FabSwingers.com forum: Married men

By *obbie65 OP Man
over a year ago

kildare

Married and on here.

Is being a married man and on here alone a big turn off for women.

Everyone has their reasons for being here and I would have thought married men are less hassle as they have more to lose !

After all the main reason is NSA fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some married women here, probably for the same reason as some married men.

Some wont find it attractive as it has the potential to develop into drama, others dont care.

Our opinion is if you dont agree with it, make it known on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some married women here, probably for the same reason as some married men.

Some wont find it attractive as it has the potential to develop into drama, others dont care.

Our opinion is if you dont agree with it, make it known on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

Agreed....married means no drama!! Stalking....and i feel safer with married guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 posts so far and not one of them a bit judgemental towards married men!!! That is a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

I can see your point but what about the drama from the wife/gf if she finds out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have "Married" on my profile and I have had hassle from some people calling me a cheater ect. I do agree that some women prefer Married men and I have met some that don't care but its impossible to meet a couple, they just don't want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have "Married" on my profile and I have had hassle from some people calling me a cheater ect. I do agree that some women prefer Married men and I have met some that don't care but its impossible to meet a couple, they just don't want to know

There are always exceptions & of course, you can never be certain if they are being truthful!!!

But single men should have less baggage.

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

Agreed....married means no drama!! Stalking....and i feel safer with married guys!!

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ha ha annie are the married ones safe wit you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others Have said some will meet you, some won't. All I say is be up front about it and let your potential meets make the decision for themselves whether to meet you or not. This will draw some criticism from those that don't meet married men but it will go worse if you are not upfront about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

Agreed....married means no drama!! Stalking....and i feel safer with married guys!!

ha ha annie are the married ones safe wit you

yesssssssss

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

Agreed....married means no drama!! Stalking....and i feel safer with married guys!!

ha ha annie are the married ones safe wit you

yesssssssss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's up to any of us here to judge each other , as for couples not meeting married guys , if attraction is there and we all got on, it doesn't bother us ...Selina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't demonise or judge marrieds , but I do worry about being involved in any potential fallout if they are caught out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marrieds =

Absolute discretion

No drama

No hassle

No unwanted ill timed communication

Win Win Win Win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others Have said some will meet you, some won't. All I say is be up front about it and let your potential meets make the decision for themselves whether to meet you or not. This will draw some criticism from those that don't meet married men but it will go worse if you are not upfront about it"

Totally agree be upfront about ur status

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By *ullfrog69Man
over a year ago

Fermangh/ Cavan

Totally agree be upfront about ur status "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marrieds =

Absolute discretion

No drama

No hassle

No unwanted ill timed communication

Win Win Win Win

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Marrieds =

Absolute discretion

No drama

No hassle

No unwanted ill timed communication

Win Win Win Win

thats until the wife finds out !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marrieds =

Absolute discretion

No drama

No hassle

No unwanted ill timed communication

Win Win Win Win

thats until the wife finds out !!!!!!!"

or husbands !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

this exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marrieds =

Absolute discretion

No drama

No hassle

No unwanted ill timed communication

Win Win Win Win

thats until the wife finds out !!!!!!!"

Be fun...Be smart simple motto to live by

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We are a cpl and we don't care what anyones status is.....here for fun that's it

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By *obbie65 OP Man
over a year ago

kildare

There is a women on here - I've had some great chats with her - she is open and emotional and wonderful but she won't meet me cause I'm married -

That makes me like her even more !

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By *hillMan
over a year ago

cobh

So good to see the wide open opinions on married. . That's what makes fab and it's members so cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How things have changed! A few years ago there was a decently large group posting that took every opportunity to give married men a kicking. And yes only men. They lectured about it been against gods law. And got away with it!

There are downsides to married people though. They are lying to their spouses so don't expect them to be truthful to you. They are very limited when they can meet etc and if you get found out don't expect sympathy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

Wish I could find some of these ladies lol ,

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By *hickFlick25Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Personally married/taken men don't attract me, don't want to bring pain to anyone if I can help it - not sexy to think some poor chick is at home whilst her fellas with me. My rule to swinging is "Im not hurting anyone, so everyone can mind their business on it". That being said sure there are people I've probably met on here who are cheating and lied/ hidden it although its on my profile I don't meet cheaters. I have been tempted to leave because of that worry.

I enjoy swinging with couples who love each other and its actually a big turn on to see them so into each other and happy with me being part of that.

Agree single people more likely to get attached but couples even less so!

Not meant to offend anyone with these comments just my opinion and what I've found works for me. No angel myself to be sure

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Tom u said a few years ago it was only last year it was still happening but delighted to see we have all moved on a bit from there a great thread so far

put ur status up same as saying ur in to soft swing anal whatever if they are for u they are for u

fucking happy Saturday in here today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

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i'm with you there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marrieds =

Absolute discretion

No drama

No hassle

No unwanted ill timed communication

Win Win Win Win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

i'm with you there lol "

Married men are the perfect meet

NSA and Discretion assured

Win win situation

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By *allblonde777Man
over a year ago

derry

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

i'm with you there lol

Married men are the perfect meet

NSA and Discretion assured

Win win situation

What if I'm not married fallen although very discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care if someone is married or attached, it's not up to me to judge them. However, I find attached men actually more complicated to meet than single men! I'm just talking from my own experience with attached men: First of all, most don't want to meet in a public place first, as they're too afraid to be seen. Then they can usually only meet during the day on weekdays, which doesn't suit me. They tend to want to meet last minute and when I can't or won't meet I get attitude from them. When I'm horny and want to meet I'm not allowed to contact them first, so they're not there for me when I need them. They don't accommodate, but expect me to. They never bring their own condoms as they can't be found out carrying any.

Last but not least, what if the wife or gf finds out and comes to my door????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really care if someone is married or attached, it's not up to me to judge them. However, I find attached men actually more complicated to meet than single men! I'm just talking from my own experience with attached men: First of all, most don't want to meet in a public place first, as they're too afraid to be seen. Then they can usually only meet during the day on weekdays, which doesn't suit me. They tend to want to meet last minute and when I can't or won't meet I get attitude from them. When I'm horny and want to meet I'm not allowed to contact them first, so they're not there for me when I need them. They don't accommodate, but expect me to. They never bring their own condoms as they can't be found out carrying any.

Last but not least, what if the wife or gf finds out and comes to my door????

all valid points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last but not least, what if the wife or gf finds out and comes to my door????

this is all true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are married and won't meet male or female who is married. Not judging them but we are honest and open and would find it hypocritical to meet someone who isn't..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

It takes all kinds to make fab go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are married and won't meet male or female who is married. Not judging them but we are honest and open and would find it hypocritical to meet someone who isn't.."

Would it not be better to find out why they are on here. I am married and play seperatly, my husband is also on here and he plays seperatly because we have kids and prefer for one of us to be looking after the kids while the other plays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women I know here prefer to meet married men cos there's no drama, no stalking, no 'out of hour's texts.

Just nsa good sex when it suits us

i'm with you there lol

Married men are the perfect meet

NSA and Discretion assured

Win win situation

Im liking ou Fallen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are married and won't meet male or female who is married. Not judging them but we are honest and open and would find it hypocritical to meet someone who isn't..

Fair point and its an angle I never looked at it from, but for every one of you, there is about 20 of the other. I want to clarify here, we are in no way judging, far be it for me or anyone to judge someone.

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