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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We think a genuine veri is a veri that just lets us know that they are real and did turn up and not times wasters , we dont really want to know what went on in the meet only that they are real

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"We think a genuine veri is a veri that just lets us know that they are real and did turn up and not times wasters , we dont really want to know what went on in the meet only that they are real "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

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I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am glad this topic came up, I for one (on my second visit to this site) refuse to get verified this time round, it is my one stipulation to people i meet, I don't want a medal, i don't want people to know who i met and i certainly don't want the whole site to know what went on. Any body can get verified without even meeting someone, people hand them out like 2c sweets and they don't mean a fuckin thing, however i can prove that you can get on fine here without them

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation "

we would give someone who is local a chance for a coffee meet who wasnt verified but defo wouldnt travel far for someone who wasnt verified , not gona take that chance especially if they on near to a year or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation "

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified. "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Veris are usefull in that they say yes this person is what they proclaim on their profile and they actually turn up other than that i don't need to know

i keep mine hidden due to mail asking stupid questions about who i have met. But i do show the veri summary at least then potential meets can see when i last had a meet or the mix of people i meet and yes there's one from a male u do meet males at party's and such

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Veris are usefull in that they say yes this person is what they proclaim on their profile and they actually turn up other than that i don't need to know

i keep mine hidden due to mail asking stupid questions about who i have met. But i do show the veri summary at least then potential meets can see when i last had a meet or the mix of people i meet and yes there's one from a male u do meet males at party's and such "

now cj is there something u need to share with us ,

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified. "

and safety has to be foremost when meeting off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we get mails from unverified profiles we tell them to go get verified and come back to us, or we offer to verify them. They almost always never come back or give reasons why they can't be verified right now...

....I wonder why that is?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Veris are usefull in that they say yes this person is what they proclaim on their profile and they actually turn up other than that i don't need to know

i keep mine hidden due to mail asking stupid questions about who i have met. But i do show the veri summary at least then potential meets can see when i last had a meet or the mix of people i meet and yes there's one from a male u do meet males at party's and such

now cj is there something u need to share with us , "

ohh there is lots id like to share with u but i don't meet ur preferences so i cant mail u its a respect thing however if u feel the need u know where i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified.

and safety has to be foremost when meeting off here "

Definitely I would have no interest in meeting anyone based on just chatting through here alone it is impossible to tell through text or even a coffee meet if you are going to be safe alone with that person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs pure brings up another good point ... Picture verified should be allowed to be filtered out for def!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified.

and safety has to be foremost when meeting off here "

Definitely I would have no interest in meeting anyone based on just chatting through here alone it is impossible to tell through text or even a coffee meet if you are going to be safe alone with that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs pure brings up another good point ... Picture verified should be allowed to be filtered out for def! "

Gee I thought ye wouldn't have needed that much filters at all given yer attitude in the forums, just my own humble opinion

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I have to agree with the pic veris i done mine within an hr of joining it means nothing other than ur willing to get ur kit off in front of a mirror

i always show my veris to a meet in the run up even if its coffee then at least if there's a mutual friend she or they have a chance to ask is this fecker for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As crazy couple said, the only thing i think is necessary is to say they turned up and more importantly that they look like they do in their pics. Sometimes though too much emphasis can be placed on verifications especially with new members as they are mot the only ones that don't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally verified or not a phone call goes a long way! Many times we have chatted with a photo verified couple only for the lady never to materialize....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"? "

easy find some one local have a coffee and a chat what will it cost u an hr of ur time plus the coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"? "

There are these things called meet & greets.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mrs pure brings up another good point ... Picture verified should be allowed to be filtered out for def!

Gee I thought ye wouldn't have needed that much filters at all given yer attitude in the forums, just my own humble opinion"

The day you have a humble opinion or one I would have diddly squat interest in is a long way off ! I could add that it's a pity they don't have a filter here for "twats who target people with thinly disguised threads and then report users when they don't like responses " but I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"?

easy find some one local have a coffee and a chat what will it cost u an hr of ur time plus the coffee"
easier said then done when u can't find someone local for a meet as a newbie only told me last week! He said most "local" people he's out of their filter range

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Well I am glad this topic came up, I for one (on my second visit to this site) refuse to get verified this time round, it is my one stipulation to people i meet, I don't want a medal, i don't want people to know who i met and i certainly don't want the whole site to know what went on. Any body can get verified without even meeting someone, people hand them out like 2c sweets and they don't mean a fuckin thing, however i can prove that you can get on fine here without them"

I agree. Regarding safety I take my time chatting because usually they'll slip up eventually and show true colours. So far so good, my instincts have been correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"?

There are these things called meet & greets....."
meet and greets are group meets! Certainly should not be a necessity someone signing up here to attend meet and greets unless it's handy for them and it's in their locality! As I have always said on here! Your location on here can make things a lot easier for you

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"?

easy find some one local have a coffee and a chat what will it cost u an hr of ur time plus the coffeeeasier said then done when u can't find someone local for a meet as a newbie only told me last week! He said most "local" people he's out of their filter range "

put up a coffee meet or a meet and greet pls don't be putting square pegs in round holes my first came from a lady off the who's near we had coffee and a laugh still do we don't match what each other want from here but we still chat

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I have a simple question! How are newbies supposed to succeed here if an awful lot adopt the attitude "I won't meet you unless your meet verified"?

There are these things called meet & greets.....meet and greets are group meets! Certainly should not be a necessity someone signing up here to attend meet and greets unless it's handy for them and it's in their locality! As I have always said on here! Your location on here can make things a lot easier for you "

meet&greets are not "group meets" they are a social event for like minded people to meet up and have a no pressure drink and a chat , put names to faces etc , we live in Cork and have traveled all over for meets and greets to places like Dublin , Galway , Limerick , Waterford , they are defo worth the road trip , slot of younger guys think that theu are a gruop sex orgy but they are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading some of these comments ya would think when ya sign up here it's to do everyone else a bloody favour! lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

I think in some cases it's easier to say the reason not interested is because your not verified so as not to feel like your insulting. Less hassle.

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron


"easier said then done when u can't find someone local for a meet as a newbie only told me last week! He said most "local" people he's out of their filter range "

You could always enter the Secret Social and hope you get drawn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"easier said then done when u can't find someone local for a meet as a newbie only told me last week! He said most "local" people he's out of their filter range

You could always enter the Secret Social and hope you get drawn..."
i did but she's to far away! She's not local! I ain't gonna travel a distance for a "social meet" when there is no initial physical attraction

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"easier said then done when u can't find someone local for a meet as a newbie only told me last week! He said most "local" people he's out of their filter range

You could always enter the Secret Social and hope you get drawn...i did but she's to far away! She's not local! I ain't gonna travel a distance for a "social meet" when there is no initial physical attraction "

or

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knickers! How far are you willing to travel

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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago

curtain twitching sleepy village


"Well I am glad this topic came up, I for one (on my second visit to this site) refuse to get verified this time round, it is my one stipulation to people i meet, I don't want a medal, i don't want people to know who i met and i certainly don't want the whole site to know what went on. Any body can get verified without even meeting someone, people hand them out like 2c sweets and they don't mean a fuckin thing, however i can prove that you can get on fine here without them"

completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knickers! How far are you willing to travel "
a fair enough distance presumably when there is an initial physical attraction there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one have met lots of people on here, and everytime I have asked them to please not verify me. I think its only for peoples egos at this stage, and it really puts me off if I see a girl with lots of them on her profile. Its like rating hookers and gigolos at times. If people want to take the time to get to know me, meet in a public place for a coffee, that's good enough for me. Sorry for the rant, but its something I feel strongly about, im confident in myself and my own ability, I don't need everyone knowing how good I might be at this or that, leave a little mystery for gods sake. Rant over phew....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wanted verifications to prove we're a genuine profile. I think we have enough proof now so I doubt we'll be looking for any more. We don't go in for graphic veris either.

In our opinion a non verified profile lacks credibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I for one have met lots of people on here, and everytime I have asked them to please not verify me. I think its only for peoples egos at this stage, and it really puts me off if I see a girl with lots of them on her profile. Its like rating hookers and gigolos at times. If people want to take the time to get to know me, meet in a public place for a coffee, that's good enough for me. Sorry for the rant, but its something I feel strongly about, im confident in myself and my own ability, I don't need everyone knowing how good I might be at this or that, leave a little mystery for gods sake. Rant over phew...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wanted verifications to prove we're a genuine profile. I think we have enough proof now so I doubt we'll be looking for any more. We don't go in for graphic veris either.

In our opinion a non verified profile lacks credibility."

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By *onyg4funMan
over a year ago

South

My understanding is that in order to post in forum you need to be verified, but that does not seem to be the case, anyone know for sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wanted verifications to prove we're a genuine profile. I think we have enough proof now so I doubt we'll be looking for any more. We don't go in for graphic veris either.

In our opinion a non verified profile lacks credibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am glad this topic came up, I for one (on my second visit to this site) refuse to get verified this time round, it is my one stipulation to people i meet, I don't want a medal, i don't want people to know who i met and i certainly don't want the whole site to know what went on. Any body can get verified without even meeting someone, people hand them out like 2c sweets and they don't mean a fuckin thing, however i can prove that you can get on fine here without them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified. "

I'm sorry but I've just cracked up. How on earth does what someone else has written about someone you are thinking of meeting translate into it being safer. I really really don't get it. I don't give a fig about veris I use my own instincts, I trust them far more than I trust the words of a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified.

I'm sorry but I've just cracked up. How on earth does what someone else has written about someone you are thinking of meeting translate into it being safer. I really really don't get it. I don't give a fig about veris I use my own instincts, I trust them far more than I trust the words of a complete stranger. "
ur last sentence is exactly what I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you that's what I get told ?go and get verified and come back to us .i relatively new here and could meet a lot on here but few to my taste as me to them.but bottom line I am findind it incredibly hard to be verified.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


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I value my safety so would never meet an unverified member. When I was part of a couple here ..we met one or two unverified singles/ couples just for coffee and verified them after as being genuine. It's not a big deal if they are local. I wish there was a filter to stop picture verified members from mailing . I'm my opinion that's not verified.

I'm sorry but I've just cracked up. How on earth does what someone else has written about someone you are thinking of meeting translate into it being safer. I really really don't get it. I don't give a fig about veris I use my own instincts, I trust them far more than I trust the words of a complete stranger. "
so true and we all know there are some verifications that are not real...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????"
you have judgemental people here rinky who judge people without even speakin to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????you have judgemental people here rinky who judge people without even speakin to them "

Maybe so, actually why am I even getting drawn into this haha, the way I do things works fine for me so thats they way Im keeping it!

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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago

Bangor, Norn Iron

When it comes down to it there is no single method for proving someone is genuine. Verifications are just part of the toolbox that can be used to determine the suitability of a prospective meet. It's not the be all and end all. They are there. Use them or don't, the choice is yours.

Only one of my verifications is a non social one. The rest have all come from meet & greets and coffee meets. Hopefully they tell people I'm a cool guy who turns up when he says he will. Nothing else is really needed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes down to it there is no single method for proving someone is genuine. Verifications are just part of the toolbox that can be used to determine the suitability of a prospective meet. It's not the be all and end all. They are there. Use them or don't, the choice is yours.

Only one of my verifications is a non social one. The rest have all come from meet & greets and coffee meets. Hopefully they tell people I'm a cool guy who turns up when he says he will. Nothing else is really needed.."

this

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????"
who??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I interpreted it differently to how it was intended but I thought moodycow came across as though you must be stupid if you think verifications matter is all, maybe it was not intended that way?

Why do I keep posting in these blinkin forums! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile is not the be all and end all! I would never judge somebody alone on a profile

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I read it that she just trusts her own instincts more than she'd trust verifications. I think a lot of us probably would, although verifications can go some way towards confirming that instinct. Possibly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read it that she just trusts her own instincts more than she'd trust verifications. I think a lot of us probably would, although verifications can go some way towards confirming that instinct. Possibly? "

Yea probably, lesson learnt, keep mouth shut! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read it that she just trusts her own instincts more than she'd trust verifications. I think a lot of us probably would, although verifications can go some way towards confirming that instinct. Possibly? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day to many people on here get hung up on veris! everything is not gonna fall into place for u on this site before u meet somebody! IMO you have to take risks! Yes, at the end of the day most lads in their 20's are here for one reason, something that seems to put a lot of people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????"

Am I being lambasted ??

Lol

I trust my gut once I have met someone but In order for me to go to the effort of meeting someone I will look to their verification and the verifications of the person who verified them !

Am I fool ??

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????

Am I being lambasted ??

Lol

I trust my gut once I have met someone but In order for me to go to the effort of meeting someone I will look to their verification and the verifications of the person who verified them !

Am I fool ?? "
so basically you look to the opinions of others on that particular person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????

Am I being lambasted ??

Lol

I trust my gut once I have met someone but In order for me to go to the effort of meeting someone I will look to their verification and the verifications of the person who verified them !

Am I fool ?? "

No way. That's exactly what we do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????

Am I being lambasted ??

Lol

I trust my gut once I have met someone but In order for me to go to the effort of meeting someone I will look to their verification and the verifications of the person who verified them !

Am I fool ?? so basically you look to the opinions of others on that particular person? "

No i use verifications to establish the veracity of a member not the personality of the person.

Chemistry is not universal !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really unfair to lambast people for their preferences???????

Am I being lambasted ??

Lol

I trust my gut once I have met someone but In order for me to go to the effort of meeting someone I will look to their verification and the verifications of the person who verified them !

Am I fool ??

No way. That's exactly what we do too. "

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one on here takes very little interst in veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one on here takes very little interst in veris?"

No your not, but then I have proof in the form of veris that shoe me to be what I claim to be, a single female who when I arrange something bar unforeseen circumstances will show up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only one on here takes very little interst in veris?

No your not, but then I have proof in the form of veris that shoe me to be what I claim to be, a single female who when I arrange something bar unforeseen circumstances will show up"

And that's exactly the extent of information we look for ... No more no less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one on here takes very little interst in veris?

No your not, but then I have proof in the form of veris that shoe me to be what I claim to be, a single female who when I arrange something bar unforeseen circumstances will show up

And that's exactly the extent of information we look for ... No more no less "

Should have added that's all I looked for in a meet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases of only being Interested in folk that are verified by folk that ive met.

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By *alwayboyMan
over a year ago

Galway

Verifications are a vital part of the scene to distinguish between the genuine peeps and the messers !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one on here takes very little interst in veris?"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one on here takes very little interst in veris?"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much angst here. I must have been lucky to pass by all the axe murderers and blackmailers thus far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I for one have met lots of people on here, and everytime I have asked them to please not verify me. I think its only for peoples egos at this stage, and it really puts me off if I see a girl with lots of them on her profile. Its like rating hookers and gigolos at times. If people want to take the time to get to know me, meet in a public place for a coffee, that's good enough for me. Sorry for the rant, but its something I feel strongly about, im confident in myself and my own ability, I don't need everyone knowing how good I might be at this or that, leave a little mystery for gods sake. Rant over phew...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I had a coffee meet with an unverified guy... he travelled up from cork just for a coffee and a sneaky kiss... it was a great meet and he was a really nice guy and now he has a veri cause he was so nice.. everyone deserves a chance...

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over a year ago


"Today I had a coffee meet with an unverified guy... he travelled up from cork just for a coffee and a sneaky kiss... it was a great meet and he was a really nice guy and now he has a veri cause he was so nice.. everyone deserves a chance... "

There. That's how it's done.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Today I had a coffee meet with an unverified guy... he travelled up from cork just for a coffee and a sneaky kiss... it was a great meet and he was a really nice guy and now he has a veri cause he was so nice.. everyone deserves a chance... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read it that she just trusts her own instincts more than she'd trust verifications. I think a lot of us probably would, although verifications can go some way towards confirming that instinct. Possibly? "

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over a year ago


"Today I had a coffee meet with an unverified guy... he travelled up from cork just for a coffee and a sneaky kiss... it was a great meet and he was a really nice guy and now he has a veri cause he was so nice.. everyone deserves a chance... "

And we spent 4 hours together so it wasnt just coffee and bye.. it was great..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much angst here. I must have been lucky to pass by all the axe murderers and blackmailers thus far. "

I don't see it as angst, more what people are comfortable with and what works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation "

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyone"
i bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men "

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox "
what would give them that impression?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox what would give them that impression?"

cos i wasnt verified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox what would give them that impression?

cos i wasnt verified!"
ah I see! So they though because u were a woman and the choice of men you have to choose from on here, you should have been verified within 5 months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox what would give them that impression?

cos i wasnt verified!ah I see! So they though because u were a woman and the choice of men you have to choose from on here, you should have been verified within 5 months?"

yea i guess tht must have been it

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox "

I got the same but not because of non verification because im a woman that takes no bullshit. Most men seem to think that flattery will work. Not in this case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox

I got the same but not because of non verification because im a woman that takes no bullshit. Most men seem to think that flattery will work. Not in this case."

That I know. But it's good.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox

I got the same but not because of non verification because im a woman that takes no bullshit. Most men seem to think that flattery will work. Not in this case."

yea i know what u mean,a lot think yur tht gullible tht if they tell u yur gorgeous and beautiful and shower u will compliments tht they deserve a shag of u!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox

I got the same but not because of non verification because im a woman that takes no bullshit. Most men seem to think that flattery will work. Not in this case.

yea i know what u mean,a lot think yur tht gullible tht if they tell u yur gorgeous and beautiful and shower u will compliments tht they deserve a shag of u!"

I get that in 'real' life which was one of the reasons I joined here, was hoping there would be none of that crap...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you consider is a genuine verification for any profile here? From the aspect of people we don't know ,nor have ever met, contacting us we just have no time for hidden veris or cam veris profiles ....

I think it speaks volumes much more on here, that a woman whose here 5 months or more with no veri then a man in the same situation! overal tho in realtion to new people signing up here and the regulars! the regulars in the vast majority are to hung up on a person been verified! Why not chat and make your own mind and not get hung up on a meet veri? Just my view on the situation

when i first joined here i was on here for 6 months b4 i met anyonei bet it wasn't from the lack of trying by men

well no but a lot of them assumed i was a man acting the bollox

I got the same but not because of non verification because im a woman that takes no bullshit. Most men seem to think that flattery will work. Not in this case.

yea i know what u mean,a lot think yur tht gullible tht if they tell u yur gorgeous and beautiful and shower u will compliments tht they deserve a shag of u!

I get that in 'real' life which was one of the reasons I joined here, was hoping there would be none of that crap..."

im sure u find it 10 times worse here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon "

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag "
ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't "

what??i think u got tht wrong!

i cudnt have sex with a man unless i was attracted to him but it doesnt mean i want to bloody marry him!i can seperate feelings of love and sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't

what??i think u got tht wrong!

i cudnt have sex with a man unless i was attracted to him but it doesnt mean i want to bloody marry him!i can seperate feelings of love and sex!"
u didn't read what I said I don't think lol can u shag on physical attraction alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't

what??i think u got tht wrong!

i cudnt have sex with a man unless i was attracted to him but it doesnt mean i want to bloody marry him!i can seperate feelings of love and sex!u didn't read what I said I don't think lol can u shag on physical attraction alone?"

do u mean wud i have sex with sumone tht i was physically attracted to,and it was just sex and no strings?yea i wud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't

what??i think u got tht wrong!

i cudnt have sex with a man unless i was attracted to him but it doesnt mean i want to bloody marry him!i can seperate feelings of love and sex!u didn't read what I said I don't think lol can u shag on physical attraction alone?

do u mean wud i have sex with sumone tht i was physically attracted to,and it was just sex and no strings?yea i wud "
ye u find him physically attractive and that's enough for you to have sex with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't

what??i think u got tht wrong!

i cudnt have sex with a man unless i was attracted to him but it doesnt mean i want to bloody marry him!i can seperate feelings of love and sex!u didn't read what I said I don't think lol can u shag on physical attraction alone?

do u mean wud i have sex with sumone tht i was physically attracted to,and it was just sex and no strings?yea i wud ye u find him physically attractive and that's enough for you to have sex with him "

why do u think sum women dont??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't

what??i think u got tht wrong!

i cudnt have sex with a man unless i was attracted to him but it doesnt mean i want to bloody marry him!i can seperate feelings of love and sex!u didn't read what I said I don't think lol can u shag on physical attraction alone?

do u mean wud i have sex with sumone tht i was physically attracted to,and it was just sex and no strings?yea i wud ye u find him physically attractive and that's enough for you to have sex with him

why do u think sum women dont??"
i don't doubt that some women do but going by this site alone a lot of women can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How has a thread about body hangups turned into a knickersoaker nsa spiel again. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In short some men want a sprint to get to the main event women want a marathon

na, its just tht sum men wud shag anything with a pulse and most women are fussy who they shag ill sum it up for u! A lot of men can shag on physical attraction alone where's a lot of women can't "

Sometimes I have come across some men that the physical attraction is not even necessary

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"How has a thread about body hangups turned into a knickersoaker nsa spiel again. Lol"

jayus rinky ur on the wrong thread this the verified users/snickers NSA thread

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