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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it on phone hell yes but then when i meg him i just wanted to run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not through chat on phone but through rather intense messaging on here, glad to say it worked out in person too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it all sorts.... chemistry in mails, but not in person. chemistry on phone but awkward in person... and sometimes when I met them even when things weren't great on the phone they were great in person.... so you just never fooking know!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had it on phone hell yes but then when i meg him i just wanted to run "

aaaaw been there.... I have often thought it would be great if you could have sex with a personality

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

If I could hav sex with a personality I'd be an awful slut haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person "

I can usually tell if im gona be attracted to the female or the males..by pics and chat...i have a type looks wise and a gsoh helps also...its only sex...but im fussy....need a mental connection also...no point kissing a plank of wood!!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Not through chat on phone but through rather intense messaging on here, glad to say it worked out in person too"

Same. Didn't even bother exchanging pics before meet.

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

We wait to decide on whether we click or not when we meet. Emails or phone conversation can be deceiving or misleading.

Mr. has a slight speech impediment and finds speaking on the phone a little difficult and people may misinterpretit as being standoffish. When they meet us though they find him adoreable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had it on phone hell yes but then when i meg him i just wanted to run "

This haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes....i have had a great connection with people i have yet to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too easy to connect with someone over a phone to be fair, Ye really need to spend time with someone in person to see if it's a genuine connection or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person "

Ohhh god yessssss

I knew we were going to have FABULOUS fun very quickly... Before i even saw a pic

It was through mails first then i handed over my number and shur as they say the rest is history

It was definitely the personality that drew me in coz when we first met i wanted to runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn but not for the reasons you'd think! Lol but after a few mins in his company i wanted to throw me knickers at him! Lol

Goes to show ya shouldn't judge the book by it's cover

Happy hump day sexy fabbers

x x x

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Absolutely....and then some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's too easy to connect with someone over a phone to be fair, Ye really need to spend time with someone in person to see if it's a genuine connection or not "

no i dont agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happens a lot on here lol best of luck u'll have a great time;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys its happening tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sincere 79 and really looking forward to it, almost there now at long last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could hav sex with a personality I'd be an awful slut haha "

haha snap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could hav sex with a personality I'd be an awful slut haha

haha snap.

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Crackle and pop. . Sure your personality is wasted on your better half lol

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"It's too easy to connect with someone over a phone to be fair, Ye really need to spend time with someone in person to see if it's a genuine connection or not

no i dont agree "

I have to say, from experience, that in lots of cases, a spark on the phone does not always mean a spark when a face to face occurs. For me anyhow, I have had great connection on the phone, but when it comes to face to face, there was nothing, yes great conversation may occur, but the physical spark sometimes just not there.

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"Had it on phone hell yes but then when i meg him i just wanted to run "

Awkward moment, I know the feeling, on phone all great, but in reality no spark or attraction. It is just the way things are, sometimes just does not work! I have found that more times than not, for me, I have had this experience where there was just no attraction, and I did feel like running, lol. But always pays to be respectful. To me it is always about quality and not quantity, I just cannot bring myself to "doing it" for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person "

Yes and can be thru messages too...its a gut instinct you just know when there is a click/spark

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"If I could hav sex with a personality I'd be an awful slut haha

haha snap.

Crackle and pop. . Sure your personality is wasted on your better half lol "

haha shut up beavy pissed me off wen ya said ya liked him better than me after me helpin a friend in need ur a BOLLOX haha

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person

Yes and can be thru messages too...its a gut instinct you just know when there is a click/spark"

To a certain degree, but if you meet someone for first time, even with "spark" on phone or through messages, the physical attraction may not be there, despite the "spark" on the phone or messages, and you just cannot bring yourself to wanting to get physical with the person. Gut instinct is fine, but the reality can be different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person

Yes and can be thru messages too...its a gut instinct you just know when there is a click/spark To a certain degree, but if you meet someone for first time, even with "spark" on phone or through messages, the physical attraction may not be there, despite the "spark" on the phone or messages, and you just cannot bring yourself to wanting to get physical with the person. Gut instinct is fine, but the reality can be different! "

I think everyone has a different take on this...each to their own..what works for one person might be the opposite for the next.....it's the fun in finding out

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person

Yes and can be thru messages too...its a gut instinct you just know when there is a click/spark To a certain degree, but if you meet someone for first time, even with "spark" on phone or through messages, the physical attraction may not be there, despite the "spark" on the phone or messages, and you just cannot bring yourself to wanting to get physical with the person. Gut instinct is fine, but the reality can be different!

I think everyone has a different take on this...each to their own..what works for one person might be the opposite for the next.....it's the fun in finding out"

Granted! But if it works for a person, irrespective of spark or not, then doing it for the sake of it spanks of desperation in my book! But that is a personal opinion. I have walked away from more coffee meets knowing there was no attraction, than ones where there was attraction, and would not just "do it" for the sake of it. Like I have said, always quality over quantity for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a spark after a meet?? Make sense?? A great click with somoone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a spark after a meet?? Make sense?? A great click with somoone?? "

has to be mutual coz otgerwise ur just a bunny boiler but yes i have certainly had that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person "

most definitely. Personality is a powerful thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK guys update time meet done today and still on so ye can work out the results ha ha yummm looking like a good weekend mmmmmmm

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"OK guys update time meet done today and still on so ye can work out the results ha ha yummm looking like a good weekend mmmmmmm"

You go girl... Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK guys update time meet done today and still on so ye can work out the results ha ha yummm looking like a good weekend mmmmmmm

You go girl... Enjoy."

. I plan too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an amazing night, exhausted is the word i would use thanks

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South


"What about a spark after a meet?? Make sense?? A great click with somoone?? "
Happened me with a lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What an amazing night, exhausted is the word i would use thanks "
. U have the weekend to get through yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys just want peoples opinions has anyone ever felt a click with someone through chat on phone before meeting with them in person "

yea a few times,thought i liked sum guy b4 by chatting on the phone and thru texts but when i met him in person it was a dissapointment!so i reckon unless u actually meet sumone in the flesh u cant say for sure u really like them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had it on phone hell yes but then when i meg him i just wanted to run "
has happened to me a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it both ways where I've been surprised and disappointed when I've met in person.......

One girl had me so wound up on the phone and there was such a spark but when we met it disappeared like a Ryanair customer service agent when your flight is cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it both ways where I've been surprised and disappointed when I've met in person.......

One girl had me so wound up on the phone and there was such a spark but when we met it disappeared like a Ryanair customer service agent when your flight is cancelled "

same thing happened me!i was so sure we wud be ripping each others clothes of in no time!but when i actually met him i was so dissapointed!i know personality is important but pshyical attraction is just as important!

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