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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here's a question! You meet with a person on here, get on great, meet again for fun and it's brilliant! Ye both decide to keep it going on a regular occurance! If that situation happened to you, would you still meet others here for fun or only stick to this one person??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me, he doesn't meet others as his schedule is hectic, however I do occasionally meet others if the mood takes me. Any decision like this though needs to 've discussed between both parties to see how it goes forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a question! You meet with a person on here, get on great, meet again for fun and it's brilliant! Ye both decide to keep it going on a regular occurance! If that situation happened to you, would you still meet others here for fun or only stick to this one person??"

Would you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you?"
one word answer! Yes

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Would you?one word answer! Yes "

Yes we would still meet others as we love variety

but still havnt found that cpl locally that we could meet regually unfortunstely

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

If I was single I'd be meetin everyone wouldn jus stick myself to one person I'd make sure I was havin loads of fun

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

that situation happened to me and it resulted in a 5 year relationship

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

I would definitely stick to that one special person! have done so, and no regrets! It was wonderful while it lasted .... best ever in fact

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Is this Bustie Blonde you're talking about? That was quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly happened to me but that idea with sticking to one person didnt work out for both of us.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this Bustie Blonde you're talking about? That was quick!

Excellent comment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this Bustie Blonde you're talking about? That was quick!

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it will never happen to me on here if I have any control over it! Sticking to just the one person!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this Bustie Blonde you're talking about? That was quick!

it will never happen to me on here if I have any control over it! Sticking to just the one person!"
I like variety and it would be my definition of boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone here last yr and I seen her exclusively for a few months....I hadn't time to be seeing anyone else...it was only when it ended I came back here....I never asked whether she was exclusive with me....it wasn't of my business...we just respected each other's privacy....simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, and nor would I expect the other person to adhere to some sort of unspoken exclusivity deal

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By *S74Man
over a year ago

Dublin

That's not swinging any more... I call that love!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Nearly happened to me but that idea with sticking to one person didnt work out for both of us....."

there is a god

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

That's not swinging any more... I call that love!

Or an open relationship!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot easier then men do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!"
true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a couple of guys regularly and one for over a year but we have always met others although we wouldn't discuss those meets out of discretion. But always open about it and it's nice to have people you get to know well but I have never been looking for more and that had always been understood and never a problem. Its All about communication !

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot easier then men do

Where you hear this? From men or women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met a few guys off here more than once but if i was meeting sumone on a regular basis id say id just stick to the one guy but then again,if sumone hotter came along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot easier then men do

thts not always the case!men can get feelings too were the woman may just want sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual "

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

Best advice for you if having a regular FB don't meet to often, keep contact simple, and when it becomes difficult to walking away...... run!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with all the questions Soaker? Hope you are not a Journo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

Best advice for you if having a regular FB don't meet to often, keep contact simple, and when it becomes difficult to walking away...... run!!!"
i get out more then the vast majority here plus I ALWAYS keep fun simple, the way it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

Best advice for you if having a regular FB don't meet to often, keep contact simple, and when it becomes difficult to walking away...... run!!!i get out more then the vast majority here plus I ALWAYS keep fun simple, the way it should be "

Firstly you haven't a clue how often or not "vast majority" get out......

Secondly do you ever log out of fab to go and actually have fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

Firstly you haven't a clue how often or not "vast majority" get out......

Secondly do you ever log out of fab to go and actually have fun ?"
the vast majority of weekends plus coach and play sport on weeknights! Your takin offence to me saying that women in the majority of cases get emotional attached a lot easer then men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't got aclue about women so i don't think anybody here could be offended

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

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not at all! Just making a simple point that I maintain with continued fun with one person on a ref basis in most cases, there is a big chance the female will become emotionally attached more often then him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You haven't got aclue about women so i don't think anybody here could be offended"

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You haven't got aclue about women so i don't think anybody here could be offended"
coming from the expert on men? Lmao

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

not at all! Just making a simple point that I maintain with continued fun with one person on a ref basis in most cases, there is a big chance the female will become emotionally attached more often then him "

All depends....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

All depends.... "
on the individuals involved obviously but I'm speaking in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

All depends.... on the individuals involved obviously but I'm speaking in general "

But what facts are you basing this statement on? What steps have you taken to study men & women to discover this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

All depends.... on the individuals involved obviously but I'm speaking in general

But what facts are you basing this statement on? What steps have you taken to study men & women to discover this?"
I have seen a couple of different surveys done in years gone by! Surveys where u remain annonomous! sure it does hurt that much saying more women get emotionally attached easily does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

I'm guessing you either have not met or don't think women who lack in empathy and emotion exists!

We're of a different nature and trust me, we are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider myself an expert but at least i know that, you think you know about everything but really you don't, it is quite clear here, instrad of speaking about things i don't know i focus on listening to people that do know and learn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

I'm guessing you either have not met or don't think women who lack in empathy and emotion exists!

We're of a different nature and trust me, we are real"
proves my point lol! I never said they don't excist! I said IMO women get emotionally attached a lot more then men!THAT IS NOT ALL WOMEn!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't consider myself an expert but at least i know that, you think you know about everything but really you don't, it is quite clear here, instrad of speaking about things i don't know i focus on listening to people that do know and learn

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so everyone else knows about this situation on here but I don't? Lmao this gets better and better! Ur answer to everything on here sultra is listen to others and go by what they tell u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so everyone else knows about this situation on here but I don't? Lmao this gets better and better! Ur answer to everything on here sultra is listen to others and go by what they tell u! "

out of curiousity have u had many realionships or fbs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sultryenna actually, and i never say that, see what i mean? I said LEARN!!!

Listen and.... Ah fuck it i give up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

I'm guessing you either have not met or don't think women

who lack in empathy and emotion exists!

We're of a different nature and trust me, we are realproves my point lol! I never said they don't excist! I said IMO women get emotionally attached a lot more then men!THAT IS NOT ALL WOMEn!"

I disagree. A lot of women are capable of separating emotions from sex.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Hook line and sinker

the same point again and again u asked peoples opinion when it is offered u don't accept but keep banging the same drum if u ask an opinion at least accept it don't try ram ur down their mouths there a lot of people that get attached and more that don't both male and female as has being posted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's sultryenna actually, and i never say that, see what i mean? I said LEARN!!!

Listen and.... Ah fuck it i give up!! "
u think yourself and everyone is an expert sultra! It's clear in your posts to me! Listen to what everyone else on here tells u! News flash! The people who post on here are a very small percentage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks CJ, this is where me not being irish makes it difficult to express myself x

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"I have also heard a lot of people say women get emotionally attached a lot eastern then men do

Men are better keeping emotions hidden or separate but not all. And be careful of the woman who can!!true but what I said applies in an awful lot of cases that's why it's best to keep it casual

"An awful lot of cases"........ you need to get out more.

are u having trouble with sum female stalkers tht are after yur body mr knicker soaker?

All depends.... on the individuals involved obviously but I'm speaking in general "
how can you generalise. No two situations are the same. Different people, conversation, sexual preferences etc....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hook line and sinker

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what are you on about? The intial question in the thread is in the op! I never asked another question! What's been discussed now was never asked as a question and has nothing to do with the op

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"It's sultryenna actually, and i never say that, see what i mean? I said LEARN!!!

Listen and.... Ah fuck it i give up!! u think yourself and everyone is an expert sultra! It's clear in your posts to me! Listen to what everyone else on here tells u! News flash! The people who post on here are a very small percentage "

yes but a percentage representing the site as a whole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet you seem to know a man who tells you all women are this or that lol

Or that swinging is about blah blah blah

So i should not listen to the people here but yes to that guy you "know" and once again it's Sultryenna, my point has being proven , you don't read what we say, twice i had to tell you my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what facts are you basing this statement on? What steps have you taken to study men & women to discover this?I have seen a couple of different surveys done in years gone by! Surveys where u remain annonomous! sure it does hurt that much saying more women get emotionally attached easily does it?"

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

And no, it hurts reading this endless rubbish you keep spouting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so everyone else knows about this situation on here but I don't? Lmao this gets better and better! Ur answer to everything on here sultra is listen to others and go by what they tell u!

out of curiousity have u had many realionships or fbs?"
what I do is, when I say it's no strings, it is no strings simple as that! It will never become emotionally attached!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is definitely going to be a 175 post

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

And no, it hurts reading this endless rubbish you keep spouting. "

I'd like to read these surveys. What are the titles and I'll look them up....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

And no, it hurts reading this endless rubbish you keep spouting. "
they are surveys I have read over the last couple a years! U hardly want me to go searching for them do u? A lot of people say stuff on threads and should have evidence on hand to back it up but don't! Does it mean there lying? Absolutley not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's sultryenna actually, and i never say that, see what i mean? I said LEARN!!!

yes but a percentage representing the site as a whole "
representing the site as a whole? Lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"what I do is, when I say it's no strings, it is no strings simple as that! It will never become emotionally attached! "

Deja vu....

How many times have you wrote this??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yet you seem to know a man who tells you all women are this or that lol

Or that swinging is about blah blah blah

So i should not listen to the people here but yes to that guy you "know" and once again it's Sultryenna, my point has being proven , you don't read what we say, twice i had to tell you my name"
see again proves u don't read what I write sultra! I never said all women lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what I do is, when I say it's no strings, it is no strings simple as that! It will never become emotionally attached!

Deja vu....

How many times have you wrote this??"
as many times as I'm asked in relation to what fun I have had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so everyone else knows about this situation on here but I don't? Lmao this gets better and better! Ur answer to everything on here sultra is listen to others and go by what they tell u!

out of curiousity have u had many realionships or fbs?what I do is, when I say it's no strings, it is no strings simple as that! It will never become emotionally attached! "

but how do u know tht?u cud change yur views as u get older

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so everyone else knows about this situation on here but I don't? Lmao this gets better and better! Ur answer to everything on here sultra is listen to others and go by what they tell u!

out of curiousity have u had many realionships or fbs?what I do is, when I say it's no strings, it is no strings simple as that! It will never become emotionally attached!

but how do u know tht?u cud change yur views as u get older "
i won't simply because I keep it casual! I want fun now! There will come a time where I want serious! That time is not now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

And no, it hurts reading this endless rubbish you keep spouting. they are surveys I have read over the last couple a years! U hardly want me to go searching for them do u? A lot of people say stuff on threads and should have evidence on hand to back it up but don't! Does it mean there lying? Absolutley not "

You won't be able to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sultryenna!!!!! Third time and counting.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them."
i might then again I might not! It's not vitally important for me to find them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol

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what do u call me at times? Snickers! It's knickersoaker!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them."

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say that with a straight face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!"
of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!"
Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't be able to find them.i might then again I might not! It's not vitally important for me to find them "

Well it should be, you're being called out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You won't be able to find them.i might then again I might not! It's not vitally important for me to find them

Well it should be, you're being called out.

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lol this site is certainly not treated that serious for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

But isn't that a one sided question? Wouldn't it be better to compare it to a survey about men who get emotionally attached easier then women to get a more accurate opinion?

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Watch out classy!!!

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

But isn't that a one sided question? Wouldn't it be better to compare it to a survey about men who get emotionally attached easier then women to get a more accurate opinion?"
i have seen Situations where both comment! the sum up line was, women are just the sex in a higher percentage that get emotionally attached easier

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman "

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationship

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around

So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

But isn't that a one sided question? Wouldn't it be better to compare it to a survey about men who get emotionally attached easier then women to get a more accurate opinion?i have seen Situations where both comment! the sum up line was, women are just the sex in a higher percentage that get emotionally attached easier "
did it say why???

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationship"
absolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

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over a year ago

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

Really!! That's the best conclusion that was achieved?? Nothing to do with genetics, hormones, maternal or paternal feelings, age, sexual preferences etc

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids "

and if she was younger and had kids?

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

Really!! That's the best conclusion that was achieved?? Nothing to do with genetics, hormones, maternal or paternal feelings, age, sexual preferences etc"
could of been more, I don't know! It didn't interst me intensely to go into it in detail

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?"
maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply "

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

Really!! That's the best conclusion that was achieved?? Nothing to do with genetics, hormones, maternal or paternal feelings, age, sexual preferences etccould of been more, I don't know! It didn't interst me intensely to go into it in detail "

It didn't interest you enough but you remember it so well!! So well that you bring it up in a thread!! That you question peoples motives!! Confused or what???

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

It didn't interest you enough but you remember it so well!! So well that you bring it up in a thread!! That you question peoples motives!! Confused or what???

"
i didn't take a full interst in the thread survey just the result!

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

"
why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?"

was joking,u have a totally different attitude to love and realionships than most ppl,a lot of ppl fall in love with a person no matter what their backround or circumstances are!

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

was joking,u have a totally different attitude to love and realionships than most ppl,a lot of ppl fall in love with a person no matter what their backround or circumstances are!"
actually I know lads who won't go near women who have kids from precious relationships! I also know lads who do no strings fun and that's that! It's a regular occurabce and not that surprising

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So, these are facts that only you are privy to unless you wish to share the info?

You won't be able to find them.

Surely if the surveys are that memorable you'll remember the titles!!of course I do! "Women who get emotionally attached easier then men survey"!

Just the one?? I thought you said surveys!!Jesus there is a few but I'm sure the one will do u!

Really!! That's the best conclusion that was achieved?? Nothing to do with genetics, hormones, maternal or paternal feelings, age, sexual preferences etc"

Sounds like something he read in a Jackie from 1976.

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

was joking,u have a totally different attitude to love and realionships than most ppl,a lot of ppl fall in love with a person no matter what their backround or circumstances are!actually I know lads who won't go near women who have kids from precious relationships! I also know lads who do no strings fun and that's that! It's a regular occurabce and not that surprising "

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned! "
it's actually not classy as I have did it! It was a pure and utter nightmare! Never wanted to go out! The two kids there always! Daddy around over half the time! I was like fuck that I'm getting outta this

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One situation, not every woman/man with children is like that

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned! it's actually not classy as I have did it! It was a pure and utter nightmare! Never wanted to go out! The two kids there always! Daddy around over half the time! I was like fuck that I'm getting outta this "

maybe its not for everyone but i know plenty of ppl tht are in tht situation sure my two sisters are married to men tht arent their kids biological fathers and they cudnt be happier!

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

maybe its not for everyone but i know plenty of ppl tht are in tht situation sure my two sisters are married to men tht arent their kids biological fathers and they cudnt be happier! "
i never said it doesn't suit all but I certainly don't like it! I don't even know do I want kids in life

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned! "

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation."
lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

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Ill use an example a girl of 21 has to kids! Would you honestly expect most 21 yo lads to get with her when we all no most 21 yo guys have carefree live life to the full attitudes! Do what u want when u want how u want! I'd never expect him be any different

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"Ill use an example a girl of 21 has to kids! Would you honestly expect most 21 yo lads to get with her when we all no most 21 yo guys have carefree live life to the full attitudes! Do what u want when u want how u want! I'd never expect him be any different "

yur 28 arent u?,not 21,im talking about men in their mid twenties or thirties!

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yur 28 arent u?,not 21,im talking about men in their mid twenties or thirties!"
im just using that as an example in relation to a girl with kids! I wouldn't date a 21 yo woman with 2 kids

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Well Classy has given you 2 examples, I know at least 4 men who are in loving relationships with women & their children from previous relationships. If a lad is afraid to date a woman because she has children, who has the problem?

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

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yur 28 arent u?,not 21,im talking about men in their mid twenties or thirties!im just using that as an example in relation to a girl with kids! I wouldn't date a 21 yo woman with 2 kids "

damn i bet all them single mums willed be gutted now!!

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

and mateurity!!!

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yur 28 arent u?,not 21,im talking about men in their mid twenties or thirties!im just using that as an example in relation to a girl with kids! I wouldn't date a 21 yo woman with 2 kids

damn i bet all them single mums willed be gutted now!!

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

and mateurity!!!"
not really! If a lad lives his life a certain way and wants to continue it and that differs to a woman with kids, why would he get with her! If I was with a woman with kids I'd want to be out socialising every weekend(where possible) do u think she would be happy with that?

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

and mateurity!!!not really! If a lad lives his life a certain way and wants to continue it and that differs to a woman with kids, why would he get with her! If I was with a woman with kids I'd want to be out socialising every weekend(where possible) do u think she would be happy with that?"

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"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Yes, if you got a babysitter & took her with you!

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over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Yes, if you got a babysitter & took her with you! "
guarentee she wouldn't go every weekend and I certainly want nights out with lads to! Lads nights out lads weekends away etc

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over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

well if he was mateur and loved her enough he wudnt be out every wkend!sum guys in their 20s are mateur u know,they dont all go out every nite on the beer

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over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Yes, if you got a babysitter & took her with you! guarentee she wouldn't go every weekend and I certainly want nights out with lads to! Lads nights out lads weekends away etc "

how on earth wud u know tht?i went out with my ex every saturday nite when my son was young!

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over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

well if he was mateur and loved her enough he wudnt be out every wkend!sum guys in their 20s are mateur u know,they dont all go out every nite on the beer

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i love nights out at weekend when I can! I'm in work all week i deserve it

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over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Yes, if you got a babysitter & took her with you! guarentee she wouldn't go every weekend and I certainly want nights out with lads to! Lads nights out lads weekends away etc

how on earth wud u know tht?i went out with my ex every saturday nite when my son was young!"
because I have dated a woman with kids and know girls with kids! They go out once in a blue moon

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over a year ago

Has it ever occurred to you that the reason they don't go out could be because they don't have anyone to look after the kids or that they might consider putting food on the table and clothes on kids back more important than a night down the pub! Or any other gods amount of reasons.

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over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Yes, if you got a babysitter & took her with you! guarentee she wouldn't go every weekend and I certainly want nights out with lads to! Lads nights out lads weekends away etc "

And just imagine you having to stay in & look after her kids while she went out on girly nights out/spa weekends/hen parties etc.

You're not ready/mature enough for a relationship.

P.S. Do you still live at your Mum & Dads?

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over a year ago

I have a child, i go out more than once in ablue moon and all my friends with children do, now i don't have all the statistics so i guess my point is not valid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also classy-lady I plan on trying some fun with older women but I wouldn't dream In a month of Sundays in settling into serious with an older woman

thts if yur lucky enough to meet an older woman in the first place

so u mean to tell me tht if u met a woman on a nite out,u both got on really well and u really liked her a lot!then arranged to meet again,but

u found out she was 5 or 10 yrs older,u wudnt meet her again ???i dont mean for just sex i mean a realationshipabsolutley. A 100% certainty! Even certified more if she has kids

and if she was younger and had kids?maybe go there but there is a good chance the same would apply

i think u will end up an old batchelor so!

why? Because I don't want a relationship with a woman who has kids from another lad?

off course lots of lads have no strings fun!but i think men tht wont date a woman tht has kids is just old fashioned!

Sounds like 'lads' alright, a real man would be able to deal with the situation.lol hilarious! I was waiting for you to come in with that

Yes, if you got a babysitter & took her with you! guarentee she wouldn't go every weekend and I certainly want nights out with lads to! Lads nights out lads weekends away etc

And just imagine you having to stay in & look after her kids while she went out on girly nights out/spa weekends/hen parties etc.

You're not ready/mature enough for a relationship.

P.S. Do you still live at your Mum & Dads?"
no I live in an apartment! U can bet ur bottom dollor I wouldn't stay in and look after HER kids! Especially when my mates are goung out

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over a year ago

"Has it ever occurred to you that the reason they don't go out could be because they don't have anyone to look after the kids or that they might consider putting food on the table and clothes on kids back more important than a night down the pub! Or any other gods amount of reasons.

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exactky that's what having kids at a young age does to you! Destroy your carefree attitude and freedom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactky that's what having kids at a young age does to you! Destroy your carefree attitude and freedom "

Did you ever stop to think of the blessings that they can also bring?

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over a year ago

Young age? Is 27 young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah Sofia, come on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

exactky that's what having kids at a young age does to you! Destroy your carefree attitude and freedom

Did you ever stop to think of the blessings that they can also bring?"
oh they do when u want them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Young age? Is 27 young? "
read the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactky that's what having kids at a young age does to you! Destroy your carefree attitude and freedom

Did you ever stop to think of the blessings that they can also bring?"

I doubt it, as it would mean he had empathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 28 when i had my child, i haven't lost that freedom and stuff you are on about, and again nor have my friends, but i agree on the fact that you are not mature to have them at all or even mind them

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over a year ago

"I was 28 when i had my child, i haven't lost that freedom and stuff you are on about, and again nor have my friends, but i agree on the fact that you are not mature to have them at all or even mind them "
ur in a total different position to a younger women whose starting out in life and who has plans and then "accidentally" falls pregnant! Let's face it most younger women late teens early 20's don't plan to get pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually i did not plan it at all!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men "
i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

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over a year ago

Well i find it strange and narrow minded , i normally don't meet younger lads because they are so inmature and boring but i do give a chance to the ones who are worth my time, you could be surprised

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over a year ago

"And breathe...

I am counting to 100 while reading....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids "

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

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over a year ago

"Well i find it strange and narrow minded , i normally don't meet younger lads because they are so inmature and boring but i do give a chance to the ones who are worth my time, you could be surprised"
boring? I'd call women who prefer to stay inside in most cases on a weekend cuddled on the sofa eating food and watching a DVD as boring! I love socialising

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

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3 reasons! I have been there in the past! I know women with kids and what they're like and thirdly if daddy is involved and around a lot things become awkward and there is a fourth! I ain't playing daddy/babysitter to some other girls kids

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over a year ago

So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

3 reasons! I have been there in the past! I know women with kids and what they're like and thirdly if daddy is involved and around a lot things become awkward and there is a fourth! I ain't playing daddy/babysitter to some other girls kids "

You're generalising again, how many single women with children & the father still around have you dated?

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over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there"

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

You're generalising again, how many single women with children & the father still around have you dated?"
I'm not generalising! As I said I know lots n lots of women with kids! I had a bad experience dating a woman with kids! It was a nightmare! If u had fun with a young lad and he was brutal would you go back to a young lad again?

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over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friends"
let me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

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over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?"

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

You're generalising again, how many single women with children & the father still around have you dated?I'm not generalising! As I said I know lots n lots of women with kids! I had a bad experience dating a woman with kids! It was a nightmare! If u had fun with a young lad and he was brutal would you go back to a young lad again? "

I certainly wouldn't assume ANY person is the same as any OTHER person. If all the women with kids you know are the same towards you(do you see where I'm going with this) have you considered that YOU may be the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drink"
I can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

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i know women with kids, I havnt dated them all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking "

You might be keeping the wrong company then as I have never Been bored having a fee drinks in the house with my friends

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over a year ago

"Actually i did not plan it at all!!

And at 28 i thought i was quite young and my life was kind of just getting together, but at that stage i was away from home for 8 years, so that helped me as i felt i was ready, truth is women mature earlier than men i totally agree with your last point but it doesn't mean men in their 20's should be frowned upon for not dating women with kids

Nobody is frowning upon them, what we're saying is why would you deny yourself the opportunity to find the love of your life/soulmate just because she has a child?

i know women with kids, I havnt dated them all lol"

Yawn.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking "

So house parties will be off your swing list then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

You might be keeping the wrong company then as I have never Been bored having a fee drinks in the house with my friends"
its not the friends, it's the drinking in the house! Boring as hell! As I said I love to get out and socialise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

So house parties will be off your swing list then."
different scenario if there is some hot women there

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over a year ago

limerick

Went to a house party last week loads of drink brought in feck all drank

but boy was it fun

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Went to a house party last week loads of drink brought in feck all drank

but boy was it fun

u definitely wont get that down the local

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over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

You might be keeping the wrong company then as I have never Been bored having a fee drinks in the house with my friendsits not the friends, it's the drinking in the house! Boring as hell! As I said I love to get out and socialise "

But wouldn't your friends relieve the boring motion of moving your drink to and from your mouth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

But wouldn't your friends relieve the boring motion of moving your drink to and from your mouth? "
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over a year ago

Yes Sofia, totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

So house parties will be off your swing list then.different scenario if there is some hot women there "

Ahh, silly me. Does that mean you have to ascertain what kind of party is being held before you'll agree to attend or not?

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over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

But wouldn't your friends relieve the boring motion of moving your drink to and from your mouth? yep "

So it wouldn't be boring & you'd be grand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

So house parties will be off your swing list then.different scenario if there is some hot women there

Ahh, silly me. Does that mean you have to ascertain what kind of party is being held before you'll agree to attend or not?"
have to see whose attending but in all honesty I probably wouldn't attend a party from here! Don't think it will be my cup of tea at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

But wouldn't your friends relieve the boring motion of moving your drink to and from your mouth? yep

So it wouldn't be boring & you'd be grand. "
nah b alrite for a bit but u have to head out eventually! Not sit in staring at four walls for the night

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over a year ago

"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

So house parties will be off your swing list then.different scenario if there is some hot women there

Ahh, silly me. Does that mean you have to ascertain what kind of party is being held before you'll agree to attend or not?have to see whose attending but in all honesty I probably wouldn't attend a party from here! Don't think it will be my cup of tea at all "

I don't think they will send you pics of all attendees beforehand, so you're probably best off abstaining.

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"So do i but with people my own age, i love nights in too though but none of them describe what you said there

Me neither, sometimes nights in can be better with friendslet me askin do u enjoy drinking indoors with friends?

Yes I do, cos I've got my choice of music and drinkI can't do it as I get bored off my tits! I hate house drinking

So house parties will be off your swing list then.different scenario if there is some hot women there

I don't think they will send you pics of all attendees beforehand, so you're probably best off abstaining."
probably ye but if a body pic looks good in the profile who knows

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