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"ive falling in love !! has this happened to anyone " Nope, I am a cold hearted bastard that has no feelings to offer anyone | |||
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"ive falling in love !! has this happened to anyone Nope, I am a cold hearted bastard that has no feelings to offer anyone" thought i was aswell !! | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?" yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!  | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !! "sounds like a match made in heaven  | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven "i wish even doh im married | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married "Ahh  lol | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married "oh i hear ya.....in exactly the same boat | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !! "Well least then it's out in the open from the start and he doesn't have to go through the guilt of hiding it. The problem is he is unlikely to change as is a lifestyle hard to break and step away from forever, believe me I've tried!. No one can change a person it is ultimately up to the person to make their own decisions so the issue lies with you. Can you be the one who makes love to him and know he or you both play as a couple or will the real world fears n jealousy get in the way!. No one can give that answer but yourself but at least you both can be upfront n honest about the sex side of your relationship as many be envious of that!. | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married "Ha oh well that puts a different light on my previous post lol!. Sometimes a step back and a bit of me time is needed at this stage as emotions and feelings can be a roller coaster n if step off at the wrong stage before it comes back to base can have severe consequences and may wish after you stayed in your seat to the end! | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
Well least then it's out in the open from the start and he doesn't have to go through the guilt of hiding it.
The problem is he is unlikely to change as is a lifestyle hard to break and step away from forever, believe me I've tried!. No one can change a person it is ultimately up to the person to make their own decisions so the issue lies with you.
Can you be the one who makes love to him and know he or you both play as a couple or will the real world fears n jealousy get in the way!.
No one can give that answer but yourself but at least you both can be upfront n honest about the sex side of your relationship as many be envious of that!." | |||
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"I know this story. It happens more often than you might think. Many moons ago, I met a wonderful girl here on Fabs who was on the rebound from a real life relationship. I knew my role. We remained in contact long after and I occasionally had a chance to offer encouragement and support in her moving on. She got through things. We stayed in touch, and occasionally "bumped" into one another, we had wonderful fun times together, both in correspondence and personal encounters. She declared her affections for me which conflicted with my status, I deflected them with humour, but in private I was often moved by them. Then later she met a good man, and settled. It was only then I realised my true feelings for her. Thing is, I realised what was best for her, and was happy to remain silent and let her fly away. You have to use your judgement, take time and reflect, think of the future, consider a strategy that benefits all parties. I'm just sharing this to let you know your not alone. It happens many of us. There is a fine line between casual sex and emotional sex, this is how we are hardwired as humans, your not weaker or stronger by how you process it. Sometimes being attached with a wandering eye can leave you exposed and open to another heart, its like your vulnerable to affections. To find yourself facing this dilemma is completley normal. Just take your time, step away, talk or even engage with another. Use time wisely. "Wow, very impressed in your attitude to applying your judgement, Keep posting on the forums and maybe just maybe some of your wisdom might actually rub off on me | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married "lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual "A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual
A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! "that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids! | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual
A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids!"Well that's odd enough to warrant a reply. I'm not married. Never have been. I have a child, granted. Very proud father. Dumbass! | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and
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A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids!
Well that's odd enough to warrant a reply. I'm not married. Never have been. I have a child, granted. Very proud father. Dumbass!"And Cmere? If you know of anyone with consumption. 1950s yeah? | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual
A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids!
Well that's odd enough to warrant a reply. I'm not married. Never have been. I have a child, granted. Very proud father. Dumbass!"holy god! I was talking about the ops situation not u but if u want the bigger picture, do I think it's normal for people to "fall in love" on a site for no strings fun? In my honest opinion I think it fully depends on your intentions signing up here! I fully stand begind the claim some sign up here with hopefully more intentions then no strings fun but don't openly admit it | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual
A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids!
Well that's odd enough to warrant a reply. I'm not married. Never have been. I have a child, granted. Very proud father. Dumbass!holy god! I was talking about the ops situation not u but if u want the bigger picture, do I think it's normal for people to "fall in love" on a site for no strings fun? In my honest opinion I think it fully depends on your intentions signing up here! I fully stand begind the claim some sign up here with hopefully more intentions then no strings fun but don't openly admit it "Ah ok! My bad! Sorry brother I thought that was a personal crack and I was wrong. I'm very sorry ok? | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual
A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids!
Well that's odd enough to warrant a reply. I'm not married. Never have been. I have a child, granted. Very proud father. Dumbass!holy god! I was talking about the ops situation not u but if u want the bigger picture, do I think it's normal for people to "fall in love" on a site for no strings fun? In my honest opinion I think it fully depends on your intentions signing up here! I fully stand begind the claim some sign up here with hopefully more intentions then no strings fun but don't openly admit it
Ah ok! My bad! Sorry brother I thought that was a personal crack and I was wrong. I'm very sorry ok?"I get yer point but wasn't there a song about looking for love in all the wrong places??? | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual
A classic and simple methodology for reducing the incidence of being wrong I.e. being an arsehole. Is to accept ones own fallibility. Where, in the name of fuck, do you get off, bitchin at people who find happiness? ?? And it's none of your business! that has to be the funniest comment I read here yet! A person whose married finds "happiness" on a site aimed at no strings fun? I'd have some consumption at maybe a single person going all out to go more and more after a person on here but not somebody whose married and potentially has kids!
Well that's odd enough to warrant a reply. I'm not married. Never have been. I have a child, granted. Very proud father. Dumbass!holy god! I was talking about the ops situation not u but if u want the bigger picture, do I think it's normal for people to "fall in love" on a site for no strings fun? In my honest opinion I think it fully depends on your intentions signing up here! I fully stand begind the claim some sign up here with hopefully more intentions then no strings fun but don't openly admit it
Ah ok! My bad! Sorry brother I thought that was a personal crack and I was wrong. I'm very sorry ok?
I get yer point but wasn't there a song about looking for love in all the wrong places???"I think if your a person who deep down wants more then fun, u should use a dating site but that's certainly not advisable to somebody whose married because chances are when people find out your married they won't touch u with a barge pole! I'm here for fun! Nothing more, I can admit that straight out! I think it depends your frame of mind! If your unsure whether u want fun or more then fun, wouldn't it be better stay off sites like these when your married? | |||
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"Falling in love on a site aimed at no strings fun can have a dire ending for you if feelings are not reciprocated " And you've actually, seriously, been in love, enough times to preach? C'mer to me young fella for a second. And I say this with all due respect, which is fuck all, and less affection cause you obviously know fuck all about the true nature of that. Each to their own buddy!!! Clog that gob with something please? | |||
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"Falling in love on a site aimed at no strings fun can have a dire ending for you if feelings are not reciprocated And you've actually, seriously, been in love, enough times to preach? C'mer to me young fella for a second. And I say this with all due respect, which is fuck all, and less affection cause you obviously know fuck all about the true nature of that. Each to their own buddy!!! Clog that gob with something please? " you obviously took no note to the comment just made! Do u understand the term "not reciprocated"? it is a site for sex after all and it's not a dating site | |||
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"Falling in love on a site aimed at no strings fun can have a dire ending for you if feelings are not reciprocated And you've actually, seriously, been in love, enough times to preach? C'mer to me young fella for a second. And I say this with all due respect, which is fuck all, and less affection cause you obviously know fuck all about the true nature of that. Each to their own buddy!!! Clog that gob with something please? you obviously took no note to the comment just made! Do u understand the term "not reciprocated"? it is a site for sex after all and it's not a dating site " 
Tell you what. You have sex with as many people as you can and still expect to marry a virgin. I can't stand your double standards. Love happens. It's kinda the point. And wherever it happens, it should always, ALWAYS, be encouraged. If I, or anybody, finds love here, happy days. | |||
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"I didn't even know I was in love untill she spanked my ass and said your in love "Lmao | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married
oh i hear ya.....in exactly the same boat "Know the feeling....... | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
sounds like a match made in heaven i wish even doh im married lmao your married, on a site for discrete sec and you have fallin in love with a person off here? Utter disaster! What did I tell you people! Keep it simple and casual "If only life was so simple lol..... | |||
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"Life is that simple lol I have had a few no strings fun partners in the past and I have yet to fall for any of them! If I say I want sex(which I'm on this site for) then it is just sex! if your on this site and you see to much of a fella and fall for him and he doesn't reciprocate your feelings, that's not his problem and I'm sure he won't loose sleep over it! " Im not talking about me personally, I am just saying, this may be a swing site, a site with people, people have feelings, just because they want sex doesn't make them numb to anything, and it can happen, and more than likely when u least expect it ...nothing in life is black and white....a whole mass of grey area too... | |||
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Exactly .. we never looked to fall for each other .. but hey these things happen .. and I'm a happy bunny .. no point closing your heart and mind .. the sex here even NSA is much more intense and fulfilling if you have a connection with the person(s) your getting naughty with .. but I guess if all you want is ticks on your bedposts you don't really need to be here go to coppers .. its a swinger site not a dial pussy/cock .. USING others to get your hole isn't what swinging is about .. you gotta all be enjoying yourselves.. trust is a big thing here and with trust with who your playing with you get to experience alot more ... well thats my experience anyway as a fem.. | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view!" people are only human and even love can form on a swing site jeez  | |||
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are you really about 16???
so single ppl over 40 are not after anything but a relationship?
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"Snickers seriously lad will you get a big massive grip and that tick feckin brain of yours look at what advise your giving and your statements. are you really about 16???
so single ppl over 40 are not after anything but a relationship?
cop on you pleb.. "yes it's only common that as people get older a larger percentage of them eventually will want to settle! There is nothing unusual about that! Ye make it sound like it's a great thing to "fall in love on here"! I'd put a mortgage on it that it will cause more mishaps than happiness! | |||
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"Snickers seriously lad will you get a big massive grip and that tick feckin brain of yours look at what advise your giving and your statements. are you really about 16???
so single ppl over 40 are not after anything but a relationship?
cop on you pleb.. "my new word pleb hs ha I ain't heard that un donkeys years | |||
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"Snickers seriously lad will you get a big massive grip and that tick feckin brain of yours look at what advise your giving and your statements. are you really about 16???
so single ppl over 40 are not after anything but a relationship?
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) I know there was no jealousy in my marriage and I loved her with all my heart. I know you said in some cases but in my opinion if there is jealousy in love then personal I wouldn't call that love. just my opinion. 
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"yes it's only common that as people get older a larger percentage of them eventually will want to settle! There is nothing unusual about that! Ye make it sound like it's a great thing to "fall in love on here"! I'd put a mortgage on it that it will cause more mishaps than happiness! " Snickers the biggest problem we have with you, is that you generalise. do you get what generalising is? did you have a look over your past posts and cop it? do people here meet and fall in love? yes, sometimes does that work out badly? maybe, sometimes does it work out well? It could possibly be the best thing to happen to those two people. Are you getting it yet? | |||
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"Right iam on here nsa if I was meeting someone all the time and both parties felt the attraction and feeling sometimes can't be helped we not move it up to the next level ..just cause you met on a swingers site who is to say the relationship will fail. " i will pick out one thing u said and this is up to yourself what happens! "Meeting all the time"! That has a recipe for feelings to get involved and in that situation I 100 % understand how feelings get involved | |||
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"yes it's only common that as people get older a larger percentage of them eventually will want to settle! There is nothing unusual about that! Ye make it sound like it's a great thing to "fall in love on here"! I'd put a mortgage on it that it will cause more mishaps than happiness! Snickers the biggest problem we have with you, is that you generalise. do you get what generalising is? did you have a look over your past posts and cop it? do people here meet and fall in love? yes, sometimes does that work out badly? maybe, sometimes does it work out well? It could possibly be the best thing to happen to those two people. Are you getting it yet?" I doubt it | |||
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"Snickers seriously lad will you get a big massive grip and that tick feckin brain of yours look at what advise your giving and your statements. are you really about 16???
so single ppl over 40 are not after anything but a relationship?
cop on you pleb.. yes it's only common that as people get older a larger percentage of them eventually will want to settle! There is nothing unusual about that! Ye make it sound like it's a great thing to "fall in love on here"! I'd put a mortgage on it that it will cause more mishaps than happiness! "I'm sorry but ill disagree...I'm over and i left a 16 year marriage, its s case of being there and done that...and especially as I get older ive discovered its only me that can make me happy.... Just my personal life experience, and can say especially in the last year my life has changed all for the better and can promise u a relationship is not on the cards for a long long time....ive friends on here and in real life who are very similar... So don't assume people are all the same, yes course some people over 40 want more in life as do they in the 20s 30s 50s and 60s...its not an age thing, its a human thing.....live life and then see where you are in your 40s...you may be very surprised... | |||
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"I would have to disagree with you rinky ( not because we don't get on ) I know there was no jealousy in my marriage and I loved her with all my heart. I know you said in some cases but in my opinion if there is jealousy in love then personal I wouldn't call that love. just my opinion.
olive branch?? "I didnt say I thought it applied to everyone, I do think though people can think they are in love when they aren't. Anyway, what even is love, basically a chemical imbalance in the brain  | |||
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"yes it's only common that as people get older a larger percentage of them eventually will want to settle! There is nothing unusual about that! Ye make it sound like it's a great thing to "fall in love on here"! I'd put a mortgage on it that it will cause more mishaps than happiness! Snickers the biggest problem we have with you, is that you generalise. do you get what generalising is? did you have a look over your past posts and cop it? do people here meet and fall in love? yes, sometimes does that work out badly? maybe, sometimes does it work out well? It could possibly be the best thing to happen to those two people. Are you getting it yet?" | |||
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"I would have to disagree with you rinky ( not because we don't get on ) I know there was no jealousy in my marriage and I loved her with all my heart. I know you said in some cases but in my opinion if there is jealousy in love then personal I wouldn't call that love. just my opinion.
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"I would have to disagree with you rinky ( not because we don't get on ) I know there was no jealousy in my marriage and I loved her with all my heart. I know you said in some cases but in my opinion if there is jealousy in love then personal I wouldn't call that love. just my opinion.
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Love without jealousy???
Maybe you haven't been in love."Yeah, I will fully admit to having been jealous at times in the past, not to an extreme extent but we are only human and it's a rare person I am sure has never felt even a slight twinge of jealousy in a relationship. My two cents anyway. | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view!" dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over again | |||
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"I'll ask a question! Swinging couples on here! Have any of u(male or female) ever felt jealous when ur partner has been with another person! I have often thought of this! Is swinging not a risky thing to do as part of a couple?" Speaking on behalf of me and MS slut, No. We were very much cards on the table when we met. (we met on a dating site) She explained what her interests were, and I did mine. Swinging was one of them, so we discussed how and if we would do it. we joined here and met people and picked their brains. At our first meet when i looked over and saw Ms Slut getting fucked by a guy with a thicker cock than me while i was getting my cock sucked by his gf, and i saw how much she was enjoying herself, and how much she liked seeing me enjoy myself, i knew it wasnt possible to be jealous in that situation. I'm confident in the fact that she's going home with me at the end of the night, but until then we're having fun sharing each other. | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings " I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit | |||
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"you can be all in the mindset of NSA only but sometimes sparks fly and love can happen. Sometimes it's just infatuation. Thing is some people only want a hole to fuck and don't want any connection. Hence they won't fall in love.. But then others have standards and want to improve their sex life with people they can connect with. Which makes them more open to fall for someone, whether that is their intention or not. " ill fall in love when I look to do it and I look to settle down! What do I need for no strings fun? Aslong as she's not ugly in my eyes and has an ok personality, I'm game to go there! I just keep things simple | |||
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"you can be all in the mindset of NSA only but sometimes sparks fly and love can happen. Sometimes it's just infatuation. Thing is some people only want a hole to fuck and don't want any connection. Hence they won't fall in love.. But then others have standards and want to improve their sex life with people they can connect with. Which makes them more open to fall for someone, whether that is their intention or not. ill fall in love when I look to do it and I look to settle down! What do I need for no strings fun? Aslong as she's not ugly in my eyes and has an ok personality, I'm game to go there! I just keep things simple " best of luck with that.  | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u" Nope, I think you don't understand what I'm saying I see all by fb's on here regular. I don't have notches on the bed post. We all care about each other. We become great friends. We share parts of our private lives. But we are here for the NSA. It is perfectly possible to have deep feelings for someone you see regularly with out it becoming romantic love | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u" you keep saying its a n.s.a. site for you yes but not for everyone the reasons for being here are as veried as there are profiles.....when we joined we were not asked to agree to n.s.a. only sex it wasent in the terms and conditions or did we miss it in the small print | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u Nope, I think you don't understand what I'm saying I see all by fb's on here regular. I don't have notches on the bed post. We all care about each other. We become great friends. We share parts of our private lives. But we are here for the NSA. It is perfectly possible to have deep feelings for someone you see regularly with out it becoming romantic love" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u" The thread is called falling in love, not let's run off into the sunset together, my point is that people have feelings and it can happen...nobody is here looking for romance and flowers but who knows....simple | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u The thread is called falling in love, not let's run off into the sunset together, my point is that people have feelings and it can happen...nobody is here looking for romance and flowers but who knows....simple" and what causes feelings to become involved? Seen one person loads and loads of times and becoming intimate on each occasion! It's nearly a guarentee feelings would then become involved! Would I meet with one woman loads and loads on a reg basis on here? maybe but I have fantasies I want to complete and I can guarentee none of them will turn serious | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!" I would say if everyones posts were counted up he would probably be number one lol | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!" im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex " Not everyone has the same freedom as you obviously do to go out and socialise whenever they want ,also people know each other from meeting. I wouldnt be part of the forum regular group or anything but I understand that is how it works. | |||
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" 'ye people'? You're on here all the time! im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex " I don't know who the 'close knit family' is, are they bi? And pray tell, what is their 'philosophy'. | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex Not everyone has the same freedom as you obviously do to go out and socialise whenever they want ,also people know each other from meeting. I wouldnt be part of the forum regular group or anything but I understand that is how it works." that's grand but they have serious problems with someone who won't just meet "socially" to people they're not attracted to! Get hung up massively on verifications! IMO it's easy as pie to see whose fake on here and whose not! I meet with people I see as potential no strings fun sexual partners! I have no interst in using this as a social aspect and to make loads of "new" friends! The regulars on the forum seem to have problems with that | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex " So what's your probllem with that? You've made it extremely clear that you don't need to be on here to get sex, to make friends, that you can pull without needing this and that you wouldnt meet more than once as you have fantasies to explore. Some people like to use it for socialising, broadening their circle of friends, even as with this thread unexpectedly falling in love.So what if they do. Just because it's not for you that way there's no need to pick at peoples choices and how they use this site. There's nowhere on here that says your only signing up for sex. For most others this site is for a lot more. | |||
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" that's grand but they have serious problems with someone who won't just meet "socially" to people they're not attracted to! Get hung up massively on verifications! IMO it's easy as pie to see whose fake on here and whose not! I meet with people I see as potential no strings fun sexual partners! I have no interst in using this as a social aspect and to make loads of "new" friends! The regulars on the forum seem to have problems with that " It's probably more that you sound like you want a hooker but can't/don't want to pay. | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex So what's your probllem with that? You've made it extremely clear that you don't need to be on here to get sex, to make friends, that you can pull without needing this and that you wouldnt meet more than once as you have fantasies to explore. Some people like to use it for socialising, broadening their circle of friends, even as with this thread unexpectedly falling in love.So what if they do. Just because it's not for you that way there's no need to pick at peoples choices and how they use this site. There's nowhere on here that says your only signing up for sex. For most others this site is for a lot more." the problem on here is the vast majority are older then me probably 35 40 plus and have a compelete different aspect to the site then I do! That's why for a lot of lads in their 20's, meets are hard to come by | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex So what's your probllem with that? You've made it extremely clear that you don't need to be on here to get sex, to make friends, that you can pull without needing this and that you wouldnt meet more than once as you have fantasies to explore. Some people like to use it for socialising, broadening their circle of friends, even as with this thread unexpectedly falling in love.So what if they do. Just because it's not for you that way there's no need to pick at peoples choices and how they use this site. There's nowhere on here that says your only signing up for sex. For most others this site is for a lot more.the problem on here is the vast majority are older then me probably 35 40 plus and have a compelete different aspect to the site then I do! That's why for a lot of lads in their 20's, meets are hard to come by" Do you not think that the reason the younger guys don't get as many meets is because they come in with the idea that it's a easy way to get laid? If you actually prove that you can take the time and chat and go from there a meet will happen as I'm sure a lot of the men here will agree. Then again in saying that some people can't be arsed putting in the effort and THAT is why they come on crying about not getting meets. | |||
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"Jeesus snickers there doesnt seem to be much harm in u but ffs dude anytime I look at the forums ur spouting the same stuff.ovr and over and over Do u not think urself its ridiculous you preaching about your views on swinging when u havent met anyone yet???" so you can't have a view till u meet somebody? | |||
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" the problem on here is the vast majority are older then me probably 35 40 plus and have a compelete different aspect to the site then I do! That's why for a lot of lads in their 20's, meets are hard to come by" this is not a problem. For us anyway. Meets are hard to come by because of your attitude, I heard someone describe immature men as 'young, dumb & full of cum'. I'm thinking that this cap is perfect for you. | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex So what's your probllem with that? You've made it extremely clear that you don't need to be on here to get sex, to make friends, that you can pull without needing this and that you wouldnt meet more than once as you have fantasies to explore. Some people like to use it for socialising, broadening their circle of friends, even as with this thread unexpectedly falling in love.So what if they do. Just because it's not for you that way there's no need to pick at peoples choices and how they use this site. There's nowhere on here that says your only signing up for sex. For most others this site is for a lot more.the problem on here is the vast majority are older then me probably 35 40 plus and have a compelete different aspect to the site then I do! That's why for a lot of lads in their 20's, meets are hard to come by Do you not think that the reason the younger guys don't get as many meets is because they come in with the idea that it's a easy way to get laid? If you actually prove that you can take the time and chat and go from there a meet will happen as I'm sure a lot of the men here will agree. Then again in saying that some people can't be arsed putting in the effort and THAT is why they come on crying about not getting meets. " good post but to be honest slut meets should not take extensive excessive effort! Do a lot of young lads come on here looking for a shag? It would be stupid to say they don't as most younger lads see it as no strings sexual fun site | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u The thread is called falling in love, not let's run off into the sunset together, my point is that people have feelings and it can happen...nobody is here looking for romance and flowers but who knows....simpleand what causes feelings to become involved? Seen one person loads and loads of times and becoming intimate on each occasion! It's nearly a guarentee feelings would then become involved! Would I meet with one woman loads and loads on a reg basis on here? maybe but I have fantasies I want to complete and I can guarentee none of them will turn serious " How do you think those fantasies will be fulfilled unless you take the time to build report, trust and respect with someone first? That takes time. More then one meet. Unless of course you want a hooker who has a price list with all extras shown | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u The thread is called falling in love, not let's run off into the sunset together, my point is that people have feelings and it can happen...nobody is here looking for romance and flowers but who knows....simpleand what causes feelings to become involved? Seen one person loads and loads of times and becoming intimate on each occasion! It's nearly a guarentee feelings would then become involved! Would I meet with one woman loads and loads on a reg basis on here? maybe but I have fantasies I want to complete and I can guarentee none of them will turn serious How do you think those fantasies will be fulfilled unless you take the time to build report, trust and respect with someone first? That takes time. More then one meet. Unless of course you want a hooker who has a price list with all extras shown" i get ya but I feel on here if your unwilling to attend meets and greets(which should not be a necessity) your already fighting a loosing battle | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex So what's your probllem with that? You've made it extremely clear that you don't need to be on here to get sex, to make friends, that you can pull without needing this and that you wouldnt meet more than once as you have fantasies to explore. Some people like to use it for socialising, broadening their circle of friends, even as with this thread unexpectedly falling in love.So what if they do. Just because it's not for you that way there's no need to pick at peoples choices and how they use this site. There's nowhere on here that says your only signing up for sex. For most others this site is for a lot more.the problem on here is the vast majority are older then me probably 35 40 plus and have a compelete different aspect to the site then I do! That's why for a lot of lads in their 20's, meets are hard to come by Do you not think that the reason the younger guys don't get as many meets is because they come in with the idea that it's a easy way to get laid? If you actually prove that you can take the time and chat and go from there a meet will happen as I'm sure a lot of the men here will agree. Then again in saying that some people can't be arsed putting in the effort and THAT is why they come on crying about not getting meets. good post but to be honest slut meets should not take extensive excessive effort! Do a lot of young lads come on here looking for a shag? It would be stupid to say they don't as most younger lads see it as no strings sexual fun site " This is from the females view but our best meet took months of planning, chatting and building up of trust. That led to a level of trust from where we were all able to enjoy it, let go and be as wild as you could be. But your not getting the point and sadly I dont think you ever will. You argue over the slightest point. You don't realise how to put the effort in and what rewards come from taking your time. You see it quite often young blokes coming in and leaving within months when they realise that it's not an insta-shag site. Judging from your posts you'd rather a doll that you can shag and put away as needed. You need to realise that rather than arguing every point on here, you should take some of it on board cause most here are experienced and you could learn a great deal from them about what swinging is actually about | |||
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"Jeesus snickers there doesnt seem to be much harm in u but ffs dude anytime I look at the forums ur spouting the same stuff.ovr and over and over Do u not think urself its ridiculous you preaching about your views on swinging when u havent met anyone yet???so you can't have a view till u meet somebody? " You can have a preconceived idea of what swinging is about, which you have. But you are not a swinger and haven't experienced swinging yet you feel you can tell those that are, how to do it and where they are wrong and you as usual are right | |||
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"Jeesus snickers there doesnt seem to be much harm in u but ffs dude anytime I look at the forums ur spouting the same stuff.ovr and over and over Do u not think urself its ridiculous you preaching about your views on swinging when u havent met anyone yet???so you can't have a view till u meet somebody? " Personally I think no u dont hav a voice til u meet somebody.or u shudnt Think there is a goid argument for not allowing unverified ppl post in forums Its a swingers forum for swingers If u havent met are u a swinger? Not u but anyone | |||
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"Jeesus snickers there doesnt seem to be much harm in u but ffs dude anytime I look at the forums ur spouting the same stuff.ovr and over and over Do u not think urself its ridiculous you preaching about your views on swinging when u havent met anyone yet???so you can't have a view till u meet somebody? Personally I think no u dont hav a voice til u meet somebody.or u shudnt Think there is a goid argument for not allowing unverified ppl post in forums Its a swingers forum for swingers If u havent met are u a swinger? Not u but anyone" lets call a spade a spade pal, swinging has nothing to do with us singles! As I said before a female advised me on this site and told me it was a "no strings fun sexual site"! I took no note of the word 'swinging"! That's my honest view | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u The thread is called falling in love, not let's run off into the sunset together, my point is that people have feelings and it can happen...nobody is here looking for romance and flowers but who knows....simpleand what causes feelings to become involved? Seen one person loads and loads of times and becoming intimate on each occasion! It's nearly a guarentee feelings would then become involved! Would I meet with one woman loads and loads on a reg basis on here? maybe but I have fantasies I want to complete and I can guarentee none of them will turn serious How do you think those fantasies will be fulfilled unless you take the time to build report, trust and respect with someone first? That takes time. More then one meet. Unless of course you want a hooker who has a price list with all extras showni get ya but I feel on here if your unwilling to attend meets and greets(which should not be a necessity) your already fighting a loosing battle " If you don't meet socially how the hell do you expect to get into someone's knickers? You really are looking a hooker so don't be tight, save your euros up and go get one Just think you can buy any fantasy you like. Then jump in the shower and head home with no time of effort spent. And certainly not a feeling in sight | |||
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" see that's what I see as a huge thing with ye people on the forums! Yer on here as much if not more for social networking then sex! I see with a lot it's about making friends attending meet and greets on a regular basis! That's fine but for me it's solely no strings fun! I have a perfect social life and friends on a regular basis! I get out most weekends! I don't need here as a "social aspect" and before ye jump on It I don't mean that in a bad way 'ye people'? You're on here all the time!im on here most days but I don't adopt the same philosophy as the "close knit family"! I see more and more each day on here that a lot of people on the forums use this for friends and as their social aspect equally if not more then sex So what's your probllem with that? You've made it extremely clear that you don't need to be on here to get sex, to make friends, that you can pull without needing this and that you wouldnt meet more than once as you have fantasies to explore. Some people like to use it for socialising, broadening their circle of friends, even as with this thread unexpectedly falling in love.So what if they do. Just because it's not for you that way there's no need to pick at peoples choices and how they use this site. There's nowhere on here that says your only signing up for sex. For most others this site is for a lot more.the problem on here is the vast majority are older then me probably 35 40 plus and have a compelete different aspect to the site then I do! That's why for a lot of lads in their 20's, meets are hard to come by Do you not think that the reason the younger guys don't get as many meets is because they come in with the idea that it's a easy way to get laid? If you actually prove that you can take the time and chat and go from there a meet will happen as I'm sure a lot of the men here will agree. Then again in saying that some people can't be arsed putting in the effort and THAT is why they come on crying about not getting meets. good post but to be honest slut meets should not take extensive excessive effort! Do a lot of young lads come on here looking for a shag? It would be stupid to say they don't as most younger lads see it as no strings sexual fun site This is from the females view but our best meet took months of planning, chatting and building up of trust. That led to a level of trust from where we were all able to enjoy it, let go and be as wild as you could be. But your not getting the point and sadly I dont think you ever will. You argue over the slightest point. You don't realise how to put the effort in and what rewards come from taking your time. You see it quite often young blokes coming in and leaving within months when they realise that it's not an insta-shag site. Judging from your posts you'd rather a doll that you can shag and put away as needed. You need to realise that rather than arguing every point on here, you should take some of it on board cause most here are experienced and you could learn a great deal from them about what swinging is actually about" i have nothing to hide and I'll be honest! I did thing signing up here I would have had a meet in a little over a month! The site is a lot different to what I thought it would be | |||
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"Yes I'm talking in general overall but this thread is a married woman who claims she's after "falling in love" and he's not in the same boat! Utter disaster IMO! Realistically again just IMO if you are a person who joins a no strings fun website and you are a person who gets attached easily, I don't think fun is for you! I feel that if a part of you gets an inkling that you want more then fun, your better off not on here! This is not ment as offence but a lot here are 40 Plus and I'm sure at the back of the mind somewhere for a lot at that age is a loving relationship! Just my view! dear KS, speak for yourself!! How dare you generalise about ppl over 40!! You have no idea about life, love or sex for that matter. You're too inquisitive and too judgemental. And yes your posts annoy me.........over and over againi never generalised about people over 40 lol! Simple point I'm making is use a site for its purpose! Can you help who u fall for? In my honest opinion yes u can stop it before it goes to far!! is it worth takin a risk and been left broken hearted? I don't know but one things for certain, if u see to much of a person on a site for no strings fun there is a huge chance one party is gonna get feelings I'd hope I did develop feelings for a person I'm seeing regular , else I may as stay at home with the rabbit exactly! so if that's the case and ur on a no strings fun site and u see loads of a particular person! In that situation chances are it's gonna jump to more then just fun for one of u The thread is called falling in love, not let's run off into the sunset together, my point is that people have feelings and it can happen...nobody is here looking for romance and flowers but who knows....simpleand what causes feelings to become involved? Seen one person loads and loads of times and becoming intimate on each occasion! It's nearly a guarentee feelings would then become involved! Would I meet with one woman loads and loads on a reg basis on here? maybe but I have fantasies I want to complete and I can guarentee none of them will turn serious How do you think those fantasies will be fulfilled unless you take the time to build report, trust and respect with someone first? That takes time. More then one meet. Unless of course you want a hooker who has a price list with all extras showni get ya but I feel on here if your unwilling to attend meets and greets(which should not be a necessity) your already fighting a loosing battle If you don't meet socially how the hell do you expect to get into someone's knickers? You really are looking a hooker so don't be tight, save your euros up and go get one Just think you can buy any fantasy you like. Then jump in the shower and head home with no time of effort spent. And certainly not a feeling in sight" so In your opinion you have to attend meets and greets to be successful here? | |||
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"Jeesus snickers there doesnt seem to be much harm in u but ffs dude anytime I look at the forums ur spouting the same stuff.ovr and over and over Do u not think urself its ridiculous you preaching about your views on swinging when u havent met anyone yet???so you can't have a view till u meet somebody? Personally I think no u dont hav a voice til u meet somebody.or u shudnt Think there is a goid argument for not allowing unverified ppl post in forums Its a swingers forum for swingers If u havent met are u a swinger? Not u but anyonelets call a spade a spade pal, swinging has nothing to do with us singles! As I said before a female advised me on this site and told me it was a "no strings fun sexual site"! I took no note of the word 'swinging"! That's my honest view " So the name Fabswingers didn't ring any bells? | |||
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" i have nothing to hide and I'll be honest! I did thing signing up here I would have had a meet in a little over a month! The site is a lot different to what I thought it would be " Then try actually listening to what is said rather then giving your views on something you really dont seem to understand. That or try a site that may work better for what your obviously looking for | |||
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"Jeesus snickers there doesnt seem to be much harm in u but ffs dude anytime I look at the forums ur spouting the same stuff.ovr and over and over Do u not think urself its ridiculous you preaching about your views on swinging when u havent met anyone yet???so you can't have a view till u meet somebody? Personally I think no u dont hav a voice til u meet somebody.or u shudnt Think there is a goid argument for not allowing unverified ppl post in forums Its a swingers forum for swingers If u havent met are u a swinger? Not u but anyonelets call a spade a spade pal, swinging has nothing to do with us singles! As I said before a female advised me on this site and told me it was a "no strings fun sexual site"! I took no note of the word 'swinging"! That's my honest view " Im a single guy and swinger Not goin to argue with u.just my view. | |||
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"Maybe you should be user has lift the site it's not for you At all " hes way too imature and he has a strange attitude. I swear he likes winding people up | |||
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"so In your opinion you have to attend meets and greets to be successful here?" No, all you have to be is 'not an ass' | |||
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"Have you fallen for someone on this site ?yep ive been here over a year and met loads of times !! but i know hes a born swingger !!
Well least then it's out in the open from the start and he doesn't have to go through the guilt of hiding it.
The problem is he is unlikely to change as is a lifestyle hard to break and step away from forever, believe me I've tried!. No one can change a person it is ultimately up to the person to make their own decisions so the issue lies with you.
Can you be the one who makes love to him and know he or you both play as a couple or will the real world fears n jealousy get in the way!.
No one can give that answer but yourself but at least you both can be upfront n honest about the sex side of your relationship as many be envious of that!."Well said ! | |||
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"What pray tell is a slut meet? " I think he was just mentioning us by name and didn't punctuate. | |||
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"What pray tell is a slut meet? I think he was just mentioning us by name and didn't punctuate." thats exactly it | |||
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