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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A person arranges a meet with you and when u meet they're extremely shy and things are awkward! Does it instantly put u off them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on wether they relax as the meet progresses, Im shy initially but if I feel comfortable I relax quickly enough, if someone was super shy I would think they just didnt like me that much, or I made them uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person arranges a meet with you and when u meet they're extremely shy and things are awkward! Does it instantly put u off them?"

A little, awkwardness is not good ha But it can be kinda cute, depends on the situation... If that makes any sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If things are awkward yes it does put me off them as it is usually a sign of not clicking so the sex will probably be awkward and therefore not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If things are awkward yes it does put me off them as it is usually a sign of not clicking so the sex will probably be awkward and therefore not good"

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Ms.Slut) can be fairly shy at first but tend to warm up quickly if I feel comfortable with them. Luckily Mr.Slut doesn't stop talking so that also lets me relax as he tends to get the banter flowing

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Shyness is a trait, same as every other kind of trait. Nothing wrong with it and it definitely wouldn't put us off. We've met lovely people who were very shy....with their clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam shy myself if there's any uncertainty at all, if i know the person is def in to me and she's isn't out of this world beautiful then iam grand ha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Shyness is a trait, same as every other kind of trait. Nothing wrong with it and it definitely wouldn't put us off. We've met lovely people who were very shy....with their clothes on "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iam shy myself if there's any uncertainty at all, if i know the person is def in to me and she's isn't out of this world beautiful then iam grand ha"
plenty of fanny for you on nights out in Waterford! It's a good spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"A person arranges a meet with you and when u meet they're extremely shy and things are awkward! Does it instantly put u off them?"

Well done on getting a meet under your belt....your flying now sann

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Shyness is a trait, same as every other kind of trait. Nothing wrong with it and it definitely wouldn't put us off. We've met lovely people who were very shy....with their clothes on "

exactly.

i can be a bit shy to start off with but when comfortable the shyness disappears

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!! "

yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sometimes a bit shy but if the chemistry is right I'll relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

yet "

oh cj....how i missed you

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

yet

oh cj....how i missed you "

swoon easy tiger xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

yet

oh cj....how i missed you

swoon easy tiger xxxx "

cant control it...sorry i will hold back infuture

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

yet

oh cj....how i missed you

swoon easy tiger xxxx

cant control it...sorry i will hold back infuture "

lol u still on those strong tabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My magnetic personality relaxes people within 2 mins in my company so the shyness soon disappears!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

yet

oh cj....how i missed you

swoon easy tiger xxxx

cant control it...sorry i will hold back infuture

lol u still on those strong tabs "

tranqulizers dont keep me down huni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My magnetic personality relaxes people within 2 mins in my company so the shyness soon disappears!!"

same...i dont give people time to be shy really...im always gabbin away asking questions

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I'm far from shy I actually don't know when to shut up

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"A person arranges a meet with you and when u meet they're extremely shy and things are awkward! Does it instantly put u off them?"

I'd doubt if being shy bears any relation to the awkwardness. I think if there is a lack of sexual chemistry then the situation will be awkward. Shyness can be overcome when person is made comfortable.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yes it is a bit off putting.but im generally the one that makes the first move....ive yet to be pinned up against the wall and taken against my will......sorry where was i...yes shyness is over rated..!!!

yet

oh cj....how i missed you

swoon easy tiger xxxx

cant control it...sorry i will hold back infuture

lol u still on those strong tabs

tranqulizers dont keep me down huni "

hmmm looks like ur a hand full we shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam shy myself if there's any uncertainty at all, if i know the person is def in to me and she's isn't out of this world beautiful then iam grand ha"

WOW

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By *irkmcquickleyMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I would class myself as a shy person. Initially anyway but like most are saying I soon relax in good company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person arranges a meet with you and when u meet they're extremely shy and things are awkward! Does it instantly put u off them?

I'd doubt if being shy bears any relation to the awkwardness. I think if there is a lack of sexual chemistry then the situation will be awkward. Shyness can be overcome when person is made comfortable. "

Yep couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person arranges a meet with you and when u meet they're extremely shy and things are awkward! Does it instantly put u off them?"

i can be a bit shy if i dont know someone tht well,but if i met sumone and there was no chat or banter then theres no chemistry so i doubt we wud meet again,i think if yur attracted to sumone and feel comfortable the conversation shud just flow

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