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"Are all single males devout of reading skills?? "hey how are you I'm new to this and would love to meet your missus got sweet tits" reply "Not interested but thanks for your message" reply back "ok your missus is fat and ugly anyway" and a couple of more choice words some of them were french I think. My point is insults from males are like pre mature ejaculators.. not welcome. No wonder people here leave if they get the type of abusive message we just got. I know there is going to be the reply oh not all males are like that on here.. but there more nasty people then there is genuine. It's a frustrating situation for anyone here, some people shouldn't be let near a computer emmmmmmmmm rant over " I think theres two sides to the coin, First of all you obviously dont deserve abusive comments but i think most men here are severely frustrated and it boils over when they get rejected so whilst iam not defending them at all, Iam simple saying i understand where its coming from! Somebody mentioned here recently that if your depending solely on this site for your sex life then your going to experience severe frustration (or something along those lines anyway) and he was right! I myself dont really drink or go out anymore for many reasons (price of drink, pubs closing, town gone shyte etc) so sadly i have to admit that i kinda do depend on here for a sex life, although i personally dont see sex as the be all of everything so not getting meets doesnt bother me all that much but it can get frustrating here for men! I actually mailed a girl today and was more then polite, even payed her a compliment and her reply was "fuck off fat boy" and ironically her profile specifically says "iam a size 16 so if you dont like curvy women iam not for you" lol | |||
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"Are all single males devout of reading skills?? "hey how are you I'm new to this and would love to meet your missus got sweet tits" reply "Not interested but thanks for your message" reply back "ok your missus is fat and ugly anyway" and a couple of more choice words some of them were french I think. My point is insults from males are like pre mature ejaculators.. not welcome. No wonder people here leave if they get the type of abusive message we just got. I know there is going to be the reply oh not all males are like that on here.. but there more nasty people then there is genuine. It's a frustrating situation for anyone here, some people shouldn't be let near a computer emmmmmmmmm rant over " Talking of things that are frustrating I hate the way people generalize single males on here. I think its important and only fair to say SOME or MOST. It's not as if we don't get slated enough on here when a lot of us don't behave like that. The world is full of nasty people who don't deserve your time and they aren't all single males. | |||
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"Well said hifi. I always be nice and never get anywhere. But with a site that has More women than men they have their pick of well hung skinny guys. Pies like me and you don't have a chance lol. I'd say fair play for answering no thanks to the message but the abuse was not deserved. Some people don't deal well with rejection and shouldn't be here. " Its not so much ye cant pull here but to do so ye have to lower your standards because lets face it, average lookin women here are pulling studs so even the average girls now think theyre better then the average guys! Any attractive woman i ever mailed shot me down , hadnt even an interest in gettin to know me! Pisses me off the shit single men here whilst women sit in there "thrones" thinking they are above so many ppl | |||
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"Are all single males devout of reading skills?? "hey how are you I'm new to this and would love to meet your missus got sweet tits" reply "Not interested but thanks for your message" reply back "ok your missus is fat and ugly anyway" and a couple of more choice words some of them were french I think. My point is insults from males are like pre mature ejaculators.. not welcome. No wonder people here leave if they get the type of abusive message we just got. I know there is going to be the reply oh not all males are like that on here.. but there more nasty people then there is genuine. It's a frustrating situation for anyone here, some people shouldn't be let near a computer emmmmmmmmm rant over " Awh.....yer not ugly.... And she does have lovely jugs..... | |||
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"Well said hifi. I always be nice and never get anywhere. But with a site that has More women than men they have their pick of well hung skinny guys. Pies like me and you don't have a chance lol. I'd say fair play for answering no thanks to the message but the abuse was not deserved. Some people don't deal well with rejection and shouldn't be here. Its not so much ye cant pull here but to do so ye have to lower your standards because lets face it, average lookin women here are pulling studs so even the average girls now think theyre better then the average guys! Any attractive woman i ever mailed shot me down , hadnt even an interest in gettin to know me! Pisses me off the shit single men here whilst women sit in there "thrones" thinking they are above so many ppl" Supply outweighs demand. If roles were reversed I doubt single males could be settling for "average" looking women. I think a lot of single males take the site to seriously. If I message a girl and she doesn't message back it's not a big deal. No one died. Rude? She probably gets 100 messages a day. I know I'd be the same if I got 100 messages a day! Which I clearly do.. :P all of "straight" guys wanting to suck me off haha | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. " I don't see why the women should be in charge that's ridiculous, they may have more choice available but men can be in charge to of who they meet. People should be more respectful to each other that Goes for men and women equally | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. I don't see why the women should be in charge that's ridiculous, they may have more choice available but men can be in charge to of who they meet. People should be more respectful to each other that Goes for men and women equally" I agree completely looking back now don't even know why I posted it just had my fill of messages I went ranting instead of blocking but just hate abusive messages I'm sure single guys get them as well as females and couples sorry for wasting a thread lol | |||
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"so true it is all down to respect really and it should be equal really.. were all here for fun and friends are made along the way.. so yes well said.. " | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. I don't see why the women should be in charge that's ridiculous, they may have more choice available but men can be in charge to of who they meet. People should be more respectful to each other that Goes for men and women equally I agree completely looking back now don't even know why I posted it just had my fill of messages I went ranting instead of blocking but just hate abusive messages I'm sure single guys get them as well as females and couples sorry for wasting a thread lol " Dint see it as wasteful all it does is brings out the good people defending themselves which I'm sure they 're sick of doing. Nobody should receive abusive mail, see it as great I see your true colours, and block | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. I don't see why the women should be in charge that's ridiculous, they may have more choice available but men can be in charge to of who they meet. People should be more respectful to each other that Goes for men and women equally I agree completely looking back now don't even know why I posted it just had my fill of messages I went ranting instead of blocking but just hate abusive messages I'm sure single guys get them as well as females and couples sorry for wasting a thread lol Dint see it as wasteful all it does is brings out the good people defending themselves which I'm sure they 're sick of doing. Nobody should receive abusive mail, see it as great I see your true colours, and block" Very good way of looking at it | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. " Sadly your 100% right I have never felt so belittled as i do here! The women here (well to be fair, not all but alot) think they are on pedestals. I have no doubt in my mind what so ever that some of the women i have spoke to thought i was the dirt on the end of theyre shoes lol | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. I don't see why the women should be in charge that's ridiculous, they may have more choice available but men can be in charge to of who they meet. People should be more respectful to each other that Goes for men and women equally I agree completely looking back now don't even know why I posted it just had my fill of messages I went ranting instead of blocking but just hate abusive messages I'm sure single guys get them as well as females and couples sorry for wasting a thread lol Dint see it as wasteful all it does is brings out the good people defending themselves which I'm sure they 're sick of doing. Nobody should receive abusive mail, see it as great I see your true colours, and block Very good way of looking at it " It's the only way to look at it and still have fun on this site. The sense of entitlement that some people display on this site to get a meet is ridiculous and usually what brings out the abuse and pouting when they don't get their way. Thankfully there is enough nice people still here to make it fun staying | |||
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"Well said hifi. I always be nice and never get anywhere. But with a site that has More women than men they have their pick of well hung skinny guys. Pies like me and you don't have a chance lol. I'd say fair play for answering no thanks to the message but the abuse was not deserved. Some people don't deal well with rejection and shouldn't be here. Its not so much ye cant pull here but to do so ye have to lower your standards because lets face it, average lookin women here are pulling studs so even the average girls now think theyre better then the average guys! Any attractive woman i ever mailed shot me down , hadnt even an interest in gettin to know me! Pisses me off the shit single men here whilst women sit in there "thrones" thinking they are above so many ppl" Spot on good servant. Now run along and pick me up a brad pit lookalike for me to ridicule and humiliate. And while your at it polish my crown... | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. Sadly your 100% right I have never felt so belittled as i do here! The women here (well to be fair, not all but alot) think they are on pedestals. I have no doubt in my mind what so ever that some of the women i have spoke to thought i was the dirt on the end of theyre shoes lol" How can people make you feel like that unless YOU allow them too. I for one am on a pedestal as I'm worth it, put yourself on your own pedestal, everyone should!!! | |||
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"Its all about respect.. and i'm not being rediculous .... if a guy wants to meet a woman or a couple, then he has to realise and respect that the woman makes THE choice to meet or not, thats what i mean by "the women are in charge" And when guys are contacting women and couples the have to remember that. If you walked up to someone in a bar, asked would they like a drink, and they said no, or no thanks, or ignored you, would you ... A. Turn around and move on B. Ask "why.. whats wrong with me"? C. Say "i didnt want to have a drink with you any way you fat, ugly cow.. NORMAL men choose A..... Think about it, why should you treat people on here any differently to people in public " Well said | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. Sadly your 100% right I have never felt so belittled as i do here! The women here (well to be fair, not all but alot) think they are on pedestals. I have no doubt in my mind what so ever that some of the women i have spoke to thought i was the dirt on the end of theyre shoes lol How can people make you feel like that unless YOU allow them too. I for one am on a pedestal as I'm worth it, put yourself on your own pedestal, everyone should!!!" Haha do that and women laugh at ye, ye cant win!! When it comes to sex, women OWN us and can have who they want and thats why they treat alot of ppl like dirt, its that simple and its understandable, If men had that much power they would most likely be the same to be fair | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. Sadly your 100% right I have never felt so belittled as i do here! The women here (well to be fair, not all but alot) think they are on pedestals. I have no doubt in my mind what so ever that some of the women i have spoke to thought i was the dirt on the end of theyre shoes lol How can people make you feel like that unless YOU allow them too. I for one am on a pedestal as I'm worth it, put yourself on your own pedestal, everyone should!!! Haha do that and women laugh at ye, ye cant win!! When it comes to sex, women OWN us and can have who they want and thats why they treat alot of ppl like dirt, its that simple and its understandable, If men had that much power they would most likely be the same to be fair " Then you need to gain confidence. I like men who ooze power | |||
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"Single guys have no right to be frustrated on here, and even less right to be nasty and abusive.. The women are in charge here, and the sooner most single guys realise that the better for all concerned.. Sadly your 100% right I have never felt so belittled as i do here! The women here (well to be fair, not all but alot) think they are on pedestals. I have no doubt in my mind what so ever that some of the women i have spoke to thought i was the dirt on the end of theyre shoes lol How can people make you feel like that unless YOU allow them too. I for one am on a pedestal as I'm worth it, put yourself on your own pedestal, everyone should!!! Haha do that and women laugh at ye, ye cant win!! When it comes to sex, women OWN us and can have who they want and thats why they treat alot of ppl like dirt, its that simple and its understandable, If men had that much power they would most likely be the same to be fair Then you need to gain confidence. I like men who ooze power " Good for you I like women that are hot | |||
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"HiFi... if a woman doesn't reply SHE'S NOT INTERESTED End of Discussion... no matter how much you think you could change her mind if she just talked to you... Maybe if you actually put some thought into your profile, you might pique someon'e interest to respond to you.. you get out of this site what you put into it..." Obviously but your not getting the point! The men here are labeled as doing summit wrong if they arent having success but its unfair to assume that because alot of men dont get a chance! I accept that some women arent interested but the question is why? especially if they havent spoke to you then how do they know theyre not interested? Thats all iam saying! The men get a raw deal here and its always them to blame like oh well you must be doin summit wrong and so forth but nobody ever says oh maybe shes just a bit up herself etc Its always the men at fault | |||
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"HiFi... if a woman doesn't reply SHE'S NOT INTERESTED End of Discussion... no matter how much you think you could change her mind if she just talked to you... Maybe if you actually put some thought into your profile, you might pique someon'e interest to respond to you.. you get out of this site what you put into it..." | |||
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"And heres another thing...how often do men reply to women saying "sorry not interested" rarely i would imagine and if it was to happen regular the women would be quick to label the men vain and they love themselves and so forth! " Said that to a woman recently because she couldn't hold a conversation. Her reaction was one of surprise and implied there was something wrong with me. The sooner people realize that women as well as men can do things wrong on this site, in the bedroom etc the better. | |||
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"And heres another thing...how often do men reply to women saying "sorry not interested" rarely i would imagine and if it was to happen regular the women would be quick to label the men vain and they love themselves and so forth! Said that to a woman recently because she couldn't hold a conversation. Her reaction was one of surprise and implied there was something wrong with me. The sooner people realize that women as well as men can do things wrong on this site, in the bedroom etc the better. " Agreed, hell, ive often got blocked here for sayin hello lol I was asked another time to wank into my mothers knickers lol When i replied "eh r u serious" i was blocked lol Another time i told a girl i was out of action for awhile and therefore was a bit nervous meeting someone experienced especially from here and again - blocked! Have had numerous women up for this and up for that and after one or two mails they never reply and through no fault of my own, they simple just had too many offers and i wasnt deemed worthy enough in comparison to the others lickin her hole lol | |||
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"Pisses me off the shit single men here whilst women sit in there "thrones" thinking they are above so many ppl" This is a very valid point. I don't care how attractive they may think they are on the outside - I get any signal of them being up their own arses, there'll be no fawning from me. Good point and very well made. | |||
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"Agreed, hell, ive often got blocked here for sayin hello lol I was asked another time to wank into my mothers knickers lol When i replied "eh r u serious" i was blocked lol Another time i told a girl i was out of action for awhile and therefore was a bit nervous meeting someone experienced especially from here and again - blocked! Have had numerous women up for this and up for that and after one or two mails they never reply and through no fault of my own, they simple just had too many offers and i wasnt deemed worthy enough in comparison to the others lickin her hole lol " If you haven't got game son, you aint playing. You should stick to the ones you can make think you're a good catch. | |||
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"Agreed, hell, ive often got blocked here for sayin hello lol I was asked another time to wank into my mothers knickers lol When i replied "eh r u serious" i was blocked lol Another time i told a girl i was out of action for awhile and therefore was a bit nervous meeting someone experienced especially from here and again - blocked! Have had numerous women up for this and up for that and after one or two mails they never reply and through no fault of my own, they simple just had too many offers and i wasnt deemed worthy enough in comparison to the others lickin her hole lol If you haven't got game son, you aint playing. You should stick to the ones you can make think you're a good catch." Hahaha listen to urself. that is all | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs" Also whining on the forums like this is not going to help you fet meets | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs Also whining on the forums like this is not going to help you fet meets " | |||
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"Its all about respect.. and i'm not being rediculous .... if a guy wants to meet a woman or a couple, then he has to realise and respect that the woman makes THE choice to meet or not, thats what i mean by "the women are in charge" And when guys are contacting women and couples the have to remember that. If you walked up to someone in a bar, asked would they like a drink, and they said no, or no thanks, or ignored you, would you ... A. Turn around and move on B. Ask "why.. whats wrong with me"? C. Say "i didnt want to have a drink with you any way you fat, ugly cow.. NORMAL men choose A..... Think about it, why should you treat people on here any differently to people in public " | |||
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" If you haven't got game son, you aint playing. You should stick to the ones you can make think you're a good catch Hahaha listen to urself. that is all " 3rd division at best. | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs" Typically assuming its the men at fault yet again lol Nobody said every woman mailed has blanked me! Did it ever occur to you that maybe they arent interested because they have 100s of mail daily and can take theyre pick, If i had woman messaging me daily, i too would likely just reply to the hot ones!! What they are doing is understandable! But your not seeing that, your too busy with yer ?nope its the men too blame and thats that" WAKE UP | |||
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" Typically assuming its the men at fault yet again lol Nobody said every woman mailed has blanked me! Did it ever occur to you that maybe they arent interested because they have 100s of mail daily and can take theyre pick, If i had woman messaging me daily, i too would likely just reply to the hot ones!! What they are doing is understandable! But your not seeing that, your too busy with yer ?nope its the men too blame and thats that" WAKE UP" But YOU aren't getting it, you have come on a public forum stating you wouldn't share your partner with another man so you've already alienated the couples, & you keep banging on about how most women are up their own arses which alienates a lot of women, you don't want any gay fun so really, what is left for you? Maybe this life isn't for you??? | |||
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"If you walked up to someone in a bar, asked would they like a drink, and they said no, or no thanks, or ignored you, would you ... A. Turn around and move on B. Ask "why.. whats wrong with me"? C. Say "i didnt want to have a drink with you any way you fat, ugly cow.. NORMAL men choose A..... Think about it, why should you treat people on here any differently to people in public " Well said Dave. To be honest if anyone has bad manners on here, it's not the site which made them like this, they're just not the nicest people anyway. Do you really want to meet someone who's rude to you? (unless you're into that). With all the choice here... it's actually not real. Because most wouldn't go through with the offer anyway. Or they are only up for wham bam thank you mam kind of meets. I'd rather not have sex than having sex with someone I don't fancy or not like. This is the same on here and in real life. It has nothing to do with feeling almighty because there are much more men on here. | |||
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" Typically assuming its the men at fault yet again lol Nobody said every woman mailed has blanked me! Did it ever occur to you that maybe they arent interested because they have 100s of mail daily and can take theyre pick, If i had woman messaging me daily, i too would likely just reply to the hot ones!! What they are doing is understandable! But your not seeing that, your too busy with yer ?nope its the men too blame and thats that" WAKE UP But YOU aren't getting it, you have come on a public forum stating you wouldn't share your partner with another man so you've already alienated the couples, & you keep banging on about how most women are up their own arses which alienates a lot of women, you don't want any gay fun so really, what is left for you? Maybe this life isn't for you???" WOOOW your crazy, Iam not here for couples! Where the hell are these assumptions coming from? and its a forum, i didnt create the thread, i commented and gave my opinion and why shouldnt i? Iam being told iam alienating people, that ive got no "game" , and that the "life" isnt for me lol I think ill decide whats for me and whats not but hey ill have a good think about what you said seen as theres nothing left for me lol | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs Also whining on the forums like this is not going to help you fet meets " I agree with Sofia... As a single Fem i get ALOT of mails... It can be really frustrating.... I'm a Quality over Quantity kinda Girl... When I reply with a thanks but no thanks I get abuse... So now I don't bother replying... | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs Typically assuming its the men at fault yet again lol Nobody said every woman mailed has blanked me! Did it ever occur to you that maybe they arent interested because they have 100s of mail daily and can take theyre pick, If i had woman messaging me daily, i too would likely just reply to the hot ones!! What they are doing is understandable! But your not seeing that, your too busy with yer ?nope its the men too blame and thats that" WAKE UP" No I don't blame the men, what I'm saying is take some personal responsibility. I would say the same to anyone, and I'm pretty sure I have said it to women or couples whining too! | |||
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"If ye got such a stupid immature message like that, i dont blame ye for the rant.. Must say, from what i am hearing from friends on here, it seems to be getting worse.. Have always said there are guys on here who shouldnt be near the place.. The rules are simple really, if, as a single guy, you contact a couple, you may get a mail back saying thanks, but no thanks. However, if you dont receive a reply back, then just take it, they havent interest. Why a guy would then want to send an abusive message beggars belief! Never mind, Kerrywild, ...Kerry winning the football!" Well said ! | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs Typically assuming its the men at fault yet again lol Nobody said every woman mailed has blanked me! Did it ever occur to you that maybe they arent interested because they have 100s of mail daily and can take theyre pick, If i had woman messaging me daily, i too would likely just reply to the hot ones!! What they are doing is understandable! But your not seeing that, your too busy with yer ?nope its the men too blame and thats that" WAKE UP No I don't blame the men, what I'm saying is take some personal responsibility. I would say the same to anyone, and I'm pretty sure I have said it to women or couples whining too!" So if i message a woman saying hi and she ignores me, thats my responsibility and i need to address something about myself?? lol I would of that it was her problem!! And your all on about respect alot so why dont ye take a leaf out of your own book and respect me for my opinion here? Iam not here to lick my way into knickers like alot of ppl, if ye dont like my views, so be it Not here to row , just sayin how i feel and what i think , thats to be respected is it not? | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs Typically assuming its the men at fault yet again lol Nobody said every woman mailed has blanked me! Did it ever occur to you that maybe they arent interested because they have 100s of mail daily and can take theyre pick, If i had woman messaging me daily, i too would likely just reply to the hot ones!! What they are doing is understandable! But your not seeing that, your too busy with yer ?nope its the men too blame and thats that" WAKE UP No I don't blame the men, what I'm saying is take some personal responsibility. I would say the same to anyone, and I'm pretty sure I have said it to women or couples whining too! So if i message a woman saying hi and she ignores me, thats my responsibility and i need to address something about myself?? lol I would of that it was her problem!! And your all on about respect alot so why dont ye take a leaf out of your own book and respect me for my opinion here? Iam not here to lick my way into knickers like alot of ppl, if ye dont like my views, so be it Not here to row , just sayin how i feel and what i think , thats to be respected is it not?" So it's the woman's problem if they don't feel that receiving a lazy hi from someone isn't something she wants to respond to. I think sending a message saying hi is rarely if ever going to get a response. But I think most women on here have a some point pointed that out. ( hello brick wall we meet again ) | |||
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"I think what they mean by taking responsibility is you are the one in control of your feelings. If you get pissed off by other people's behaviour then that's your choice in some way. I know if I get an abusive message I have got upset before but most of the time I can laugh it off. So I can control how I feel and what affects me. Also, if you see a repeated behaviour around you which you don't like you should take responsibility and either move away or look at yourself as you may cause some of it. " This last bit especially is what I mean. Also looking at how people present themselves in pics and profile, are they presenting themselves in the best way to get the best interest. I know it's not just an initial message I look at, it's also how they present themselves. If someone is unwilling to improve a lacklustre profile but still complain about not getting meets cos no one will talk to you then you won't do well on this site | |||
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"I think what they mean by taking responsibility is you are the one in control of your feelings. If you get pissed off by other people's behaviour then that's your choice in some way. I know if I get an abusive message I have got upset before but most of the time I can laugh it off. So I can control how I feel and what affects me. Also, if you see a repeated behaviour around you which you don't like you should take responsibility and either move away or look at yourself as you may cause some of it. This last bit especially is what I mean. Also looking at how people present themselves in pics and profile, are they presenting themselves in the best way to get the best interest. I know it's not just an initial message I look at, it's also how they present themselves. If someone is unwilling to improve a lacklustre profile but still complain about not getting meets cos no one will talk to you then you won't do well on this site" This is goin too far, All i was saying was that its too easy to just blame the men, its already happening here with men being accused of being lazy now and not presenting themselves! Women can post selfies of theyre pussies that are anything but classy and they can not send a mail at all but they never get accused of anything, why dont the women make more of an effort? why dont they present themselves better! Its all about the men and how we need to be this way and that way , what makes women think they have such a sense of entitlement! Its a womans world here thats for sure | |||
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"Where did I mention this means only men? Anyway, I tried and give up. You really remind me of someone on here... makes me wonder... if someone is tricking the system??!! " You too eh? | |||
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"Where did I mention this means only men? Anyway, I tried and give up. You really remind me of someone on here... makes me wonder... if someone is tricking the system??!! You too eh? " +1 | |||
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"Where did I mention this means only men? Anyway, I tried and give up. You really remind me of someone on here... makes me wonder... if someone is tricking the system??!! You too eh? " All too familiar | |||
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"I think what they mean by taking responsibility is you are the one in control of your feelings. If you get pissed off by other people's behaviour then that's your choice in some way. I know if I get an abusive message I have got upset before but most of the time I can laugh it off. So I can control how I feel and what affects me. Also, if you see a repeated behaviour around you which you don't like you should take responsibility and either move away or look at yourself as you may cause some of it. This last bit especially is what I mean. Also looking at how people present themselves in pics and profile, are they presenting themselves in the best way to get the best interest. I know it's not just an initial message I look at, it's also how they present themselves. If someone is unwilling to improve a lacklustre profile but still complain about not getting meets cos no one will talk to you then you won't do well on this site This is goin too far, All i was saying was that its too easy to just blame the men, its already happening here with men being accused of being lazy now and not presenting themselves! Women can post selfies of theyre pussies that are anything but classy and they can not send a mail at all but they never get accused of anything, why dont the women make more of an effort? why dont they present themselves better! Its all about the men and how we need to be this way and that way , what makes women think they have such a sense of entitlement! Its a womans world here thats for sure " And as I have already said it should apply to women too, if a woman came on ranting bout single men being lazy etc, I would say the same thing if they had a profile that needed work or where just getting one type of message. I also think there is a lot less women with sense of entitlement than there is men on this site. A well crafted profile with a good attitude in messages is more likely to have fun on this site than one who doesn't | |||
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"So what you are saying is all the woman you gave chatted to on here have either blanked you or became disinterested after a few mails? Have you ever considered that the only common denominator between all these occurrences are yourselves! Take a look at the way you present yourselves through your profile, pictures and messages and accept a little personal responsibility . Also if a girl couple or male says they are not interested, grow a set and move on ffs" Finally someone else that makes sense on this site | |||
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"I think what they mean by taking responsibility is you are the one in control of your feelings. If you get pissed off by other people's behaviour then that's your choice in some way. I know if I get an abusive message I have got upset before but most of the time I can laugh it off. So I can control how I feel and what affects me. Also, if you see a repeated behaviour around you which you don't like you should take responsibility and either move away or look at yourself as you may cause some of it. This last bit especially is what I mean. Also looking at how people present themselves in pics and profile, are they presenting themselves in the best way to get the best interest. I know it's not just an initial message I look at, it's also how they present themselves. If someone is unwilling to improve a lacklustre profile but still complain about not getting meets cos no one will talk to you then you won't do well on this site This is goin too far, All i was saying was that its too easy to just blame the men, its already happening here with men being accused of being lazy now and not presenting themselves! Women can post selfies of theyre pussies that are anything but classy and they can not send a mail at all but they never get accused of anything, why dont the women make more of an effort? why dont they present themselves better! Its all about the men and how we need to be this way and that way , what makes women think they have such a sense of entitlement! Its a womans world here thats for sure And as I have already said it should apply to women too, if a woman came on ranting bout single men being lazy etc, I would say the same thing if they had a profile that needed work or where just getting one type of message. I also think there is a lot less women with sense of entitlement than there is men on this site. A well crafted profile with a good attitude in messages is more likely to have fun on this site than one who doesn't" Maybe iam wrong but i dont believe that, In a nutshell i think its down to what you look like! Women know within seconds of looking at you if they would fuck you or not and the message you send them isnt gonna change that!! Anytime i get a reply its always "face pic?" To be fair,most women here have so many options, and theres some good lookin guys here that are deemed "popular" that they are to busy chasing them to be interested in others!! Just because a woman isnt interested in a man does not mean the man needs to work on himself ffs lol Thats almost like sayin that if a man is abusive well then the girl is at fault, she should of presented herself better so she wouldnt attract that kinda attention!! P.s if you guys still think iam knicker soaker then the jokes on you haha I said lastnight i was happy to go on cam and prove who i was and nobody took me up on it | |||
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"This is just all too familiar !! Lol" Wow two people have the same view, they MUST be the same person | |||
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"I think what they mean by taking responsibility is you are the one in control of your feelings. If you get pissed off by other people's behaviour then that's your choice in some way. I know if I get an abusive message I have got upset before but most of the time I can laugh it off. So I can control how I feel and what affects me. Also, if you see a repeated behaviour around you which you don't like you should take responsibility and either move away or look at yourself as you may cause some of it. This last bit especially is what I mean. Also looking at how people present themselves in pics and profile, are they presenting themselves in the best way to get the best interest. I know it's not just an initial message I look at, it's also how they present themselves. If someone is unwilling to improve a lacklustre profile but still complain about not getting meets cos no one will talk to you then you won't do well on this site This is goin too far, All i was saying was that its too easy to just blame the men, its already happening here with men being accused of being lazy now and not presenting themselves! Women can post selfies of theyre pussies that are anything but classy and they can not send a mail at all but they never get accused of anything, why dont the women make more of an effort? why dont they present themselves better! Its all about the men and how we need to be this way and that way , what makes women think they have such a sense of entitlement! Its a womans world here thats for sure And as I have already said it should apply to women too, if a woman came on ranting bout single men being lazy etc, I would say the same thing if they had a profile that needed work or where just getting one type of message. I also think there is a lot less women with sense of entitlement than there is men on this site. A well crafted profile with a good attitude in messages is more likely to have fun on this site than one who doesn't Maybe iam wrong but i dont believe that, In a nutshell i think its down to what you look like! Women know within seconds of looking at you if they would fuck you or not and the message you send them isnt gonna change that!! Anytime i get a reply its always "face pic?" To be fair,most women here have so many options, and theres some good lookin guys here that are deemed "popular" that they are to busy chasing them to be interested in others!! Just because a woman isnt interested in a man does not mean the man needs to work on himself ffs lol Thats almost like sayin that if a man is abusive well then the girl is at fault, she should of presented herself better so she wouldnt attract that kinda attention!! P.s if you guys still think iam knicker soaker then the jokes on you haha I said lastnight i was happy to go on cam and prove who i was and nobody took me up on it " sorry but if were not attracted to a face pic when we see it we aint going to meet end of. were not everyones cuppa tea and everyones not ours . its called a matter of choice. | |||
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"In relation to your last post, conversely why should a woman participate in a conversation just because a man initiates it when she has no interest in him cause there is barely any information on his profile? Who now has the sense of entitlement?" She shouldnt ,and i never said she should, i said i understand why they dont but i dont believe its because its due to lack of info on a profile!! There is nobody to blame where as you seem to think that the man is to blame as if he is in control of wether she replies or not! I remember one girl was well up for fun with me initially and after 3 r 4 mails i never heard from her again and people wuld naturally jump to the conclusion i must of done summit wrong or bored her etc but the fact is i did nothing wrong, she most likely just took a shine to someone else and said meh screw this guy, i sound someone better and thats often how it is but you dont wanna believe that ha | |||
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"I think what they mean by taking responsibility is you are the one in control of your feelings. If you get pissed off by other people's behaviour then that's your choice in some way. I know if I get an abusive message I have got upset before but most of the time I can laugh it off. So I can control how I feel and what affects me. Also, if you see a repeated behaviour around you which you don't like you should take responsibility and either move away or look at yourself as you may cause some of it. This last bit especially is what I mean. Also looking at how people present themselves in pics and profile, are they presenting themselves in the best way to get the best interest. I know it's not just an initial message I look at, it's also how they present themselves. If someone is unwilling to improve a lacklustre profile but still complain about not getting meets cos no one will talk to you then you won't do well on this site This is goin too far, All i was saying was that its too easy to just blame the men, its already happening here with men being accused of being lazy now and not presenting themselves! Women can post selfies of theyre pussies that are anything but classy and they can not send a mail at all but they never get accused of anything, why dont the women make more of an effort? why dont they present themselves better! Its all about the men and how we need to be this way and that way , what makes women think they have such a sense of entitlement! Its a womans world here thats for sure And as I have already said it should apply to women too, if a woman came on ranting bout single men being lazy etc, I would say the same thing if they had a profile that needed work or where just getting one type of message. I also think there is a lot less women with sense of entitlement than there is men on this site. A well crafted profile with a good attitude in messages is more likely to have fun on this site than one who doesn't Maybe iam wrong but i dont believe that, In a nutshell i think its down to what you look like! Women know within seconds of looking at you if they would fuck you or not and the message you send them isnt gonna change that!! Anytime i get a reply its always "face pic?" To be fair,most women here have so many options, and theres some good lookin guys here that are deemed "popular" that they are to busy chasing them to be interested in others!! Just because a woman isnt interested in a man does not mean the man needs to work on himself ffs lol Thats almost like sayin that if a man is abusive well then the girl is at fault, she should of presented herself better so she wouldnt attract that kinda attention!! P.s if you guys still think iam knicker soaker then the jokes on you haha I said lastnight i was happy to go on cam and prove who i was and nobody took me up on it sorry but if were not attracted to a face pic when we see it we aint going to meet end of. were not everyones cuppa tea and everyones not ours . its called a matter of choice." Obviously lol your so defensive lads its ridiculous , forget about it now! Ye clearly dont understand where iam coming from,no big deal | |||
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" Obviously lol your so defensive lads its ridiculous , forget about it now! Ye clearly dont understand where iam coming from,no big deal " Thank f*ck for that, stick to 'kiss, fuck, pass' & you won't go far wrong. | |||
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" Obviously lol your so defensive lads its ridiculous , forget about it now! Ye clearly dont understand where iam coming from,no big deal Thank f*ck for that, stick to 'kiss, fuck, pass' & you won't go far wrong." pass lol :P | |||
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" Obviously lol your so defensive lads its ridiculous , forget about it now! Ye clearly dont understand where iam coming from,no big deal Thank f*ck for that, stick to 'kiss, fuck, pass' & you won't go far wrong. pass lol :P " There you go! | |||
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" Obviously lol your so defensive lads its ridiculous , forget about it now! Ye clearly dont understand where iam coming from,no big deal Thank f*ck for that, stick to 'kiss, fuck, pass' & you won't go far wrong. pass lol :P There you go! " ya'll all love me in time, trust me lol | |||
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"What's the point posting this thread?? All the good guys come put to defend themselves and rightful so. Another boring rant just block and move on FFS" agree!! | |||
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"you know what if ladies think the next message im gonna send is you wanna fuck now then followed with abuse when you say no thanks, I don't actually feel so bad about not getting a response from most of the women on here lol.." i think everyone on here has got sum sort of abuse off sumone else at sum stage but fuck them,i just block them,the more of an issue u make out of it the more the abuser gets the last laugh i reckon,so ignore and block!and thts the end | |||
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"Well said hifi. I always be nice and never get anywhere. But with a site that has More women than men they have their pick of well hung skinny guys. Pies like me and you don't have a chance lol. I'd say fair play for answering no thanks to the message but the abuse was not deserved. Some people don't deal well with rejection and shouldn't be here. Its not so much ye cant pull here but to do so ye have to lower your standards because lets face it, average lookin women here are pulling studs so even the average girls now think theyre better then the average guys! Any attractive woman i ever mailed shot me down , hadnt even an interest in gettin to know me! Pisses me off the shit single men here whilst women sit in there "thrones" thinking they are above so many ppl" why would u lower your standards just to get a shag. I dont lower my standards for anyone and certainly do not think im some gorgeous burd that can have any guy she likes on here. I go for the same type of guy in the real world as I do here. Physical attraction firstly and chemistry. | |||
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"Are all single males devout of reading skills?? "hey how are you I'm new to this and would love to meet your missus got sweet tits" reply "Not interested but thanks for your message" reply back "ok your missus is fat and ugly anyway" and a couple of more choice words some of them were french I think. My point is insults from males are like pre mature ejaculators.. not welcome. No wonder people here leave if they get the type of abusive message we just got. I know there is going to be the reply oh not all males are like that on here.. but there more nasty people then there is genuine. It's a frustrating situation for anyone here, some people shouldn't be let near a computer emmmmmmmmm rant over Talking of things that are frustrating I hate the way people generalize single males on here. I think its important and only fair to say SOME or MOST. It's not as if we don't get slated enough on here when a lot of us don't behave like that. The world is full of nasty people who don't deserve your time and they aren't all single males. " Single males are generalised on here because there are more of them. And as a single girl I can assure u that i also get a lot of abuse for rejecting a guy. You guys also need to rem that if there are 20 men to every one woman on here and she is not goin to sleep with all 20 now is she. So she mite meet and sleep with 5 oout of the 20 so that leaves 15 rejected. | |||
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"Have been described as "ugly enough to make my dog sick"! Didn't check if she actually had a dog." or she was a dog lol | |||
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"Fecking sick of rants " I hear you!! I have tried to inject fun into forums but jesus it's hard work!! | |||
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