

Thankfully most people have a brain

on here! "

Most? That's debateable, case in point this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me about the forums most is the constant need for some people to big themselves up, yes yes we all know you think you're amazing , who cares really! lol

*awaits barrage of rotten fruit being thrown*

lol i love it!!!

My point proven, not one commented or answered my points on here, again! LMFAO I rest my case

I think we were all too busy trying to address the op's post to deal with yours "

And not get side tracked or get funny etc.....yawn when can we talk about sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering anyone else fed up....a post goes up...you write something halfway intelligent and it turns into a conversation with the usuals...all wanting to shag each other..."

Love it. Nail, head, etc.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Aren't Cliques just groups of angry

fat people with too much time

on their hands? !!!

Thankfully most people have a brain

on here! "

No, that's chicks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find this thread hilarious, This subject was brought up about 3 weeks ago and there are at least 6 people posting on this thread agreeing with the op who 3 weeks ago strenuously denied that there was a clique, Baa Baa, I just find it very insulting towards my intelligence when people just post something agreeing with people because they want to be popular, if ye are that afraid of falling foul of the popular crowd why bother post on the topic at all instead of the hypocritical posts 3 weeks apart."

Aww didnt know had been another post...i wouldnt think anyone would be agreeing with us lol...not big high flyers on here by any means...definitally has created a stir...so still obviously an issue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't Cliques just groups of angry

fat people with too much time

on their hands? !!!

Thankfully most people have a brain

on here! "

You forgot vulgar insulting ignorant and selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finished

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Arrah feck.. I had so much I wanted to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Still, I suppose I could just talk away to myself here and work out my issues. It's nice and quiet all of a sudden. Dum de dum de dum!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Hey fooey, are ya dancing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'll keep you company Mikey!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Barman! A pint for fooey please, and a girly drink for me please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the way I'm standing Mikey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh cheers buddy!

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