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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some ppl (and i do understand their logic) choose not to take a person seriously or wish to talk purely because they not verified by another member saying they dot know if the person in question is real or fake.

Is photo verification not proof of a genuine profile in a case where this person hasnt or isnt looking to meet another person at the moment ??

is that not what the wee green flag on a profile means ? (photo verified)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

green flag means u are who u say u are ... green tick means u go where u say u will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"green flag means u are who u say u are ... green tick means u go where u say u will "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"green flag means u are who u say u are ... green tick means u go where u say u will

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yea i understand yiz but what if ur a lazy wee shite and not going ANYWHERE lol

sum ppl still sceptical of ya if u not green ticked Or maybe im just billy no mates today hahaha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Photo veri can only say u sent a pic of the sex u proclaim to be but the tick means ur not a waster and showed up a lot have lost hrs with messers time can not be recouped once it wasted its wasted gone never to be retrieved. Alot of people have other things in their lifes to get on with and when they manage to get some me time they don't want to waste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"green flag means u are who u say u are ... green tick means u go where u say u will "

U r so wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"green flag means u are who u say u are ... green tick means u go where u say u will

U r so wise "

theres a first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold on a sec ..... There has been two cases recently that I can remember of profiles on the most fabb'd page getting removed for being fake .... And you have to be photo verified to appear there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on a sec ..... There has been two cases recently that I can remember of profiles on the most fabb'd page getting removed for being fake .... And you have to be photo verified to appear there. "

yea but they were probabley just cam verified ,sure theres a few so called "woman"on here tht are meet verified and their blokes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on a sec ..... There has been two cases recently that I can remember of profiles on the most fabb'd page getting removed for being fake .... And you have to be photo verified to appear there.

yea but they were probabley just cam verified ,sure theres a few so called "woman"on here tht are meet verified and their blokes!"

That says it all !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photo veri can only say u sent a pic of the sex u proclaim to be but the tick means ur not a waster and showed up a lot have lost hrs with messers time can not be recouped once it wasted its wasted gone never to be retrieved. Alot of people have other things in their lifes to get on with and when they manage to get some me time they don't want to waste it

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In fairness the tick does not always mean you are not a time waster as some with green ticks can also mess you around and not show. It just means they are less likely to

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

So what happens to a genuine guy that has no verifications , he can't get meets cos he hasn't got them , visious circle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what happens to a genuine guy that has no verifications , he can't get meets cos he hasn't got them , visious circle "

he travels up to me and i help him out

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"So what happens to a genuine guy that has no verifications , he can't get meets cos he hasn't got them , visious circle "

Try harder!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he can travel down here and ill make room for him too.. it has pros and cons of verifcations really.. photo verifications are one thing on here u are who u are on the site.. others means your both genuine and honest and you do meet. remember there a lot of fakes and some not so nice ones on here too.. so its a mixture really..

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

Why thank you very much in advance miss curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless they have a verie by actually meeting someone we dont meet them,as this at least proves they have turned up at least once,not fair on the new guys but life isnt fair and we want someone else to out the wasters cos we are a little lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even verified people dont turn up....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why thank you very much in advance miss curvy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even verified people dont turn up....!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

true

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

Why wouldn't you turn up ? If you say your going to , then turn up , simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't you turn up ? If you say your going to , then turn up , simple"

it hasnt happened to me yet,but thts what sum ppl do,ive heard lots of stories of no shows,one guy went to kildare to meet a "girl" and no show!theres guys on here pretending to be women just messing and winding ppl up,thts why ppl are so cautious of newbies

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

Guys pretending to be girls FFS , that goes on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what happens to a genuine guy that has no verifications , he can't get meets cos he hasn't got them , visious circle

he travels up to me and i help him out "

or down south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then there's people who show up but prefer not too share their exploits with everyone on here content at the fact everyone has their own chosen criteria for meeting/socialising with people just like in real life

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

Not a bother down south , and I'd def show up , it's only manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with veries its no guarantee but it just narrows the chances,hard for a guy to get the 1st meet I know but use the chatroom and get to know folks and someone might give u a chance just not us lol,seriously though spend a lot of time on profile not just hi looking hot women for NSA sex make sure u have interesting pics not 10 of same cock and be critical of them if u don't think they are hit don't put them up.lot of competition so sell urself well.

MORE EFFORT =MORE RESULTS

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Even if they are cam verified can they not still hav fake pics up?

A real girl send her real pic and gets veried then uploads fake pics.a fake non the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All verifications are are notches on bedposts.

They tell you nothing

The amount of fake profiles in here that are verified prove that

Rely on verufications as proof of anything and you may as well stay home wrapped in cotton wool and drink your coco

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Dont think so.being well verified by ppl who are also well verified tells u alot.not everythin of course like if u are goin to like the petson or anything but tells u they are genuine and unlikely to b timeeaster

Havin a hidden verie or veried by 1 person doesnt say alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont think so.being well verified by ppl who are also well verified tells u alot.not everythin of course like if u are goin to like the petson or anything but tells u they are genuine and unlikely to b timeeaster

Havin a hidden verie or veried by 1 person doesnt say alot"

And of course you are welcome to your opinion as I am mine

So tell me what does having loads of verifications mean other then you are an active member of the site? Someone with none on show can be just as active and as genuine

We even saw this week a woman posting saying she was told she wasn't verified by the "right people"

Putting too much emphasis on verifications is leaving you with a very small circle of people to meet I think

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

U said verifications tell u nothing.I think they can say alot

Wat does having loads of veries tell u? Depemds on wat they say.

alot of mine, some hav left site n verie with them, hav said im a gentleman so u can b pretty sure im goin to be a gentleman.which I always am

A guy with no veries cud b a gent and cud look like a filmstar.or he cud b a bedroom dreamer who doesmt hav the wherewithall to ever get a meet.whos to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed who knows

And as already said on these boards , no one will display a bad veri

One couple this week saying how they met a well verified guy who was anything other then a gent

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Indeed who knows

And as already said on these boards , no one will display a bad veri

One couple this week saying how they met a well verified guy who was anything other then a gent

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Often heard that 2

Veries just 1 way to help u judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed who knows

And as already said on these boards , no one will display a bad veri

One couple this week saying how they met a well verified guy who was anything other then a gent

Often heard that 2

Veries just 1 way to help u judge"

Indeed. Just one way. I personally think some people place too much importance on them.

I certainly wouldn't refuse to talk to someone or meet them for a coffee just because they weren't verified. As I said before , that would leave a very small group of people to meet

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Indeed who knows

And as already said on these boards , no one will display a bad veri

One couple this week saying how they met a well verified guy who was anything other then a gent

Often heard that 2

Veries just 1 way to help u judge

Indeed. Just one way. I personally think some people place too much importance on them.

I certainly wouldn't refuse to talk to someone or meet them for a coffee just because they weren't verified. As I said before , that would leave a very small group of people to meet "

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

A lot won't even reply unless your verified , they have it on there profile , only verified need apply , makes it very difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot won't even reply unless your verified , they have it on there profile , only verified need apply , makes it very difficult "

So ignore them and move on to someone else

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

That's all you can do ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. If they judge you based on veries, in my opinion they are very narrow minded. I won't be sharing any, and if it makes it that little bit harder then it means you'll take more time to get to know the person first and not what someone else's experience has been. Everyone is different!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


" . If they judge you based on veries, in my opinion they are very narrow minded. I won't be sharing any, and if it makes it that little bit harder then it means you'll take more time to get to know the person first and not what someone else's experience has been. Everyone is different!"

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By *.L.CMan
over a year ago

Kilmallock

Have to agree,im verified and genuine but choose not to show my veries to everyone cos its no one's business but my own and the person who verified me.I will however show em to a potential meet if asked to,so does that make me less genuine than a person who shows all their veries,I think not.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Its all opinion and preference.Iv never had a no show so it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flip side though is women verified by loads of men actually puts me off. I don't want to sleep with half the site so women who get verified every other day aren't doing themselves any favours in my books.....

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By *.L.CMan
over a year ago

Kilmallock

Everyone to their own,whatever works for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read a profile recently that said the couple did not want too meet with people with loads of verifications.

It's a harsh harsh world this online sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

marjam

please take a look at our profile ( REDONE)

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